S10.E04: War and P.O.S

[noveltylibrary]

I just knew prescription drugs were going to be Sonja's excuse.

[nexxie]

Wow, what a shit fest!

Remind me never to accept a lunch or dinner invitation from this crew.

[Rhetorica]

I haven't watched Real Housewives in almost four years.  Nothing has changed... I'll just quote Bart Simpson, "I didn't know something could suck and blow at the same time."

[Keywestclubkid]

Is Sonja suffering from early onset Alzheimer’s? I swear to god she talks about a topic people react to that topic then she ask why they are talking about that topic like she wasn’t the one who brought it up because she’s totally bringing up a new topic mid old topic. She is the perpetual victim. I love she says she misses her old life not her husband lol you miss his money the parties the name he came with lol good god this woman is exhausting 

Edited April 26, 2018 by Keywestclubkid

[TexasGal]

The most shocking thing so far is how well Lu and Bethenny are getting along.  Sonja - crazy, check.  Ramona - crazy, check.  Dorinda - lushy yelling, check.

[Alonzo Mosely FBI]

OMG how many meals can these gals be forced to sit through together in the span of one weekend ? 

Sonja isn’t herself she is off I don’t like the pile on it is nearing KKB Scary Island territory. Sonja is unhealthy right now, Luann is the only one seeing the forest thru the trees. 

Dennis is still married. Luann was right at the reunion. Bethenny was then, and still is dating a married man. Period. Close your legs to married men. 

Ramonas house is a trip so dated! Tara meets South of Montauk Highway 1996. 

[nexxie]

4 minutes ago, Keywestclubkid said:

Is Sonja suffering from early onset Alzheimer’s? I swear to god she talks about a topic people react to that topic then she ask why they are talking about that topic because she’s totally bringing up a new topic mid old topic. She is the perpetual victim. I love she says she misses her old life not her husband lol you miss his money the parties the name he came with lol good god this woman is exhausting 

imo she’s an aging narcissist (true npd) who can’t hold her mask up anymore.

Edited April 26, 2018 by nexxie

[KungFuBunny]

4 minutes ago, nexxie said:

Wow, what a shit fest!

Remind me never to accept a lunch or dinner invitation from this crew.

OMG this would be me! I don't even need a seat

[Straycat80]

Is it me or are these ladies ( I use the term loosely) extra vicious this season? I mean, they always were like this but there was some fun in between the fights. This time not so much, at least so far anyway. 

The place cards in the tavern and musical chairs was juvenile. 

I want to feel bad for Sonja because she’s getting  crucified by everyone but then she opens her mouth and says something stupid and mean. 

Edited April 26, 2018 by Straycat80

[queenjen]

33 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

Beth's BF's Gucci sweater is fugly, I didn't like on Marlo either, sometimes I feel like designers make something awful, charge a ton of money for it and sit back and laugh when someone buys it

EVERY time I see Erika Jayne, I think this. Especially her 'Moschino TShirt Dress Moments'

[KungFuBunny]

8 minutes ago, Keywestclubkid said:

Is Sonja suffering from early onset Alzheimer’s? I swear to god she talks about a topic people react to that topic then she ask why they are talking about that topic because she’s totally bringing up a new topic mid old topic. She is the perpetual victim. I love she says she misses her old life not her husband lol you miss his money the parties the name he came with lol good god this woman is exhausting 

She also insisted at the brunch that he didn't leave her she left him.

Then in her TH shot, she said she had a beautiful life and a beautiful marriage, she would never do anything to throw it all away

To quote Kyle "Pick A Lane!!!!!"

Edited April 26, 2018 by KungFuBunny

[WhoaWhoKnew]

It's always alarming when someone's appearance reflects their emotional state.

Sonja looked a sloppy, confused, unstable, steaming hot mess in every scene. 

[AttackTurtle]

37 minutes ago, Steph J said:

"I don't know why we let Dorinda get away with it."

