Okay, we have a lot of unpack and most folks have hit all four corners quite well, so let me add my thoughts: Darcy, when a man offers you an AirB&B, you accept it - you are glad he is a gentleman and wants to get to know you before boning you after meeting you IN PERSON an hour earlier. Darcy: It is all I can do, follow my heart!" No, you can follow your head and NOT chase male tail all over the globe. He is attempting to treat you with respect and obviously that is a new concept for you. Yes, Darcy, you two ARE in a different space. He does not want to propose, he is "feeling things out" and hoping your friend pushes her plumplies into a screen again. You are expecting another royal wedding. Good luck. Meghan Markle, you ain't. And Tom is no Prince Harry!
Avery: Has no one told her there is a travel ban in place for allowing Syrians (and other countries) into the USA? He AIN'T GETTING INTO THE USA AVERY.
Phoenix Man (Benjamin) and Nairobi Girl: Another clueless wonder with an adorable son. "I have $2000 in my account and after bills I have $1000......what to do what to do? If I can't meet their bride price (never want to hear that term again) I could come home without a wife." No, minister man, you WILL come home without a wife as we all know how this will turn out.
Caesar - I don't care as I think we are being played. NO ONE communicates for FIVE YEARS and never try to meet. Think about it - I am online, talking, texting with someone since summer 2014 and we meet NOW? My kids who are now well into college were a few years from graduating high school!!!! I mean, c'mon now.......