90 Day Fiancé: Self-Quarantined

[poeticlicensed]

16 minutes ago, Spike said:

Debbie is 68.  I don’t know where 55 is coming from.

That makes way more sense

[sainte-chapelle]

If Alla looks like that pregnant then there is no hope for me 😂 I mean my God she is stunning and very sweet.

[gingerella]

3 hours ago, Callaphera said:

The husband about baby David, as he was walking out of the room during the Emily/Sasha segment, right when I had taken a sip of coffee: "He looks just like his dad. That's unfortunate."

They're going to be able to save money every Hallowe'en by painting baby David green and saying he's dressed as The Hulk. That kid is built like a brick shithouse. 

I love you for saying that because I was just going to say that kid is unfortunate looking and literally has a block head. Does he look like Daddy Dearest? I can't tell. And Emily might wanna lay off the bad make up, she looks so much better without it. Also? Parents who complain about their kids bothering them while they're working at home, but they're 'working' on the couch in the  same room as said kids...GTFO.

It was nice to see that Alla has finally fallen in love with Matt, as she said would happen. That was back when this show was actually about legit couples and their legit journey, not the fake dumbasses they have on now.

I've never liked Molly, she's loud, abrasive, and obnoxious. And the way she dealt with Oliva and Luis was the worst kind of parenting. But I had no idea she cut Kinsey's hair off because it was too much trouble for her to deal with! That is beyond shitty parenting, that's just cruel.

[Spike]

Kinsey seemed so happy when she was five.  She seems defeated now.

[LilaFowler]

Matt & Alla: They were such a normal couple that I forgot about them. They seem very happy and Alla seems to have adjusted to life in "the woods" (aka, the burbs).

Molly: I really like her on Pillow Talk. It's great that she's found a way to keep working and is making masks, too.

Sasha and Emily: He's still a jerk. He and Andrei (married to Libby) are loving this pandemic as it gives them yet another excuse not to have a job.

Alan & Kirylam: It was always so weird to me that he met her when she was a kid. Blech.

Jorge in the clink: Don't care. They should have featured Anfisa.

 

Edited April 29, 2020 by LilaFowler

[Chalby]

On 4/5/2020 at 10:38 PM, Leilani said:

I'm looking forward to seeing almost all of them again except for Pedro and Chantel.

 

I thought the same as you, until actual cast members were filmed. Jorge was interesting, but I need a loooonnnng covid break from Coltee and Deb.

3 minutes ago, LilaFowler said:

Matt & Alla: 

Alan & Kirylam:

I realize I may be the only one, but I don't even remember either couple. Clearly they did not make any impact on me, so I am fine with them being quarantined in obscurity. 

[Chalby]

On 4/27/2020 at 5:19 PM, Wollstonecraft said:

I think Annie looks like she's happy and her meals always look good.  

Surprisingly, I despised David in the beginning for being a lecherous, creepy, old American. However, I love Annie, and if she is happy, I can handle any segment of 90 Day she is in. She makes me laugh and I am pretty sure she feels confident enough to put David in his place if he acts out.

[Chalby]

On 4/21/2020 at 12:30 PM, Frozendiva said:

Annie lucked out with David.

I think you meant to write that David lucked out with Annie and, as a result, we lucked out. David (on his own) is a boring, old, unattractive and unemployable penguin. Annie is great.

[Callaphera]

Thanks to that bit with Emily, I am also snacking on a bag of Flamin' Hot Cheetos to pair with my (not rosé) wine. 

Suck it, Sasha. 

[seacliffsal]

It seemed like Jorge was trying to get us to feel sorry for him 'it's so lonely, boring, hard, etc.'  Well, yes, it's not supposed to be a 24/7 party.  Jail is supposed to be punishment.  I did not feel sorry for him at all, and I hope that he is not in any future 90 version. Oh, his "I change my lifestyle" really cracked me up.  Yes, Jorge, when sent to jail/prison, one's 'lifestyle' should change.

[Polliwollidoodle]

Even though it was the week before, my favorite line was Danielle talking about her daughter who would be graduating------She don't go to school no more.

[poeticlicensed]

11 hours ago, mayvenne said:

Even though it was the week before, my favorite line was Danielle talking about her daughter who would be graduating------She don't go to school no more.

Danielle and company are a trainwreck, 7 people living in one house. Only 2 people working and Danielle only works 3 days a week. And her daughter is about to give birth, so make that 8 in a very small space. And didn't at least one of the two who live out of the house report that she lost her job? So most likely they will be 9 in short order. At least Danielle got new glasses that don't sit crooked on her face. 

