Jill, Derick & the Kids: Moving On!!

[Zuleikha]

s Jay-zus the "objective truth" we're all going to have to deal with no matter how we feel about it? Because, if so, shut up, Derick.

I love that Derick quoted Ben Shapiro saying facts don't care about feelings to lead into that. I wonder if Derick even knows that Ben Shapiro is Jewish.

[bigskygirl]

On ‎10‎/‎16‎/‎2017 at 3:43 PM, Arwen Evenstar said:

I have to agree on that one.  Someone suggested on Twitter that Jilly shared her muffin with someone else, which I also doubt since she's humorless and too uptight to fart, let alone cheat.

I want to meet the man who would find her attractive enough to want to fool around with her besides Dwerp Man. Yes, I know where the Prayer Closet is.

[Lunera]

9 hours ago, Zuleikha said:

I love that Derick quoted Ben Shapiro saying facts don't care about feelings to lead into that. I wonder if Derick even knows that Ben Shapiro is Jewish.

And he scrolled all the way back to February 2016 to retweet that quote. Loser.

[MonicaM]

The absolute best scenario would be if no one responded in any way to his tweets.  No clever hate messages, no words of support, just no reaction at all.  I know that won't happen, but this guy obviously enjoys attention of any kind.  He doesn't deliver his "messages" gently or kindly because he wants people to react strongly.

This thought is what keeps me far away from Twitter!!!!  

[sheshark]

Quote

Hopefully us millenials won't mess that up!

 

"We" millennials, College Boy.

Edited October 19, 2017 by sheshark

[Jynnan tonnix]

38 minutes ago, sheshark said:

 

"We" millennials, College Boy.

Thank you :-) It wasn't worth my taking out a twitter account just for that, but I was tempted. Not that he'll see it here either.

[ginger90]

☀️✨Khaleesi??

@_Khaleesi_khal 7HReplying to @derick4Him

He posts tweets like these but doesn’t have the guts to actually debate or defend. I guess your faith isn’t as strong as you think.

 

Derick Dillard@derick4HimReplying to @_Khaleesi_khal

...or the time

4:39 AM - 19 Oct 2017

[SMama]

Derick Dillard‏ @derick4Him 57m57 minutes ago

If you don’t like something, don’t gripe about it, do something about it!

 

OK guys, he WANTS us to get him off TV.

[bigskygirl]

2 minutes ago, SMama said:

Derick Dillard‏ @derick4Him 57m57 minutes ago

If you don’t like something, don’t gripe about it, do something about it!

 

OK guys, he WANTS us to get him off TV.

Or we can put him on a slow leaking boat to China with JB, Michelle and Josh, and we never see or hear from them again.

And he does not have the time to debate or defend his opinions and views. Really...What does he do with his time.

[SMama]

My daughter was born in China, I love them too much to send this ass wipe their way. :( And you are right, what the hell does he do all day long? Lack of time my arse you freaking scumbag grifter.

[Temperance]

7 minutes ago, bigskygirl said:

Or we can put him on a slow leaking boat to China with JB, Michelle and Josh, and we never see or hear from them again.

And he does not have the time to debate or defend his opinions and views. Really...What does he do with his time.

Does China deserve that?

JB can go to one of their big cities and argue overpopulation is fake and the whole world's population can fit in Jacksonville, FL. 

Edited October 19, 2017 by Temperance

[SMama]

I didn't watch the "fellowship" Despacito dancing video posted then deleted from Derelict's Instagram. Was Dirty Jesus dancing?

[Sew Sumi]

It seems like he took the picture of the kids dancing. I doubt it was a dispassionate moment. At minimum, he was showing us how much FUN was being had. 

[Aja]

57 minutes ago, ginger90 said:

☀️✨Khaleesi??

@_Khaleesi_khal 7HReplying to @derick4Him

He posts tweets like these but doesn’t have the guts to actually debate or defend. I guess your faith isn’t as strong as you think.

