Fear not, Colfrmb, I shan't yell. I consider the snark here to be all in good fun...for all we know, any shenanigan could be producer scripted.
But you have inspired me to play matchmaker: Dinyel and Mike. 4-EVAH. Except for the ginger, they even look alike.
Mrs. Hanson, about your wedding dress, it sounds like you have a good perspective!! We women (especially, IMO) can be hard on ourselves when our bodies change, and believe me, from midlife into the senior years mine has, even though I eat, and exercise, moderately. Some of the clothes I've had to give away have been nice but I