Jill, Derick & the Kids: Moving On!!

[Catfin]

The henna thing was in for the mid-teen group wasn't it? Then ongoing  for those for whom it was cultural. 

[mythoughtis]

Here we are celebrating Jill for a nose stud, jeans and henna.  Over on the duggarfamilyblog, the commenters are very judgmental of Jill’s changes in beliefs,  while ripping TLC in the next sentence for being intolerant of Dericks’ beliefs. 

I do hope Jill continues to blossom. 

[ariel]

Is Jill really blossoming or is it damage control for Derick and his crazy beliefs?

Edited December 5, 2017 by ariel

[Mollie]

2 hours ago, Luvmy300zx said:

Keeping a picture of your husband in your Bible and looking at it when you read and have your quiet time is creepy, just creepy!

How does Jill keep her mind on God while she is staring at a picture of Derick?

 "No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other." Matthew 6:24

[MonicaM]

I know people who keep a list of names in their Bibles of family and friends who are in need of prayer.  Maybe Jill keeps her husband's picture in hers to remind her how desperately he needs prayer to improve his attitude??

[Heathen]

1 hour ago, Whyyouneedaname said:

i thought the tat was on her right hand ? nevermind I just looked back and its the left....she likes showing it off ;)

Looks like she did her nails with Wite-Out. 

[truebluesmoky]

In response to one of her recent Instagram posts, she had a discussion with a fan who asked about finding time to connect with her husband with two small children. Jill mentioned putting Israel in a crib or playpen with a movie on to spend uninterrupted time with Derick. Presented without comment, as I try not to mom shame, but I will say that it didn't sit right with me.

[TresGatos]

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#deathwasarrested

Huh? What does this even mean? It sound like the plot to an episode of Family Guy.

[Natalie68]

1 hour ago, ariel said:

 She really wants to show us how cool she is with that temporary tattoo.  Did she choose the baby's blanket to match it?

Nah, its the brown towel Jessa used for birthin' Spurge.  They just got around to doing the laundry.  <JOKE!>.  Maybe...

[Aja]

It makes me so angry. Not putting your kid in front of the TV to get a minute to breathe; but the fact that Jill says that she's just another harried, over-stressed Mom trying to keep the love embers alive too. Because it's total bullshit. TOTAL bullshit. And it's giving brainwashed young women, who already loathe themselves enough to turn their entire will and physical well-being over to some man, some seriously dangerous complexes. There are certain "standards" in our culture that I have zero idea how they came into being because none of them are remotely realistic. Being a joyfully available supermom is one of them. Being skinny is another one. I'm super skinny, and I have been my whole life. Not impressive at 22, but at 42, people comment about it a lot. Like seriously, a shocking amount of a lot. How do you stay so SKINNY?? I've tried EVERYTHING! God, I hate you! You must never eat! If I was Jill, I'd be all "well, being a busy, single gal with a full time important-businessperson job, I simply wake up extra early every morning to get in my hour of cardio and hour of strength training, and of course I only eat raw vegetables and protein." But because I'm me, here's the big fuckin' secret: I was born that way. Everyone in my family is spindly. Also: I've never been pregnant. Also: my full-time important-businessperson job is so stressful that I eat horribly. I eat garbage, and not very often. The first thing that goes when I'm stressed is my appetite and, believe me, this does NOT make me a lucky person. I'd MUCH rather carry a few extra pounds than feel nauseated literally every single day. Also: being extremely thin at 42 when you haven't exercised in years is not necessarily a pretty sight. Skin doesn't stay 20 year-old firm. Please trust me.

See? Being honest isn't hard. And I hope all the women who sit around torturing themselves because they "aren't skinny" take heed, the same way I would hope Jill's leghumpers would take heed.

Edited December 5, 2017 by Aja

[Fostersmom]

2 hours ago, Luvmy300zx said:

I think it's henna. Doesn't look real. Goes back to her emotional age....

It's definitely henna, it's already fading from the first pic. 

[Westiepeach]

1 hour ago, ariel said:

Is Jill really blossoming or is it damage control for Derick and his crazy beliefs?

My vote is for damage control. Takes the attention off of Derick. "Oooh look! Jilly Muffin is wearing PANTS!"

[Minivanessa]

Jill's changes in looks and clothes could also be an attempt to look more relatable to the college crowd that's Dillweed's target group for his ministry.

[bigskygirl]

2 hours ago, ariel said:

Derick looks like a serial killer in that picture.  Not an image I would want in a book of worship.

