ElectricBoogaloo February 13, 2019 Share February 13, 2019 Quote Beth's trip home to care for her mother sparks an unexpected realization. Promo: Original air date: 2/19/19 1 Link to comment
Popular Post Lady Calypso February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 So, unpopular opinion time: I wasn't a fan of the episode Memphis. Though I understand why people love that episode, I just couldn't really feel much for that episode and why people have said that they cried at that episode when they first watched it. I never did, and I wondered why I never did. But this episode? I guess this episode is my Memphis. In that I was crying on and off all episode. Goddamn, this was easily one of the best this season, in a season filled with so many rocky episodes and unstable storylines. Hell, this may have made my top five favourite episodes of the series. Good job, This Is Us. You finally got me to love an episode, and I haven't loved an episode since....either Superbowl Sunday or Number One. 46 Link to comment
Popular Post slasherboy February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 Well, that's an hour I'll never get back. Boring! 27 Link to comment
Popular Post Spartan Girl February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 Phylicia Rashad was on fire tonight! Happy to see Beth get a whole episode and go after her dreams! I did love teen Beth meeting teen Randall. I really don't want them to break up, even though Randall's being a dingus lately. 31 Link to comment
Popular Post CleoCaesar February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 I've always liked Beth and I enjoyed this episode quite a bit. It was a refreshing change from the exhausting, selfish, drama queen Pearsons. Phylicia Rashad has real gravitas and is a pleasure to watch. Beth's dad was a sweetheart. Really good casting for young Beth too. Even Adult Zoe was likeable. All of that being said, I'm not sure the writers’ strategy of “Pick a family member somehow connected to the Big 3 and flesh out their story” is a viable long-term strategy for writing a show. William. Nicky. Rebecca’s parents. Toby’s mother. Beth’s parents. Others I’m forgetting. It adds to the feeling that the writers are treading water this season. 25 Link to comment
Popular Post ShadowFacts February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 Beth's decision to teach makes a whole lot more sense than Kate's. This episode put a smile on my face by the end. The show excels at finding really fine young talent, and all of the acting was quite impressive. 50 Link to comment
Popular Post mtlchick February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 (edited) For some reason, I felt Goran Visnjic was trying to suppress his accent a lot for this which was not only sad but distracting. It also dawned on me that he the Croatian equivalent of Hugh Jackman (it only took 15 years) and I am so ok with that. I think the episode was one of the better ones because of 1) the casting team's knack of finding younger actors that physically match the older characters and 2) great use of guest stars. Carl Lumbly is having a good year of playing dads who died (see Supergirl) and Phylicia Rashad gives a master class in everything she does. Beth needed some kind of redeeming arc because I wasn't liking her much this season. I think this almost pulled it off. Edited February 21, 2019 by mtlchick 26 Link to comment
Popular Post Dreamboat Annie February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 I love Beth's sweet Dad. We just knew Beth was going to "run into" Randall at that freshman mixer. But that didn't matter. It was perfect. Although predictable as well that Beth would want to teach, I loved it. Just a wonderful episode. Still wiping tears. I know, I'm a sap but this time I forgive myself. 31 Link to comment
Popular Post Lady Calypso February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 4 minutes ago, CleoCaesar said: All of that being said, I'm not sure the writers’ strategy of “Pick a family member somehow connected to the Big 3 and flesh out their story” is a viable long-term strategy for writing a show. William. Nicky. Rebecca’s parents. Toby’s mother. Beth’s parents. Others I’m forgetting. I mean, they definitely shouldn't be treating these characters like they should only have a Very Special Episode for their backstory. Beth's been a part of the show since the pilot and we've only NOW gotten actual background on her. So yeah, that's definitely an issue with the show. I'm just happy that Beth got something to do for once, and her going to teach dance makes sense. Also yeah, the casting for young teen Beth was spot on. There was a moment when teen Beth was looking at her father in his chair and she shook her head in such a way, for a split second, I swore I was looking at Susan Kelechi Watson. 1 39 Link to comment
