Season 6 Discussion

[sasha206]

15 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I work in Columbia off of Gateway Drive!

I don't think Olga ever thought of a green card, just came to make money, getting pregnant was probably not the souvenier she wanted, at all.

Wow, I'm in the Frederick area!  We def could have some 90Day gatherings!

[Baltimore Betty]

25 minutes ago, sasha206 said:

Wow, I'm in the Frederick area!  We def could have some 90Day gatherings!

I will meet all of you at Victoria Gastro Pub!

I thought is was interesting that Debbie's car had a rear windsheild wiper and it is a sedan, that is a new one for me but they don't have a couch. lol.

Maybe they can take Eric's air sofa when Leida tosses it over the balcony railing.

[iwasish]

5 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I will meet all of you at Victoria Gastro Pub!

I thought is was interesting that Debbie's car had a rear windsheild wiper and it is a sedan, that is a new one for me but they don't have a couch. lol.

Maybe they can take Eric's air sofa when Leida tosses it over the balcony railing.

Lots of rain in Seattle maybe it’s an often requested option so dealers on that area have a lot of cars on the lot that have the option package that includes rear wiper.

i know cars sold in Minnesota and Michigan have engine warmers as it is sooooo cold there at times. 

In the pics Larissa posted showing the “mess” Colt made, there was a couch , it looked like it was micro fiber and in a lighter neutral color. No leather. 

[HaaCHOO]

On 11/13/2018 at 9:06 AM, millennium said:

But the way Asuelo goes around like a whipped dog, making promises to whomever demands it ("you better not hurt my daughter," "you better not cheat on my sister," "tell me right now that you love my sister") is so humiliating to watch.

I agree that's what you see and it is humiliating (isn't that what they're trying to do?)...but what are his alternatives?  What happens if he even speaks up a little?  He's in the United States--no social support system at all.   Does he have any money?  Does he have a plane ticket home?  He appears to be a quiet, kind, unsophisticated guy.  Maybe he's just waiting until TLC will let him get the hell outta here!  It's possible he has begged them again and again.     TEAM ASUELU ! ! !

Edited November 17, 2018 by HaaCHOO

[millennium]

26 minutes ago, HaaCHOO said:

I agree that's what you see and it is humiliating (isn't that what they're trying to do?)...but what are his alternatives?  What happens if he even speaks up a little?  He's in the United States--no social support system at all.   Does he have any money?  Does he have a plane ticket home?  He appears to be a quiet, kind, unsophisticated guy.  Maybe he's just waiting until TLC will let him get the hell outta here!  It's possible he has begged them again and again.     TEAM ASUELU ! ! !

I would think that an assertive, positive approach would go further than the submissive penitent routine he's currently employing, i.e., "Don't worry, Kalani's father, I love your daughter and will do everything in my power to take care of her and my son.   Like you, I come to America to make a better life for my family.   I hope I can count on your friendship and support."

[IvySpice]

Wait, Eric is FORTY? I'm forty-three and look about 30 years younger than he does.

I'm inclined to say Colt and his mom can do whatever makes them happy, and I didn't think their house was terrible, but who on EARTH has a car in Vegas with no air conditioning?? I'm pretty sure that's a human rights violation. You might as well have a car without a steering wheel.

[CSS.MD]

6 hours ago, Mothra said:

OMG It *is* Kip and Lafawnduh.

I’M DEAD. ???????????????????⚰️

7 hours ago, iwasish said:

Lots of rain in Seattle maybe it’s an often requested option so dealers on that area have a lot of cars on the lot that have the option package that includes rear wiper.

i know cars sold in Minnesota and Michigan have engine warmers as it is sooooo cold there at times. 

In the pics Larissa posted showing the “mess” Colt made, there was a couch , it looked like it was micro fiber and in a lighter neutral color. No leather. 

