JD and Abbie: Captured Before the Rapture

[FizzyPuff]

4 hours ago, Rabbittron said:

Here it is

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Thanks I needed that.

[Wishing Well]

This and Jinger’s wedding (less so) are the only ones that look like a celebration of love and partnership.  Josie Bates has some amazing photos as well, you can tell those two love each other.  The rest all look like business transactions with pretty dresses.

[xwordfanatik]

I'd add JoKen to the list.  To me, they look genuinely in love.  

[Lunera]

3 hours ago, ShaNaeNae said:

How many sisters does she have?  I spotted 2 definite ones in her wedding party and have spotted to possible definites as well.

She has 4 sisters and they were all bridesmaids.

[farmgal4]

23 hours ago, ginger90 said:

Nice pictures, and it seems like she had a nice voice. Video cut out on me ?

If you liked her voice, you should go to YouTube and listen to the VEVO video of her family (The Collingsworth Family) singing “At Calvary”.  They’re very, very talented singers and instrumentalists.

[Christina87]

It would be so much better if these people could do at least some kind of dancing! There are sooooo many types that are wholesome and don't require a lot of contact. What about line dancing? Square dancing? Ballroom (and I'm not talking about sexy dancing with the stars ballroom, but more pride and prejudice era ballroom). What about tap dancing? Is hearing someone do a rhythm with their feet really such an extreme turn-on? I just don't get it! There are TONS of types of dancing besides grinding, slow dancing, and sassy things like jazz 

[sixlets]

6 hours ago, 3 is enough said:

So where are these pictures of the guests?  I saw the ones of JD and Abbie, but I did not see the little kids, or Erin Bates.

If you click on the link with Olivia's Instagram pics, the 8th one has Chad & Erin (along with a very unhappy baby).  

JD & Abbie look genuinely happy in their photos.  I love the kiss on the forehead.  Mr. Six does that, and our photographer happened to get a shot while we were at the altar after the ceremony.  It was done in black & white and is my favorite one of the whole day.  

Jessa & Anna could use some of Jeremy's perceived fashion sense.  Anna looks like she's ready to go skiing in a skirt, and Jessa looks like she raided Mr. Roger's closet.  They have kids, they're tired, I get it.  But, it's a wedding for crying out loud.  

[Triple P]

3 hours ago, Lunera said:

She has 4 sisters and they were all bridesmaids.

The two bridesmaids who are not Abbie's sisters or Jana, are they sisters and if so are they twins? They look very similar to me.

[Sew Sumi]

Yes, the other two girls are sisters.

[awaken]

5 hours ago, farmgal4 said:

If you liked her voice, you should go to YouTube and listen to the VEVO video of her family (The Collingsworth Family) singing “At Calvary”.  They’re very, very talented singers and instrumentalists.

Probably puts the Duggar and Rodriguii clans to shame!

Abbie and her sisters look so much alike!  

@Christina87 I’m laughing thinking about tap dancing as an extreme turn on for them!  ?

[MichaelaRae]

1 hour ago, awaken said:

Probably puts the Duggar and Rodriguii clans to shame!

 

This is not hard.

[Jynnan tonnix]

6 hours ago, Christina87 said:

It would be so much better if these people could do at least some kind of dancing! There are sooooo many types that are wholesome and don't require a lot of contact. What about line dancing? Square dancing? Ballroom (and I'm not talking about sexy dancing with the stars ballroom, but more pride and prejudice era ballroom). What about tap dancing? Is hearing someone do a rhythm with their feet really such an extreme turn-on? I just don't get it! There are TONS of types of dancing besides grinding, slow dancing, and sassy things like jazz 

Trying to put it all into perspective as one with zero dance talent...there's something about moving to music which implies some degree of a loss of control. Even swaying or tapping your feet is almost impossible to suppress, and I think that's what frightens them. Their cult is so all about denying oneself normal human responses because such fundamental things must be part of that "sin nature" handed down since the days of Adam, Eve and the serpent that there's no more scope for finding enjoyment in dance movement outside of some proscribed arena than there is for sex. But since there's no sacrament associated with dance it remains verboten. It might fall under the canopy of reactions permitted to married couples in private, but there's no room for even the discussion of it outside.