 

Derick Dillard@derick4HimReplying to @_Khaleesi_khal

...or the time

4:39 AM - 19 Oct 2017

Yes, I, too, have all the time in the world to post judgy, hateful, semi-literate tweets and absolutely zero time to back any of my shit up. Frankly, it's a burden.

ETA: Isn't one of the parts of the Bible he actually pays attention to the part about proselytizing and "saving" the "unsaved"? What would Jesus think of him saying he just doesn't have the time for all of those Tweeting sinners who so desperately need saving? 

Edited October 19, 2017 by Aja

[Arwen Evenstar]

11 minutes ago, Sew Sumi said:

It seems like he took the picture of the kids dancing. I doubt it was a dispassionate moment. At minimum, he was showing us how much FUN was being had. 

Lots of fun can be had dancing to Despacito, particularly if your dance partner has hit Latin blood.  I’ll be in the prayer closet if anyone is looking for me.

[Lunera]

But he sure has the time to read through all the comments, like the ones that agree with him, and look up Bible quotes to post in response to the backlash. 

[Sew Sumi]

2 minutes ago, Lunera said:

But he sure has the time to read through all the comments, like the ones that agree with him, and look up Bible quotes to post in response to the backlash. 

Yup, thinking the same thing. He also had time to post that he didn't have time. 

He's dumb as a post.

[SMama]

Please don’t insult posts. I asked because I thought I read there was a video. And yes if you are normal lots of fun to dance to Despacito.

[Lunera]

16 minutes ago, SMama said:

Please don’t insult posts. I asked because I thought I read there was a video. And yes if you are normal lots of fun to dance to Despacito.

Yes, there was a video but Dirty Jesus wasn't dancing. It was just 30 seconds of a group of college kids, most of them ladies, dancing to the song. The majority  of the comments were telling him how dirty the lyrics were, that's probably why he decided to delete.

[Sew Sumi]

I didn't have time to read the comments (snerk) but assumed that was why he removed the post. 

He also had the time to go to a speech by a former senator today. The group did NOT consist of his fellow "students," mostly old white dudes. I wonder what ine day of the week he spends in "classes?" We can rule out Wednesdays (with his tweet barrage yesterday) as well as Thursdays. I doubt they have class on Fridays. Not a lot of days left, Derelict. 

[Jynnan tonnix]

2 hours ago, Temperance said:

Does China deserve that?

2 hours ago, SMama said:

My daughter was born in China, I love them too much to send this ass wipe their way. :( And you are right, what the hell does he do all day long? Lack of time my arse you freaking scumbag grifter.

Sorry, messed up the quote box and can't seem to fix it or write outside the box for some reason...but the way I understood bigskygirl's comment was that that was the whole point to the boat being leaky. China's a long way away, after all...

[Christina87]

5 hours ago, Lunera said:

And he scrolled all the way back to February 2016 to retweet that quote. Loser.

I guess he has he time...but I know I'd be pissed if I was Jill and we were both stay-at-home parents, but I was doing 100% with the kids while he searches for a quote on twitter. 

I'm confused as to why these patriarchal societies find it so okay for men to neglect their duties. Almost every whack job, suuuuuper-conservative Christian family I know here is NC is struggling monetarily, so the wife HAS to work to get by, but also is still the "housewife" while the family's home. I know one couple where the wife has a master's degree and works full time, while the hubby has a part-time fast food job. While he's at home during the day, he still keeps the kids in daycare because taking care of them isn't his "job." He prefers to waste his wife's hard-earned money, but that's okay, because he won't allow her to go out to eat or anything. She has to be on-call after work hours to make him a sandwich on demand. 

I literally wish I was kidding about that couple. 

[doodlebug]

10 minutes ago, Christina87 said:

I guess he has he time...but I know I'd be pissed if I was Jill and we were both stay-at-home parents, but I was doing 100% with the kids while he searches for a quote on twitter. 

I'm confused as to why these patriarchal societies find it so okay for men to neglect their duties. Almost every whack job, suuuuuper-conservative Christian family I know here is NC is struggling monetarily, so the wife HAS to work to get by, but also is still the "housewife" while the family's home. I know one couple where the wife has a master's degree and works full time, while the hubby has a part-time fast food job. While he's at home during the day, he still keeps the kids in daycare because taking care of them isn't his "job." He prefers to waste his wife's hard-earned money, but that's okay, because he won't allow her to go out to eat or anything. She has to be on-call after work hours to make him a sandwich on demand. 