Derick and a few of the older Duggar sons and JB remind me of scary creepy stalkers/killers from a bad Lifetime television movie. Jeremy reminds of a fundie Ted Bundy serial killer type.

I was watching Designing Women again with the one episode where Charlene's minister voted against women being ministers. Someone brought up that people use the bible and scriptures in order to promote their prejudice. *Ding* *Ding* Dwerp and the rest of the Duggar clan was the first group who came to mind.

[Sew Sumi]

Derelict's latest crusade:

https://twitter.com/derickmdillard/status/938135828198559744

[Annb67]

1 hour ago, ariel said:

Is Jill really blossoming or is it damage control for Derick and his crazy beliefs?

Bingo!! How convenient that it showed up right as Derick got canned.

[Natalie68]

2 minutes ago, Sew Sumi said:

Derelict's latest crusade:

https://twitter.com/derickmdillard/status/938135828198559744

You know, if I were the praying type I think I would be praying for 40 miles south of me (Ventura County) and all the folks losing their homes right about now rather than some bigoted baker.  I am thinking if there is a God, his hands are full with real important stuff.  Not cake and the whims of a crazy entitled dude who grifts.

[Annb67]

Do I have to pray NOW? Do I have to pray for just what you said or can it be that we would learn to show love and acceptance to others and not judgemental hate? Just curious....

[Aja]

I still haven't made my Aja4Her Twatter account yet, so could someone ask Derelict if baking a cake for a gay couple means you're super cool with homosexuality, what does voting for Roy Moore mean you're super cool with?

[Natalie68]

10 minutes ago, Aja said:

I still haven't made my Aja4Her Twatter account yet, so could someone ask Derelict if baking a cake for a gay couple means you're super cool with homosexuality, what does voting for Roy Moore mean you're super cool with?

Aja, twitter needs someone with your snark!  SIGN up!

[ariel]

44 minutes ago, Sew Sumi said:

45 minutes ago, Sew Sumi said:

Derelict's latest crusade:

https://twitter.com/derickmdillard/status/938135828198559744

If that passes, maybe I will open a cake shop that doesn't make cakes for the Gothard cult.  It's against my spiritual beliefs.

[ginger90]

Pray about a cake..........what freaking world does he live in? 

He's not even a dick, he's a dildo.

[bigskygirl]

I am tempted on telling Dwerp my one cousin who is gay had his own business which he had to give up because people would not accept him and his partner in the small town they were in. Should my cousin not serve people who thought he was a heathen and would rot in hell because he fall in love with a nice guy instead of a woman. Makes me want to slap the crap out of Dwerp and his kind. So much for accepting others.

[Jynnan tonnix]

14 minutes ago, ginger90 said:

Pray about a cake..........what freaking world does he live in? 

He's not even a dick, he's a dildo.

Ha! Can I give a gazillion likes for this? Never heard it before If it's original you should copyright it! LOL

[FakeJoshDuggar]

17 hours ago, Lunera said:

I think Jill's whole nose stud and now the henna tattoo is Derick exposing Jill to Nepalese culture. I still think he encouraged the piercing, he probably found the women there very attractive and wants Jill to adopt a similar look. Derick did mention once (in response to his a pro trans person) that it doesn't matter how Nepalese he felt he would never be Nepalese. 

My mama, god rest her soul, would have snatched Jill up by her raggedy ass in one heartbeat for the state of her nails. As a fine southern lady (who would tell you to go fuck yourself in the nicest way possible) she taught me that if you can’t keep up appropriate maintenance on your nails, you have no business painting them in the first place. If it chips, go take it off or paint over the chip.  Along with being an anal retentive gift wrapper, my dad was artsy and would paint my nails every night. (It’s the nicest memory I have of him. Why am I over sharing?!) Anyway, go fix your damn nails, Jill, the chipped color draws attention to the stubby, chewed nature of your hands. It’s not a good look. 

9 hours ago, WhineandCheez said:

WHY IS NO ONE SHOUTING OUT TO THE MUSTARD CARDIGAN????

Jills’s Mustard Cardigan needs it’s own Twitter account. 

Edited December 5, 2017 by FakeJoshDuggar

[bigskygirl]

1 hour ago, ginger90 said:

Pray about a cake..........what freaking world does he live in? 

He's not even a dick, he's a dildo.

With a flick of my bic, I can still tell he is a dick.

Edited December 5, 2017 by bigskygirl

[sixlets]

1 hour ago, Jynnan tonnix said:

Ha! Can I give a gazillion likes for this? Never heard it before If it's original you should copyright it! LOL

Our old neighbor would get drunk, and go sit on the sidewalk yelling at cars to slow down on our street.  Mind you, we have a speed bump directly in front of our house.  His wife tried to get him back in the house on evening, and he called (well, yelled) her a dildo.  Poor dude drank himself to death though.

