Colt & Larissa & Debbie: Me, You, and Bith Phtew

[greekmom]

3 hours ago, Neurochick said:

Is this true, or a publicity stunt?

"Instagram influencer added."

Seriously??? Instagram influencer????  Someone is kissing Larissa's ass.

[RealReality]

7 minutes ago, greekmom said:

"Instagram influencer added."

Seriously??? Instagram influencer????  Someone is kissing Larissa's ass.

I'm simultaneously amused and annoyed by titles like "Instagram influencer" because what does that even mean?  Is that a job?  Who do you influence?  How?  To do what?  I mean, I generally like Larissa, and I can't hate her for trying to make a dollar out of fifteen cents, or lemonade out of lemons.  Maybe I find it more upsetting that people are Instagram influenced.

I make zero purchasing decisions based on celebrity and I could almost say I go the opposite direction.  I don't need to put money into Jessica Alba's pockets, Jessica Simpsons pockets or fergie's pockets.

 I'd prefer to give my money to a brand started by someone who had a passion for their craft and was so good at it that they became a brand name.  Though I did try out fenty foundation (garbage, IMO).  

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 5/25/2019 at 2:26 PM, LGGirl said:

Most of us knew this before this was filmed.  So stupid.  

Plus Colt knew.  He should have told you. 

I agree.  I am no fan of anyone in this trio but if one of my sons married someone with kids and never mentioned it to me for MONTHS I would be pissed too.  Why not mention it?  So Debbie needs to be annoyed at both of them, not just Larissa.

[toodles]

16 minutes ago, RealReality said:

I'm simultaneously amused and annoyed by titles like "Instagram influencer" because what does that even mean?  Is that a job?  Who do you influence?  How?  To do what?  

I'm Larissa's case, she wants to make sure your a$$hole is pink and and oh so clean.

[RealReality]

10 minutes ago, toodles said:

I'm Larissa's case, she wants to make sure your a$$hole is pink and and oh so clean.

LOL, yeah, I guess I can't be mad at Larissa for taking money from these people to promote the benefits of an asthetically pleasing booty hole.  I mean, how else were they going to reach their target audience of aspiring strippers and porn stars?

[Gobi]

59 minutes ago, greekmom said:

 Someone is kissing Larissa's ass.

That's probably why she got it bleached.

[iwasish]

1 hour ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

I agree.  I am no fan of anyone in this trio but if one of my sons married someone with kids and never mentioned it to me for MONTHS I would be pissed too.  Why not mention it?  So Debbie needs to be annoyed at both of them, not just Larissa.

She did say something like Colt should have told her. A wife is one thing to bring home. A wife and 2 (3?) kids is different altogether. 

[Brooklynista]

I would have a bit more compassion for Debbie feeling left out of Larissa's news if she said she was now worried about never becoming a grandmother.  Debbie doesn't strike me as the type who would bake cookies for the kids and welcome them as her own grand. 

[Toaster Strudel]

The real question for me is why did Colt feel that he couldn't tell his first wife that his second wife had kids?

[iwasish]

5 minutes ago, Brooklynista said:

I would have a bit more compassion for Debbie feeling left out of Larissa's news if she said she was now worried about never becoming a grandmother.  Debbie doesn't strike me as the type who would bake cookies for the kids and welcome them as her own grand. 

I disagree, I think she would be a good grandma. I like her. 

[Brooklynista]

7 minutes ago, iwasish said:

I disagree, I think she would be a good grandma. I like her. 

I think Debbie would be  a great grandma...to Colt's kids.  She hasn't been welcoming at all to Larissa and I can't see her embracing any extension of Larissa.  

[RealReality]

12 hours ago, iwasish said:

She did say something like Colt should have told her. A wife is one thing to bring home. A wife and 2 (3?) kids is different altogether. 

Ugh, a. no kids are in her house and b. she really shouldn't wait to live with her son and his wife, so she should find a way to physically separate herself before the kids may move in....which, as I heard it was a plan dependent on whether the kids wanted to come here.

I vaguely remember Debbie dramatically saying she was going to find her own life and get her own place at some point last season. 

42 minutes ago, Brooklynista said:

I would have a bit more compassion for Debbie feeling left out of Larissa's news if she said she was now worried about never becoming a grandmother.  Debbie doesn't strike me as the type who would bake cookies for the kids and welcome them as her own grand. 

She'd be the type to put a "nip of Brandy" in the milk to put them to sleep.  

