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Josh & Anna Smuggar: A Series of Unfortunate Events


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12 minutes ago, Churchhoney said:

I don't know whether these folks I know sort of leaked into actual Jewish Messianic congregations and gradually became the majority or what although I'm pretty sure that in one case they juststarted their own. But it seems to have been via some attraction to a lot of Old Testament stuff .......

One guy I know also sort of "belongs" to my family church -- as his family did for generations -- and comes there  and talks about his new affiliation a lot....they kind of take it as an educational thing.......

And I've talked to him about the Messianic group he attends and have heard only of other members that I'm pretty sure don't have any Jewish heritage. The guy who founded that little congregation is definitely not Jewish by birth ....

I don't think that's the norm at all, and I'm not sure that the larger world community called Messianic Jews even consider these people part of their group.

The guy whose family has known my family forever has talked on and on to me about stuff, but most of it was so obscure that I really didn't get what he was saying. He is VERY enthusiastic about whatever it is, though. And he's QUITE heavily into Jesus. I do know that his group -- and I think may be generally true of groups going by this name -- believes in baptism and the Trinity but they have Shabbat on Friday night through Saturday rather than Sunday..........From what he said, there seemed to be a lot of tradition-type things like when the Sabbath is that went with Jewish tradition but then a lot of theology that went with Christian tradition. But I've actually understood so little of his complicated yammerings that i'm not really sure about that. His group at least goes to Israel a lot. 

This is what the Southern Baptist Messianic Fellowship (go figure) says -- https://www.sbmessianic.net/

That's so interesting, as I'd never heard of the "Southern Baptist Messianic Fellowship" flavor offshoot...  On one hand, of course "all religions started from somewhere".  On the other hand, there is such a line as "appalling and ill-advised legalism"; where you need to make religion complicated in order that *you* feel that something is really happening; instead of taking time to reflect in quiet silence on the nature of faith and God, etc...

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36 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

https://www.crazydaysandnights.net/2018/12/blind-item-10_13.html

Why does this not surprise me?  He should be banned from all activities where young girls are involved. He is sick in the head and in need of professional help. Of course his family will do nothing. It’s revolting.  

I believe the blind item is likely to be true. Makes me ill. 

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If that blind item is true, having the cameras avoiding Josh at big events works in his favor. He can be his old “sly” self away from the camera’s eye. If the blind item is true, it makes me absolutely sick. You know his predatory nature has only evolved and escalated since he was 15. What he did to his victims then was traumatizing. He may be doing even worse now. Is it wrong that I wish I could meet him so I could kick him in the balls?

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1 hour ago, nightmeri said:

 Is it wrong that I wish I could meet him so I could kick him in the balls?

Not even a little bit wrong. Is it wrong that I wish we could sell tickets to do so? And that we would give Anna a free ticket? (And Anna's ticket should also include an opportunity to kick Boob in the balls, since his patriarchal bullshit "religion" exacerbated the whole situation.)

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Why does Susanna always have a head tilt to the left?  And she works in an office?  That must’ve been a new experience for Priscilla to visit a woman in the workplace outside the home. 

The grammar in the captions is atrocious as usual. 

I really can’t imagine how awkward it must be at times with Josh at the family gatherings, and widely differing beliefs and lifestyles amongst the siblings and parents. 

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15 hours ago, GleamingMist said:

What is up with Anna's face lately?  It looks so off.  Puffy?  Different makeup?  Maybe it's just me?

Pregnant? 

10 hours ago, awaken said:

Why does Susanna always have a head tilt to the left?  And she works in an office?  That must’ve been a new experience for Priscilla to visit a woman in the workplace outside the home. 

The grammar in the captions is atrocious as usual. 

I really can’t imagine how awkward it must be at times with Josh at the family gatherings, and widely differing beliefs and lifestyles amongst the siblings and parents. 

I don’t understand how anyone can sit in the same room as Josh tbh 

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Since the bad things that Josh has done are so well known, why isn’t the state, child protective services or anyone holding him accountable and monitoring him at all? In most states he would get tagged with a sexual offender label. BoobBob must have spent a pretty amount of money to help this go away and stay in the family....literally.  

