ginger90 April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 Thought this was a pretty good article. It’s from 2015. https://www.google.com/amp/s/abovethelaw.com/2015/05/josh-duggar-is-not-the-only-one-who-escaped-prosecution/amp/ 6 Link to comment
RedDelicious April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 1 minute ago, Future Cat Lady said: Does that mean he was in contact with someone who sent him stuff instead of downloading pics from a website? And could that be how they were made aware of him? I think it means they can prove it was him and he deliberately searched for the content and accessed it, and downloaded the content to his local pc. 1 3 Link to comment
Showthyme April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 3 hours ago, WinnieWinkle said: Can TLC just drop the Duggars? TLC needs to drop this show unless the clan speaks openly and loudly against Josh Duggar's charges and not under the guise of forgiveness either. These charges in addition to previous sex abuse allegations are despicable and should not be swept aside while this family stays sweet. A poster mentioned earlier that Josh believes he is smarter than everyone else. I don't think so but he is obviously uneducated. I think he wants nothing to do with all this religious stuff but isn't man enough to say so. Anna better file for divorce before CPS starts throwing parenting classes and other requirements at her. If it were me, the attorney would already have served the papers. 9 Link to comment
Popular Post Churchhoney April 30, 2021 Popular Post Share April 30, 2021 (edited) 45 minutes ago, JoanArc said: Thank you. Remote diagnosis is never a good idea. For the record, I'm not trying to diagnose anybody. I'm trying to head off the simple "diagnosis" that "Josh was a hopeless eternal pedophile at age 15 for no particular reason and that's the end of the story. They shoulda locked him up." I'm trying to say the same thing @GeeGolly said but I think about things in a different way -- My way is to remember that there are TONS of different aspects of life and people that are in play in something like this. Things you are by nature, things you become in your family, things you are in society, messages you hear, and more. There's a difference between your feelings and your desires and being in the position to act on them, too. You can put somebody where they're more protected from themselves, if you understand that. Josh's family, however, and plenty of people who talk about things like pedophilia, dismiss it as something simple. Black and white. Clearly with Josh nobody tried in the least to figure out what might be going wrong with him as a kid. And how best to help him and the others. And somebody needed to. Certain situations can feed something like this, and other situations feed them less. That's not saying those things are causes. But it's clear that not every environment is the best one for somebody with problems. Maybe if his parents were the kind of people who realized that there are lots of causes, some discernible and some probably not, for behavior like Josh's teen behavior, they might have got him some help that could have helped him live a life where he didn't hurt people. Or certainly some that could have helped the girls and helped the family be protected without the dumb stuff they actually did. When all you think is a simplistic 'SIN!!" " .... you won't help anybody. And the Duggars don't. Edited May 1, 2021 by Churchhoney 28 Link to comment
hathorlive April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 7 minutes ago, Future Cat Lady said: Does that mean he was in contact with someone who sent him stuff instead of downloading pics from a website? And could that be how they were made aware of him? It could be email. That's the favorite method of the feds, as it's the easiest to show from who to whom. It could be from a "click here for pics" link that was sent to him via some kind of communication. Receipt basically shows it came from here, and went there via this method. 12 1 Link to comment
Kiss my mutt April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 I doubt Josh can be rehabilitated at this point. 14 Link to comment
Popular Post Churchhoney April 30, 2021 Popular Post Share April 30, 2021 (edited) 32 minutes ago, GeeGolly said: If these charges against Josh are proven to be true, there was nothing JB & M could have done 15+ years ago that would have changed Josh's behavior. That's not how it works. They could have found out a way to handle it that protected their kids and that got him into a situation where he could have been protected from himself and helped to manage himself. And they could have helped the girls understand what had happened. And maybe even found somebody who could have helped Josh understand what was happening. Or at least have him know that what he had done wasn't either Satan attacking him because he was so wonderfully Christian or him being Satan. There's no way that kind of delusional thinking helped anybody. Yes, I know. Pedophilia is