Popular Post PepSinger February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 (edited) I have never felt more for Beth than when she saw Goran Visnjic bring in the black dancer to demonstrate to the class. I knew *exactly* how she felt in that moment. It is something that goes back to this poisonous, but often true, belief that "there can only be one," that there's not enough room for more than one black person in a certain feel. It's hard to explain, and perhaps I'm not doing it justice, but my heart sank when I saw how Beth looked at that girl. Also, the way Susan Kelechi Watson said "thank you" after her mom apologized for taking dance away brought tears to my eyes. All she wanted was her mom to acknowledge her hurt feelings, and she finally got it 20 years later. SKW was outstanding this entire episode. Edited February 20, 2019 by PepSinger 69 Link to comment
BuckeyeLou February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 I too wiped away tears...Beth's mother finally apologized to her for taking away her dreams. And Beth looked so happy & free when she was dancing alone at the studio. She finally can join together her passion & her need for a job. Although, I would not think she would make as much money as she did before in her professional job, and wonder how she & Randall are going to afford their big house & life style. 19 Link to comment
Popular Post bettername2come February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 (edited) Carl Lumbly! More excited for him than Phyllicia Rashad, but then again he was a surprise. I'm glad Beth gets to dance again. Altogether, I enjoyed it. I really bought her and Zoe's sister-cousin bond. My main thought at that freshman mixer was "I guess Randall didn't go to Howard." I'm weirdly surprised that Beth's name is "Bethany." Edited February 20, 2019 by bettername2come 25 Link to comment
Popular Post txhorns79 February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 Quote I too wiped away tears...Beth's mother finally apologized to her for taking away her dreams. I kind of roll my eyes at this. I think they did a decent job of showing that Beth wasn't good enough, and her mother didn't take away any dream so much as help reintroduce some reality into the household. I always think back to Marie Calvet from Mad Men telling Megan that she should consider doing work other than acting because: "not every little girl can do what she wants; the world cannot support that many ballerinas." 31 Link to comment
PepSinger February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 But she didn't have to make Beth stop dancing. She could've danced non-competitively. That didn't even seem like an option with Beth's mom. 24 Link to comment
ShortyMac February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 I love Beth and I loved this episode. Finally, some backstory/history on her. Beth's and Abe's relationship was so beautiful to watch. I am a sucker for father/daughter stuff. They were so close and it is awful that he didn't get to see her and his kids grow up, and become a grandpa. I can picture him doting on and spoiling Tess, Annie, and Deja. Hi, Goran Visnjic (Luka on ER)! Has he lost some of his accent, or was he toning it down for this role? So great to see him. Beth and Zoe finding the weed and getting high together, great. Her getting some closure from her mom, wonderful. Literally bumping into Randall, that was cute. So, Randall didn't go to Howard. I saw that the mixer was at Carnegie Mellon. Phylicia Rashad is a queen. 22 Link to comment
Popular Post nilyank February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 1 minute ago, PepSinger said: But she didn't have to make Beth stop dancing. She could've danced non-competitively. That didn't even seem like an option with Beth's mom. Beth could have continued to take dance in college while doing some other major. 25 Link to comment
Popular Post tennisgurl February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 Beth becoming a teacher really makes a million times more sense than Kate. Beth clearly has lots of ballet training, has already spent lots of time with kids, and has a very firm but nurturing personality. I missed seeing the rest of the family (how is Kevin doing?!?) but I loved getting Beth's backstory, and seeing her embracing her dreams again, after they were crushed when she was a teenager. I can kind of understand her moms perspective, as being a professional dancer is certainly tough, but her sitting down and telling little Beth that she would never be good enough to be a dancer and spending another second on it was a waste of time, right after not getting a solo, was just so devastating. The Say A Little Prayer to book end the episode, and the flashbacks of little Beth and adult Beth dancing happily might have gotten me in the feels. I get it, I love ballet! Interesting that Beth kind of had a Jack as well. The nurturing kind parent that died tragically young, leaving his daughter feeling guilty about indirectly causing his death. 47 Link to comment
Popular Post chitowngirl February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 I love getting all the stories. The “Us” in This Is Us is not all Pearson’s all the time, and that’s ok. 48 Link to comment