Larissa wanting “neutral” colours makes me think she’s going for the “lifestyle YouTuber/beauty guru” decor look. You know how EVERYONE on YouTube has the same white IKEA Alex drawers, EEEEVERYONE has the same acrylic MUJI storage on top of them... (Hell, at this point even I own one—LOL.) Oh, and don’t forget the the fairy lights! Can’t forget the fairy lights on your headboard in your all-white room!

Why does everyone want to look like everyone? ??‍♀️

And Anfisa was totes trying to get someone to fund the “Instagram model” lifestyle. Someone needs to tell her that those Instagram “models” don’t even have “sugar daddies”, they’ve got “international johns” (especially if you see them frequenting Dubai or photographed on/around yachts—just ask Enty Lawyer).

8 hours ago, sasha206 said:

Wow, I'm in the Frederick area!  We def could have some 90Day gatherings!

Meanwhile, I can’t even catch this forum when it’s busiest because I’m in a different timezone... ?

Hell, I can't even seem to get it to load in a timely manner unless I use a VPN. ?

7 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I will meet all of you at Victoria Gastro Pub!

I thought is was interesting that Debbie's car had a rear windsheild wiper and it is a sedan, that is a new one for me but they don't have a couch. lol.

Maybe they can take Eric's air sofa when Leida tosses it over the balcony railing.

Speaking of meet-ups and a certain Indonesian on the show, I was just talking to my Indonesian girlfriends yesterday (Saturday) about Leida...

Spoiler

I sort of had to let my friends know as a safety measure because she strikes me as the type to have some “preman” (Indonesian thug) friends.

You know sort of like, “hey if anything ever happens to me, I just want you to know that I’ve been having issues with so-and-so person.”

Because if you’ve read the *SPOILER* thread, you’ve probably read about the things she allegedly did in the past and got away with, as well as certain things that point to possibly having violent tendencies.

Basically most of my Indonesian friends think she’s delusional (probably even thinks we don’t speak fluent enough English to understand what goes on on that show without subtitles—because she’s so crème-de-la-crème and that much smarter than the rest of the Indonesian population).

I even have one friend who managed to decypher exactly what kind of Jakartan she is based on her accent when she speaks Indonesian and her lifestyle...

She seriously better quit the prowling social media to insult/taunt Indonesians who merely question her, because if you thought I was harsh on the *SPOILER* thread, you’ve seen nothing yet...

Others won’t be as kind. Next time she pisses off another Indonesian, they will practically destroy her.

Especially if she keeps up the putting other people down, people will tear her down even harder.

And the general consensus was:

”DOES SHE REALLY THINK NOBODY IN INDONESIA WILL NOTICE AND CALL HER OUT ON HER BS?!” ☕️

It’s like she thinks she can just live in a bubble in America and be famous there without any Indonesians noticing the cray plot holes...

We think she’s delusional...

Edited November 18, 2018 by CSS.MD
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[ALittleShelfish]

8 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I will meet all of you at Victoria Gastro Pub!

I thought is was interesting that Debbie's car had a rear windsheild wiper and it is a sedan, that is a new one for me but they don't have a couch. lol.

Maybe they can take Eric's air sofa when Leida tosses it over the balcony railing.

Victoria is my FAVORITE place.  Their Duck Fat Fries are what I drive 90 min from Harrisburg for.  

To put this quasi-topical:  Coltee and Eric would never drive 9 minutes for duck fat fries.  

[Spike]

1 hour ago, IvySpice said:

Wait, Eric is FORTY? I'm forty-three and look about 30 years younger than he does.

I'm inclined to say Colt and his mom can do whatever makes them happy, and I didn't think their house was terrible, but who on EARTH has a car in Vegas with no air conditioning?? I'm pretty sure that's a human rights violation. You might as well have a car without a steering wheel.

Debbie explained on the live show that they had moved from Seattle a year ago and many people don’t have AC in their cars there because it’s not needed.  She said they plan to install it but have more pressing things to spend on now.

[Baltimore Betty]

1 hour ago, ALittleShelfish said:

Victoria is my FAVORITE place.  Their Duck Fat Fries are what I drive 90 min from Harrisburg for.  

