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[Auntie Anxiety]

So I hope you all will RSVP for the weddings next week and wear something appropriate for the occasion. Have a great week, y’all.

[Doublemint]

1 minute ago, Grifter Lives said:

Isn't it his mother's ring?  She is actually obligated to give it back - breach of contract.  

She should keep it anyway.  Like Andrew, what's he going to do?

Yes - it's his Mother's ring, so she should return it.

Stay safe everyone and good luck making vaccine appts!

[LennieBriscoe]

Au revoir, mes  amis! I am off to watch, how you say, ze roundball!

[Ucross]

Stephanie to Harris: "I put something in your shorts...something for your TUMMY..." Ick. Haha he thinks the Benjamin is fake. It does look fake, but it's real.

[Armchair Critic]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

So I hope you all will RSVP for the weddings next week and wear something appropriate for the occasion. Have a great week, y’all.

I'll wear my red sweat pants in tribute to Zied!

[sainte-chapelle]

Good night all. Stay safe, wears masks and get those vaccinations 

[Grifter Lives]

4 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Michael just said "irregardless". He is DEAD to me. 

And, they captioned it, so you could read it, too.

[mmecorday]

Night, everyone! It's been a nice, relaxing weekend which usually means Monday will be cray-cray.

[For Cereals]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

So I hope you all will RSVP for the weddings next week and wear something appropriate for the occasion. Have a great week, y’all.

I will reserve my best un-faded, dog hair free yoga pants for the occasion.

[Angry Moldovan]

Nighty night peeps

[magemaud]

29 minutes ago, Armchair Critic said:

"You are my future wife" 😂 Harris is slick.

Brandon used the same line on Julia 

[TazDevil]

Great snark tonight peeps!!  The only thing missing was Tag Team and their SPRINKLES!!!

Have a great week!

[Gobi]

If the Jovi/Yara wedding happens in Vegas, will they stay in Vegas?

Till next week, I have to go retrieve a ring.

[tvrox]

43 minutes ago, TazDevil said:

Maybe not the best choice of luggage for transporting/storing the wedding dress, Becky?  I like how she shoved it down so she could zip up the suitcase.

Seriously, who folds up a wedding dress? 

[Arynm]

If this show is jerking Natalie around like this for the show.... I just can't believe she would go along with all this. She is legit upset, and everyone around her is not acting right. Mike is acting like this is just a little spat. Poor Tamara could pay for the room I'm sure but doesn't so she is suspect. I have no idea where this is going but I don't like it, it is not passing the smell test for me.

[Floatingbison]

Good night, everybodies!  

[Pepper Mostly]

7 minutes ago, Gobi said:

He could care less. 😄

You are treading on thin ice, @Gobi. Be wise in your choices from here. 

5 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Is it wrong that I cringed but also thought of you my friend?

If that is wrong I don't want to be right! 

[FrancescaFiore]

Really Mike? You leave a woman you know is emotionally fragile at the altar and then you hector her to give the ring back? Is he a sadist? I'm gobsmacked by his utterly sinister conduct. Also, that business with needing a physical credit card & not being able to book a room for someone else was some producer-contrived bullshit. I'm offended they think we're too dumb to notice their ham-handed plot interventions. 

See you all for more of this fuckery next week. 😂

[Pepper Mostly]

Good night peeps! Take care of yourselves and stay safe! Wear your masks! I'm so happy to see how many of us are getting vaxxed! 

[Tuneful]

Oh for Pete's sake about Tamara and Natalie "having to go back to Mike's." Tamara, you couldn't offer her a couch, or some quilts on the floor? (Let her and Mikey know you don't want any more scenes or you're calling the cops.) Nat couldn't spend the night in the airport? I've done it a couple of times and while it's not pleasant it's doable. It ain't a park bench. She can sleep when gets on the plane. She should be happy someone finally put this thing out of its misery. And Mike, STFU about the ring. Yes, I'd say a court might award it to you but come on, you're getting off easy, much cheaper than a divorce or a stroke--let this go, as much as you'd love to torture her some more in court. It just shows how petty he is, despite making a good living at a managerial job in IT...all these couples are downers. I think Zied has had all he could take of Rebecca's overwhelmed, greasy life (including, I bet, depression)--maybe he's going for the green card now. Sure would be less stress to just go down to the courthouse and plan a nice wedding when it's safer to do so.  