I don't think Debbie would be a great grandmother because she would be too much of a helicopter, and she might encourage that same weird relationship she has with Colt.  Which is unhealthy.

[Morrissey]

I can't believe I'm defending Larissa, who acts like she's more concerned with the hue of her asshole than her own children, but Debbie needs to back off and stop accusing her of "not being truthful". 

Larissa told the person who needed to know: Colt. If Colt didn't want to discuss matters with Debbie and involve her "in the decision", she needs to direct her anger and disappointment towards him and only him.   

[greekmom]

3 hours ago, Brooklynista said:

I would have a bit more compassion for Debbie feeling left out of Larissa's news if she said she was now worried about never becoming a grandmother.  Debbie doesn't strike me as the type who would bake cookies for the kids and welcome them as her own grand. 

Debbie cannot become a grandmother. A) Incest is illegal and B) She's too old to have Coltee's spawn. LOL

2 hours ago, RealReality said:

Ugh, a. no kids are in her house and b. she really shouldn't wait to live with her son and his wife, so she should find a way to physically separate herself before the kids may move in....which, as I heard it was a plan dependent on whether the kids wanted to come here.

I vaguely remember Debbie dramatically saying she was going to find her own life and get her own place at some point last season. 

She'd be the type to put a "nip of Brandy" in the milk to put them to sleep.  

I don't think Debbie would be a great grandmother because she would be too much of a helicopter, and she might encourage that same weird relationship she has with Colt.  Which is unhealthy.

She did an awesome job of raising Coltee (NOT). She would be just as bad to any spawn of Colt. Tied to her apron strings.

[RealReality]

2 hours ago, Morrissey said:

I can't believe I'm defending Larissa, who acts like she's more concerned with the hue of her asshole than her own children, but Debbie needs to back off and stop accusing her of "not being truthful". 

Larissa told the person who needed to know: Colt. If Colt didn't want to discuss matters with Debbie and involve her "in the decision", she needs to direct her anger and disappointment towards him and only him.   

Debbie just needs to find her own social circle, her own friends, maybe get involved in volunteering or a church group....because her biggest concern is that she was "left out," which I don't think would bother her if she had her own business to mind.

[iwasish]

I don’t think Larissa wants her kids here. She wants to live the glamorous life, kids are going to be in the way.  If she wanted her kids here, she wouldn’t be getting lip fillers and bleaching her asshole. 

[Angry Moldovan]

I just saw that Larissa was found guilty, fined and ordered to take domestic violence classes. She has a 90 day suspended sentence and the judge recognised time served. Not sure where this leaves her immigration status.

[RealReality]

https://www.google.com/amp/s/people.com/tv/90-day-fiance-larissa-dos-santos-lima-avoids-jail-time-domestic-battery/amp/

So, it sounds like if she completes her community service it drops to a misdemeanor of disorderly conduct.  That may not be as bad for her immigration status.  

Adam is like the Clarence Darrow of 90DF attorneys.

[sagittarius sue]

The divorce agreement stated,

They also agreed to not speak negatively about each other.

“Neither shall themselves, or cause or permit third parties, to slander, defame, disparage, or communicate untruths, malicious statements, false and slanderous statements, information, rumors, or salacious materials of any kind against the other person

Debbie better watch what she says about Larissa's status!

[endure]

I was checking mother Debbies instagram and saw a couple of photos ofLarissa in a wedding dress but it's a different dress than the one we saw her wear at her wedding, what's up with that? You might have to skip through to the actual photos.....it's the4 &5th photos in this set. Second link is the wedding dress we saw on the episode.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BsD21oggDXS/ 

https://soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-larissa-debbie-out-of-wedding-photo/

Edited June 1, 2019 by endure

[LGGirl]

It looks like a Larissa wore another dress for her high class reception.  Coltee probably wanted to resell the actual wedding dress and didn’t want to get it dirty.   

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 11/13/2018 at 8:31 PM, Lily247 said:

If you dont mind me to ask, did any other participant on this show (any season) give off red flags to you ? (I have 1 in mind)

@Lily247 I am sorry I took so long to see you quoted me.  I am not 100% sure I have seen every single person on this show, but are referring to Paul?  If so, I am not sure he was on the spectrum as much as he was just weird.  Who are you thinking of?