To put this quasi-topical:  Coltee and Eric would never drive 9 minutes for duck fat fries.  

Duck Fat Fries makes watching Eric and Coltee bearable.

[RoadFullOfPromise]

On 11/16/2018 at 3:30 PM, snarky snarkerson said:

Honestly, though, if she completed her studies (I call a big if in that), she would still have a HUGE uphill battle to even securing a residency in the US. Many foreign doctors end up applying to physician assistant programs or other health science programs that can be completed in 2-3 years versus attempting it - therejust aren’t that many residency slots.

The fact that random US medical schools have recently popped up (Liberty University, etc.) isn’t helping either since again, the number of residency slots hasn’t increased accordingly. 

[sasha206]

23 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I will meet all of you at Victoria Gastro Pub!

I thought is was interesting that Debbie's car had a rear windsheild wiper and it is a sedan, that is a new one for me but they don't have a couch. lol.

Maybe they can take Eric's air sofa when Leida tosses it over the balcony railing.

OMG, that would be such a freaking blast!  

[Morgalisa]

On 11/14/2018 at 9:51 PM, PityFree said:

 You will be charmed by her and you will also love her wedding dress that had pockets!!! Pockets!

Thanks @PityFree. I went back and binged season 2. She is delightful. I loved her entire wedding (pockets!) and bridal shower. Her mom was lovely as well. 

I noticed that the Tell All had a different host who was much better than Shawn. And this was before the participants were encouraged to attack each other the way they do now. 

Most of them were more innocent and less media savvy than now. Larissa seems to be very aware of the cameras.

[Gobi]

On 11/12/2018 at 10:48 AM, Drogo said:

Thinking more like "Checking their current addresses and place of employment to ensure he's still 1000 feet away from their residence/workplace."

More probably, checking to see if their status has changed from "missing" to "cold case".

Edited November 18, 2018 by Gobi
Double post

[Gobi]

On 11/13/2018 at 9:42 AM, Drogo said:

Certainly not unchallenged, but yes there are a lot of armchair diagnoses.  I was curious as to whether he actually said he had post traumatic stress syndrome or not since I didn't recall him saying that.  Eric was an avionics technician, so the odds he saw combat are slim... not that he couldn't have PTSD.   

Eric has PSTD, Philly Steak Treating Disorder, characterized by the inability to properly treat people to a Philly Cheesesteak.

[Baltimore Betty]

I am giggling to myself as I take the folding chairs out of their bags, like Coltee and Debbie I have no couch!!!  My son and daughter in law took my furniture to their house and I get my new stuff delivered in January.  Seriously, no couch!

[Drogo]

That biggie blackie car weighed too many kilometers. 

[Chickabiddy]

So, if I’m brutally honest,  and we all know that I am, I was more shocked by Kalani’s behavior behind the wheel then I was by Asuelo taking the baby out of the car seat. How can you safely control your vehicle while trying not to rub your Cheeto stained thumb and forefinger on your steering wheel,while simultaneously spending more time watching the back seat in the rear view mirror than you are watching the road? Couple that with her claim that Asuelo’s dumb move put her in a “blind rage as she picked up her baby to hold, and I think it’s safe to say that Kalani is the dangerous parent.

Watching her hypocrisy and her verbally abusive treatment of her very passive fiancé just puts me in my own blind rage. Ugh. I hope Asuelo finds a way to stand up to her or finds a way home. She is a first class shrew. 

And speaking of first class, Eric is a first class dirt bag. Jesus wept, he didn’t even try to clean the apartment up later that day. 

I did notice when Leida was complaining to her parents, she complained first that the bed was too small for her to share with Eric and second that the couch was an inflatable one. Not once did she mention that there was no bedroom for Aless. Mother of the year she is not. If she ends up staying with Eric after all this, we will know that her family is hardly as rich as she claims. No one with reasonable financial means would submit  to living like that for someone like Eric. She is with him because, for whatever reason, she needs out of Indonesia fast. The family made a few efforts to offer money to help or made the suggestion they should go back to Indonesia to live, but it seems like they are finding a way to let Leida  stay under mild protest. Girl must be running from something.