Um... maybe because her husband died and it's the empathetic thing to do?  I get that divorce is like "a death" but death is death. It's final. Dorinda loved Richard and he's gone from this Earth.

I like Dorinda and have no problem with her talking about Richard; however she makes a big deal about living in the present.   She preaches this about Sonja, but doesn’t really practice this herself.  I don’t think Bethenny really means she wants to call out Dorinda every time she brings up Richard; however I bet Carole cuts her for this in her blog.

[Neeners]

Hold on. Bethenny is "Team Civilized Human Being"? I'm assuming this is a new membership.

[TomGirl]

With all their (many!) faults, these are attractive, wealthy and mostly successful women.  I’m amazed they can’t find any men better than the likes of Tom, Dennis, John, etc.  Not one man on this show is attractive or otherwise appealing (except boy toy Adam).  I don’t get it.

[nexxie]

2 minutes ago, WhoaWhoKnew said:

It's always alarming when someone's appearance reflects their emotional state.

Sonja looked a sloppy, confused, unstable, steaming hot mess in every scene. 

And that red lipstick in her TH made her look scary.

[Sarcastica]

Sonja is an asshole.

The End.

[nexxie]

1 minute ago, TomGirl said:

With all their (many!) faults, these are attractive, wealthy and mostly successful women.  I’m amazed they can’t find any men better than the likes of Tom, Dennis, John, etc.  Not one man on this show is attractive or otherwise appealing (except boy toy Adam).  I don’t get it.

There might not be a big market for screaming shrews.

[KungFuBunny]

1 minute ago, nexxie said:

And that red lipstick in her TH made her look scary.

What you don't approve of the Sonja Morgue-an Internationally branded Lipstick?

[noveltylibrary]

14 minutes ago, Rhetorica said:

I haven't watched Real Housewives in almost four years.  Nothing has changed... I'll just quote Bart Simpson, "I didn't know something could suck and blow at the same time."

omg that quote just came up for me as a fb memory today! I said 'As Bart Simpson once said This weather both sucks and blows.' haa

[Alonzo Mosely FBI]

7 minutes ago, WhoaWhoKnew said:

It's always alarming when someone's appearance reflects their emotional state.

Sonja looked a sloppy, confused, unstable, steaming hot mess in every scene. 

In borrowed clothes no less. Oh how the mighty have fallen. 

5 minutes ago, Neeners said:

Hold on. Bethenny is "Team Civilized Human Being"? I'm assuming this is a new membership.

HAHAHAHAHAaaaa!  

Dennis' sweater was awful. So he's a name brand whore and an attention seeker. That sweater explains a lot. He wants to fly close to the sun. Watch how that worked our for Sonja, Dennis! 

[noveltylibrary]

7 minutes ago, nexxie said:

And that red lipstick in her TH made her look scary.

I'm convinced a hungover drag queen did that makeup after her gay party.

[Bronzedog]

I was really underwhelmed by Dennis.

[KungFuBunny]

1 minute ago, Alonzo Mosely FBI said:

In borrowed clothes no less. Oh how the mighty have fallen. 

HAHAHAHAHAaaaa!  

Dennis' sweater was awful. So he's a name brand whore and an attention seeker. That sweater explains a lot. He wants to fly close to the sun. Watch how that worked our for Sonja, Dennis! 

I know he said Gucci, but all I saw was Charlie Brown.

[Gem 10]

So Carole ran the marathon.  Does she expect everyone to kiss her ring?  Bethenny helped the flood victims in Puerto Rico.  Did anyone give her a party?

[enchantingmonkey]

Dorinda totally earned her paycheck for this episode.  Drunken snark mixed with a sense of humor about herself.  

I can't even believe that Sonja made a relatively accurate reference to Game of Thrones when she's barely been able to string together an intelligible conversation so far this season.  

 

14 minutes ago, KungFuBunny said:

 

This makes me wish Kyle could spend a season with the NYC ladies and really get to sharpen her claws.  It's hard to gain much traction with the BH ladies, sometimes, and I think Kyle's inner mean girl suffers for it.  