I literally wish I was kidding about that couple. 

It's because the whole thing is a bunch of patriarchal BS and the men decide what rules to follow.  You'll never hear about a man being called out for being a poor provider, it will be his spouse's fault for not doing a better job of budgeting their money and living on a shoestring.  And, if she were a better helpmeet, she would help in in his work in addition to doing all the cooking, cleaning and childcare and maybe having a job of her own.

[Arwen Evenstar]

53 minutes ago, Christina87 said:

She has to be on-call after work hours to make him a sandwich on demand. 

Well, you know, according to Michelle, anyone can make him a sandwich, but only you can fill that special need he has. 

[mynextmistake]

2 hours ago, Christina87 said:

I guess he has he time...but I know I'd be pissed if I was Jill and we were both stay-at-home parents, but I was doing 100% with the kids while he searches for a quote on twitter. 

I'm confused as to why these patriarchal societies find it so okay for men to neglect their duties. Almost every whack job, suuuuuper-conservative Christian family I know here is NC is struggling monetarily, so the wife HAS to work to get by, but also is still the "housewife" while the family's home. I know one couple where the wife has a master's degree and works full time, while the hubby has a part-time fast food job. While he's at home during the day, he still keeps the kids in daycare because taking care of them isn't his "job." He prefers to waste his wife's hard-earned money, but that's okay, because he won't allow her to go out to eat or anything. She has to be on-call after work hours to make him a sandwich on demand. 

I literally wish I was kidding about that couple. 

My cousin is exactly like that. Wife works 48 hours a week as a nurse and he's an "at-home dad." Their oldest is in grade school (including before and after school daycare), and their younger child is in full-time daycare. Cousin drops the kids off and picks them up, does the lawn maintenance and outdoor chores (which take all of an hour or two a week) and will occasionally be assed to barbecue meat. That's all he does. Wife comes home, preps and cooks dinner, cleans the house, and puts the kids to bed while he watches HBO. On her days off, she is expected to do all the shopping, laundry, and child care because he needs a break. And they aren't even fundie, or really religious at all. 

I have no idea what she gets out of the relationship. His "sandwiches" can't be that tasty.

[Christina87]

51 minutes ago, mynextmistake said:

My cousin is exactly like that. Wife works 48 hours a week as a nurse and he's an "at-home dad." Their oldest is in grade school (including before and after school daycare), and their younger child is in full-time daycare. Cousin drops the kids off and picks them up, does the lawn maintenance and outdoor chores (which take all of an hour or two a week) and will occasionally be assed to barbecue meat. That's all he does. Wife comes home, preps and cooks dinner, cleans the house, and puts the kids to bed while he watches HBO. On her days off, she is expected to do all the shopping, laundry, and child care because he needs a break. And they aren't even fundie, or really religious at all. 

I have no idea what she gets out of the relationship. His "sandwiches" can't be that tasty.

Ohhhhhhhh my gosh that is horrible!!!!! These ladies would have it sooooo much easier if they would divorce and be a single parent to a couple kids. At least they wouldn't have to take care of the man's bum ass!!! Eeeeew just disgusting. I really hope your friend will find a way to at least stand up to him, but I know with some people that is easier said than done. From what I understand, my friend's husband just laughs off whatever suggestion she makes about him doing more, and she is afraid to ask again. She used to go out with us, but now she isn't "allowed" to, for monetary reasons and because he can't cook. This girl's best friend asked her to dinner once, and suggested she leave her husband a frozen pizza to stick in the oven. Her answer? "Oh, he'd never even consider it!"

lazy bums!!!

[FakeJoshDuggar]

22 hours ago, Arwen Evenstar said:

I don’t either, but hopefully one our group will.

I always say, “climb down off the cross so Jesus can get back on.” I said it to my MiL once and we didn’t talk for four glorious years. 