Holy shit, Olga, stay in Russia! At least they seem to know in Russia how to keep shoes off the bed and wash hands after handling shoes.

I would call Steven a petulant brat, but that would be ignoring that nasty streak of rage that  has already started peeking  out…even with cameras present. I can tell they are going to be some pretty nasty cultural clashes between Russian and American approaches to raising babies and children. And as much as I used to be a fan of Olga and Steven, I can see him using emotional and physical intimidation to win his arguments. I found his nasty tone and temperament while ordering Olga around in the hospital to be really offputting, and maybe now we are getting a glimpse of why his mother kicked him out at 16. Yikes. 

Fernanda, Fernanda, Fernanda, if Jonathan’s mother has the temerity to blame you or treat you like shit because Jonathan chose to spend time with you in Mexico or chose not to tell her about proposal, run your hot little bod back across the border as fast as you can. If mommy blames you for all her precious baby’s indiscretions, you are in for a life of hell.

Larissa, Coltie knew full well you were afraid of heights, and took you to the tallest building in Las Vegas because he is a sadistic, malicious son of a bitch. Does Debbie sound jealous of Larissa’s ring?

“If I could come to the US without marrying Ashley, I would”  Ooh, I don’t think Jay just realized how badly he spilled the beans all over the damn floor.

This show should be really called 90 Day Dysfunction.

Edited November 19, 2018 by Chickabiddy

[TattooFan]

But that car was so cutie!

[Drogo]

Alien Resurrection, Alvin & the Chipmunks, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Phantom of the Opera, Terminator Salvation, Short Circuit... 

Eric has the DVD collection of a serial killer. 

[poeticlicensed]

I'm starting to get a sense that Colt is a real SOB with a baby face. What's the problem Larissa? The view is great here. What's wrong with a car with no AC? Here let me take you to see a nice car that you really want and then say no. He jabs and digs all while smiling and in an even tone. Super passive aggressive 

Edited November 19, 2018 by poeticlicensed

[ezzy4]

I don't live too far from where Eric lives.  It's a beautiful area.  Typical small Wisconsin town but not really remote.

There should be inexpensive apartments to find IF you have good credit and security deposit alin hand.

But MAN O MAN I cannot get over that he is supposed to be only 40 yrs old.  He looks 20 years older than that.  There is something off about that.  A drinking problem? A serious health issue?? Something.

Clearly Thai girl is here for more than love and a low rent lifestyle.  Perhaps an American doctor's degree is really important to her/ her family.  I don't buy that Thai family is rich as in American rich.  Offering two months rent ain't nothing.

3 minutes ago, poeticlicensed said:

I'm starting to get a sense that Colt is a real SOB with a baby face. What's the problem Larissa? The view is great here. What's wrong with a car with no AC? Here let me take you to see a nice car that you really want and then say no. He jabs and digs all while smiling and in an even tone. Super passive aggressive 

Right? Super creepy!

[Adeejay]

I have a feeling Eric would have taken the money from Leida’s dad, if the cameras weren’t around. 

Steven seems to have abusive tendencies.  I believe Olga is in danger. 

I wish Asuelu would go home.  I don't think he will be happy here in America with these condescending, judgmental people.  

3 minutes ago, Chickabiddy said:

“If I could come to the US without marrying Ashley, I would”  Ooh, I don’t think Jay just realized how badly he spilled the beans all over the damn floor.

I understand what Jay is trying to say.  It seems that while he wants to with Ashley, he doesn't necessarily want to be married.  After all, he is only 20 years old.  He mentioned that his mom is in the U.S., so, I can't help but wonder why this is his only option.  

[Major Bigtime]

I watched this show, then changed the channel to watch the second half of the Jonestown massacre documentary. 

Someone on this show is going to have a bad demise. I can just feel it in my bones.