PS It's 2 hours one way to Seattle Tacoma Airport from Mike's town. If I were Tamara I'd just pay for the hotel myself just to put an end to the whole sorry mess. Priceline shows three good branded hotels showing rooms for tonight for $48 plus tax. Have him text you he will reimburse you. She and Nat must have some means between them. 

Edited March 22, 2021 by Tuneful
This show was a royal bummah

[TazDevil]

8 minutes ago, TazDevil said:

Does no one in that car have their own credit card????

Quoting myself because it's still bugging me.  MAYBE Tamara doesn't have a credit card... we don't know her financial situation.  But SURELY Nutalie has a credit card?  She's traveled and seen the world, even if she lived with her mom.  This just all seems like it's made up for the show 😡

[tvrox]

43 minutes ago, mmecorday said:

"I put a little something for you to eat in your shorts."

Do WHAT now?

So gross! Like she's his mother, and he's 10!! 

[Ucross]

7 minutes ago, tvrox said:

50 minutes ago, mmecorday said:

"I put a little something for you to eat in your shorts."

Do WHAT now?

So gross! Like she's his mother, and he's 10!! 

More like something for HER to eat in his shorts?

[Pondlass1]

I call TLC shenanigans on the credit card situation. TLC is making a fortune on this show, can’t they pay a measly motel bill?

I guess we’re all supposed to be excited for next week when Mike gives her a hug and all is forgiven.  He’s a loser. Ugh!

How is Natalie supposed to get from France to Ukraine without funds?

[Boston]

2 hours ago, greekmom said:

I dont understand what Stephanie sees in these young men. Her body look over 60.

Seriously., my bf and I are the same age and the sex is awesome.

She;'s just a messed up, drugged, up alcoholed up sex tourist.  My BF and I were 16 yrs. apart.  (me younger).  I could not get that GUY to get down (except when he took the medication to stop making him have pee runs 20 times a night.. 2 days later?  That guy was dead.  The prescription got thrown out.)  We had a hell of a time ALL OF THE TIME.  Sometimes things just work.. ahem.  Suzanne Somers (yikes!) but i get it.

[magemaud]

12 minutes ago, TazDevil said:

MAYBE Tamara doesn't have a credit card... we don't know her financial situation.  But SURELY Nutalie has a credit card?  She's traveled and seen the world, even if she lived with her mom.  This just all seems like it's made up for the show 😡

Umm, couldn’t Mike just authorize the hotel to pay for her room over the phone? 

[Frozendiva]

I booked my room online and I still had to present my physical card to the hotel when I check in.

[ChiMama]

2 hours ago, kacesq said:

 

Is it me or does that whole farmstead look run down?

 

Yes! And the inside must be worse — thinking back, it seems they do EVERYTHING/almost all their home scenes outside unless they show Brandon or Julia’s newly spiffed up bedrooms. 

[Ucross]

Who folds up a wedding dress, in a Ross Dress for Less $5 suitcase, no less.

[tvrox]

49 minutes ago, Angry Moldovan said:

Arsehole

Seriously!!! Go to hell Andrew. 

[ChiMama]

2 hours ago, TazDevil said:

 

Is Becky really the one to give fashion advice to anyone??

 

Yeah — did you see that fugly purse on the console?! 🙄

[ChiMama]

2 hours ago, Hotel Snarker said:

t’s a pandemic, obviously, fitting rooms are not going to be open.

And where were their masks?! It was driving me crazy. Oh yeah, Georgia. 

[tvrox]

55 minutes ago, hula-la said:

That’s nonsense. I’ve stayed in hotels that were prepaid by someone else and I didn’t need the person’s credit card (work reasons). I smell producer shenanigans. 

Yeah but I think they have to sign some kind of authorization in advance. 

[seasons]

2 hours ago, kacesq said:

Does Yara own nothing but tight white pants?

 

 

[Tuneful]

1 hour ago, Doublemint said:

Steph is buying love - and he's impressed baby!

What a dope. She should stop playing Ms. Moneybags if she wants to learn whether he's for real. Get a hotel room, treat him to a meal or two, bring a nice but not extravagant gift from the U.S., that's enough. She may mean well because of economic difficulties there, but cash and lavish gifts send the message you are an ATM and are paying for an escort, not a BF. Donate the stuff bought for Ryan to a local charity. Go home. Comb your hair. Get off the drugs/alcohol. Then look for a local man who's age-appropriate. These days, no one really cares if you date interracial, if that's your thing.  