apparently hopeless in many ways. You can't change what people are attracted to. But you can help people change their behavior, whether it's by living in a sheltered situation or by taking drugs or some other behavior-change method. And wouldn't that be far preferable to having told him he was a horrible sinner but also having told him that he should go out and be a leader of the people? Because they never think about what the causes of anything are except 'BAD!" or "JESUS!" There's no way their stupidity was the best thing that could have been done. Or was even a good thing. In any way. .Realizing that his situation certainly came from a complicated combination of factors can lead a person to understand that a complicated situation requires a complicated solution. That's exactly what the Duggars don't do. Edited April 30, 2021 by Churchhoney 31 Link to comment
CrazyInAlabama April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 (edited) Pedo's and molesters can't be changed. There is no treatment that works. The only way they never hurt another child is if they're never around them. Years ago, I lived in NM, during the first wave of priest pedophilia and sex abuse cases, and there was a center only for priests for psychiatric, and addiction treatment. The psychiatrist who headed the center said the only ones who didn't reoffend were never around children or their chosen victims again. The ones who went back to parish work, or other places that gave access to vulnerable people, always reoffended. Edited May 1, 2021 by CrazyInAlabama 5 5 Link to comment
mittsigirl April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 4 hours ago, Zella said: For Josh, I do think growing up in an environment where sex was both flaunted and terribly stigmatized created some issues--and probably does for all of them in just that would be a weird mindfuck to deal with. But the reason I was reluctant to just assume his molestations were crimes of opportunity was the fact his attacks on his sisters got increasingly brazen and severe and also the ages of the victims got younger and younger. That's always seemed very damning to me. And I think deep down the Duggars know that because they always lied in public statements to avoid addressing the latter instances. I stopped watching their show after his last disturbing incidents. But the thing I do remember from back then was in an article I read, and JB said that they were very lucky because Josh was a few months too young so he couldn't be labeled as a pedophile! Too bad he hadn't been old enough back then because maybe, just maybe, (doubtful, I know) these last incidents would never have happened. 11 Link to comment
all fall down April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 4 minutes ago, Kiss my mutt said: I doubt Josh can be rehabilitated at this point. Probably not, but it's possible he could have been if someone intervened with real help when he was a teen. Sadly, we'll never know and now here we are. 5 Link to comment
MMEButterfly April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 4 hours ago, beckie said: I doubt there was one or two. That could be accidental. It's more likely there were 100s or thousands on his computers. I can't imagine this arrest and charge for one or two photos. It suggests Josh had an addiction to child pornography and would have--as you say--gathered 100s at least. 2 Link to comment
BradandJanet April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 1 hour ago, emmawoodhouse said: I agree. Anna is a weak reed. She's not going anywhere. She'll stupidly stand by her man and be there when he's released from prison. Maybe Anna will end up on reality TV again--Life After Lockup. If JB doesn't take care of Anna+ 7, I don't know who will. Anna should start negotiating with JB now for housing and lifetime financial support. She does have a story to tell, and JB would rather not have any more publicity. 2 20 Link to comment
mittsigirl April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 4 hours ago, BitterApple said: It should, especially Joy, who regularly posts pictures of her daughter unclothed. After my incident with hundreds of child porn on my computer that time, I have never, ever posted a picture of any of my 8 grandkids, and I never, ever will! Way too many sickos out in the world. I just can't believe there are so many of them. 13 Link to comment
Cinnabon April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 3 minutes ago, mittsigirl said: After my incident with hundreds of child porn on my computer that time, I have never, ever posted a picture of any of my 8 grandkids, and I never, ever will! Way too many sickos out in the world. I just can't believe there are so many of them. How can they truly not realize this? 3 Link to comment