[readheaded]

9 hours ago, poeticlicensed said:

Danielle and company are a trainwreck, 7 people living in one house. Only 2 people working and Danielle only works 3 days a week. And her daughter is about to give birth, so make that 8 in a very small space. And didn't at least one of the two who live out of the house report that she lost her job? So most likely they will be 9 in short order. At least Danielle got new glasses that don't sit crooked on her face. 

Depending on the job, Danielle could be working full-time (3-12 hour days).

[magemaud]

1 hour ago, readheaded said:

Depending on the job, Danielle could be working full-time (3-12 hour days).

I wonder what happened to nursing school? 

[OoogleEyes]

I love Cynthia!!!

[Suzywriter]

Lord. There are youtube videos on how to manage curls. That chop, and the way that Molly was rubbing that child's curls was guaranteed to make her look like a sea sponge. 

Also, Kinsley seems to be on the spectrum. 

A dying bee. Sigh.

[charmed1]

Molly. Is that the one with the annoying voice? Not knowing how to do your biracial daughter’s hair is not a good enough excuse for cutting it all off, you #%^*! I have biracial friends who experienced this when their non-black moms didn’t know how to do their hair. But that was in the 80s. Now, there are hundreds of YouTubers, Pinterest, Instagram pages, etc. that can you can watch over and over again to learn how to do her hair. OMG, that pissed me off. Lazy dog.

[Suzywriter]

I hate Jorge. 

[Suzywriter]

12 minutes ago, charmed1 said:

Molly. Is that the one with the annoying voice? Not knowing how to do your biracial daughter’s hair is not a good enough excuse for cutting it all off, you #%^*! I have biracial friends who experienced this when their non-black moms didn’t know how to do their hair. But that was in the 80s. Now, there are hundreds of YouTubers, Pinterest, Instagram pages, etc. that can you can watch over and over again to learn how to do her hair. OMG, that pissed me off. Lazy dog.

I'm mixed. I cried when I saw that awful, too-round haircut and Molly *rubbing* curls. 

On 4/30/2020 at 8:06 PM, magemaud said:

I wonder what happened to nursing school? 

It required knowing how to read.

[sainte-chapelle]

On 4/29/2020 at 3:53 PM, seacliffsal said:

It seemed like Jorge was trying to get us to feel sorry for him 'it's so lonely, boring, hard, etc.'  Well, yes, it's not supposed to be a 24/7 party.  Jail is supposed to be punishment.  I did not feel sorry for him at all, and I hope that he is not in any future 90 version. Oh, his "I change my lifestyle" really cracked me up.  Yes, Jorge, when sent to jail/prison, one's 'lifestyle' should change.

Yea when he said "I gave up my freedom for love" tells me he hasn't changed. He blames Anfisa for everything, including his arrest. He likely told his mommy and sister that Anfisa orchestrated the whole thing. He was in the dope game long before he met her.

[sasha206]

On 4/29/2020 at 9:11 AM, Callaphera said:

Thanks to that bit with Emily, I am also snacking on a bag of Flamin' Hot Cheetos to pair with my (not rosé) wine. 

Suck it, Sasha. 

I suspect that Emily was always chunky growing up which is why her sister was really side eyeing Sasha.  I feel like Emily met Sasha when she was uncharacteristically skinny and when it love, it's easier to be motivated.  Now she's a mom, now she is married to Sasha and probably realizes he's no prize, and she just doesn't give a fuck about becoming the (too) skinny woman she was when she met him.  She's going to eat the cheetos and whatever she wants.   I think she'll blame the baby and her work for not being able to get back to her pre-mom, early Sasha days. Not fat shaming her; it's hard to stay in shape with a toddler.  But Emily is def now in the stage of not caring.  Sasha will give her a break for a little bit b/c she's a new mom but he's already getting worried. Her comment "will you love me if I'm 225" or something like that is telling.  

[sasha206]

12 hours ago, Suzywriter said:

Lord. There are youtube videos on how to manage curls. That chop, and the way that Molly was rubbing that child's curls was guaranteed to make her look like a sea sponge. 

Also, Kinsley seems to be on the spectrum. 

A dying bee. Sigh.

I'm one of those people that have cautioned against diagnosing everyone with on the spectrum, but I definitely got that feeling with Kensley.  I couldn't even believe this was the same daughter. I thought she was much younger based on her first 90 day F appearance and was shocked to see her this episode.