Ohiopirate02 February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 24 minutes ago, PepSinger said: I have never felt more for Beth than when she saw Goran Visnjic bring in the black dancer to demonstrate to the class. I knew *exactly* how she felt in that moment. It is something that goes back to this poisonous, but often true, belief that "there can only be one", that there's not enough room for more than one black person in a certain feel. It's hard to explain, and perhaps I'm not doing it justice, but my heart sank when I saw how Beth looked at that girl. Also, the way Susan Kelechi Watson said "thank you" after her mom apologized for taking dance away brought tears to my eyes. All she wanted was her mom to acknowledge her hurt feelings, and she finally got it 20 years later. SKW was outstanding this entire episode. I totally get your point with that scene. I think the writers could have done more to shine a light on the rampant racism found in ballet. This would also show how good of a dancer Beth was. That other girl was better than Beth, but even she has no chance of becoming a principle dancer at an elite company. 16 Link to comment
Popular Post bybrandy February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 "Do you ever wonder why my brother and sisters never come around?" Because we don't want to pay more actors for this episode? Because that was my thought. 36 15 Link to comment
voiceover February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 Both daddy's girls; both artists, returning to that calling later in life. I'd like to see Beth & Kate have this convo, now that we know Beth's backstory. Obviously there is controversy surrounding Beth's mom, pushing her in another direction (a direction, btw, that she loved & where she thrived). I thought instantly of Amy March's epiphany in Little Women: "Talent isn't genius." Who knows but if Beth had been in a different place with a different mentor, the "genius" might have blossomed. But she wasn't and it didn't. This ep was a counterweight to those of us (waves hand) who, in Season 1, said: Yikes she's gorgeous and brilliant and PERFECT! (I suggested making her a Patriots fan to leaven the mix)...because now we see -- no surprise -- that her glossy surface was dearly bought. Yay Zoe for having the right hiding place for what I'm going to assume was some prime 80s Jamaican weed. And I **want the painting/print in the dining room...I'm guessing it might be called "Three Dapper Men on a Bench". Fabulous. 11 Link to comment
Popular Post movingtargetgal February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 23 minutes ago, BuckeyeLou said: I would not think she would make as much money as she did before in her professional job, and wonder how she & Randall are going to afford their big house & life style. I understand Beth going back to dancing for herself. What I don't understand is choosing to be a dance teacher. I also don't understand Randall getting into politics. How are Beth and Randall going to support their three girls? Are they going to need to downsize their children's lifestyle? Beth could get back into dance by taking some classes and when her girls are own their own she could become a teacher. Randall could have gotten into politics in the town he LIVES in and not a city over two hours away. Kate deciding to be a singer at the age of 37 and is able to afford fertility treatments. Do the Pearson's have a bunch of money that we don't know about? Maybe Jack had really good life insurance or Rebecca won a big settlement from the crock pot manufactures? 12 minutes ago, tennisgurl said: I can kind of understand her moms perspective, as being a professional dancer is certainly tough, but her sitting down and telling little Beth that she would never be good enough to be a dancer and spending another second on it was a waste of time, right after not getting a solo, was just so devastating. I think Beth's mother was acting out of her grief after losing her husband. In that moment she was trying to figure out her and her family's new path now that they had lost Beth's father. She saw that Beth most likely would never make it as a dancer so she set her on another path. It was the one thing she could "fix" in that moment. She was telling a young and grieving Beth that she had other options in life and she would help her figure it out. Her message was not wrong but her timing and delivery really sucked. 29 Link to comment
WhosThatGirl February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 1 hour ago, slasherboy said: Well, that's an hour I'll never get back. Boring! Yeah. I was pretty bored by this but I feel like it might be just us who were bored by this? Reading the other posts here it seems like almost everyone else liked it. And I like Beth.. enough. But this didn’t do anything for me? 1 hour ago, bybrandy said: "Do you ever wonder why my brother and sisters never come around?" Because we don't want to pay more actors for this episode? Because that was my thought. This made me laugh. 14 Link to comment
