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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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VMSR.png  Red Light: Community Check-In

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Taken from the Live Chat 2 thread (post from mod OnceSane):

The 90DF Live Chat 2 thread is getting pretty long and some of us thought it would be a good idea to start a new live chat thread.

This topic will be used as the live chat for all of the 90DF spinoffs with episode threads (ex: 90DF/90DF:HEA/90DF:BT90D/90DF:TOW) so if you want to live-watch and live-chat with your buds while the episode is going on, and don't mind a few million posts, please use this thread for posting during any and all new episodes.

As with any other episode thread, do not post spoilers you read on social media or other websites.  (We have couples' threads for that.)

Happy posting!

Since I can edit the topic, I will add in the winning thread title later this week.

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2 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

Taken from the Live Chat 2 thread (post from mod OnceSane):

The 90DF Live Chat 2 thread is getting pretty long and some of us thought it would be a good idea to start a new live chat thread.

This topic will be used as the live chat for all of the 90DF spinoffs with episode threads (ex: 90DF/90DF:HEA/90DF:BT90D/90DF:TOW) so if you want to live-watch and live-chat with your buds while the episode is going on, and don't mind a few million posts, please use this thread for posting during any and all new episodes.

As with any other episode thread, do not post spoilers you read on social media or other websites.  (We have couples' threads for that.)

Happy posting!

Since I can edit the topic, I will add in the winning thread title later this week.

Thanks, Frozendiva!!!

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I've got the Countdown to the New Season on and I always forget how much reading is involved in this iteration of the show!  I'm going to be slower than usual in posting tonight.

How y'all doin'?

Thanks @Frozendiva for giving us a new place to snark!

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2 minutes ago, greekmom said:

Can I punch Summit in his ugly face??? He has such a punchable face.

He's not a patch on Brandon but yes, eminently punchable. 

Hello snarkers! Wow, lots of space here in the new home! Is that a piano in the corner? And most important, where's the bar? 

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Finally, a new season of TOW! After months of suffering through Angela's trashy ass personality, Kalani and Asuelu's sex talks, The Family Libby being assholes, and a bunch of overbearing parents, we get to see another season of TOW! I am doing my happy dance in my bedroom right now! I am oh so relieved that we finally get two new couples!

Grab your food and wine, and let the snark begin.

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1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

He's not a patch on Brandon but yes, eminently punchable. 

Hello snarkers! Wow, lots of space here in the new home! Is that a piano in the corner? And most important, where's the bar? 

So many of us squeezed into that little room. Now we can stay 6 feet apart!

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Hello everyone, thank goodness we are onto another season.  I couldn’t take much more of the previous garbage.  Only this forum made it tolerable.  

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Jenny wants us to believe she can't do a Hare Krishna chant? Jesus H. Christ. Hasn't she ever listened to a George Harrison album or the soundtrack of "Hair"? She's my contemporary, more or less. (I'm older, but much prettier). I don't buy it. 

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1 minute ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Eatin’ penis, ya’ll.

Its another of the tropes Matt Sharp is so fond of--"eating weird food". Its on one of the bingo cards I made up ages ago. I'll have to look for them. I think I have some notes for another one, someplace.  

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