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1 minute ago, Mindthinkr said:

Since the bad things that Josh has done are so well known, why isn’t the state, child protective services or anyone holding him accountable and monitoring him at all? In most states he would get tagged with a sexual offender label. BoobBob must have spent a pretty amount of money to help this go away and stay in the family....literally.  

He was never charged or convicted of a crime, so I'm not sure there's legal grounds for it.

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1 minute ago, BitterApple said:

He was never charged or convicted of a crime, so I'm not sure there's legal grounds for it.

True but I’m sure that’s because his father protected him. After all it was the girls fault. Josh going on that Ashley Madison site was just a boy being a boy. It’s never a man’s fault for anything in that clan. 

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5 hours ago, libgirl2 said:

So do I. I cannot for the life of me understand how Anna goes along with this. Protect your daughters! 

I cannot understand how Anna feels comfortable with him touching her, knowing where his hands (and with the Ashley Madison connection any other...ahem parts) have been. Skeevy. 

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5 hours ago, libgirl2 said:

So do I. I cannot for the life of me understand how Anna goes along with this. Protect your daughters! 

 

2 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

I cannot understand how Anna feels comfortable with him touching her, knowing where his hands (and with the Ashley Madison connection any other...ahem parts) have been. Skeevy. 

Sadly there are women outside of the fundy Christian patriarchy that want the man so badly they don’t care about his past abuse of minor children, or worse allow him access to their children because they want to keep him.

I don’t pretend to understand it but I’m not surprised. 

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3 minutes ago, Scarlett45 said:

Sadly there are women outside of the fundy Christian patriarchy that want the man so badly they don’t care about his past abuse of minor children, or worse allow him access to their children because they want to keep him.

I don’t pretend to understand it but I’m not surprised. 

Le sigh, but I refuse to feel sorry for her. This is her choice. It might be the only one that anyone else is willing to support but it’s not as though she is educated and can go out into the real world and handle a life without him. Shame on his parents for not doing anything about his transgressions or for helping to keep Anna until he reforms. Well, if that’s possible. 

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25 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

I cannot understand how Anna feels comfortable with him touching her, knowing where his hands (and with the Ashley Madison connection any other...ahem parts) have been. Skeevy. 

She is well and truly brainwashed her parents and Joshs parents should be ashamed of them self’s. 

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On 12/20/2018 at 3:08 PM, Mindthinkr said:

Le sigh, but I refuse to feel sorry for her. This is her choice. It might be the only one that anyone else is willing to support but it’s not as though she is educated and can go out into the real world and handle a life without him. Shame on his parents for not doing anything about his transgressions or for helping to keep Anna until he reforms. Well, if that’s possible. 

I understand she has religious and financial concerns, but her idiocy and apparent refusal to face reality is putting her children at risk.  The fact that she brought another child into this situation borders on child abuse.  She seems to care more about posting "happy family" pictures on social media than the well being of her children.

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On 20/12/2018 at 9:45 AM, Mindthinkr said:

Since the bad things that Josh has done are so well known, why isn’t the state, child protective services or anyone holding him accountable and monitoring him at all? In most states he would get tagged with a sexual offender label. BoobBob must have spent a pretty amount of money to help this go away and stay in the family....literally.  

The Department of Human Services did intervene, Josh appealed some sort of ruling or decision they made back 2007. My pet theory is that DHS ruled that Josh could not live in the same house as his victims. Grandma bought the moldy house from Michelle’s dad (I think) around then.

I don’t believe the blind item. Who would be leaking this? And why didn’t they cc the cops?

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1 hour ago, kokapetl said:

The Department of Human Services did intervene, Josh appealed some sort of ruling or decision they made back 2007. My pet theory is that DHS ruled that Josh could not live in the same house as his victims. Grandma bought the moldy house from Michelle’s dad (I think) around then.

I don’t believe the blind item. Who would be leaking this? And why didn’t they cc the cops?

Do we know that the authorities weren’t notified?  Remember how long it took last time for the story to be confirmed. And, if the victims were children being indoctrinated into the cult, I am sure they and their families refused to cooperate so that charges could be filed.  Without credible witnesses willing to testify, it goes nowhere and the records are sealed.