dcubed February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 1 hour ago, PepSinger said: But she didn't have to make Beth stop dancing. She could've danced non-competitively. That didn't even seem like an option with Beth's mom. She didn’t make her stop dancing. She quit paying for the school and wanted her to find another career path. I didn’t see anything where she told her to quit. She was certainly proud since there were still pictures of her dancing on the wall. She just wanted her daughter to have a secure future and dancing clearly wasn’t going to provide. 18 Link to comment
funnygirl February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 (edited) I really loved this episode. Beth had her own "Jack Pearson". Carl Lumbly is a gem. Phylicia Rashad is wonderful. Excellent casting all around, especially spot-on with young Beth. Of course Randall would be enamored by Beth at first sight. Edited February 20, 2019 by funnygirl 18 Link to comment
After7Only February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 1 hour ago, bybrandy said: "Do you ever wonder why my brother and sisters never come around?" Because we don't want to pay more actors for this episode? Because that was my thought. I thought the same thing...lol. Or they have plans on telling Beth and her siblings stories in the future, but weren’t ready to cast the roles yet. Beth is an under rated character to me, so I was very happy for a Beth centric stand alone episode. It almost felt like a short film. 17 Link to comment
Popular Post dcubed February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 (edited) Good episode that explored a different family dynamic. I have to say, I don’t think the mom did anything by telling Beth she didn’t have “it” to make a career out of dancing. I played an instrument, was considered talented and was accepted at a university with an outstanding music program. When I got there, I came to realize with the help of my teacher, that I had a snowball’s chance in hell of playing professionally. I changed majors and continued to play, for fun, in a community orchestra. I found another career and was happy and accomplished. It may be natural for Beth to want to teach dance but it is no more realistic than Kate wanting to teach music. She doesn’t have a degree in dance or education. There are a gazillion outstanding dancers out there that can’t teach. Teaching is a skill no matter the subject. But I guess Beth has been a Pearson long enough to think that just because she put on dance shoes for the first time in more than 20 years, she’s ready to be the next Martha Graham. I hope that when we see her teach it’s in Randall’s rec center. Anything else will be completely unrealistic. Edited February 20, 2019 by dcubed 1 33 Link to comment
Drumpf1737 February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 (edited) On 2/19/2019 at 7:03 PM, CleoCaesar said: I've always liked Beth and I enjoyed this episode quite a bit. It was a refreshing change from the exhausting, selfish, drama queen Pearsons. Phylicia Rashad has real gravitas and is a pleasure to watch. Beth's dad was a sweetheart. Really good casting for young Beth too. Even Adult Zoe was likeable. All of that being said, I'm not sure the writers’ strategy of “Pick a family member somehow connected to the Big 3 and flesh out their story” is a viable long-term strategy for writing a show. William. Nicky. Rebecca’s parents. Toby’s mother. Beth’s parents. Others I’m forgetting. It adds to the feeling that the writers are treading water this season. I think the writers are treading water because they keep trying to give the audience what they say they want. At the end of Seasons 1 and 2 there were complaints of Jack being too saintly and there not being enough backstory on the extended Pearson family. The lesson for writers is only give people half of what they ask for. Edited February 21, 2019 by Drumpf1737 7 Link to comment
chocolatine February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 1 hour ago, ShortyMac said: Literally bumping into Randall, that was cute. So, Randall didn't go to Howard. I saw that the mixer was at Carnegie Mellon. In one of the flashbacks in the aftermath of Jack's death, we saw him call the Howard admissions office and ask to defer because he saw how much Rebecca was struggling and didn't want to leave her. CMU must have been a compromise - I'm sure Rebecca got mad when she found out and insisted that he has to go to college, so he picked CMU in order to stay in Pittsburgh. 1 hour ago, tennisgurl said: Interesting that Beth kind of had a Jack as well. The nurturing kind parent that died tragically young, leaving his daughter feeling guilty about indirectly causing his death. I wonder whether that's one of the reasons Beth clearly doesn't like Kate. Kate broadcasts her sob story to everyone she meets and expects to be pitied, but never stops to consider that maybe other people have experienced a traumatic loss of a beloved parent as well. I really liked this episode, it was a nice break from all the navel gazing. The most heartfelt scene for me was when Beth's mother was talking about her early relationship with her late husband. She must experienced immense grief when he died, but kept herself together because that's what she felt she had to do. Just because someone is private in their grief doesn't mean they are feeling less pain. 23 Link to comment