None of these people should get married. Go home, before you are unable to.

[Chickabiddy]

13 minutes ago, Adeejay said:

I understand what Jay is trying to say.  It seems that while he wants to with Ashley, he doesn't necessarily want to be married.  After all, he is only 20 years old.  He mentioned that his mom is in the U.S., so, I can't help but wonder why this is his only option.

Then Jay really needs to sit back a cool his heels in Jamaica for a while to be sure of whst he wants before he decides to take the 90 day plunge.  

His mother may be here, but since chain migration really isn’t as easy or prevalent as some try to make it seem, it can take years and years to bring family over. Devar’s mother was also here in America, but he flew in in on Melanie's Coat tails. Loren also looked in to bringing Alexi’s family over, and she was really disappointed when she realized it could take years and years, especially for his younger brother.

if Jay really only wants to live with Ashley, as opposed to marrying her,  he needs to take a time out at home to think about it...that or learn to play the  90 day game with a little more subtlety. 

Edited November 19, 2018 by Chickabiddy

[iwasish]

2 minutes ago, Adeejay said:

I have a feeling Eric would have taken the money from Leida’s dad, if the cameras weren’t around. 

Steven seems to have abusive tendencies.  I believe Olga is in danger. 

I wish Asuelu would go home.  I don't think he will be happy here in America with these condescending, judgmental people.  

I understand what Jay is trying to say.  It seems that while he wants to with Ashley, he doesn't necessarily want to be married.  After all, he is only 20 years old.  He mentioned that his mom is in the U.S., so, I can't help but wonder why this is his only option.  

He wants to be with Ashley and not married so he can do as he pleases. She dumped her bestie of many years for his heavy sack so he knows she’ll bitch about it but probably tolerate his dicking around st least long enough to get his papers and be able to divorce her. 

[shouldbedancing]

I feel bad for Olga. She's so alone. Steven has zero capacity to begin to understand or feel empathy for what she's going through. I wish she had some family around. It kind of scares me. There's no way he can bring her over on a visa on his own and I don't see who in his life as the means to co-sponsor him. It'll be better for Olga to stay in Russia without him. How can Steven watch her getting ripped open and a baby pulled out and make that moment all about him? (Also TLC I did not sign up to watch a c-section 90 day fiance, you can skip showing us the graphic part.)

[Frozendiva]

Jay could try a student visa - not get married at the age of 20. Both him and Ashley are not realistically expecting to sit on the verandah in their rocking chairs at 71 and 60. He should have a long talk with Ashley about her being responsible for him for 10 years.

What is Leida running from in Malaysia? Eric is her way out? There are better prospects than him. What does she see in him? There seems to be little love or even affection. He cannot support her in the lifestyle that she has become accustomed to, he has little to offer her, his home is a semi-dump, there is no room for her, her son, his adult daughter shares the apartment. If her family is that wealthy, they could easily set her up in LA, or Seattle, or Miami, Chicago, New York, anywhere. Although if she wishes to live in a dump, that is her choice.

Steven's pain, upbringing, insecurity, anger issues are surfacing. Granted he is in a strange country. He does have to be respectful of the laws there or he could face jail or deportation. He and Olga will have a lot of issues and growing up to do. Maybe it is time to call up the grandparents and ask for some help. And when he gets home, gets counselling for his anger issues and take some parenting classes (if any are available). And find a job.

Fernanda is playing with fire and she will get burned. Life for her is still very black and white.  She's making a list and checking it twice to make sure Jon is naughty and not nice.  Maybe she likes drama, maybe she likes to overreact, maybe that is how she gets things or gets things to go her way. It is only cute once or twice and then it starts to get old very quickly.  Go back home to Mexico, enjoy your bodily gift from Jon, and maybe have a bit of a life for a few years. Then get married - Jon may be 35 and you will be 22. A bit older and wiser. You won't be the same woman at 25. Your hopes and dreams will be very different. Why tie yourself to this guy except as a way to get out of Mexico and have a sugar daddy.

