Oh yeah, this boyfriend is a huge creep red flag. He picked her up while she was in the hospital. He doesn't want her to lose too much weight. That's an easy 180 pounds she can lose right now.
Oh whoops, he lost himself. You won't be attracted to her if she loses like 300 pounds? She'll still be huge. I hate guys like the ones who take advantage of these people in their immobile situation. He knows he can find another woman like her easily.