He said he was "disappointed", which IIRC was in regard to her height, but I got the feeling it was an overall disappointment, but he wasn't going to actually say it. Amber is cute, but on the plainer side, & I think Matt felt as an athlete he should have a hot wife & he's bummed.
I think it could go either way; it depends on the couple/people involved. I'm not sure I've witnessed any love at first sight on this show, except for maybe Bobby (not Danielle). I tend to think it mostly needs time & effort to grow into love - you're very blessed!
I do feel bad for Amber too; I think she's going to get hurt (& she is getting hurt already).
Not arrogance, but I do think he's cold & might lack empathy. I don't trust him at all & agree something is "off" with him.
I think JamieO saw Doug as her way to get more gigs - sounds cold & nasty but she is such a fame whore that's what I think. Although I do see some chemistry between them, I don't think she's really into him as he's more of a means to an end (family, some 'fame', etc).
Yeah I was surprised on the clothing change as well - both Amber & Liz, who had been on the show before, were also dressed differently. Someone in charge has been reading our comments LOL.