[Quilt Fairy]

JD gets 10,000 style points for wearing black shoes with a black tux.

[Fuzzysox]

14 hours ago, sixlets said:

If you click on the link with Olivia's Instagram pics, the 8th one has Chad & Erin (along with a very unhappy baby).  

JD & Abbie look genuinely happy in their photos.  I love the kiss on the forehead.  Mr. Six does that, and our photographer happened to get a shot while we were at the altar after the ceremony.  It was done in black & white and is my favorite one of the whole day.  

Jessa & Anna could use some of Jeremy's perceived fashion sense.  Anna looks like she's ready to go skiing in a skirt, and Jessa looks like she raided Mr. Roger's closet.  They have kids, they're tired, I get it.  But, it's a wedding for crying out loud.  

And once again the Bates girls win the well dressed contest we hold everytime there is an event. They never look messy or out of place. They understand it's church not a thrifting outing. Step up Jessa. I'm really disappointed that your are so young but are starting to look like your mother in the clothes department.....and get a haircut you desperately NEED it!

[ShaNaeNae]

17 hours ago, Lunera said:

She has 4 sisters and they were all bridesmaids.

Thank you!  Those were the 4.  If we're going left to right, starting at #1, I pegged #2 and #4 as definite and #1 and #3 as probable.  

[Christina87]

4 hours ago, Fuzzysox said:

And once again the Bates girls win the well dressed contest we hold everytime there is an event. They never look messy or out of place. They understand it's church not a thrifting outing. Step up Jessa. I'm really disappointed that your are so young but are starting to look like your mother in the clothes department.....and get a haircut you desperately NEED it!

I agree!!! It drives me up the wall how Jessa will look so cute / nice for the most mundane event, but then frumps it up when it counts!!! I've seen her wearing nicer clothes to work out or go to Walmart than she wore to JD's wedding! It's like she has no concept of what's appropriate. I'm sure most of us, in our everyday lives, have a certain type of outfit set aside for work or whatever, and we usually wear, say, slacks and a blouse, but then one day we really want to look cute and wear a nicer dress. That's what I see Jessa doing, without regards to the occasion. It's either "I wanna look nice today" or "I don't." If she was just eschewing fundies rules, like wearing a nice pair of pants to the wedding, I'd be cheering her on! But as much as they're supposed to look nice, I don't see her choice of attire as rebelling; it's just pure laziness and ignorance. As Stacy London ALWAYS says, "it takes just as much time and energy to put on a nice outfit as it does a frumpy one!" Even as a busy mother to two boys, Jessa could have slipped on a decent dress instead of that mess, and it would have taken her exactly the same amount of time!

Jessa chooses to wear this to work out:

But this for engagement photos:

[BitterApple]

Jessa and Jill have really aged since getting married, and it's only been what, four/five years for both? 

[MamaMax]

20 hours ago, Christina87 said:

It would be so much better if these people could do at least some kind of dancing! There are sooooo many types that are wholesome and don't require a lot of contact. What about line dancing? Square dancing? Ballroom (and I'm not talking about sexy dancing with the stars ballroom, but more pride and prejudice era ballroom). What about tap dancing? Is hearing someone do a rhythm with their feet really such an extreme turn-on? I just don't get it! There are TONS of types of dancing besides grinding, slow dancing, and sassy things like jazz 

But...... a BOOB might bounce!

[Lunera]

I found a few pictures of Abbie's younger sister Charity's (24) wedding. She married in June 2017 and had her baby in August. It looked like a beautiful wedding with *gasp* dancing.

 

[xwordfanatik]

2 hours ago, MamaMax said:

But...... a BOOB might bounce!

Or...a woody might pop up.  Then the female would, of course, be blamed.

[Lunera]

2 hours ago, Christina87 said:

I agree!!! It drives me up the wall how Jessa will look so cute / nice for the most mundane event, but then frumps it up when it counts!!! 

Jessa is too young to have let herself go. She looked great in her last baby announcement and at Amy's wedding. Where are those dresses? I know she likes being comfortable, but come on.