[EVS]

37 minutes ago, FakeJoshDuggar said:

I always say, “climb down off the cross so Jesus can get back on.” I said it to my MiL once and we didn’t talk for four glorious years. 

I love this!  I have a couple of relatives I can’t wait to try it on. Maybe I’ll get lucky and they won’t talk to me for four years.

Edited October 20, 2017 by EVS

[floridamom]

From what I have heard about the fundy families is that the husband DOES WORK and is supposed to work and provide, even if it's for himself in his own business. The wife is supposed to be at home and PROVIDED FOR. I don't see Derick doing that...nor is Ben, nor is Joshua, don't know about Jeremy & Austin YET. The 'homes' that Derick has been "providing for Jill' have been not good ones except for the McMansion and the pool house THAT HER FATHER HAS PROVIDED FOR THEM... Derick you're not doing a good job at ANYTHING as of yet.

[ginger90]

And the fool is..........

Derick Dillard @derick4Him

“It is an honor for a man to keep aloof from strife, but every fool will be quarreling.” (Proverbs 20:3)

5:32 AM - 20 Oct 2017

[Aja]

35 minutes ago, ginger90 said:

And the fool is..........

Derick Dillard @derick4Him

“It is an honor for a man to keep aloof from strife, but every fool will be quarreling.” (Proverbs 20:3)

5:32 AM - 20 Oct 2017

Oh, now it's not because he doesn't have the time...it's because he's TOO HONORABLE. Truly God's representative on Earth. *holy tear*

[Triple P]

Another post got me thinking about the Dillard's housing situation. In recent pictures, they appear to be living in an apartment. Maybe they moved closer to the University or they are living on campus in married housing as part of their new "ministry"?

[kokapetl]

If Derick was being paid to work in Nepal, that seems sort of shady. Tour Guide is unskilled labour, and I’m sure there’s a surplus of unskilled labour in Nepal, then and now. What would the rationale behind granting him a work visa be?

Oh, and nice work assymetrically biting the hand that feeds you, Derick, and getting fired from the sweetest job you’ll ever know. But we should have seen this coming, reality tv stars succumb to chronic twitter fighting syndrome at a disproportionate rate. 

[Absolom]

On campus housing would only be an option if one of them were attending the university.  They're probably in a heavily student complex next to or very near the campus.  The "program" he's in may have heavily suggested it would be better to be right there every day all day rather than driving in from Tontitown or else Jill couldn't take the distance and wanted to be in walking distance of Derick at all times.

[Churchhoney]

5 hours ago, Kokapetl said:

If Derick was being paid to work in Nepal, that seems sort of shady. Tour Guide is unskilled labour, and I’m sure there’s a surplus of unskilled labour in Nepal, then and now. What would the rationale behind granting him a work visa be?

Oh, and nice work assymetrically biting the hand that feeds you, Derick, and getting fired from the sweetest job you’ll ever know. But we should have seen this coming, reality tv stars succumb to chronic twitter fighting syndrome at a disproportionate rate. 

I'm pretty sure he said he had a study visa. In some countries you can do a certain amount of part-time work when you're there on a study visa, so that's probably what he did. 

[madpsych78]

Hey Derick, your dumbass tweet about Target and the bathrooms doesn't say anything about women using men's bathrooms. Is your beef with all trans individuals, or just those that are MTF, like Jazz? Is the issue more with individuals embracing being female, or with men as predators? Because let's be real, some men who are predatory may be so with little boys in their own bathroom.

[Arwen Evenstar]

2 hours ago, madpsych78 said:

Hey Derick, your dumbass tweet about Target and the bathrooms doesn't say anything about women using men's bathrooms. Is your beef with all trans individuals, or just those that are MTF, like Jazz? Is the issue more with individuals embracing being female, or with men as predators? Because let's be real, some men who are predatory may be so with little boys in their own bathroom.

Dammit, you’re using critical thinking.  Not  something allowed in Duggarland.

