I am 💯% in agreement. If a mother is dating, she should not be allowing her boyfriend to spend time with her kids unless and until there is an engagement ring on her finger. It’s not fair to the kids. I wonder if she ever asked Jose how he felt toward her kids or if she thought he’d decide to embrace the idea of stepkids over time. That being said, if having an instant family was a deal breaker, he should have stated that up front.
I bet Myrla spouts the inclusion/tolerance/embrace diversity mantra in her job, but is clearly a snob who looks down at the people who remind her of her upbrin