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Gobi
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Those kids did more research into a fiance's culture than anyone else on this franchise.

magemaud
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I can tell you from personal experience this forum is the best thing for keeping you distracted. I went through a year of breast cancer treatment and they were mostly on Mondays. Sunday nights the for

VioletNevermind
VioletNevermind

My 73-year-old mom watches this occasionally when she needs a chuckle.  I just texted her, “Thank you for always being such a normal mother who didn’t chase 25-year-old ass all over the globe.”  Her r

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Scarlett45

Scarlett45

Just now, Eldemarge said:

What is the purpose of a "wedding website?"  Can someone explain this?   Is it like a FB post where people can comment?   

To provide information to your guests. Links to your registry, accommodation information etc. quite handy because there have been a few weddings where I didn’t put the invite in my purse and had to find the address on the website to get to the reception. They also have pictures, “how we met”, engagement story etc. 

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magemaud

magemaud

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I wish I could read the mind of the bridal shop saleswoman as Kalani and Co. left. I was half expecting to hear the voiceover guy from SYTTD, “Emotions run high as Kalani  and her entourage leave the salon empty-handed...” 

and did Kolini refer to herself as “Auntie B?” Three guesses what the B stands for! 

Wonder why Mama is on crutches. 

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TigerLily20

TigerLily20

I seriously just realized that I live in the same state as Steven.....I have an overwhelming urge to go find him and show him how much we appreciate him....I have never had such a violent reaction to a person on this show before

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configdotsys

configdotsys

She never dated a black guy before? Wasn't one of her previous fiance's a person of color?

What is this wedding web page? I have seen registry pages that list things the couple wants but I have never in my life seen a "wedding web site" that contained a comment thread.

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Chippings

Chippings

In the previous season I wondered on this board if somebody in Production wouldn't feel compelled to talk confidentially to the naive foreign person who was obviously in a very bad situation (as Lesia just said, above) - and someone who had read or knew about reality show production pointed out that the worse it gets, the happier they are 'cause it's "good tv".   This is really sickening, though.  Even if that is true, is there no human person on the production team ??    It doesn't seem as if this is producer-generated behavior, but Steven is the creep he seems.  Help, somebody ??!!    

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Neurochick

Neurochick

1 minute ago, Armchair Critic said:

What is this the 1950's? I live in a conservative religious community and nobody would blink if you are in an interracial couple. How is she getting all those racist comments? Disgusting.

Doesn’t surprise me, look at the leadership in the USA Today.

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For Cereals

For Cereals

1 minute ago, Eldemarge said:

What is the purpose of a "wedding website?"  Can someone explain this?   Is it like a FB post where people can comment?   

We used one for RSVPs and to give guests info on where to stay or what to see,  you can use them for your registry, etc. but it was only open to our guests.

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tincansailor981

tincansailor981

Just now, magemaud said:

I wish I could read the mind of the bridal shop saleswoman as Kalani and Co. left. I was half expecting to hear the voiceover guy from SYTTD, “Emotions run high as Kalani  and her entourage leave the salon empty-handed...” 

and did Koloni refer to herself as “Auntie B?” Three guesses what the B stands for! 

Wonder why Mama is on crutches. 

She hurt it when her Neanderthal husband tried to mate with her.

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Adeejay

Adeejay

Why is it that Ashley and Jay are getting so much blowback for being an interracial couple, when Melanie and Devar didn't?  Is this real or is it for storyline?  I can't but believe TLC is behind this. 

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lucy711

lucy711

Just now, Major Bigtime said:

There have been interracial couples on this show before. Never been so much drama. 

Something tells me Ashley has cooked something up online for the show.

Maybe.  You are right that we haven't seen that before.  Did their wedding website get accidentally posted to some Neo-Nazi group?

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configdotsys

configdotsys

3 minutes ago, Scarlett45 said:

To provide information to your guests. Links to your registry, accommodation information etc. quite handy because there have been a few weddings where I didn’t put the invite in my purse and had to find the address on the website to get to the reception. They also have pictures, “how we met”, engagement story etc. 

I totally get that and have seen tons of those. I have never seen one with a comment area. If there is a comment area, Ashley should have first gone to the site, logged in and disabled the ability to leave comments.

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JenE4

JenE4

Wow. Are these “friends” or relatives of Ashley that are this disgustingly racist, or do crazy racists just go trolling through wedding sites looking for interracial couples?! That’s scary!

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Scarlett45

Scarlett45

Just now, Major Bigtime said:

I agree. He’s not only a creep, he’s damn scary.

