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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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1 minute ago, Grifter Lives said:

Ari brought her first husband over on a K-1 visa.  Bini overstayed his emergency visa.  This is why they're on The Other Way.  In addition, Ari has that thriving writing career that just takes her all over the world, when she wasn't working in her dad's doctor's office.

Have they ever explained why Baby couldn’t get a K1 with his first wife?

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3 minutes ago, OoogleEyes said:

Maybe he's gay?

Good point. My colleague was married to her BFF for 8 years. He wanted to move to Canada so she married him but it was very much an arrangement due to the fact that he is gay. It’s fraud but people do it all the time.

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4 minutes ago, Trackdawg said:

OK, PT Peeps. Short shift, clocking out.  Y'all know you gots to share me with TrackKitty, so I'm off to do #CoupleTime (she's going to try to decapitate me with 🎾🎾🎾🎾🎾 )

And it looks like @Armchair Critic has yet to appear, so she (and the rest of y'all) will have to wait to see her custom GIF(t)

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Bini was turned down three times for visas with the first wife, and it took political intervention (a Senator I think), to get in the country.   He was on some kind of humanitarian visa, because the baby had issues.    He was here long enough for him to marry the first wife, and the baby was at the ceremony,     Then, he overstayed his visa.     He must have an interesting background.     Ari also left out the issues they've had in Ethiopia and the world, because everything is all about her. 

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2 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

I actually feel bad for Bini. This is a shitty situation.

Ari is such a self centered spoiled immature little twat. And I guess she will find any excuse to spirit that baby back to the US, and get Bini his membership card to "Dads Who Will Never See Their Kids Again Club", along with Ronald and Jihoon. 

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1 minute ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

Bini was turned down three times for visas with the first wife, and it took political intervention (a Senator I think), to get in the country.    Then, he overstayed his visa.     He must have an interesting background.     Ari also left out the issues they've had in Ethiopia and the world, because everything is all about her. 

Interesting.

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48 minutes ago, RichiesOlderBro said:

She’s lazy??

Considering she can’t even make up a bed by herself, I would say so.  Her parents have spoiled her rotten.  Did Ari’s ex go back to his country or is he in the states? 

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59 minutes ago, charmed1 said:

I think Evelin put on weight, which is good, but Ariola definitely got lip fillers. Her lips look inflamed.

What is with Ariola's makeup? 

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It's always a good move to be a single middle aged woman to sell your successful pizzeria and give it all up to move to a country where you think the food is bland and the guy cheated on you.

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Just now, CrazyInAlabama said:

Ellie is ridiculous.    Providencia is a Caribbean island, I bet they have spices, or can get them.    I hope all of her heat sealed bags go pop all over her suitcases.   

Seriously! Colombian food is delicious. WTF. 

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2 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Go figure, another cheater! You never disappoint Sharp.

Hey, he just tripped and fell with his penis going into her vagina. It happens!

Ninja'd by everyone!

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