[bigskygirl]

I saw on Facebook about Playboy having their first transgender centerfold. I am sure Dwerp and the rest of the Duggar clan heads will explode if they know about it. I would not be surprise if Dwerp, Jeremy, JB and especially Josh knows about the magazine.

Edited October 21, 2017 by bigskygirl

[Love2dance]

I think the ENTIRE contents of Playboy would make the Duggars’ heads explode. (Well, except for Josh.)

[bigskygirl]

Josh would definitely explode in a totally different way. I will now make the trip to the Prayer Closet.

[leighdear]

I think they've all accessed porn or at least salacious sites online.  I can't see any of them taking the risk of being seen with or buying an actual print magazine like "Playboy".  Jeremy, maybe in his athlete days, but more likely "Penthouse" or other mags aimed at younger guys.  "Playboy" is for our father's generation. 

We know Josh has made great use of Internet sites, so there's no mystery there.  I'm betting every one of them either with the last name Dugger, or married to one knows EXACTLY what naughty stuff is out there.  They may not go there regularly, but I know THEY know.  

Edited October 21, 2017 by leighdear

[Mya]

On 2017-10-19 at 2:42 PM, SMama said:

Derick Dillard‏ @derick4Him 57m57 minutes ago

If you don’t like something, don’t gripe about it, do something about it!

 

OK guys, he WANTS us to get him off TV.

I rewatched the latest episode and only saw Derick in one scene no talking just camera spanning the crowd at the wedding.  I am truly wondering if they are slowing backing away from him.  And all of Jill's talking heads were done with out him.  I guess time will tell.

[EarlGreyTea]

On 10/19/2017 at 2:51 PM, Lunera said:

But he sure has the time to read through all the comments, like the ones that agree with him, and look up Bible quotes to post in response to the backlash. 

He doesn't seem to realize that responding to haters on Twitter simply proves to everyone that he is letting them live rent-free in his head. I'm sure it's difficult to develop a tough skin and not respond to every little thing. But then you don't go on TV in that case. Who the hell cares what any of us thinks? Why is he wasting time responding to people he'll never meet? Don't give me that evangelizing b.s., because his sanctimonious ass isn't converting anyone. All he's doing is letting people irritate him when all he has to do is take his unemployed ass and log off Twitter.

He could take a lesson from Beyonce, not that he thinks she's anyone to emulate. She never responds to people, good or bad, rarely posts on social media, and hardly ever gives interviews. So, by not outwardly seeking public approval, she's slowly earned it simply because she doesn't appear to need it. Of course, by the age of 12 she was more talented and worked harder than this entire bunch of dopes, so there's that. They're probably those types who think Beyonce is a Black Panther.

Edited October 22, 2017 by EarlGreyTea

[floridamom]

It is unusual how Sam's birth was handled...almost nothing posted about it. The family has been unusually quiet and they haven't been seen much on the show yet. Something's not right here. Even Cathy has been more quiet about Sam. Just doesn't add up. I wonder if TLC really did fire them.

[RedheadZombie]

Men have always been allowed in the Target women's changing areas - it's co-ed.  My cousin and I were peeped on by a man when she was changing into a bra.  Being a tough ass, she charged out of the changing area, backed the man into a corner with a cart, and absolutely insisted the police be called (Target wanted to keep it quiet and escort the man out).  This was about twenty-five years ago.  The man had stalked us through the store, so I guess we shouldn't have been surprised when she looked up and he was straddling the bars of an adjoining changing area.  

[Sew Sumi]

The Gap is co-ed as well. I've never given it a second thought. But they don't sell bras, either. 

Back to the serial tweeter, some ruminations by someone with too much TIME on his hands...

[realityfan26]

Google is your friend Derick. 

[ChiCricket]

51 minutes ago, realityfan26 said:

Google is your friend Derick. 

Ha! Mine too..you "made me" have to Google it after your comment. :-)

[Sew Sumi]

As a nos. guy, you'd think he'd already know the answer. 

[cmr2014]

I bet Derick isn't "allowed" to use Google unless Jill is standing there breathing down his neck. I wonder if they are back on the Duggar payroll and Derick is required to use a JB approved phone with internet blocking.