I agree. He’s also scary because he can be very nice and normal and turn on a dime. Even under the BEST possible interperation of his actions I don’t like the way he is treating Olga after she had major surgery and is caring for an infant, much less HIS infant. 

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Baltimore Betty

Baltimore Betty

Did I just see a mylar balloon shaped like an egagement ring floating in the back of Ashely's car?  Is she throwing her own bridal shower?

Ashley and Jay putting themselves out there on social media and tv..expect comments.  If Ashley did not want to hear others to weigh in then she should not have put it out there.  

Leida, go home.  I don't want to hear that Eric does not have enough money for you repeatedly and that you are pissed about the court ordered child support, I bet you would be okay with it if it was for your kid.  The flower budget is going to be doubled for a 25 person wedding is stupid, put the money toward a non inflateable couch.

Run Olga, run.

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sainte-chapelle

sainte-chapelle

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I happily snark on Jay and Ashley for their poor decisions but no one deserves those disgusting comments. No snark today,  that is horrifying. Horrible thing to say but wonder if Ashley's EX bff had anything to do with his.

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Pepper Mostly

Pepper Mostly

5 minutes ago, Cammi said:

Can we set up a gofundme to pay someone to punch Steven in his fucking mouth? 

Heh. I'll cheerfully punch him for free. 

3 minutes ago, magemaud said:

I wish I could read the mind of the bridal shop saleswoman as Kalani and Co. left. I was half expecting to hear the voiceover guy from SYTTD, “Emotions run high as Kalani  and her entourage leave the salon empty-handed...” 

and did Koloni refer to herself as “Auntie B?” Three guesses what the B stands for! 

Wonder why Mama is on crutches. 

She injured herself kicking herself in the ass for producing such a repellent brood of offspring. 

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Scarlett45

Scarlett45

1 minute ago, configdotsys said:

I totally get that and have seen tons of those. I have never seen one with a comment area. If there is a comment area, Ashley should have first gone to the site, logged in and disabled the ability to leave comments.

I agree. No reason why there needs to be a comment section. She likely turned it on to drum up publicity for the show?

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iwasish

iwasish

4 minutes ago, kacesq said:

Where is Ashley reading?

Why is she reading that shit to Jay?

Why do I wonder if she wants to call the wedding off and is using this as an excuse?

Is Jay the first black guy she’s dated? 

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HappyDancex2

HappyDancex2

Just now, Major Bigtime said:

There have been interracial couples on this show before. Never been so much drama. 

Something tells me Ashley has cooked something up online for the show.

This is reserved for the bottom of the barrel couples when they don't have any storyline.  Subjecting him to those comments is really cruel. 

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Armchair Critic

Armchair Critic

3 minutes ago, JennyMominFL said:

Im thinking a lot of people here really dont know what it can be like for Black people in America.... even in liberal  diverse places

I don't want to turn this into a debate but it is sad and I know as a white person I don't know the realities of what a person of color goes through.

On a lighter note I have been fat shamed. :P

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CraftyHazel

CraftyHazel

At the beginning of this season, I really liked Stephen.  I thought it was sweet how he wanted to be involved in his son’s life, and when Olga met him at the train, the two of them were so adorable the melted my heart.

Now, I want to slap the smirk right off that little shit.  What a creepy, abusive, jackass he is!!

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Quilty

Quilty

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I can't watch Olga & Steven. It's too real. He's so abusive to her. She's doing her best to be a good mother and he's jealous. I'll just ff through them. It's so sad.

Run Olga Run!!

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lucy711

lucy711

1 minute ago, Granny58 said:

I was in Mechanicsburg twice over the last few days.   It's a nice place.  If she is getting A LOT of ignorant comments I would think they are coming from around the country.

I don't know why she would assume those comments are from Mechanicsburg.  If it's on the Internet, they could be coming from anywhere in the USA, or heck, outside the USA, too.  I've come across plenty of racism in other countries too.

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iwasish

iwasish

10 minutes ago, Straycat80 said:

Seriously, I would not normally think this is the best but Steven needs to go home and  get out of that baby’s life forever. That baby’s life would be better and safer without Steven in it. I picture Steven getting physically abusive.

I think he thinks he’s going to leave Russia with “HIS SON” leaving Olga there. His ego is that big. 

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tincansailor981

tincansailor981

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7 hours ago, Major Bigtime said:

There have been interracial couples on this show before. Never been so much drama. 

Something tells me Ashley has cooked something up online for the show.

Living where she does, it's not surprising.  The cloak of anonymity the internet gives can be used for fun, like we do, or it can hide the really evil side of humanity.  If you're a person of color, it comes with the territory.  I've caught many so called friends talking shit about people of my ilk when they thought i wouldn't find out.

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