the-grey-lady April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 3 hours ago, BitterApple said: I thought I'd take a moment and review some of the wonderful men JimBob and Michelle Duggar have allowed close access to their children: (Trigger warning for those of whom sex crimes is a sensitive subject). Josh Duggar: sexual assault of five minors, possession of child pornography Caleb Williams: sexual assault of minor between ages of 13-17, impregnated his victim, current Registered Sex Offender Tim Robertson: Convicted of rape after sodomizing an incapacitated woman, former Registered Sex Offender Bill Gothard: accused by over 30 women (including minors) of molestation, harassment and assault But Jill can't be at the TTH without Boob's permission...... Sad as it is, Josh isn't even an anomaly in this crowd. That list... Jesus take the fucking wheel. Where's the puke emoji when you need it? 3 Link to comment
Gigi43 April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 (edited) I kind of tend to think an attraction to child can't be cured, however, I also know not doing anything real like therapy to try in 2002/2003 as JB and M did was absolutely the wrong thing. So was enabling a superiority complex Josh has and asserting he's dominant as a man and all that. Once you find out someone preys on the younger/weak, you don't still tell them other people should submit to you etc. I don't think the family is stupid business wise, could it be in their contract with TLC now they can't be fired for something Josh does as long as they weren't at fault too? Edited April 30, 2021 by Gigi43 7 Link to comment
BigBingerBro April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 2 minutes ago, the-grey-lady said: Where's the puke emoji when you need it? 🤮 2 Link to comment
mittsigirl April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 2 minutes ago, Cinnabon said: How can they truly not realize this? People always think it will never happen to them-until it does! 1 Link to comment
crazy8s April 30, 2021 Share April 30, 2021 7 minutes ago, BradandJanet said: If JB doesn't take care of Anna+ 7, I don't know who will. Anna should start negotiating with JB now for housing and lifetime financial support. She does have a story to tell, and JB would rather not have any more publicity. i think it is covered - again she lives in the warehouse and has been set up with 5 llcs at the TTH address 2 7 Link to comment
SunnyBeBe May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 I hope people are being watched carefully. This type of thing can trigger self harm attempts. Not just Josh, but other family members who are so distraught. 3 Link to comment
mynextmistake May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 41 minutes ago, GeeGolly said: If these charges against Josh are proven to be true, there was nothing JB & M could have done 15+ years ago that would have changed Josh's behavior. That's not how it works. That’s not entirely accurate. Sex offender treatment programs have been shown to lower the rate of recidivism quite a bit. There’s no way to tell if a program would have worked in Josh’s case, of course, but it would have had a better chance of working than what they did do. 4 16 Link to comment
Popular Post BradandJanet May 1, 2021 Popular Post Share May 1, 2021 When Michelle and JimBob signed onto the Gothard cult, they were assured if they stayed within the strict rules, they could turn out an obedient and sinless army of children for god. They must have been shocked when things didn't turn out that way. 28 Link to comment
SunnyBeBe May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 (edited) I’ve always been slow to denigrate Josh due to his young age when the earlier events occurred. Minors are held to a different degree of responsibility for a reason. But, I now fear that there were deep rooted issues that surpassed youthful indiscretions. The adult acts are held to a different standard. I suspect the future is much more dire than any of them ever anticipated. I now fear the bad news has just started. Edited May 1, 2021 by SunnyBeBe 1 11 Link to comment
laurakaye May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, WinnieWinkle said: My quote disappeared but the comment I was replying to mentioned Josh thinking the world owes him, which perfectly mirrors his smugshot. He’s been told his entire life that he is the Golden Boy, to the point where his stupid parents swept his “curiosity” involving his sisters under the rug. I’m sure he still thinks that Daddy can fix this. Why wouldn’t he? He’s done it before. What I keep going back to is the fact that Anna, in her own brainwashed state of mind, has to explain to six children about where Daddy went. I feel so incredibly bad for those kids, whose lives will never be the same after today. Edited May 1, 2021 by laurakaye 6 Link to comment
all fall down May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 Two items, I put them behind a spoiler in case you are sick of seeing his face. Video of the sketch artist showing Josh in court this morning and video from when he was booked yesterday. Spoiler 11 2 Link to comment
