If he really quit to take care of the kids because of Chelsea's anxiety, they'd lose the 1/2% of respect I have for them. Meanwhile, she's talking about having more. Must be nice to not be in the real world and just be able to have your husband leave his job to help with the kids because of anxiety.
I don't think that's it. My only knowledge is from 90DF, but most of those people aren't homeowners. I do know it costs a lot and you'll be on the hook for them for 10 years. I think they need to make sure a immigrant won't come in and go on government assistance.