[Floatingbison]

Cousin Coltee's business, Friendly AC, got HAMMERED on Yelp.

https://www.yelp.com/biz/friendlys-ac-and-heating-services-las-vegas

[Adeejay]

Larissa is such a troublemaker.  She met Miss Debbie with her slot machine. Leave her alone. 

[RealReality]

LOL, so Colt did promise Larissa that living with Debbie was temporary.  

I wish Larissa had the temperment to just ride this out until the green card and leave Debbie and Colt to return to their happy marriage.

Who is so passionate about having a slot machine in the breakfast nook?  If Debbie loves the slot machine, why not move it into her room?

[DaphneCat]

9 hours ago, RealReality said:

Who is so passionate about having a slot machine in the breakfast nook?  If Debbie loves the slot machine, why not move it into her room?

No, this is just a power struggle and this is one instance I think Debbie is actually right.  Apparently, Larissa has been moving things around without discussing it with the others.  If they are all 3 theoretically equal each should be able to have 1 or 2 things the other(s) hate but will put up with.  Debbie should be willing to move some of her stuff out to accommodate Larissa but she should not have to live her entire life with every thing she values only in her own room - she should also have equal rights to the shared space.

[RealReality]

1 minute ago, DaphneCat said:

No, this is just a power struggle and this is one instance I think Debbie is actually right.  Apparently, Larissa has been moving things around without discussing it with the others.  If they are all 3 theoretically equal each should be able to have 1 or 2 things the other(s) hate but will put up with.  Debbie should be willing to move some of her stuff out to accommodate Larissa but she should not have to live her entire life with every thing she values only in her own room - she should also have equal rights to the shared space.

Equal rights to the shared space yes.  But then Larissa always loses because big baby Colt is always going to side with Debbie, his number one wife.  

So Larissa essentially has no say in anything because Colt will never side with her and then will creepily insist that anytime Larissa wants to move something is disrespectful to Debbie.  This dynamic is unhealthy and unfair.  Larissa is merely a guest in the house.

And this all could have been resolved had Colt kept his promise to her and ensured that the living situation was temporary.

And I think that slot machine looks weird as hell in a breakfast nook.  It's special to Debbie and so it should go in her room.  And if it's special to Colt he can see it when it's her sister wife night.  I've watched biglove, I know how this works.

[Elizzikra]

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So Larissa essentially has no say in anything because Colt will never side with her and then will creepily insist that anytime Larissa wants to move something is disrespectful to Debbie. 

Then Larissa shouldn't have married a mama's boy.

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LOL, so Colt did promise Larissa that living with Debbie was temporary.  

When did we see that?

[funky-rat]

14 hours ago, Floatingbison said:

Cousin Coltee's business, Friendly AC, got HAMMERED on Yelp.

https://www.yelp.com/biz/friendlys-ac-and-heating-services-las-vegas

As much as this guy is a royal ass, I have no patience for fake reviews.  They have destroyed legit businesses, and it's completely unfair.  Yelp is the worst.  They claim they have no tolerance of fake reviews, but don't do anything about them unless you prompt them to, and it's a toss-up whether they will then respond.  Same with other violators (photos that have no relation to the business, owners reviewing their own business, etc).  Trip Advisor is somewhat more proactive on fake reviews, thankfully.

[RealReality]

19 minutes ago, Elizzikra said:

Then Larissa shouldn't have married a mama's boy.

When did we see that?

When she and Colt were arguing in the kitchen he said "you knew I lived with my mother" and Larissa was like "no no no, you said that was temporary" and Colt didn't deny it but instead started whining about how he didn't have enough money.

Larissa had never seen Colt with Debbie and I doubt he sold Larissa the dream of being Debbie's sister wife.  There are men who care for their aging mothers (generally financially)  and aren't momma's boy.

Larissa got bamboozled.

[AZChristian]

16 minutes ago, funky-rat said:

As much as this guy is a royal ass, I have no patience for fake reviews.  They have destroyed legit businesses, and it's completely unfair.  Yelp is the worst.  They claim they have no tolerance of fake reviews, but don't do anything about them unless you prompt them to, and it's a toss-up whether they will then respond.  Same with other violators (photos that have no relation to the business, owners reviewing their own business, etc).  Trip Advisor is somewhat more proactive on fake reviews, thankfully.

Given that their license was revoked, I'm not sure the reviews are necessarily fake.  I do think it's stupid to give a company a bad rating based on the owner's behavior on a TV show . . . but this company goes beyond that.