Bringonthedrama February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 8 minutes ago, dcubed said: Good episode that explored a different family dynamic. I have to say, I don’t think the mom did anything by telling Beth she didn’t have “it” to make a career out of dancing. It wasn't just that - she also told Beth she wasn't going to pay for the dance classes anymore. The message was clearly "I'm not supporting you in wasting your time on this anymore." She handed her the book of colleges and told her they needed to come up with a new plan for Beth's future. I think it's a pretty strong reaction to shut down a child's dream immediately after she loses out on one solo. 18 Link to comment
Popular Post Amethyst February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 It's time they gave Beth her own episode and this did not disappoint. I loved seeing how she became the way she was, and now the flash-forward makes sense. Once again, they nailed the younger counterparts. Younger Beth even had the same birthmark. It adds insight to Randall, too. It shows why Beth is so drawn to him. He's spontaneous and idealistic when Beth feels she can't be. I think Beth lost some of the joy of dancing after her father died. Sure, she could have kept dancing, even if she knew wouldn't make it professionally. But part of what made it wonderful was her father's steadfast encouragement, and with him gone, it wouldn't be the same. 27 Link to comment
watcher1006 February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 12 minutes ago, dcubed said: Good episode that explored a different family dynamic. I have to say, I don’t think the mom did anything by telling Beth she didn’t have “it” to make a career out of dancing. I played an instrument, was considered talented and was accepted at a university with an outstanding music program. When I got there, I came to realize with the help of my teacher, that I had a snowball’s chance in hell of playing professionally. I changed majors and continued to play, for fun, in a community orchestra. I found another career and was happy and accomplished. It's an ongoing story, done compellingly in the Broadway musical "A Chorus Line". Talented young people in the performing arts - music, stage, ballet - someday have to learn that there are only a few places in the world for them to make it professionally. To make it in ballet one has to start young and it can cost money and as one matures physically she or he may just not have the talent or perhaps not have the body type to succeed, regardless of how much talent she or he may have shown earlier. I liked Phylicia Rashad, not sure about the episode as a whole, but I thought the story of a performing artist having to let go of her childhood dreams was well done. 12 Link to comment
Guest February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 Beth is my absolute favorite character so I wanted to love this episode. But it was just okay to me. As with many things this season, I feel they overly telegraph what is going to happen. I also feel Beth’s dad dying while she was a teenager doesn’t make sense with her still having some of the pot he smoked to share with William 20 years later? But wow, did they knock the guest casting out of the park! Link to comment
colorbars February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 (edited) I've always liked Beth and I was very happy to finally get an episode about her and find out more about her backstory. I wish the show didn't feel the need to save these things for Very Special Episodes, as said, and instead took the time to give these characters focus in regular episodes every now and then instead of just having them there to support the Pearson family, but I'll take it. My childhood love and admiration for Phylicia Rashad has been ruined due to Reasons, but I couldn't help but kind of forget about that while watching. And Carl Lansbury was as endearing here as he was on Supergirl last season. I was half expecting Beth's old teacher to come out at the dance studio, even though I don't even think it's the same one. The actress playing Teen Beth was perfect, both casting wise and talent wise. It's a shame we won't see her much, but hopefully she'll get to pop back up for college flashbacks. Edited February 21, 2019 by colorbars 4 Link to comment
Popular Post stephinmn February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 Nice episode, but is anyone gainfully employed anymore? 22 7 Link to comment
Popular Post NUguy514 February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 The actress who played Teen Beth really was phenomenal, and Phylicia Rashad was, as always, giving all of us a master class. "Settling" for attending one of the best universities in the country, meeting your soulmate, and working for a dozen years at a job you love is pretty lucky, and I'm glad Beth said as much. Still, I really, really, really felt for her this entire episode. At the same time, I loved how different Zoe's experience of Mama Phylicia was and why. It made a ton of sense to me. Yeah, I loved this one. 29 Link to comment