[BitterApple]

Charity was blessed with phenomenal ab muscles. That's Kate Middleton levels of snapback in that picture taken at the fire station. Additional points for snagging a husband with an actual job.

[AnnieBeez]

11 hours ago, Lunera said:

Jessa is too young to have let herself go. She looked great in her last baby announcement and at Amy's wedding. Where are those dresses? I know she likes being comfortable, but come on.

I guess I am just old. It looks like her slip is showing. Buy a longer dress, Jessa. Or better yet, let your damn knees show. 

Edited November 17, 2018 by AnnieBeez
Fixed a typo

[DangerousMinds]

She looks idiotic.

[Churchhoney]

1 hour ago, AnnieBeez said:

I guess I am just old. It looks like her slip is showing. 

As we used to say when I was a kid, "Snowin' down south." 

[riverblue22]

I think Jana is the specialist at sewing panels on the bottom of skirts/dresses to make them longer (modesty, of course!)

[Lunera]

I didn't even realize it was a slip, I though it was part of the dress. I now realize how ridiculous it looks.

[dargosmydaddy]

9 minutes ago, Lunera said:

I didn't even realize it was a slip, I though it was part of the dress. I now realize how ridiculous it looks.

I think it is part of the dress, but looks ridiculous (and slip-like).

[awaken]

Yeah, strange that they’d both happen to have white lacey panels in the bottom. Neither dress was too short to begin with. 

Go Abbie’s sister!  Wedding dancing, jeans, and an employed husband!  What a high bar we’ve set!

[Churchhoney]

It's the ostentatiousness of the ridiculous sewn-on lacy stuff that drives me crazy. The "Look at ME with my oh so modest dressing that sticks out like a lacy sore thumb!!! 

Because, as far as I know, it's always been possible to just buy nice-looking mid-calf-length and just-below-the-knee-length skirts and dresses, with straight skirts, pleated skirts, full skirts and everything in between. At all price points. 

I've always had some of those in my wardrobe, from decades before Jessa was born through today. (Alongside my hooker-length skirts, of course.) And I've never had to have Jana sew the end of a pillowslip onto my skirts to make them long enough. They were designed that way.

Edited November 17, 2018 by Churchhoney

[Scarlett45]

1 hour ago, Churchhoney said:

It's the ostentatiousness of the ridiculous sewn-on lacy stuff that drives me crazy. The "Look at ME with my oh so modest dressing that sticks out like a lacy sore thumb!!! 

Because, as far as I know, it's always been possible to just buy nice-looking mid-calf-length and just-below-the-knee-length skirts and dresses, with straight skirts, pleated skirts, full skirts and everything in between. At all price points. 

I've always had some of those in my wardrobe, from decades before Jessa was born through today. (Alongside my hooker-length skirts, of course.) And I've never had to have Jana sew the end of a pillowslip onto my skirts to make them long enough. They were designed that way.

 

I only wear skirts below the knees/mid calf and I’ve never had to sew a panel on, and I’m taller than all the Duggar girls. IMO the modesty panels are for attention. 

Edited November 17, 2018 by Scarlett45

[doodlebug]

2 minutes ago, Scarlett45 said:

I only wear skirts below the knees mid calf and I’ve never had to sew a panel on, and I’m taller than all the Duggar girls. IMO the modesty panels are for attention. 

Absolutely.  I'm 5'5", taller than most Duggars, and it is almost impossible NOT to buy a dress or skirt that comes to mid-calf, no matter what length it is meant to be.  I think they deliberately lop the bottoms off their skirts and add the dust ruffle to call attention to their faux modesty.  They don't seem to do it often these days, which only confirms to me that it was an affectation, not a necessity.

[Absolom]

11 hours ago, dargosmydaddy said:

I think it is part of the dress, but looks ridiculous (and slip-like).

It was fundie fashion for a year or two when Jessa was wearing those dresses.  Half slips with the ruffles and lace were sold to intentionally be worn as dress extenders.  Thankfully the life for that fashion don't was relatively brief.  

[doodlebug]

1 hour ago, Absolom said:

It was fundie fashion for a year or two when Jessa was wearing those dresses.  Half slips with the ruffles and lace were sold to intentionally be worn as dress extenders.  Thankfully the life for that fashion don't was relatively brief.  