Jeanne222 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 Not to long ago I read something like this. Without an enabler the enabled can't! It kind of makes sense to me. My friends son is an alcoholic that lives in his mothers basement. One time his sister took over and he cleaned up his act! No more basement so he had to get a job. Why would Jim Bob continue to enable Josh? Josh has showed us who he is but Jim Bob continued to provide housing, financial support and now three attorneys. If he had to work for a living maybe he wouldn't be sitting in jail under indictment! 8 Link to comment
Soup333 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 I hope this comment is allowed. I think it’s likely that CPS will do forensic interviews on some/possibly any minors Josh had been in regular contact with. 4 9 Link to comment
RedDelicious May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 8 minutes ago, christine falls said: Two items, I put them behind a spoiler in case you are sick of seeing his face. Video of the sketch artist showing Josh in court this morning and video from when he was booked yesterday. Reveal spoiler Benzodiazepine much?? I don't think he's high on marijuana; I think that's flat out sedatives and disassociation. 3 4 Link to comment
Popular Post quarks May 1, 2021 Popular Post Share May 1, 2021 Some thoughts on different aspects of this: 1. My guess is that Josh will plea down to a relatively light sentence - a couple of years in jail, plus any fines, plus needing to register as a sex offender. I don't think his attorneys will or should risk having him face a jury, but I think they can and will argue that this is - technically - a first offense, and that Josh would be unlikely to face the maximum sentences if convicted. 2. On a related note, not that the Duggars are going to be taking my advice, but if they were, I personally would recommend not bonding Josh out next week. For one, purely on a pragmatic basis, they really don't have that many available homes without children in the local area - and I think it's more than a bit unfair to ask, say, Jed! and Katey to welcome Josh into their home under the circumstances. But also, I think they will have an easier time if the public and federal prosecutors see Josh spending time in jail. Part of the reason that the internet is reacting the way it is - which in turn has led CNN and The New York Times to run stories on this - is the widely held perception that Josh got away completely without consequences the last several times even though he confessed. That's not 100% true, of course (he lost his job and there was that weird Jesus jail thing) but it's true enough to be driving public perception right now. So I think it's in the family's best interests to show that Josh is facing very real consequences for his actions. Getting bonded out is not going to help them on a public relations level. 3. On that note, while I think the Duggars/Duggarlings will take a major financial hit from this (at the very least, this will presumably put a temporary pause on the Instagram ads/income, not to mention the attorney's fees), I'm also guessing that they'll be able to recover in a few years, the same way they did last time. Well. Most of them. 4. I wish I could believe that this will be the final straw for Anna, but I'm dubious. Especially if Josh is able to plea down to a relatively light sentence, allowing her to hope that they'll be reunited relatively soon. 5 26 Link to comment
Gigi43 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 (edited) 18 minutes ago, Jeanne222 said: Not to long ago I read something like this. Without an enabler the enabled can't! It kind of makes sense to me. My friends son is an alcoholic that lives in his mothers basement. One time his sister took over and he cleaned up his act! No more basement so he had to get a job. Why would Jim Bob continue to enable Josh? Josh has showed us who he is but Jim Bob continued to provide housing, financial support and now three attorneys. If he had to work for a living maybe he wouldn't be sitting in jail under indictment! I don't think his employment has anything to do with it. Plenty of working people look at CP. In Josh's case his issues showed at a young age and were covered up. The support could be because they covered for him all those years ago in the name of getting on TV and having their image/status. I don't know if Josh ever wanted to do things like work on the FRC but JB and Michelle wanted their son too. We don't really know if anything's ever happened to Josh. I can see where that life could mess up someone mentally. Also I would imagine Josh knows about any shady dealings of JB and the worst secrets the cult has, should be cut off he could talk (purely speculation.) It would be something if Josh's defense was to blow up JB and M in the name of trying to get sympathy especially if they were to turn their backs on him. When you create a monster, don't be shocked if it attacks. Anna will definitely be supported to prevent her from writing a tell-all, unless it's a tell-all JB could get a piece of. Edited May 1, 2021 by Gigi43 3 3 Link to comment