[mamadrama]

1 hour ago, Emmeline said:

If Natalie wasn’t so convincing in her grief, I would think this is fake.  I can’t believe TLC went along with going back.  It would have been like torture for Natalie.  Then asking for the ring!  What the hell!  I would have slept in the airport before I would go back again.  Considering she is flying to Europe and seemed unsure as to how to get back to her home, how can she not have her own credit card or some cash??

This whole thing is pissing me off.

She may not have cash, though. She's been in the US for 3 months and can't work. We don't know how much she came over with.

That, and having a newborn, was the hardest thing on us when we got married. He'd sold his car and stuff and came over with some money, but between gas, groceries, stuff for the house, bills, and baby it all went in a few months. Being financially dependent upon me was very difficult for both of us. His first US job  was as a living historian at a pre-Revolution site. It paid minimum wage, but it got him out of the house and gave him pocket money. That alone was good for his ego. I hope Zied does something similar. A lot of us in the K1 community saw our spouses go through some major depression that first year, especially those of us who live in rural areas. 

I hate Mike. I hate Brandon and Jovi, too. They can all kiss my hiney. 

[seasons]

2 hours ago, LucyEth said:

Getting my first shot of Pfizer on Wednesday.  I get migraines, so a little worried.

I get migraines Too, got the Moderna march 6 and no migraine. Fingers crossed for second shot march 31

 

Good luck!

Got mine at CVS. Check their website in middle of night if someone needs to schedule. I got in online at 6:30 on  a Sunday morning.

Edited March 22, 2021 by seasons

[Kdawg82]

I *SO* can't blame Natalie for the rage. Beginning of Cov*d, most of us were super freaked out. Still are but back then wheeeeew! She told Mike like it is, "you're sending me to possibly get sick." Adding injury to Insult in this case...the insult is dumping her day of wedding & injury = the Cov*d or even mentall distress of possibly contracting this horrible virus. Getting stuck in France & maybe by luck getting to Ukraine. All the while mandatory quarantining so cut off from anyone who can console her.

The interaction with Beaux though...priceless! "I'm sorry.  I will not keep in touch. I can not." "Oh ok. Well have a nice life etc." And he looked like he DEFINITELY came dressed in his best wedding attire. On. Point. 

 

[ChiMama]

1 hour ago, Pepper Mostly said:

 

Here we go again. "I need to know if this is the right thing for me". YOU DID A FIANCE VISA! IT IS PAST THE POINT OF "FIGURING IT OUT". 

Gawd, my blood pressure.

 

If this is Brandon, I had the same thought when earlier in the episode he wished he had “more time to make sure they should get married” but “he had no choice” with the visa expiring. You’re supposed to be COMMITTED to marriage already when you apply for a FIANCÉE VISA, Brandumb. . . 

Edited March 22, 2021 by ChiMama

[mamadrama]

I hate it, and myself, when Brandon's parents make sense. 

 

[magemaud]

3 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

 

I booked my room online and I still had to present my physical card to the hotel when I check in.

 

Good point, hotels always take a print of your card in case you damage or steal something, charge something to your room or raid the mini bar. 

Edited March 22, 2021 by magemaud

[magemaud]

The theme of tonight’s episode was the American men demanding the foreign fiancées give them back their engagement rings  

 

[ColteesSpeedont]

On 3/21/2021 at 9:32 PM, Ucross said:

Who folds up a wedding dress, in a Ross Dress for Less $5 suitcase, no less.

I actually had to do this with my wedding dress when we traveled from Wisconsin to Arizona for our wedding last March (we got married March 15, 2020 - the weekend COVID shut down the US). Unfortunately our flight from Madison to Minneapolis didn't have a Captain's closet to hang the dress up in and I didn't want to be carrying my wedding dress in my arms through the airports in its garment bag. 

However unlike Becky my dress was in the carry on suitcase IN THE GARMENT BAG, and I attempted to fold it as nicely as possible to avoid it being crushed. I also had it steamed at a bridal store in Arizona before the wedding. That poor dress of Becky's was treated like an afterthought. 

Edited March 23, 2021 by ColteesSpeedont
Clarification

[Frozendiva]

7 minutes ago, magemaud said:

Good point, hotels always take a print of your card in case you damage or steal something, charge something to your room or raid the mini bar. 