[RealReality]

13 minutes ago, funky-rat said:

As much as this guy is a royal ass, I have no patience for fake reviews.  They have destroyed legit businesses, and it's completely unfair.  Yelp is the worst.  They claim they have no tolerance of fake reviews, but don't do anything about them unless you prompt them to, and it's a toss-up whether they will then respond.  Same with other violators (photos that have no relation to the business, owners reviewing their own business, etc).  Trip Advisor is somewhat more proactive on fake reviews, thankfully.

You have to take yelp with a grain of salt, and they do shut down reviews for pages for controversial figures.  There was a teenage girl who went on a racist rant that went viral and her dad owned some local dealership and the yelp page was locked down because of the flood of negative (and presumably false) reviews.

Fake positive reviews or people who get a discount or a freebie for leaving a positive review are an issue too.  I ended up at a disgusting dim sum place with a 4.5 star review and yank sings, the place with the tastiest dim sum in the city only had a 4 star review.  A travesty and now I mostly get recommendations from friends or I'll check a yelp review with people who know the area.

[funky-rat]

6 minutes ago, AZChristian said:

Given that their license was revoked, I'm not sure the reviews are necessarily fake.  I do think it's stupid to give a company a bad rating based on the owner's behavior on a TV show . . . but this company goes beyond that.

I highly doubt people in North Carolina, Texas, Michigan, etc, are calling a Las Vegas business to come out and quote their needs, and that jerk of the century would go that far for business.

This guy deserved to get his license revoked if he was violating laws/regs/stiffing customers, but I have zero patience for someone to leave a business a bad review based on something they saw on a TV show (which may or may not be scripted - not talking about Friendly Air Conditioning, but on restaurant/bar rescue shows, etc) OR what they saw on a viral video which doesn't show what really happened (which killed a business that we frequently patronized).  If you didn't patronize the business, don't leave a review.  Period.  This happened frequently with restaurants shown on various Gordon Ramsay shows.  People in Maine leaving a review for a restaurant in San Francisco, and leaving it on the night the show aired.

Not defending Cousin John Ass in the least - he's a piece of crap - but I've never used his business, so I won't trash him leaving a one star review because the owner is a jerk.  The trash apparently took itself out, Yelp not withstanding.

9 minutes ago, RealReality said:

You have to take yelp with a grain of salt, and they do shut down reviews for pages for controversial figures.  There was a teenage girl who went on a racist rant that went viral and her dad owned some local dealership and the yelp page was locked down because of the flood of negative (and presumably false) reviews.

Fake positive reviews or people who get a discount or a freebie for leaving a positive review are an issue too.  I ended up at a disgusting dim sum place with a 4.5 star review and yank sings, the place with the tastiest dim sum in the city only had a 4 star review.  A travesty and now I mostly get recommendations from friends or I'll check a yelp review with people who know the area.

Yes - if you look on freelance gig websites (I occasionally do transcription from home for extra money), there are often businesses asking people to leave Yelp reviews under various names, and they'll pay you for everyone that Yelp doesn't take down.  I report those as well.

[iwasish]

58 minutes ago, Elizzikra said:

Then Larissa shouldn't have married a mama's boy.

When did we see that?

And what  determines temporary? Could be weeks, months or years. Larissa doesn’t even have a green card yet. Perhaps when she’s working, she’ll realize that rent is expensive and paying for  a fancy apartment for just her and Colt might eat up that money she’s planning on spending on her lips and face. Looks like she’s packed on the lbs since she came here. 

Is Debbie overly sensitive? Probably yes. But she is well aware that Larissa wants her out and as close as she and Colt are, she also knows the power of the pussy. Despite all the snark, that’s something Debbie can’t supply. I can see why Debbie isn’t looking to move yet, with Colt and Larissa still on shaky ground.  

[RealReality]

1 hour ago, iwasish said:

And what  determines temporary? Could be weeks, months or years. Larissa doesn’t even have a green card yet. Perhaps when she’s working, she’ll realize that rent is expensive and paying for  a fancy apartment for just her and Colt might eat up that money she’s planning on spending on her lips and face. Looks like she’s packed on the lbs since she came here. 

Is Debbie overly sensitive? Probably yes. But she is well aware that Larissa wants her out and as close as she and Colt are, she also knows the power of the pussy. Despite all the snark, that’s something Debbie can’t supply. I can see why Debbie isn’t looking to move yet, with Colt and Larissa still on shaky ground.  

