Sex addict. I was married to one. It's all about using sex as power; he uses sex to prove he can get his partner to do anything that he comes up wiith. If she wanted sex, he would withhold and say she was 'crazy' for wanting it. They get off on using sex to use or bully others...the dopamine hit is in messing with the other person's head.
Coltee looks like he has too much estrogen to be that horny.