The Colt/Larissa story is creepy.  He and motherwife Debbie are the couple. Larissa is fresh fodder for their little game. Sure, she has a fear of heights so take her to the tallest place in Vegas and then - propose! He is going to put up with her? His game isn't much fun and he holds most of the cards and cat outfits. Why is he getting married? So he looks normal?

Kalani, get a grip over yourself and your family. Asuelu is not the man you want. He is too simple and has no clue about the world outside of Samoa. Unless you give him lots of time and space, he is not going to be a 'father' to Oliver.  He doesn't have a clue. Screaming at him is not going to help you. Neither is moving to Utah. You will miss your sister act Kolini. The bright lights of LA and the beaches are not going to transfer well to the red rocks.  It will take a long time for Asuelu to feel at home in America. He also needs a few quick lessons in parenting and birth control. He has many siblings and wants many kids. Do you? You quit your job. Both of you don't have any money coming in to pay the bills, buy food, get diapers and such. Do you have access to health care? Speeding on the highway is not cool. And screaming at Asuelu wasn't cool either. You continue driving until you can pull off the road safely and then talk to him. Right now, it is not going to work.

As someone else in another post said, some of these folks may end up in very dire circumstances.

[Spike]

I say we rename this thread Slut People.

[JasonH]

[Nowhere]

Why do they keep saying Sahm-WA instead of how Asuelu says Samoa? He definitely pronounces it as it is spelled. It’s an O, not a W. I’ve watched it so many times and googled the pronounciation. Never heard anyone pronounce it like this highly annoying family does. It even breaks my heart to watch them abuse Asuelu, to the point of not really liking to see their segments. I dislike Kalani more than any other person on the history of this show including spin-offs. 

[JasonH]

Leidas brother didn’t look like he came from a rich family. Speaking of brothers, Kalani’s brother’s old wilted rubber joke was hacky as fuck.

[Major Bigtime]

I am worried for Asuelu. Seriously, he’s going to reach his snapping point with this harpy.

[SevenCostanza]

1 hour ago, Major Bigtime said:

I watched this show, then changed the channel to watch the second half of the Jonestown massacre documentary. 

Someone on this show is going to have a bad demise. I can just feel it in my bones.

None of these people should get married. Go home, before you are unable to.

Me too. I kept switching back and forth. I can't believe that was 40 years ago, I remember when it happened. 

[Nowhere]

Asuelu, trust me, use the condoms like slut people, get your green card, divorce and get joint custody of the baby, have three more children with a better woman. DO NOT have four kids with this insane family! 

[JennyMominFL]

Can You imagine Eric fighting Isis. He would just stare off into space while they did  things. Maybe he wanted to fight  Isis the superhero? How the heck did this man serve.

[Jeanclaudvanbuns]

Jay doesn't want to marry Ashley because he's a slut people.  

Kalani's brother was pretty cool and accepting of Asuelo. 

[endure]

1 hour ago, shouldbedancing said:

I feel bad for Olga. She's so alone. Steven has zero capacity to begin to understand or feel empathy for what she's going through. I wish she had some family around. It kind of scares me. There's no way he can bring her over on a visa on his own and I don't see who in his life as the means to co-sponsor him. It'll be better for Olga to stay in Russia without him. How can Steven watch her getting ripped open and a baby pulled out and make that moment all about him? (Also TLC I did not sign up to watch a c-section 90 day fiance, you can skip showing us the graphic part.)

I totally agree with you and I fear for Olga, Steven turned into a scary, selfish, inconsiderate, bully with no regard for Olga at all.  And what about all that pre delivery drama about him wanting to be in the room for the birth, they had the whole camera crew filming a c-section up close and personal.  Between the editing and the strange personalities on this show it's hard to know which way to think.

Re the visa and sponsorship, maybe his grandparents are able to sponsor her visa process.  Also I wonder if she has relatives in the States because she did live there the previous summer, when she met Steven and got pg.