Temporary should be a reasonable man standard.  It's unreasonable to say that living with your mom is temporary and drag it out for years because you can get through a loophole.  If Colt wasn't going to have the money to move out he shouldn't have promised her that.  But it's just proof that Colt promised Larissa something very different from her reality to get her over here.  Vegas is not an expensive place to live and he has a good job.  Debbie has to have some income, and she has made noise about moving out before so she can survive without colts income.

Debbie is NEVER looking to move away from Colt, and I wouldn't be surprised if he throws himself in the casket when she dies.  It's sad really, a mother should want her son to get married and have his own life.  But she holds onto him with an iron fist.  And I suspect we would hear the same thing from colts alleged ex girlfriend.

Larissa needs to get her green card and let those two get back to their flowers in the attic relationship.

[iwasish]

46 minutes ago, RealReality said:

Temporary should be a reasonable man standard.  It's unreasonable to say that living with your mom is temporary and drag it out for years because you can get through a loophole.  If Colt wasn't going to have the money to move out he shouldn't have promised her that.  But it's just proof that Colt promised Larissa something very different from her reality to get her over here.  Vegas is not an expensive place to live and he has a good job.  Debbie has to have some income, and she has made noise about moving out before so she can survive without colts income.

Debbie is NEVER looking to move away from Colt, and I wouldn't be surprised if he throws himself in the casket when she dies.  It's sad really, a mother should want her son to get married and have his own life.  But she holds onto him with an iron fist.  And I suspect we would hear the same thing from colts alleged ex girlfriend.

Larissa needs to get her green card and let those two get back to their flowers in the attic relationship.

I just don’t see it that way. None of us have any idea of what Colt earns. Nor Debbies finances. Or what exactly Colt told Larissa or how she interpreted it. That being they had 90 days to decide to get married. Larissa is veteran of at least two relationships that failed, and she is no innocent babe in the woods. She met Colt in person, I don’t see him being some smooth operator who is a pro at the dating game. He can’t get a woman in the US, if he could I doubt he’d have been surfing the net for one. Larissa got a pretty good picture of how things are going to be for the foreseeable future. IMO, She should have cut her losses long before the 90th day went home and started from scratch.  Colt is equally at fault for not calling things off. 

[RealReality]

9 minutes ago, iwasish said:

I just don’t see it that way. None of us have any idea of what Colt earns. Nor Debbies finances. Or what exactly Colt told Larissa or how she interpreted it. That being they had 90 days to decide to get married. Larissa is veteran of at least two relationships that failed, and she is no innocent babe in the woods. She met Colt in person, I don’t see him being some smooth operator who is a pro at the dating game. He can’t get a woman in the US, if he could I doubt he’d have been surfing the net for one. Larissa got a pretty good picture of how things are going to be for the foreseeable future. IMO, She should have cut her losses long before the 90th day went home and started from scratch.  Colt is equally at fault for not calling things off. 

If Debbie threatened to move out, it means she had enough money to do so.  Unless of course it was an empty threat to make Colt jealous?

I've never known a software engineer not to make decent money.  And if he doesn't make decent money he should have never made that promise to Larissa to begin with.  If he didn't give a specific timeline then, to me, reasonable man standard applies.  

Oh I can absolutely see Colt lying and misrepresenting his situation to get Larissa here.  To me, looking at Colt and listening to him, it makes all the sense in the world.  And that he doesn't deny he said these things but tries to deflect and whine let's me know that Larissa isn't lying.

Larissa is 32, and I imagine you're barred from multiple k1 visas in a short period of time.  And even if you could, she'd have to start to build her relationships again in Brazil being even older and competing with younger women who are just as pretty.  She likely dumped her other men when Colt promised her all this stuff.  And I'm sure someone as manipulative and passive aggressive as Colt knew that once he got her here she would be stuck.

This relationship was not based on love for either of them.  In exchange for having to have sex with Colt and make him think it's anything other than repulsive she was supposed to get what the lifestyle he promised.  She has kept up her end of the bargain and be hasnt.  He says the words "I love you" but what has he really done that shows he loves Larissa?  Does he even really know her as a person to love her? No, because that's not what their relationship was based on.

Colt is a passive aggressive, manipulative, gaslighting worm.  

Edited June 3, 2019 by RealReality

[iwasish]

3 minutes ago, RealReality said:

If Debbie threatened to move out, it means she had enough money to do so.  Unless of course it was an empty threat to make Colt jealous?