CrystalBlue February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 2 hours ago, dcubed said: She didn’t make her stop dancing. She quit paying for the school and wanted her to find another career path. I didn’t see anything where she told her to quit. She was certainly proud since there were still pictures of her dancing on the wall. She just wanted her daughter to have a secure future and dancing clearly wasn’t going to provide. ^ This. Mothers who have just lost their husbands have to become practical if they aren't already. I saw Bethany's mother's point. She also didn't get into a discussion about the hard road and limited opportunities in the world of ballet for African-American (or other black) ballerinas. As far as Beth resuming a career as a dancer, ballerinas retire in their 30s and by 40 are considered old. At Beth's age there is no future in trying to become a principal ballerina. Dancing would be a hobby, but Beth being the smart gal she is, sees a future in teaching and a way to be involved in her love of dance again and have a career. 14 Link to comment
Drumpf1737 February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 This episode revealed Beth had a Jack Pearson of her own. I get how she's been able to deal with Randall and the whole Pearson clan for so long. I'd think her relationship with Kate would be better since it seems Beth was her father's "Katie Girl" 7 Link to comment
CrystalBlue February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 14 minutes ago, stephinmn said: Nice episode, but is anyone gainfully employed anymore? I think Toby is, when he's not couch potatoing or dressed in his slumber clothes in the middle of the day. 9 5 Link to comment
bros402 February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 I liked having a Beth episode, and also, Goran Visinijc! He's always welcome on my TV! 7 Link to comment
Popular Post LaJefaza February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 3 hours ago, chocolatine said: I wonder whether that's one of the reasons Beth clearly doesn't like Kate. Kate broadcasts her sob story to everyone she meets and expects to be pitied, but never stops to consider that maybe other people have experienced a traumatic loss of a beloved parent as well. It's definitely one of the reasons I don't like Kate. 19 12 Link to comment
WhosThatGirl February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 Beth’s dad also seemed to have a fondness for Zoe as well which makes me think, I know some people aren’t fond of her much but I’m curious about her backstory. Maybe even more so than beths episode tonight and I like Beth but this just didn’t do anything for me. And yeah I’m alone in this I know. I just.. it’s terrible that Beth lost dancing because her mom wanted her to have a different choice but honestly I can’t fault her for that? Once her dad died, money probably was going to become hard to have probably and unfortunately Beth didn’t get a solo and more than likely wasn’t going to be seen(I’ve seen center stage, it’s pretty much solo or no one knows your name! 😉 ) and it wasn’t wrong for her mom to say she needed a backup. I think we’re supposed to deduce that Beth’s mom didn’t let her have dance as a hobby as well though and if that’s true than that’s awful. So maybe that’s what happened but it wasn’t shown on screen so I think we’re just supposed to assume this. Also I hope Beth actually gets a paying job as a teacher. I mean yeah it’s great that she’s finding her dream of dancing again but how much does Randall being a politician pay again? I mean I very much doubt that Beth’s dance teaching gig is going to be paying that much either but hopefully it pays something, aren’t their kids in a private school? 4 Link to comment
Biggie B February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 This was the first time I actually liked Zoe! She showed more personality and vivaciousness in the car with Beth than she's ever shown with Kevin. She was great with Beth, what an amazing relationship those two have - again, more compelling and more interesting than Zoe's relationship with Kevin. Oddly, unlike most others who've mentioned it, I thought Goran V's accent was far more pronounced than when he was on ER. I enjoyed the episode for what it was - an insight into Beth's past and what made her the woman she is today. It was well done, even if it wasn't action-packed or high intensity. 7 Link to comment
Popular Post llewis823 February 20, 2019 Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 8 hours ago, txhorns79 said: kind of roll my eyes at this. I think they did a decent job of showing that Beth wasn't good enough, and her mother didn't take away any dream so much as help reintroduce some reality into the household. I always think back to Marie Calvet from Mad Men telling Megan that she should consider doing work other than acting because: "not every little girl can do what she wants; the world cannot support that many ballerinas." If I could give you a million likes for this, I would. Beth was just not cutting it - even giving it her all. Sometimes in life we have to accept that we're just not the best at something and we have to find the thing at which we are the best. I felt like her mother was putting a little reality to the situation. She could have done it a bit more empathetically instead of saying "I'm not paying for dance school anymore". It didn't have to be the end of Beth's love of dance. Your passion, if it can't be your profession, can always still be your passion. And you can sometimes find a career that can be related to your passion. In most situations, life is not all or nothing, not black or white. There are gray areas in almost every aspect of life. 31 Link to comment