Edited November 19, 2018 by endure

[thejuicer]

Steven was an absolute jerk with Olga. She just had a C-section and here he is, telling her to hurry up and get dressed. Not more than 1 minute later while she's getting ready baby makes a small peep and father of the year says "Olga! He's hungry!" like he can't figure it out. And also he called Olga an "asshole". Nice. 

Do not go to the US with him, Olga. You are in for a world of abuse and gas lighting. Stay in Russia and raise your son on your own. 

[iwasish]

10 minutes ago, Nowhere said:

Asuelu, trust me, use the condoms like slut people, get your green card, divorce and get joint custody of the baby, have three more children with a better woman. DO NOT have four kids with this insane family! 

If he’s banging her without protection now, she may already be knocked up. 

[ChiBurbsMama]

1 hour ago, Chickabiddy said:

Does Debbie sound jealous of Larissa’s ring?

No way that ring is real, right?!

[ChiBurbsMama]

2 hours ago, Chickabiddy said:

 

So, if I’m brutally honest,  and we all know that I am, I was more shocked by Kalani’s behavior behind the wheel then I was by Asuelo taking the baby out of the car seat. How can you safely control your vehicle while trying not to rub your Cheeto stained thumb and forefinger on your steering wheel,while simultaneously spending more time watching the back seat in the rear view mirror than you are watching the road? Couple that with her claim that Asuelo’s dumb move put her in a “blind rage as she picked up her baby to hold, and I think it’s safe to say that Kalani is the dangerous parent.

Watching her hypocrisy and her verbally abusive treatment of her very passive fiancé just puts me in my own blind rage. Ugh. I hope Asuelo finds a way to stand up to her or finds a way home. She is a first class shrew. 

 

This. All of this. Kalani and her entire family (including her idiot brother) are Class A assholes. Asuelo seems like a nice guy and her shrieking and eye rolling and constant ‘doubts’ about marrying him are sickening. Can’t stand her, not even a little bit. I feel bad for that tiny, adorable little boy, being raised by the Two Shrews of SoCal.

Edited November 19, 2018 by ChiBurbsMama

[islandgal140]

Thank goodness Larissa didn't express a fear of spiders. Coltie likely would have lowered her into a pit of tarantulas to propose. 

Eric is dusty. I look at him and think .... oh so that is Pigpen all grown up. 

Both him and Leida ain't shit. My hate for them runs deep and wide. Leida is a mean, spiteful bitch and Eric is an ain't shit man to put his new tootsie roll before his family. Oh, so Leida thinks Tasha is grown and should be on her own at 18-19 but she herself is damn near 30 yr old has been living under her parents roof, rent free (unlike Tasha) for years. She can miss me with her bullshit. It is funny how Leida can throw her cultural norms in the trash when it suits her (e.g. a daughter living with parents until marriage). 

We have seen everyone comfort, show affection or have meaningful interaction with Alessandro but Leida.

What a difference a week makes. Steven was so rootable and likeable last week but damn did it go to shit when he started acting like an asshole to a woman that had just days before been cut from stem to stern and had a lil human (his son) pulled out of her. Dick!!

[ChiCricket]

     Looks like Colt really dressed up for the proposal.

 Does he have on a pair of Mother's old jeans?

Edited November 19, 2018 by ChiCricket

[endure]

10 hours ago, JennyMominFL said:

Can You imagine Eric fighting Isis. He would just stare off into space while they did  things. Maybe he wanted to fight  Isis the superhero? How the heck did this man serve.

No I can’t imagine Eric fighting Isis, it is so strange how he stares off into space.  He appears to be lazy and unmotivated, and probably is,  looking at his living space.  It amazes me how he made no preparations for Leida and her sons arrival. I wonder what he does for work?

Edited November 19, 2018 by endure

[Nowhere]

1 hour ago, iwasish said:

If he’s banging her without protection now, she may already be knocked up. 

Gross

[iwasish]

9 minutes ago, Nowhere said:

Gross

Well he pretty much said that Kalani is after him everyday for sex. 