I've never known a software engineer not to make decent money.  And if he doesn't make decent money he should have never made that promise to Larissa to begin with.  If he didn't give a specific timeline then, to me, reasonable man standard applies.  

Oh I can absolutely see Colt lying and misrepresenting his situation to get Larissa here.  To me, looking at Colt and listening to him, it makes all the sense in the world.  And that he doesn't deny he said these things but tries to deflect and whine let's me know that Larissa isn't lying.

Larissa is 32, and I imagine you're barred from multiple k1 visas in a short period of time.  And even if you could, she'd have to start to build her relationships again in Brazil being even older and competing with younger women who are just as pretty.  She likely dumped her other men when Colt promised her all this stuff.  And I'm sure someone as manipulative and passive aggressive as Colt knew that once he got her here she would be stuck.

Colt is a passive aggressive, manipulative, gaslighting worm.  

And she should have been smart enough to play the game till she had the Holy Grail in her hot little hands. Sit back and let Debbie run her household. Why fight about where a slot  machine is, or who gets to cook dinner. She could have been laying out in the sun tanning all day. She wants to be a queen in her home? Then let Debbie do the scullery work. 

We’ll have to agree to disagree on this. 

[greekmom]

46 minutes ago, iwasish said:

And she should have been smart enough to play the game till she had the Holy Grail in her hot little hands. Sit back and let Debbie run her household. Why fight about where a slot  machine is, or who gets to cook dinner. She could have been laying out in the sun tanning all day. She wants to be a queen in her home? Then let Debbie do the scullery work. 

We’ll have to agree to disagree on this. 

Good point. But i think the fact that Debbie is wifey #1 & that fact that they wanted her to be on such a tight budget ($200 bucks a month??!!?!) made Larissa's temper flare.  If Colt wasn't such a tightwad with the money and gave Larissa her cosmetic improvements, dinners out, nice time, etc. I don't think she would have given a care in the world that Debbie ran the household.  Like you said, she would lie back, tan, and just relax all day. Heck, if Debbie and Colt's relationship was the type we all assume it is, she would even give them their privacy. 

[RealReality]

1 hour ago, iwasish said:

And she should have been smart enough to play the game till she had the Holy Grail in her hot little hands. Sit back and let Debbie run her household. Why fight about where a slot  machine is, or who gets to cook dinner. She could have been laying out in the sun tanning all day. She wants to be a queen in her home? Then let Debbie do the scullery work. 

We’ll have to agree to disagree on this. 

I agree with you in that I wish Larissa had the temperment to keep her eye on the prize and dull her emotions until she got the green card.  

Just lay there and let Colt do his thing 10 times a day, like you're a human blow up doll.  Put up with all the gaslighting and passively aggressiveness without complaint.  Act like you're just a visitor in that pathetic house and don't try to make yourself at home there.  Get a job as soon as you can and try to be out of the house all day, like all day.  Work double shifts so you don't have to be home.  Make work friends that can take you out after work so you don't have to be home.  

Every minute you have to spend in colts odious company, just think of how much better life will be when you can escape Colt and your sister wife.

Edited June 3, 2019 by RealReality

[iwasish]

2 minutes ago, greekmom said:

Good point. But i think the fact that Debbie is wifey #1 & that fact that they wanted her to be on such a tight budget ($200 bucks a month??!!?!) made Larissa's temper flare.  If Colt wasn't such a tightwad with the money and gave Larissa her cosmetic improvements, dinners out, nice time, etc. I don't think she would have given a care in the world that Debbie ran the household.  Like you said, she would lie back, tan, and just relax all day. Heck, if Debbie and Colt's relationship was the type we all assume it is, she would even give them their privacy. 

The 200 buck allowance came AFTER the domestic violence court case. 

Neither Colt nor his mother seem to live a luxurious lifestyle. Why does Larissa think deserves a higher standard of living than they have, with her only contribution being sex? (Or so it seems).  If she feels she got  hoodwinked, get in touch with  Anfisa. She got played too and instead of getting charged with DV, she’s doing to better herself. School, a job etc. Life hands you a lemon, make lemonade.

[iwasish]

7 minutes ago, RealReality said:

I agree with you in that I wish Larissa had the temperment to keep her eye on the prize and dull her emotions until she got the green card.  