[Fuzzysox]

10 hours ago, WhineandCheez said:

WHY IS NO ONE SHOUTING OUT TO THE MUSTARD CARDIGAN????

Hey, I just got here give me a chance! Mustard sweater 3.0 must DIE a slow death by having an accident in the washing machine!!!!!!!

5 hours ago, ariel said:

 She really wants to show us how cool she is with that temporary tattoo.  Did she choose the baby's blanket to match it?

That's Spurgy's birth blanket/towel! Just a hand me down.

[FakeJoshDuggar]

God, Jill is such a twelve year old. Her quiet time involves “journaling song lyrics.”  Next she’ll be getting a training bra and  making unhealthy relationship goals from watching My So Called Life. (Wait, that’s what I did at 12.)

[GeeGolly]

 I hope Jill's Henna was spontaneous. Can you imagine planning that and showing up with the painted fingernails of a 5 year old? I'm starting to think the nose bump may actually be a nose ring. And jeans again. I always felt Jill's Fundyism was shallow because, well, she's Jill, but I never felt Jill thought her beliefs were shallow. Now I'm all kinds of confused about her new style choices. Why? Because she wants too? Because she's around the college culture? Because they're not featured on the show anymore? Because her MIL & SIL where pants? What is God thinking about all this defraudment? Or is she even thinking about it at all? Maybe I'm thinking more about it all than Jill.

And Derick needs to calm the fuck down with his calls for prayer. I'm not sure Jesus would think highly of calling on prayer for hate.  Derick's Tweets make me think of swears I didn't even know I knew. And I swear like a sailor.

[FakeJoshDuggar]

2 minutes ago, GeeGolly said:

 I hope Jill's Henna was spontaneous. Can you imagine planning that and showing up with the painted fingernails of a 5 year old? I'm starting to think the nose bump may actually be a nose ring. And jeans again. I always felt Jill's Fundyism was shallow because, well, she's Jill, but I never felt Jill thought her beliefs were shallow. Now I'm all kinds of confused about her new style choices. Why? Because she wants too? Because she's around the college culture? Because they're not featured on the show anymore? Because her MIL & SIL where pants? What is God thinking about all this defraudment? Or is she even thinking about it at all? Maybe I'm thinking more about it all than Jill.

And Derick needs to calm the fuck down with his calls for prayer. I'm not sure Jesus would think highly of calling on prayer for hate.  Derick's Tweets make me think of swears I didn't even know I knew. And I swear like a sailor.

I just think it’s a quarter life crisis. 

[Marigold]

The lyrics in the song she journaled are interesting

"I'm free"

We can read a lot into that. 

[ariel]

25 minutes ago, FakeJoshDuggar said:

God, Jill is such a twelve year old. Her quiet time involves “journaling song lyrics.”  Next she’ll be getting a training bra and  making unhealthy relationship goals from watching My So Called Life. (Wait, that’s what I did at 12.)

Psst - Jill,  your writing sounds like that of a stoner.  Please put down the hash pipe before you post.

[cmr2014]

50 minutes ago, FakeJoshDuggar said:

God, Jill is such a twelve year old. Her quiet time involves “journaling song lyrics.”  Next she’ll be getting a training bra and  making unhealthy relationship goals from watching My So Called Life. (Wait, that’s what I did at 12.)

I'm afraid I have to agree 100%. It's not just that this is super-duper dumb and juvenile, but that she thinks it's "deep," and she thinks, somehow, that this is worth posting. She's obviously working on improving their image (while Derick is busy praying for cakes), and this is the best she can deliver. 

They really do need to stop having kids. There is just no reason for this particular gene pool to continue propagating.

[awaken]

It’s quiet devotional time between you and god. Not something to be displayed on instagram word for word for the world to see. 

[Heathen]

There's a derickmdillard Twitter and a derick4him. He's got two? 

[Rabbittron]

4 hours ago, ginger90 said:

Pray about a cake..........what freaking world does he live in? 

He's not even a dick, he's a dildo.

Don't give dildos a bad name?

[galaxychaser]

That mustard shirt is hideous.  

[Arwen Evenstar]

13 hours ago, WhineandCheez said:

WHY IS NO ONE SHOUTING OUT TO THE MUSTARD CARDIGAN????

Because Mustard Sari is the new It Thing.