Jeanne222 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 5 minutes ago, Gigi43 said: I don't think his employment has anything to do with it. Plenty of working people look at CP. In Josh's case his issues showed at a young age and were ignored. The support could be because they covered for him all those years ago in the name of getting on TV and having their image/status. I don't know if Josh ever wanted to do things like work on the FRC but JB and Michelle wanted their son too. We don't really know if anything's ever happened to Josh. I can see where that life could mess up someone mentally. Also I would imagine Josh knows about any shady dealings of JB and the worst secrets the cult has, should be cut off he could talk (purely speculation.) It would be something if Josh's defense was to blow up JB and M in the name of trying to get sympathy especially if they were to turn their backs on him. When you create a monster, don't be shocked if it attacks. Anna will definitely be supported to prevent her from writing a tell-all, unless it's a tell-all JB could get a piece of. Yes they are all in this together! You made me think of this! "Oh what tangled webs we weave when at first we do deceive!" 5 Link to comment
Tikichick May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 15 minutes ago, Jeanne222 said: Not to long ago I read something like this. Without an enabler the enabled can't! It kind of makes sense to me. My friends son is an alcoholic that lives in his mothers basement. One time his sister took over and he cleaned up his act! No more basement so he had to get a job. Why would Jim Bob continue to enable Josh? Josh has showed us who he is but Jim Bob continued to provide housing, financial support and now three attorneys. If he had to work for a living maybe he wouldn't be sitting in jail under indictment! JB had to continue to enable Josh in order to guarantee that he retained his control. I think in his mind Josh left to his own devices would damage the Duggar brand, whereas if JB took control of the situation he could minimize, sweep it under the rug and then keep Josh on a chain and voila, it would all be as if it never happened. I would dearly love to know the answer to this question for JB -- if you could do it all over again, would you handle any of your responses to Josh's disgusting behavior differently? If so, what would you handle differently, how and why? 15 Link to comment
debbie311 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 Bottom line for me - TLC needs to cancel them NOW. I'm sorry (not sorry) that the innocent ones (the ones who have nothing to do with this) will take a financial hit, but this story is just flat out too unseemly. Too disgusting. And who would want to sponsor the show now? Even if Josh and Anna are never, ever seen on the show again, how could the rest of them go on their merry way and act like life is normal. This didn't come out of nowhere. Josh has a history. I get that he is part of their family, but if they don't publicly condemn him (assuming he is declared guilty) then they are part of it. The whole thing makes me sick to my stomach. Besides all that, the show has gotten really boring anyway. TLC has plenty of other multiple families that they can focus on if that's what they want to do. 1 11 Link to comment
lookeyloo May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 Has anybody heard of her? https://www.facebook.com/ThrivingForwardBlog/videos/520098525657249/ 12 2 Link to comment
Tabbygirl521 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 1 hour ago, mittsigirl said: You were lucky to not have had to see children's images like that and that you could power down and get out of there! There is lots of sick stuff on the internet, I just never thought I would have to see any of it, it was really scary to me, because women get charged for child porn too, not just men. I may have over-reacted by going to the police, but I just was so afraid and had no other idea what I should do. Not glad that you also had this experience, just glad that I found somebody else that understands that this really does happen! Thanks for sharing with me:) I think going to the police was a great idea! Not sure I would have thought of it on my own - I just let my manager know. That perhaps was not enough. I’m so sorry you saw what you saw. It’s incomprehensible how anyone can want or excuse such horror. I know we don’t know exactly what’s going on with Josh but for sure it’s terrible. 8 Link to comment
CrazyInAlabama May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 (edited) I think it's even worse in JB & M's case. They do not value women, or girls except as baby making machines. They value their sons, and don't care about what happened to girls and women. Look at how he was treated after the last scandal, (The website , and cheating) when nothing happened to him. I'm just hoping he was only downloading, and not producing CP. I don't think anyone in the family will ever come out and say he did anything wrong, or they'll be exiled. Edited May 1, 2021 by CrazyInAlabama 9 Link to comment