Popular Post ElectricBoogaloo February 20, 2019 Author Popular Post Share February 20, 2019 I enjoyed this episode for so many reasons, including but not limited to getting a break from the emotionally exhausting drama queens who we know as the Pearsons AND getting to see Phylicia Ayers-Allen/Rashad. Even when she isn't being as lovable as Claire Huxtable, she is still so believable. Bonus: Goran Visnjic! One thing I loved about Beth's trip home was seeing how stifled and pressured she felt by her mother but also seeing how her mother was just trying to make sure that her daughter would have a successful career so that she wouldn't have to work as hard as her own mother did to provide for her family. Knowing that Carol got an education because of her mother's hard work (and despite her father's protest) made it even clearer why she was so determined for Beth to go to college. That's not to say that she handled it perfectly. She didn't have to cut off all of Beth's dance classes immediately just because she didn't get a solo at the senior showcase. There is still a good possibility that Beth could have received an apprenticeship contract from a dance company and gone on to have a dance career. Probably not a top tier company like ABT but not everyone who gets a contract is a perfect ballerina with flawless technique. I know ballet is not cheap, even at crappy local studios, so I'm guessing that Carol didn't want to invest any more money into something that wouldn't yield a career, but dance is so much more than that. Considering that Abe had just died, it would have been a lot more compassionate for Carol to let Beth keep taking classes for a few more months to give her an outlet for her grief. I love that Beth found a dance studio and gave herself the opportunity to reconnect with dance. It is never too late to go back. You might not be as strong or flexible as you were as a teenager, but you can still dance. Loved that Zoe hid some weed behind Big Mama's picture and left it there when she moved out. Hee, I also totally related to Beth in a small moment this week when she said that the last twenty years had not been kind to her childhood mattress. I still had the same mattress in my old bedroom at my parents' house that they got for me when I got moved out of my crib at the age of 2. It was getting SO uncomfortable to sleep on! A few years ago, I finally made an executive decision and replaced it. I resisted doing it for years because at most I only visit a few times a year so it didn't seem worth it to buy a mattress that I will only sleep on for maybe ten nights a year. But at some point, I just couldn't take it anymore! 6 hours ago, dcubed said: It may be natural for Beth to want to teach dance but it is no more realistic than Kate wanting to teach music. She doesn’t have a degree in dance or education. There are a gazillion outstanding dancers out there that can’t teach. Teaching is a skill no matter the subject. But I guess Beth has been a Pearson long enough to think that just because she put on dance shoes for the first time in more than 20 years, she’s ready to be the next Martha Graham. I hope that when we see her teach it’s in Randall’s rec center. Anything else will be completely unrealistic. There are a lot of excellent dance teachers who do not have dance degrees or education degrees. And there are plenty of studios that employ former dancers to teach without any degrees whatsoever. Most dancers have taken enough classes that they can run a class in their sleep because there is a very specific format and exercises that are universal. For a ballet class, you start with a barre warm up (plies, rond de jambes, battements, etc. always in the same order), then you move on to center floor which is followed by going across the floor, and finally learning combinations/choreography/repertoire. I could have taught my ballet classes by the time I was 12. I don't mean this as a knock on ballet teachers either, because you do need to watch everyone's technique carefully and give individual corrections, but teaching a ballet class is not like teaching a math class. I know high school dancers who were hired to teach the lower level classes at their studios and they clearly had no dance or education degrees. What they did have was years of experience and knowledge. And there is a HUGE difference between Beth teaching dance (which does not legally require ANY kind of certification) and Kate teaching choir at a high school (which DOES require an undergraduate degree and a teaching certification). Because teaching dance classes does not require a degree or really any kind of certification, it is totally realistic for Beth to become a dance teacher. Kate, on the other hand, was trying to get a job at a high school and that has several requirements, none of which she had. The school could not legally hire Kate to work there without a BA and a teaching certification which is why Kate becoming a teacher is, at this point, unrealistic. 4 27 Link to comment