[SuspiciousMind]

I'm currently in Nail Tech school (mid-life career change -whoooohoo!!) and her nails make me want to cry.  

[Temperance]

2 hours ago, FakeJoshDuggar said:

God, Jill is such a twelve year old. Her quiet time involves “journaling song lyrics.”  Next she’ll be getting a training bra and  making unhealthy relationship goals from watching My So Called Life. (Wait, that’s what I did at 12.)

Her journaling is a long passage from a song, and a bible verse. She cites them correctly. These are quotes not her words. I have to admit I have kept quotes I like to inspire me around.  I've even had a therapist or two recommend it.  I'm not sure I would journal it though for the whole internet to see. Death was Arrested is too religious for my taste, but it has a modern pop/country sound and it sound okay. (Googled it so I could hear it.) I don't remember the rules Duggars had about music, but it has drums (starts without the drums but builds to the drums) and I seem to recall them not listening to music with drums, so there's that.

Edited December 6, 2017 by Temperance

[Sew Sumi]

Yeah, I just googled the song, and her "journal" is nothing more than the song lyrics and a bible verse. Nothing of how this affects HER life. At least I was correct in assuming that the death was arrested bit was the resurrection. As a lifelong atheist, other than  being forced into it, or in adulthood, trying on this religion or that for a time just to see, even I sussed that one out. 

[Lunera]

When you're way more stylish than your 26 year old daughter in law. It seriously looks like Jill has been raiding Michelle's closet. 

They look so dirty and unkempt next to Dan and Deena.

[Sew Sumi]

I'm pretty sure this pic came from the Cross Church dedication. I remember the Dullards' wardrobe and Izzy's shirt. Not to mention, Cathy sent Dan and Deena to a Christian marriage retreat last weekend. Pic not recent. 

eta: confirmation. 

Edited December 6, 2017 by Sew Sumi

[Celia Rubenstein]

I am totally cutting Jill slack for all of this .... the nose piercing, the tattoos, the dippy posts, the awkward fashion experimentation  ...she may be a 26 year old married mother of two but she's a least a decade behind in her development as a young woman due to her upbringing and isolation. I'm not gonna blame her for that.  I'm  just gonna hope she continues to explore life and that she finds her way out of the long dark Fundie tunnel she was born into and achieves some kind of meaningful happiness.

Edited December 6, 2017 by Celia Rubenstein

[Quilt Fairy]

5 hours ago, Rabbittron said:

Don't give dildos a bad name?

 Preach it!  Dildos serve a useful purpose.  Dwerp, not so much.

 

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They look so dirty and unkempt next to Dan and Deena.

They'd look dirty and unkempt next to a homeless person.

Edited December 6, 2017 by Quilt Fairy

[ariel]

3 hours ago, Lunera said:

When you're way more stylish than your 26 year old daughter in law. It seriously looks like Jill has been raiding Michelle's closet. 

They look so dirty and unkempt next to Dan and Deena.

Is it too much to hope that Dan is drinking an adult beverage?

[GeeGolly]

This whole cake thing is pissing me off. Does Derick realize that people in the LGBTQ community are typical humans who purchase homes, cars, food, etc? They need and receive medical care - again typical human rights. And he is calling on prayers to allow others to deny the LGBTQ folks of these rights. 

Its not just a wedding cake Derick. 

Does Derick think its okay to deny people of color a job or renting an apartment or sitting in the front of a bus? Would it be okay with him if he was purchasing a house and the seller said, oh wait oops, you're a Fundamental Christian, sorry. He's is hate Tweeting again. 

How do folks navigate life with so much hate in their hearts. It must be exhaustingly sad.

[floridamom]

Is Derick growing his hair out again and going for that scruffy look? I agree that Cathy looks great here. Take some lessons, Jill.

[ginger90]

8 hours ago, Heathen said:

 

 

8 hours ago, Heathen said:

There's a derickmdillard Twitter and a derick4him. He's got two? 

Around the time he set up the gofundme, for whatever reason the Derick4Him went poof and he became Derickm .

No offense to dildos was intended, lol!

Remember when Cathy posted about a possible strip club, and she asked peoole to pray? The way it was worded, it wasn't clear if she wanted prayers for or against? That's the way Dericks tweet read too,

Derick Dillard @derickmdillard

All Christians need to be praying for the #MasterpieceCakeshop case today. It’s a landmark case that will determine much future thought regarding religious liberties in our country. Please pray now!

This story was local to me. 

http://m.republicanherald.com/news/bakery-declines-to-make-cake-for-same-sex-couple-1.1736332