[OnceSane]

16 hours ago, charmed1 said:

I have biracial friends who experienced this when their non-black moms didn’t know how to do their hair. But that was in the 80s.

This was me.  But even my mom took me to my play auntie's house to get braided on a regular basis.  And she never cut it that short.

[Gigglepuff]

I forget...didn't Kensley have longer hair before? 

Edited May 5, 2020 by Gigglepuff

[AZChristian]

40 minutes ago, Gigglepuff said:

I forget...didn't Kensley have longer hair before? 

Yes.  Her mother cut it off because she didn't know how to care for it while Kensley couldn't go to a salon.

[Adeejay]

Someone should probably tell those two spoiled brats for Darcey that the world does not revolve around them.  There’re thousands of people dying every day and hundreds of thousands are unemployed. So, they are unable to attend their proms, big effing deal.  Grow up!  

Edited May 10, 2020 by Adeejay

[poeticlicensed]

Chantal is still annoying. Shes so upset they live in close quarters. They have a perfectly fine balcony. Why not sit outside? 

[sainte-chapelle]

Darcey's daughter is 15, that is too young for Prom. When I was in high school you went to prom once when you graduated. When her 13 year old with the huge nails was complaining she should have gently reminded her that people are dying and this is not about her. Kids can be self centred but it is up to the parent to remind them about what is important.

Chantels boobs get bigger every time I see them. Pedro yelling Pinky Winky at her cracked me up. Chantel looks like a real doll with all the makeup. Is Family Chantel trolling us with the hats? Pedro and Chantel do seem to love each other which makes me thing all their drama is fake.

ewww noone needs to see your nasty feed Ceasar. Those pedicure tips were terrible. I think Ceasar is lying about meeting Maria. Photos erased my ass. This is a man who captures everything on camera. Caesars new gal is definitely on someone's payroll. His female friend is pretty.

Olga is lovely and at least Steven is working but it is risky considering he lives with sick grandma. Olga seems grateful and respectful and kind. 

Edited May 5, 2020 by sainte-chapelle

[FrancescaFiore]

Pretty sure Caesar's new girl is a junkie. 

[LennieBriscoe]

After five years of pursuit, Caesar seems extraordinarily blase about his finally meeting Maria.

I can suspend my disbelief only for so long. That entire story line was a crock. Caesar wasn't the sucker; we were.

I hate you, Cuticle Man! 😠

Edited May 5, 2020 by LennieBriscoe

[Haute Messe]

Ff through the first half hour of those insuffersble twins and Chantal and that bunch. Basically just a lot of tits and twits.

Caesar is a great big liar living in a dream world. I do not believe a word that comes out of his mouth. His Facebook date sounds high as a kite.i wonder what her profession is...pretty sure she's not a pastry chef.

Little Alex is cute and it is good that Steven and Olga have him for birth control. The last thing they need is another kid.

Other than that I  think this show is a complete waste of time.

57 minutes ago, FrancescaFiore said:

Pretty sure Caesar's new girl is a junkie. 

And has a pimp.

[renatae]

Caesar's new flame appears to be trying out for a porn movie. I'm sure that's the only reason she's giving him the time of day.

His "demonstration" of a pedicure was woefully incomplete. It makes me wonder if that is his real occupation.

I also find it hard to believe he actually met with Maria. That was so unbelievable, beginning with how he saved up enough money to fly to Ukraine.

Steven and Olga seem to be doing very well. I hope they are and that Steven has learned to be less controlling.

 

Edited May 5, 2020 by renatae

[LennieBriscoe]

I get Steven/Olga mixed up with Sasha/Emily. Apologies for any previous confusing (and confused) posts!

Good way to wear your mask, Steven. 🤪

Edited May 5, 2020 by LennieBriscoe

[Frozendiva]

I have a soft spot for Steven and Olga. Hopefully Alex/Richie brings him some stability, Olga's love is good for him, and he seems ready, willing and able to take any job he can get to help out his family and has plans for the future. Olga doesn't complain, she's not in this for the Green Card or so it seems so far.  He also cooked Olga dinner, which was nice. I hope he makes a good life for all of them.

[OnceSane]

Caesar is still delusional.  But, like his friend said, at least she lives in the US this time!  Twins were disappointing.  Stacey didn't try to cut down Darcey & Darcey wasn't talking about a "fabulous new man" she just met.  Also don't care for Pedro & Chantal.  Boring.  But Olga spritzing Steven with disinfectant night after night?