PikaScrewChu May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 Annnnnnd I'm out. I was hoping this was financial. Not this. 1 Link to comment
Tabbygirl521 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 (edited) 33 minutes ago, lookeyloo said: Has anybody heard of her? https://www.facebook.com/ThrivingForwardBlog/videos/520098525657249/ Holy sheesh! Thank you for sharing this. I’m very interested in reading and hearing more from her. it’s enlightening and infuriating to realize how brainwashed and “stuck” Anna is. Edited May 1, 2021 by Tabbygirl521 2 10 Link to comment
mythoughtis May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 (edited) Random thoughts in no particular order If Josh is required to have third party supervision to get bail..the third party should not be a Duggar or anyone connected to their church or Gothards organization. Why? Because Josh has had ‘ accountability partners’ since he was a small child. They didn’t hold him very accountable. This is not snark/ it’s my honest opinion. Anna has probably known about this since relatively shortly after the raid in 2019. I’m sure they received legal advice that caused them to put everything in her name. Yet she got pregnant yet again. Who among us would let that happen in this situation? She is just so naive and utterly brainwashed that Josh and JB are to be followed no matter what, I think the best thing that could happen to Josh’s siblings and children is for the show to go off the air. They need to get real jobs, live in the real world, process their feelings about Josh and their parents and get therapy. That doesn’t mean they will come out of this unscathed. There will be failures, divorces, crises of faith and some siblings will leave never to return. John, Joy and Joe are going to have some crises of faith for sure. Edited May 1, 2021 by mythoughtis 1 12 Link to comment
Twopper May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 47 minutes ago, Gigi43 said: I don't know if Josh ever wanted to do things like work on the FRC but JB and Michelle wanted their son too. It has been ages since I saw the show where he got the job at the FRC, but I got the impression that JB was not happy about it, and he was not happy that Josh was moving to DC. At the time, I thought it was good that Josh was breaking free of his parents. Well, we know how that turned out. 11 Link to comment
Gigi43 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 7 minutes ago, Twopper said: It has been ages since I saw the show where he got the job at the FRC, but I got the impression that JB was not happy about it, and he was not happy that Josh was moving to DC. At the time, I thought it was good that Josh was breaking free of his parents. Well, we know how that turned out. I thought JB wanted the boys in government and FRC is close to it. I actually thought it was a mission statement of the cult to get the members of positions of power to make their culty ways laws. Maybe JB rightfully didn't trust Josh in DC? I could be mistaken, but I had thought they wanted Josh doing that kind of stuff. 4 Link to comment
Oldernowiser May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 7 minutes ago, Twopper said: It has been ages since I saw the show where he got the job at the FRC, but I got the impression that JB was not happy about it, and he was not happy that Josh was moving to DC. At the time, I thought it was good that Josh was breaking free of his parents. Well, we know how that turned out. Does make me wonder if JB wasn’t concerned about what Josh might get up to with no supervision... 1 11 Link to comment
Churchhoney May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 42 minutes ago, lookeyloo said: Has anybody heard of her? https://www.facebook.com/ThrivingForwardBlog/videos/520098525657249/ No, haven't heard of her. But I've read a lot of very very similar stories. All these kids were brought up in an unbelievable sick world that somehow convinces most of them that it's the best of all possible environments. Thanks very much for posting this. Good to have this view of Gothardism on display when we normally swim in Duggar/TLC whitewashing. 14 Link to comment
JoanArc May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 4 minutes ago, Gigi43 said: I thought JB wanted the boys in government and FRC is close to it. I actually thought it was a mission statement of the cult to get the members of positions of power to make their culty ways laws. Maybe JB rightfully didn't trust Josh in DC? I could be mistaken, but I had thought they wanted Josh doing that kind of stuff. I think he wanted power and control, but was afraid that FRC would out the little molestation secret. 4 Link to comment
Lady Whistleup May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 JB and M are totally awful, ridiculous people but I'm hesitant blaming this on them. I think Josh is just a bad seed. 5 Link to comment