Last hotel I stayed at was a Fairmont one. The mini bar was well stocked. I moved a couple of items to make room for my own stuff. Common business practice.

[Guest]

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Edited March 22, 2021 by artisto

[Angel pie]

8 hours ago, Arynm said:

Poor Tamara could pay for the room I'm sure but doesn't so she is suspect. I have no idea where this is going but I don't like it, it is not passing the smell test for me.

Why couldn't Natalie stay with Tamara overnight, then driven to the airport the day of?

[Baltimore Betty]

10 hours ago, hisbunkie said:

We live in Baltimore County, husband and I had our second vaccine about three weeks ago.  All was done at the County Fair, very well executed.  New to Md. (2yrs) impressed by how well it went.  And I totally agree I felt so relieved.

I'm in Baltimore County as well, Timonium is really well run, our appointments were at St. Joe's, quick and easy too. My son has been working weekends at vaccine centers, he told me that last weekend 23% of appointments at Prince Georges General Hospital were no shows, unreal.

Is it ashame that the next big thing to happen in my neck of the woods is the new Lidle that is being built? LOL.

[Baltimore Betty]

9 hours ago, tvrox said:

Seriously, who folds up a wedding dress? 

I want to know if she wore that dress to one of her previous weddings, it's a halter, when was the last time we saw a halter style dress on SYTTD?

Rebecca seems to really enjoy the thrill of the hunt but when it comes down to the actual wedding she starts to lose interest and suddenly unsure if it is the right thing to do.

Loved her driving the car, complaining about everything to Zied, Zied saying nothing, not even reacting, just thinking about the next few decades he will have to listen to her bitch, moan and complain. Ha Ha Ha.  Side bar, my friend's first wedding, the organist from the church quit a week prior, the church had been sold to someother religion, hers was the last wedding with that particular religion, the florist burned down, she was wearing her mother's wedding dress which their marriage ended in divorce, the grooms ex wife attended the wedding shower, (invited by future MIL), and the wedding, that marriage was over before it started, Rebecca should listen to the universe.

Natalie and Tamara, not exactly Thelma and Louise.  Natalie did not have a penny to her name? How does that happen? Does nobody plan anything for emergencies? Tamara couldn't come up with any money either?  There was a ton of shit in her car and that was after she said she had to empty her car so there would be room for Natalie's luggage, can only imagine how she had a car seat in there, some kid getting crushed under all that junk.

Jovi, "it's almost time to go to the hotel bar," I hope Yara realizes that it will always be "drink o'clock" for Jovi.

Betty's hair.

Irregardless.

Stephanie is hopeful that Harris's baby mamma or wife is okay with their relationship, this is after she and Harris shacked up.  She put a snack in his shorts? Here is $100 for snacks...once again, she is buying someone with trinkets and cash.  I would love to know what her bar bill was from that hotel.

Tarik hires a stripper for Hazel's bachelorette party, a party held in broad daylight and everyone was sober...it looked awkward.  Hazel says she likey the stripper, no surprise there.  I am comparing that party to the RHOA bachelorette party for Cynthia with Bolo, it  was raunchy but everyone had fun, Hazel's crew looked embarrased.  So Hazel has a friend she met on Instagram years ago, interesting.  Hazel seems joyless.

 

[Boston]

12 hours ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

J&J here. One and done. Which is great because I’m lazy.

Hahaha!  Good for you!.  I still haven't been eligible (I thought I had an 'illness' ala OLD Stephanie, but turns out no).  My dad got his last month in MD, but none of the rest of my family - even one teacher- has had their vaccines (oh, my mother did but i don't count her)  - Massachusetts is a shit show.. my town is now in the RED again - hotspot.  I'm hoping for the J&J because I am lazy too

11 hours ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Zied's sister is right. I dated someone who had been in several long term relationships. Turns out he had some issues he refused to work through.

Zied needs to join all the other 'women' on the crazy train to back home. (Yara, Julia, Nutalie, Amira (what a piece of work).

[Boston]

11 hours ago, Armchair Critic said:

I was just thinking that, on the last episode she crawled in the bed with Raymond

With all the shitty news this past year, I think I've watched every episode of Raymond - man, that show makes me laugh!  Great Covid/US news relief.