[ihartcoffee]

Favorite part was Bethenny talking about how ugly their clothes were,  including hers.  Her house on the wrong side of the highway was gorgeous.  

Ramona can stuff it. 

Dorinda got too wound up over Sonja. Sonja is an idiot, not worth the energy.

Speaking of sonja she's all mind your biz about my life but constantly yaps about the others.  

[Tress]

I laughed my butt off throughout this whole episode.  I love the NY crew.

[njbchlover]

1 hour ago, Mindthinkr said:

But she said that it’s a major fashion moment. 

Yeah....a "What Not to Wear" moment...    ;-)

[ichbin]

1 hour ago, JD5166 said:

 Carole’s major fashion moment is a fashion MISS! Just, NO. 

Carole would say you are jealous. Guess I must be jealous too.  She was insufferable this episode.   The comments about no memorabilia at the party and lack of theme.  Shut up, Carole!

[jumper sage]

Damn it!  My mouse just gave out.  I hate the finger pad!

• I know many divorced people who wish their exes were dead.
• I know many divorced people who say the worst part of divorce is that they loved someone who left them and at least the widow/er spouse never left them.
• I am in none of the camps.

I laughed my ass off this episode.  The only HW show I like.  I think I am outgrowing Bravo.

[WhoaWhoKnew]

I loved Bethenny's take down of Ramona's glasses. Even better was Ramona taking it in stride.

[njbchlover]

1 hour ago, Midnight Cheese said:

What da fuq is Ramona wearing?

WTF are they ALL wearing??  They all looked ridiculous!  (including that hideous sweater that Dennis was wearing)

[larapu2000]

Sonja as Cersei is spot fucking on.  A vicious drunk woman whose used her husband for power and becomes bitter and even more venemous when that power slips away.  Now I want Dorinda to start yelling Shame!! at her every time she mentions the ex.

[Keywestclubkid]

1 minute ago, ihartcoffee said:

Speaking of sonja she's all mind your biz about my life but constantly yaps about the others.  

The issue is she constantly talks about her past life then gets offended when ever any of the girls have an opinion on it lol like bringing up Rocco or something in her past then asking the girls why they are talking about it and acting like they are attacking her for something she herself brought up it’s like  Hello McFly is there anybody home lol 

[Alonzo Mosely FBI]

7 minutes ago, KungFuBunny said:

I know he said Gucci, but all I saw was Charlie Brown.

And Bethenny is his Lucy Van Pelt.

[rustyspigot]

So this season is Mr. Toad's wild ride and we will all get hit by a train at the end.  GOOD! When we have the alternative of Kyle not getting a call back from LVP, yeah.

I'm still obsessed this was on Veteran's Day and Luann had a pumpkin/gourd tablescape and miniature American flags on the mantel. And my eagle jewelry, GIRLS.

Ramona: She called me a P.O.S. Point of sale? Sonja knows I don't pay for anything! 

[twilightzone]

52 minutes ago, Neurochick said:

And Bethenny was right, Dorinda talks about Richard a lot.  I think it was because she was the happiest she ever was with him.

And he died, which must have been very hard for her.  But Dorinda doesn't live her life in the past.  Unlike Sonja, who is still desperately hanging on to being the grande dame Lady Morgan, even though that life has been over for years.

[Midnight Cheese]

Bethenny on Dorinda and Sonja, death versus divorce, and living in the past, said directly that Sonja missed her old life,’while Dorinda missed Richard - yet seemed to understand and show more empathy for Sonja missing her old life.  Sorry, but what?  No.  No!  Unless you’re a user or sociopath, this is just...no.   Dorinda misses her loved one.  Sonja misses her old lifestyle.  And that WOULD be hard, harder still to know the loss is your own fault.   But these losses are things Sonja must face.   And that includes dealing with her own deep faults. So I guess we should estimate she’ll acknowledge that...never.