I don't think that Jessa is wearing a slip with ruffles, though.  Looking at it up close, the bottom follows the hem of the dress exactly, it is a part of it, not underneath.  With both dresses, the margin of ruffle showing is exactly the same all the way around and you can see the seam where it was attached to the original dress.  An extended slip underneath a regular dress wouldn't look like this.

[Absolom]

Yes, well the fashion also extended a bit to making dresses with the ruffles attached.  I didn't bother looking to see which Jessa was wearing.  Yes, some crazy people made clothes that looked as if a white slip was hanging out.

[Barb23]

Kendra also has a few dresses with the dust ruffle hem.  She may have been wearing one at Joy's birthday party. 

[cmr2014]

38 minutes ago, Barb23 said:

Kendra also has a few dresses with the dust ruffle hem.  She may have been wearing one at Joy's birthday party. 

i liked Kendra's dress with the petticoat ruffle. The difference is that Kendra had about 1" of ruffle showing as a cute accent to her dress instead of the 6-12" of ostentatious "look at how modest I am!" fabric hanging out of the bottom of the skirt.

[ginger90]

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dust ruffle hem

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[floridamom]

There those Duggar females go again....displaying their flamboyant modesty.

[xwordfanatik]

Yes.  Like those tight t-shirts when pregnant, that show the boobage to the world, and the big belly.  To me, that is more flamboyant than a barely-above-the-knee skirt or shorts could ever be.  

[drafan]

22 hours ago, DangerousMinds said:

She looks idiotic.

In the polka-dot dust ruffle dress, she looks like she's on QVC selling a Charlie Brown Xmas tree in a bag. Move over, Marie Osmond.

 

7 hours ago, Barb23 said:

 dust ruffle hem

Love this so much. The horrendous sandals that go everywhere with her look exactly like their name...brown (eww) thong underwear from Victoria's Secret strapped to her feet.

[awaken]

Ugh, the ubiquitous brown sandals!  When will they finally die?!

[Jeeves]

10 hours ago, awaken said:

Ugh, the ubiquitous brown sandals!  When will they finally die?!

They may have. Those are older photos. ETA, I don’t hate those sandals. I have seen worse. I wear thong sandals in warm weather so I don’t view them as fashion felonies. IMO Duggars have been photographed wearing uglier shoes than those. YMMV of course.

Edited November 18, 2018 by Jeeves

[Sew Sumi]

She appears to have moved on to ballet flats these days.

[Lunera]

I couldn't figure out how to post them here but here are the links to a few videos from the wedding submitted anonymously to a Duggar blog on Tumblr. 

JD and Abbie leaving on the plane:

 http://duggars.tumblr.com/post/180170767735/source-anonymous-sorry-about-the-quality-i-had

JD and Abbie cutting their cake: 

http://duggars.tumblr.com/post/180169965778/source-anonymous

[ginger90]

I hope they took that crap off the plane, off camera, before they actually took off.

[FizzyPuff]

I hope they had more food than this? Otherwise uh everyone gets a piece of fruit or a marshmallow dipped in chocolate, I'd be starving. 

[lookeyloo]

24 minutes ago, Puffin said:

I hope they had more food than this? Otherwise uh everyone gets a piece of fruit or a marshmallow dipped in chocolate, I'd be starving. 

It's such a tight shot - could it be that there were more food stations around the hangar?  We really can't see the entire room.  

[Absolom]

It needs repeating it seems, but the reception was mid-afternoon and not at a regular meal time so hopefully no one is starving between meals.  This type reception is more of a snack than a meal.  Other photos show additional foods of a breakfast type being provided.  That photo was merely a close up of the chocolate fountain.

[FizzyPuff]

3 minutes ago, Absolom said:

It needs repeating it seems, but the reception was mid-afternoon and not at a regular meal time so hopefully no one is starving between meals.  This type reception is more of a snack than a meal.  Other photos show additional foods of a breakfast type being provided.  That photo was merely a close up of the chocolate fountain.

Thanks Absolom. I remember other posters saying they had a breakfast buffet I was hoping it was more than this, so good to know they had other food there.