Woman after my own heart.  Make sure that man is CLEAN before he comes back after being in the 'rona world.

[Leilani]

Okay I did not need to see Cesar's rotted toe and that purple paint job was awful, I hope his 'customer' was just a friend who agreed to do that segment and not someone who actually paid for him to show her how to do her own pedicure poorly.

What time of psychosis is he on that he needs to lie about meeting with Maria and her deleting the photos.

[CSunshine76]

Oh Cesar salad. No one believes you. NO ONE!

You went to Ukraine without telling TLC and finally met Maria. You guys took pics, but they were deleted.  Um, okay.

He mentioned he realized it when he got on the plane? Uh, if on your phone you have 30 days to recover the deleted photos.  Does he think all of us and the producers are as stupid as he is?  Geez man. 

[Texasmom1970]

Caesar even during a quarantine there is no excuse for those feet, eww!

[Frozendiva]

My feet can use some TLC. No polish for them in a while. Since January.

[Texasmom1970]

Just now, Frozendiva said:

My feet can use some TLC. No polish for them in a while. Since January.

Mine need TLC as well, but they are not even close to being as jacked up as his!

[magemaud]

5 hours ago, Gigglepuff said:

 

I forget...didn't Kensley have longer hair before? 

 

This is Kinsley during the Molly/Luis season which I believe was 3 or 4 years ago 

[magemaud]

Chantal is almost unrecognizable without her spider lashes 

[magemaud]

2 hours ago, CSunshine76 said:

You went to Ukraine without telling TLC and finally met Maria. You guys took pics, but they were deleted.  Um, okay.

Caesar said meeting Maria was “like a dream.” No, it WAS a dream, you big oaf. His story so closely mirrors David’s, I wonder if Caesar also met Maria with 9 roses in the same cafe. 

When we first saw his high-as-a-kite date, for a minute I thought it was Larissa! Her cake looked like dog shit, but maybe it had a special Avery inspired ingredient. Later, when Caesar kept talking about the chocolate, I was half expecting it to be leftover panties from Cancun. 

Edited May 5, 2020 by magemaud

[Callaphera]

6 hours ago, Adeejay said:

Someone should probably tell those two spoiled brats for Darcey that the world does not revolve around them.  They are thousands of people dying every day and hundreds of thousands are unemployed. So, they are unable to attend their proms, big effing deal.  Grow up!  

Eh, the world may not revolve around Darcey's daughters but their worlds revolve around themselves, y'know? They're teenagers - most teenagers are concerned with themselves, not the world at large (cue post after post of people saying that they used to watch the news and organize marches at that age). Proms and graduations are big deals for them. People are allowed to mourn the things that they're missing out on during this time - it's not the Pain Olympics, we're not competing to see who has the worst situation and only they matter. You can still have a care for the world at large while being pissed that the big event you were planning for isn't going to happen. Do (general, not specific) you trot out the "starving kids in Africa" bit any time anyone can't finish their plate or say that they can't find anything to eat when the cupboards are full? 

It's healthy to mourn the things we're missing out on, otherwise you're gonna hold onto that shit and it's gonna do nasty things to you. 

Edited May 5, 2020 by Callaphera

[7isBlue]

On 4/21/2020 at 4:17 PM, jacksgirl said:

Forgot a thought. An old episode of Seinfeld had Jerry dating a woman who looked good in certain light and bad in certain light. That's Corny! Sometimes she looks good, others, yikes. Way too much makeup too.

Haha! I just referred to myself as that woman, on my Zoom calls. I got a mini-ring light and it’s the best$18 I’ve ever spent on Amazon! (I’m obviously super-VAIN!)

[TwirlyGirly]

8 hours ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Darcey's daughter is 15, that is too young for Prom. When I was in high school you went to prom once when you graduated. 

It really depends upon the school. My high school had both a junior prom and a senior prom. (Actually, it was a senior weekend; prom [formal] Friday night, post-prom [semi-formal] Saturday night, and senior picnic Sunday. One ticket covered all three events).

Anika (Darcey's oldest daughter) could be a H.S. junior, depending upon her birthday, or she may have skipped a grade. Perhaps she was invited to the prom by an upperclassman.

There are several milestones kids look forward to for most of their childhood; getting their driver's license, prom, highschool graduation, reaching the age of majority (18), and being able to buy - and drink - alcohol legally (21). 