Carole and her miffed attitude about Ramona not throwing her a bonafide marathon celebration: what??   Girl, bye.  I’ve run that.  I was crying grateful for the support I got, which didn’t include a dinner party with a Go Nuts dresscode and a giant cake.  I mean, honestly.  If someone had given me a bag of Cool Ranch and a certificate to Massage Envy I would have ugly cried.*

 

* and still looked less crazy than Sonja in her Grandpa Munster makeup confessionals.  What the HELL.

[Tress]

27 minutes ago, KungFuBunny said:

OMG this would be me! I don't even need a seat

This is so hilarious, that it bears repeating!!!!!!  LOL

[njbchlover]

55 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

Oh. I didn’t know we were grading parties now.  

Yeah....especially from someone who thinks that M&M's and pizza equate good party food when she is entertaining.

[Mindthinkr]

Sonja is always bitching about her loss, due to divorce, of Mr Morgan. Dorinda is still (and always will be) in love with Richard. They go at it as to which loss is greater. Carole is also a widow but never said a word about her dearly departed. Either she’s over it or was scared to jump into the fray. 

[Duke2801]

Sonja is such a bitch to Tinsley. Well, to Ramona too, but I’m not gonna act like Ro probably didn’t have it coming. In a karma way. I expect another apology tour coming up if she doesn’t want all these women to ice her out of filming. 

So much for people thinking Lu showed up with those braids at her brunch with Tinsley because “she had a wig on the night before.” Nope, Lu actually does that to her hair. On purpose. 

Agree that Carole’s TH comments about the “lack of marathon memorabilia” or whatever were unnecessary. They made her sound petty. 

1 hour ago, Straycat80 said:

I am still laughing at Bethenny: ‘what da fuq is everyone including herself wearing’? 

Well that was one moment I agreed 100% with Bethenny. They all looked looked bizarre at that dinner. Well Tinsley’s outfit was ok. 

Dennis is less attractive “in person” (aka: on film) than he appears in magazines. 

[njbchlover]

51 minutes ago, tinaw said:

  I am living for all the Sonia bashing the girls are doing tonight. The woman needs to stop busting balls if Sonia doesn't want to have hers busted.

Seriously, Sonja - don't hand it out if you don't want more back.

[BloggerAloud]

More can happen at a single RHONY dinner party than two seasons of RHOBH.

[Jel]

How low is John's self-esteem? Dorinda basically tells us several times a season that he's Mr. Right Now. Pitiful.

[chewycandy]

Luann’s “ohhhh” after Bethenny said yeah THIS is the guy made the episode for me.

I also liked Tinsley’s little forward movement when she told Sonja to close her legs. It was in all the previews and I never not laughed at it. 

Really Carole, the cake was not sweet enough, you needed memorabilia and a theme?

Yes, Dennis is underwhelming. 

Kirk seems nice. 

[njbchlover]

30 minutes ago, WhoaWhoKnew said:

It's always alarming when someone's appearance reflects their emotional state.

Sonja looked a sloppy, confused, unstable, steaming hot mess in every scene. 

Except for the last brunch.  With her hair in a French twist, and the "Jane Fonda from Nine to Five" plaid ruffled bow blouse - she looked like she stepped out of a time capsule from the early 80's, but at least she looked pulled together.

[Avaleigh]

10 minutes ago, larapu2000 said:

Sonja as Cersei is spot fucking on.  A vicious drunk woman whose used her husband for power and becomes bitter and even more venemous when that power slips away.  Now I want Dorinda to start yelling Shame!! at her every time she mentions the ex.

If Sonja is Cersei then I guess the "younger and more beautiful" woman who makes her feel threatened is Tinsley.

Lol, I hope Sonja doesn't have a twin brother. 

[Midnight Cheese]

54 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I am so tired of people blaming menopause or the lack of hormones for their shitty behavior.

It is amazing in another way: most of this cast is over 50 but most would sooner die than say “perimenopause,” admit any mood, sleep, libido, hair, or weight changes.  I mean, Sonja is on a prescribed antidepressant but insists she’s not depressed...