As for Josh’ original crimes, remember that part of their beliefs is that there should be a church confession.  That’s how the original story came out, via Alice who we all discounted for years until she was proven right.  While I’d like to believe that no one in the police department or children’s services would ever violate confidentiality, we know that it happens, particularly if the crime is heinous and cannot be prosecuted.

I don’t know that this particular story is true, but I do know that the vast majority of child molesters don’t stop of their own accord.  I also know that Josh never received appropriate punishment, let alone evaluation and counseling; that his parents put more blame on his victims than on him.  If ever there was a criminal unlikely to stop, it is Josh.

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I agree with @doodlebug's statement that the vast majority of child molesters don’t stop of their own accord. The vast majority of child molesters are pedophiles. I don't believe Josh falls in that category. 

Josh was a child when he touched his sisters and was an adult when he joined Ashley Madison. I think Anna is likely more at risk of being sexually assaulted by Josh than his children are. But truly I don't believe either are at risk because I think two factors that contributed to Josh's indiscretions were opportunity and ego. Josh is no more the Fundy wonder first born son in anyone's eyes and he's no longer a Fundy political hotshot. 

Josh is just an overweight semi employed Fundy man who will forever and deservedly be labelled scum. 

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10 minutes ago, GeeGolly said:

I agree with @doodlebug's statement that the vast majority of child molesters don’t stop of their own accord. The vast majority of child molesters are pedophiles. I don't believe Josh falls in that category. 

Josh was a child when he touched his sisters and was an adult when he joined Ashley Madison. I think Anna is likely more at risk of being sexually assaulted by Josh than his children are. But truly I don't believe either are at risk because I think two factors that contributed to Josh's indiscretions were opportunity and ego. Josh is no more the Fundy wonder first born son in anyone's eyes and he's no longer a Fundy political hotshot. 

Josh is just an overweight semi employed Fundy man who will forever and deservedly be labelled scum. 

I agree with you that opportunity and ego were what contributed to Josh’s crimes/incidents- but I don’t think those have gone away. Anna and the children are still RIGHT THERE with him in the house every day. Women are raped by their husbands and boyfriends in domestic violence situations, a friend of mine was finally willing to admit her husband was abusive, not when he strangled or slapped her but when he raped her two weeks after she had her only child. Josh is still a fundy husband and a man- which makes him the king of his household and able to do whatever he wants.

 

 

I agree with @doodlebug- something is wrong with Josh and he isn’t likely to stop on his own.  I do think he’s more likely to hurt Anna than his own children, but I don’t forget what he did to Joy- Anna when she was 5. I don’t think most people that abuse minor children are pedophiles; I think they are evil people who want to abuse others and kids are easy targets. Same reason people with mental disabilities are more likely to be sexually assualted. 

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But will Anna even recognize or acknowledge that she's been hurt? Or will she hide behind her religion?

ETA: Let me clarify. I'm talking about if/when Josh sexually assaults Anna. She may view Josh cheating on her as more hurtful than Josh sexually assaulting her.

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1 hour ago, madpsych78 said:

But will Anna even recognize or acknowledge that she's been hurt? Or will she hide behind her religion?

ETA: Let me clarify. I'm talking about if/when Josh sexually assaults Anna. She may view Josh cheating on her as more hurtful than Josh sexually assaulting her.

I could see that. As his wife Anna likely believes her body belongs to him to do with as he pleases. 

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Jeans under a skirt looks dumb. Just let them wear jeans! A skirt over them doesn't really add extra warmth, and just looks silly. 

Or if they are going to insist on skirts with something underneath all year long, get warmer leggings for the colder months. I have some fleece lined ones I wear under dresses/skirts in the winter. 

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Is it time to lure Josh back into the bedroom with a sandwich?

"Here Joshua!  Look!  A sandwich!  Made just for you!  Here boy!  Come and get it!  Good boy!  Now, there's just one little thing you have to do first...

Get up on the bed.  Come on.  Good boy!  Now just close your eyes and think of pastrami.  That's it!  Think of cheese!  Oohh, yes, that's the ticket!  Mustard!  Oh yes, mustard is the best!  Pickles, Joshua, pickles!  We're almost there!  Onion!  Yesss, onion on Rye!  We did it!!!!! 

Joshua, I think you deserve a treat.  After your sandwich, how about we get you some ice cream?"

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