13 minutes ago, endure said:

No I can’t imagine Eric fighting Isis, it is so strange how he stares off into space.  He appears to be lazy and unmotivated, and probably is looking at his living space.  It amazes me how he made no preparations for Leida and her sons arrival. I wonder what he does for work?

He always looks like he needs a drink. 

[Tallulahbaby]

Steven was a vile ass. I could see him grabbing the baby out of Olga's hands. I like him last week. Not no more!

Leida, matte lipstick is not the look for you. 

[TrininisaScorp]

Whew...these people, man. 

Steven made me want to punch him.  I'm trying to appreciate that he is young and clearly has a lot of trauma in his life, but DAMN, BITCH...Olga JUST had a c-section. That's not minor surgery, and he's all pissy that she isn't jumping up and down?  Also, I cannot with his dirty hands all over that baby.  WTF?!  The underlying rage and Olga's look of pure exasperation, but also fear, was not cute to watch and not a great portent for their future.  Steven needs a damn therapist and NOT an insta-family. 

Kalani is the worst.  How in the hell is he suppose to know the rules of the road in the States if she can't be bothered to tell him?  I'm from a 3rd world country and maybe there are car seats now, but I'll tell you that I probably didn't have a car seat when I was a wee Trininisa.  I don't blame Asuelo for not talking to Kahlani.  She is being a real dick, and continues to be a dick.  "I apologized for my terrible behavior...why won't this asshole talk to me and get over it?!"   I think this maybe an unpopular opinion, but I appreciate that Nick had jokes, and I was almost on his side until he said Kalani doesn't need him.  Can NONE of these people appreciate that he's Oliver's father, and their girl is just as much to blame for their current situation??!!  Ummm, also someone needs to educate Asuelo about the importance of condom usage, and that these people are NOT ready for another baby. 

I got secondhand embarrassment from watching Leida take her family through that shithole of an apartment.  I love the **lewks** that her parents were giving each other and the apartment, and that they tried a little to not comment (I'm sure production kept pushing too).  I also feel a renewed appreciation for Leida's sister.  I have a hunch that Leida has always been this flighty, useless person, and her sister is constantly having to pick up the pieces and is just so tired of her sister's entitled, shitty decision making.  If there wasn't a kid involved, I would be much more amused at Leida's choice of American.  Eric is a lazy, useless asshole.  Maybe I'm projecting b/c Baraboo has been in the news for very uncool reasons, but Eric seems the type that is...how to say...more "nationalist" than "patriot"?  Leida may not understand the racial tension and such in small midwest town, but she, and unfortunately, that kid are gonna learn today. 

BroJohn and Fernanda...bruh.  Like, is his family racist or something?  Does he have a relationship with his mom that's Colt/Deb like?  There is this (for lack of a better analogy for this dreck) "madwomen in the tower" vibe that BroJohn gives off when he talks about this family.   I feel bad for Fernanda.  She isn't secure enough to be married, she doesn't have a man, IMO, who feels like a stable foundation when she has no family nearby, and CLEARLY, BroJohn's family is NOT going to be a support system.

Colt and Larissa are such a damn mess.  She's a harpy who wants all the things with no thought process of how to pay for them, and he's an asshole who can't be bothered to respect that she is afraid of heights and other basic human things.  Their proposal was one of the most uncomfortable things I've ever seen, and I've watched every damn season of this godforsaken show.  "Wanna get married?"  I've also informed my husband that I'm calling my wedding set my "ring-ies" from here onwards. 

Jay/Ashley...can we just fastforward to their ill advised relationship combusting b/c I'd really not like to take the scenic route?

[queenjen]

1 hour ago, ChiCricket said:

Looks like Colt really dressed up for the proposal.

 Does he have on a pair of Mother's old jeans?

Same shirt as last week, and for his interviews. He thinks he's hiding his moobs, instead he looks more egglike than ever. I wonder if Debster is slipping  him oestrogen?