Eureka February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 7 hours ago, dcubed said: It may be natural for Beth to want to teach dance but it is no more realistic than Kate wanting to teach music. She doesn’t have a degree in dance or education. There are a gazillion outstanding dancers out there that can’t teach. Teaching is a skill no matter the subject. But I guess Beth has been a Pearson long enough to think that just because she put on dance shoes for the first time in more than 20 years, she’s ready to be the next Martha Graham. I hope that when we see her teach it’s in Randall’s rec center. Anything else will be completely unrealistic. This is pretty much what I was saying as I watched that too. But she is a Pearson now, so you know itlll happen. Lol. 3 8 Link to comment
readheaded February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 (edited) I really enjoyed this episode and related to Beth. I grew up in a blue collar household with a critical mother and I knew I had to go to college and get a practical job. When you come from a place where your parents didn't grow up with much, I think the need for you to be able to support yourself and do better than your parents can be palpable. This isn't to say that I have any regrets or harbor any resentments because I'm glad there were expectations, but I can definitely relate. I also see parallels between Beth and Michelle Obama's story. I think Beth's trip home will help the Pearsons' marriage because Beth clearly remembers what drew her to Randall. And, Phylicia Rashad was wonderful and looks great! Not to mention, I though the young actress who played dancer Beth really captured adult Beth's mannerisms and spirit. Edited February 20, 2019 by readheaded 2 14 Link to comment
PepSinger February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 7 minutes ago, Eureka said: This is pretty much what I was saying as I watched that too. But she is a Pearson now, so you know itlll happen. Lol. As EB2 explained in the post above yours, there is a galaxy of difference from Kate wanting to teach versus Beth. At bare minimum, Beth has a degree and isn’t even asking to teach at a school. Honestly, I think comparing them is kind of insulting to Beth. Beth is for more qualified than Kate to teach. 20 Link to comment
ShadowFacts February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 (edited) 7 hours ago, deaja said: I also feel Beth’s dad dying while she was a teenager doesn’t make sense with her still having some of the pot he smoked to share with William 20 years later? I thought of that right away, too, but I think they sort of covered that base with showing that Zoe's hidden weed was still primo years later. It doesn't totally jibe, the way Beth in William's time talked about it being left over from her father's illness made it seem like that happened while they lived in their New Jersey house. 4 hours ago, WhosThatGirl said: Also I hope Beth actually gets a paying job as a teacher. I mean yeah it’s great that she’s finding her dream of dancing again but how much does Randall being a politician pay again? I mean I very much doubt that Beth’s dance teaching gig is going to be paying that much either but hopefully it pays something, aren’t their kids in a private school? I could be wrong but I think it's been established their kids are in a really good local public school. But your point stands, Randall isn't going to make a huge amount as a councilman. If Beth goes the Randall route, she will just buy a school in short order. We know she seems to be in charge of one in the fast-forward. Edited February 20, 2019 by ShadowFacts 3 Link to comment
Haleth February 20, 2019 Share February 20, 2019 That was a powerful episode even though it had little to do with the main story. It was heartbreaking seeing Bethany's past and the relationship she had with her parents. Kudos to Phylicia Rashad for an outstanding, Emmy worthy performance. And kudos to the casting directors who once again found exceptional child actors to play the young versions of Beth. They nailed every mannerism spot on. The problem I saw with Mama cutting Beth off from dancing was that Beth had placed all of her own value on succeeding. Her greatest fear was disappointing her mother. By not getting the lead role she considered herself a failure in her mother's eyes. When Mama said "no more" it confirmed to Beth that she had failed and her value as a daughter was diminished. It wasn't until many years later Mama was able to explain that that was not the case, she wanted Beth to see reality, be strong, and find another path to success. Broke my heart. Incidentally, my 38 yo crockpot died yesterday. No flames, but I had a flashback to TIU. 21 Link to comment
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