And while these things seem trite right now in the grand scheme of things - when people are dying, losing their jobs, their homes, can't get enough to eat - it's generally not helpful to minimize someone's feelings of loss by pointing out greater losses experienced by others.

As a matter of fact, allowing teens to feel sad/frustrated/angry at missing out - validating their feelings and empathizing with them - is what ultimately helps them to develop empathy for other people. 

[Polliwollidoodle]

4 hours ago, magemaud said:

ite date, for a minute I thought it was Larissa! Her cake looked like dog shit, but maybe it had a special Avery inspired ingredient. Later, when Caesar kept talking about the chocolate, I was half expecting it to be leftover panties from Cancun. 

Yes I thought she looked familiar and I couldn't place it but reading your comment- YUP very reminiscent of Larissa. She was definitely auditioning for something and she was either super high or playing us all. She wants us to know she IS ready for her close up.

Pedro looks good with the beard. So help me out here- she is in school and he plays games all day long??  I think the routines of Chantel and her family doing cheers was rather umm 

unique? Cray cray. She is honestly a pretty lady but she has altered her looks so much that she will soon be looking like Darce and Stace.

I felt very bad for Molly's daughter who did not seem to enjoy having a camera around at all. I do hesitate to agree that she seems to have some issues. I hope she was just very tired.

Molly seems like a lot of fun, but maybe doesn;t have the best judgement or luck.

Darcey is a mess. Previously ( like maybe a few seasons ago) her daughters seemed more mature and balanced. Did anyone else catch one of the daughters doing a sort of shimmy dance for a few seconds? Sure struck me as most inappopriate especially on camera.

 I too have a soft spot for Steven and Olga.

I even think possibly Sasha and Emily have potential. They seem to be trying and focused.

[sainte-chapelle]

9 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

I have a soft spot for Steven and Olga. Hopefully Alex/Richie brings him some stability, Olga's love is good for him, and he seems ready, willing and able to take any job he can get to help out his family and has plans for the future. Olga doesn't complain, she's not in this for the Green Card or so it seems so far.  He also cooked Olga dinner, which was nice. I hope he makes a good life for all of them.

Yea he really impressed me last night. He seemed more humble and kind and willing to work unlike many people on this show (not talking about COVID but before). He is also willing to move to a new area where she has family so she feels more supported and has company while he works. Colour me impressed.

[sainte-chapelle]

2 hours ago, TwirlyGirly said:

It really depends upon the school. My high school had both a junior prom and a senior prom. (Actually, it was a senior weekend; prom [formal] Friday night, post-prom [semi-formal] Saturday night, and senior picnic Sunday. One ticket covered all three events).

Anika (Darcey's oldest daughter) could be a H.S. junior, depending upon her birthday, or she may have skipped a grade. Perhaps she was invited to the prom by an upperclassman.

There are several milestones kids look forward to for most of their childhood; getting their driver's license, prom, highschool graduation, reaching the age of majority (18), and being able to buy - and drink - alcohol legally (21). 

And while these things seem trite right now in the grand scheme of things - when people are dying, losing their jobs, their homes, can't get enough to eat - it's generally not helpful to minimize someone's feelings of loss by pointing out greater losses experienced by others.

As a matter of fact, allowing teens to feel sad/frustrated/angry at missing out - validating their feelings and empathizing with them - is what ultimately helps them to develop empathy for other people. 

Thanks for the info, I don't live in the US so maybe my experience was different but Prom wasn't a big deal to us. My niece is 15 and is mourning a few milestones herself which we all encourage. However she also watches the news with her parents and understands why this is happening. My concern lies with Darcey raising them to be in their own superficial vapid little bubbles. I was self centred too, part of being a teenager but I don't sense a lot of balance in that household. Maybe after mourning cheer yourself up by bedazzling a face mask or learning to bake.

Edited May 5, 2020 by sainte-chapelle

[Callaphera]

9 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

I have a soft spot for Steven and Olga. Hopefully Alex/Richie brings him some stability, Olga's love is good for him, and he seems ready, willing and able to take any job he can get to help out his family and has plans for the future. Olga doesn't complain, she's not in this for the Green Card or so it seems so far.  He also cooked Olga dinner, which was nice. I hope he makes a good life for all of them.

Steven also took video of Olga when she was changing and she hurried up to cover herself by holding her pants up to her chest. She didn't seem too pissed but she also didn't seem comfortable being filmed in her bra top and panties. And he still didn't move the camera until she turned around and tried to duck into the closet to put her clothes on. 

Not cool, Steven.