Popular Post SMama May 1, 2021 Popular Post Share May 1, 2021 5 minutes ago, Lady Whistleup said: JB and M are totally awful, ridiculous people but I'm hesitant blaming this on them. I think Josh is just a bad seed. I do, and also blame them for their failure to protect their daughters. They continued to enable him, making the girls live with their abuser, waiting on him like a king. They also gave Josh free range of the TTH and its gaggle of children (even after the raid), while Jill has to ask permission to visit her childhood home. The three of them should burn in hell. 55 Link to comment
Popular Post Mountainair May 1, 2021 Popular Post Share May 1, 2021 7 minutes ago, Lady Whistleup said: JB and M are totally awful, ridiculous people but I'm hesitant blaming this on them. I think Josh is just a bad seed. I totally get that sentiment but at the same time..... I have three kids and feel awful when I neglect one kids needs over another’s. Imagine having 19. For Ma and Pa Duggar it was only about the number for them not the well-being. If they had a manageable number of children they might not even be dealing with this right now. No one will ever convince me they had that many kids because they love children. They had them to prove some weird point to “god”. Kids well-being be damned. Now they are all paying the price. 35 Link to comment
JoanArc May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 12 minutes ago, Lady Whistleup said: JB and M are totally awful, ridiculous people but I'm hesitant blaming this on them. I think Josh is just a bad seed. Three years covering up the first crimes. Now two years covering up this one. Five years. God, it hits like a Mack truck. 21 Link to comment
Twopper May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 15 minutes ago, Gigi43 said: I thought JB wanted the boys in government and FRC is close to it. I actually thought it was a mission statement of the cult to get the members of positions of power to make their culty ways laws. Maybe JB rightfully didn't trust Josh in DC? I could be mistaken, but I had thought they wanted Josh doing that kind of stuff. Maybe that is true of Bill Gothard, but JB seemed to prefer the boys to find jobs where they worked for themselves. In the early seasons Josh wanted to go to law school, but the snark at the time was about his lack of education at his mother's dining room table school. I have often wondered if Josh had a lot of anger about not getting support and the proper schooling to get a regular job instead of being stuck selling cars or flipping houses like some of his siblings. At least JD got a pilot's license. Josh had the FRC job handed to him, and he still messed up. 1 3 Link to comment
cmr2014 May 1, 2021 Share May 1, 2021 1 hour ago, quarks said: Some thoughts on different aspects of this: 1. My guess is that Josh will plea down to a relatively light sentence - a couple of years in jail, plus any fines, plus needing to register as a sex offender. I don't think his attorneys will or should risk having him face a jury, but I think they can and will argue that this is - technically - a first offense, and that Josh would be unlikely to face the maximum sentences if convicted. 2. On a related note, not that the Duggars are going to be taking my advice, but if they were, I personally would recommend not bonding Josh out next week. For one, purely on a pragmatic basis, they really don't have that many available homes without children in the local area - and I think it's more than a bit unfair to ask, say, Jed! and Katey to welcome Josh into their home under the circumstances. But also, I think they will have an easier time if the public and federal prosecutors see Josh spending time in jail. Part of the reason that the internet is reacting the way it is - which in turn has led CNN and The New York Times to run stories on this - is the widely held perception that Josh got away completely without consequences the last several times even though he confessed. That's not 100% true, of course (he lost his job and there was that weird Jesus jail thing) but it's true enough to be driving public perception right now. So I think it's in the family's best interests to show that Josh is facing very real consequences for his actions. Getting bonded out is not going to help them on a public relations level. 3. On that note, while I think the Duggars/Duggarlings will take a major financial hit from this (at the very least, this will presumably put a temporary pause on the Instagram ads/income, not to mention the attorney's fees), I'm also guessing that they'll be able to recover in a few years, the same way they did last time. Well. Most of them. 4. I wish I could believe that this will be the final straw for Anna, but I'm dubious. Especially if Josh is able to plea down to a relatively light sentence, allowing her to hope that they'll be reunited relatively soon. I was thinking about this, and Anna will have to divorce Josh unless he gets a 20 year sentence. There's no way that Josh will be released to a home with minor children, and Anna will have minor children for the next 19 years . . . 4 7 Link to comment
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