Just lay there and let Colt do his thing 10 times a day, like you're a human blow up doll.  Put up with all the gaslighting and passively aggressiveness without complaint.  Act like you're just a visitor in that pathetic house and don't try to make yourself at home there.  Get a job as soon as you can and try to be out of the house all day, like all day.  Work double shifts so you don't have to be home.  Make work friends that can take you out after work so you don't have to be home.  

Every minute you have to spend in colts odious company, just think of how much better life will be when you can escape Colt and your sister wife.

I doubt he’s banging her 10x a day. If he was she wouldn’t be so hung up on where the slot machine is kept. 

The rest I agree with. Let her get a taste of what it takes to live the lifestyle she thinks she deserves in the US.

[RealReality]

14 minutes ago, iwasish said:

I doubt he’s banging her 10x a day. If he was she wouldn’t be so hung up on where the slot machine is kept. 

The rest I agree with. Let her get a taste of what it takes to live the lifestyle she thinks she deserves in the US.

Ugh, not with the terrible sex that you know Colt is serving up.  Yuck.  She is probably trying to mentally escape and keeps seeing that ridiculous slot machine in a breakfast nook.

No doubt she'd find a man in the US to give her a nice life, and she totally could if she stays here.  Larissa clearly doesn't care about how a man looks, if he is good in bed, and I doubt age really bothers her.  She is attractive and she has a bubbly personality.  There are a lot of older men who are single and have good positions or have retired from relatively good positions.  At first blush, the jobs don't sound great because many of them are blue collar positions, but the guy either sold his business or he retired from a city/state/fed job, or he is a contractor who invested in properties and had the skillset to upkeep.

They aren't ballers so they aren't going to get some 20 year old, but they have or had a reasonably good income and their kids are out of the house and they can provide a good lifestyle.  

My lifestyle is pretty okay, so it's not the route for me.  But they are out there for sure.

Edited June 3, 2019 by RealReality

[Mrs. Hanson]

Colt-EE, Larissa and Debbie are in many ways like Libby, Dad and Andrrrrrei, Chantal, Pedro and Company - make up your minds on which side you are on, stick to it and don't play everyone against each other.  It is just so unhealthy.  I read once that a sign of adulthood is when you are ready to leave drama behind, you are on your way to being an adult.  Apply that to the show and well......😕

[happy hobo]

47 minutes ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

I read once that a sign of adulthood is when you are ready to leave drama behind, you are on your way to being an adult.  Apply that to the show and well......😕

If we were willing to leave drama behind, there would be no 90 Day show!  🙂

[Elizzikra]

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If Colt wasn't such a tightwad with the money and gave Larissa her cosmetic improvements, dinners out, nice time, etc. 

Colt is a tightwad, agreed, but Larissa's demands would be excessive even for a more generous (and wealthier) man. She wants a $3,000 Chanel bag. The cosmetic surgeries could be $10,000 or more. She is a neverending cash vampire. 

[AZChristian]

12 minutes ago, Elizzikra said:

Colt is a tightwad, agreed, but Larissa's demands would be excessive even for a more generous (and wealthier) man. She wants a $3,000 Chanel bag. The cosmetic surgeries could be $10,000 or more. She is a neverending cash vampire. 

I think she knows the fine art of negotiation.  If she had started out asking for $200 a month for cosmetics, etc., he would have tried to talk her down to $50.  So you start ridiculously high and then work towards something in the middle.  

And putting up with Coltee and Debbeeeee should qualify her for at least ONE Chanel bag.

[Cherrio]

11 minutes ago, AZChristian said:

And putting up with Coltee and Debbeeeee should qualify her for at least ONE Chanel bag.

She deserves a lot more considering he kept alluding to "things" and it was all a lie.

Don't forget the proposal at that bar way up at the top of some building and Larissa was terrified.  Only a cruel sicko would do something like that to someone he is supposed to love.

Him sitting there with his Old Fashioned, fat and distorted face thinking he is Hugh Hefner.

Heck, just listening to Debbie's voice is like fingernails on a blackboard.  If I had to listen to her for more than a couple of minutes, I would be getting out the duct tape.

[greekmom]

1 hour ago, AZChristian said:

And putting up with Coltee and Debbeeeee should qualify her for at least ONE Chanel bag.

Or at least a Chanel bag from an outlet.

[RealReality]

26 minutes ago, greekmom said:

Or at least a Chanel bag from an outlet.

Or like a "Channel" bag you can buy from a guy on the corner in New York.