90DF Live Chat: Rice-A-Roni & Google Translate

[Toodleoo]

Just now, Armchair Critic said:

Try not to sound so relieved Paul "Oh the baby's dead?"

 

Seriously, he sounded upbeat. C'mon dude it's probably for the best but don't be a jackass.

[Lillith]

Just now, Armchair Critic said:

Try not to sound so relieved Paul "Oh the baby's dead?"

I don't think he's relieved. I genuinely think he's confused and upset. 

[VioletNevermind]

Wow.  Poor Pole.  No snark, just sad.

The doctor was a serious asshole.  All that time, I’m thinking, “Can someone please tell this poor guy what’s going on?!”

Edited October 1, 2018 by SuzyLee

[configdotsys]

The doctor needs a lesson in bedside manner. Could he have been more detached and matter of fact about such a tragic event? Jesus.

[aliya]

3 minutes ago, hisbunkie said:

I really feel sorry for Michael. He seems so desperate to come. Can we just send him some money and let him remain at home?

I work at a university. I keep thinking that I should find a way to bring Michael over as a student in our business program. : )

[Armchair Critic]

1 minute ago, ECM1231 said:

Oh this is so sad. Karine's baby has died in utero. But she was 9 weeks pregnant.  How long has he been in Brazil. I still do not think that baby was his. I do not like either of them but feel awful for them about this loss.

Ditto. Is Paul not smart enough to figure out the timeline?

[Baltimore Betty]

How does Karine still carry the fetus if she had a miscarriage?

[Suzywriter]

The baby looked about 12 weeks. Karine said she was nauseated the day before...fetal demise causes pregnancy symptoms to abruptly disappear, not get worse. I suspect that was not a natural miscarriage.

[Granny58]

I'm sad for Pole.  

[AussieBabe]

Awww. That's heartbreaking. I hope they don't blame each other and are kind to one another. That doctor was very...cold? I mean you're telling someone their baby has just stopped developing and died due to a genetic reason. 

[Lynnlynnlynn586]

7 minutes ago, configdotsys said:

Never had kids: do they do ultrasounds and give you pictures of the baby at 4 weeks?

Baby is 9 weeks that what tech said 

[Mercolleen]

13 minutes ago, PityFree said:

A warning?

This is very exciting to me!

[Lillith]

1 minute ago, usernameG said:

I googled it. Typically at 18 weeks but you may have one at 12 weeks to figure out due date.

I had one to confirm my pregnancy at about 4 weeks. It doesn't look like a fetus yet at that point though. But you do get the beginnings of a heartbeat. 

[PityFree]

1 minute ago, Baltimore Betty said:

How does Karine still carry the fetus if she had a miscarriage?

 It died recently enough that her body hasn’t expelled the tissue yet. 

[jacksgirl]

This shouldn't be televised for the whole world to see. Shame on you TLC.

[sainte-chapelle]

I think Paul is just awkward, I don't think he was happy. It is possible the baby was dead in Utero for a while which explains her being tired and sick all the time. She is very lucky she didn't die herself from blood poisoning. No snark it is very sad.

Edited October 1, 2018 by sainte-chapelle

[Brooklynista]

And this is why it's important to speak the same language.  How are Paul and Karine supposed to comfort and help each other mourn thru a translator app?

[aliya]

20 minutes ago, hisbunkie said:

Golden ticket? Really? Not even bronze. 

True enough.

[configdotsys]

2 minutes ago, Lynnlynnlynn586 said:

Baby is 9 weeks that what tech said 

They didn't give that information until after I posted my question.

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Baltimore Betty said:

How does Karine still carry the fetus if she had a miscarriage?

The baby has died, but not yet been naturally expelled.

[Cherrio]

5 minutes ago, RedBagWithMakeup said:

I don't think this will end well...

Can't remember why I thought this when I posted a week or so ago, but I predicted it. 

[CoachWristletJen]

2 minutes ago, usernameG said:

I googled it. Typically at 18 weeks but you may have one at 12 weeks to figure out due date.

Anything before 6 or 7 weeks is too small to be seen.

She had a vaginal ultrasound which they can do on a baby at 2 months, maybe sooner. The doctor could determine fetal heartbeat, etc.

[Lynnlynnlynn586]

7 minutes ago, hisbunkie said:

I really feel sorry for Michael. He seems so desperate to come. Can we just send him some money and let him remain at home?

Michael was yelling like a little school girl ????

[configdotsys]

I think it was unconscionable that they put this on television.

[Neurochick]

3 minutes ago, jacksgirl said:

This shouldn't be televised for the whole world to see. Shame on you TLC.

This isn’t the show for something like this.  But, these people signed up to be on a reality show.

Now Darcy and Jesse, the main event.

Edited October 1, 2018 by Neurochick

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, PityFree said:

 It died recently enough that her body hasn’t expelled the tissue yet. 

Michael’s hot friends will tell it like it is.

[HappyDancex2]

I need to get a good winter white over the top outfit for winter.  I feel very inspired by Darcey right now.   I wear too much black.

[Scarlett45]

3 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

How does Karine still carry the fetus if she had a miscarriage?

The fetus is dead but her body hasn’t expelled it yet. That happens sometimes. Often the body will expel on its own, or women are given medication/a procedure (known as a D&C) to remove the fetal tissue from the body. There’s a fear of sepsis if the tissue isn’t expelled soon enough naturally. 

[sainte-chapelle]

Ok bring on Darcy I need a laugh

[Pepper Mostly]

Oh Darcey. You look ridiculous. 

[Rabithed]

1 minute ago, jacksgirl said:

This shouldn't be televised for the whole world to see. Shame on you TLC.

I’m wondering if this is a re-enactment now?  That could explain the doctors rudeness and monotone delivery of the sad news? “We have to get rid of ...it now”

[Auntie Anxiety]

Darcy needs to rein those girls in. 

[charmed1]

Jesse is wearing his Top Gun Ice Man costume. He feels the need for speed.

[greekmom]

My god you guys are right. Darcy does look like a high class hooker at the park. 

[usernameG]

2 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

The baby has died, but not yet been naturally expelled.

They will need to have a D&C. Meredith Grey had one on Grey's Anatomy after her miscarriage (when Derek was shot).

[rideashire]

10 minutes ago, hisbunkie said:

I really feel sorry for Michael. He seems so desperate to come. Can we just send him some money and let him remain at home?

I've had moments where I felt like I'd contribute to a Micheal fund just to keep him out of Angela's clutches.

[DNR]

Ugh . Jesses lips in the talking heads .... is it chapped lips ? Herpes simplex 10 ? They look so raw n thin n gross Bleeecchhh??

* saw a commercial for the new 90D with the guy that has a 19 yo online luv from Mexico ... he looks like a taller thinner version of Shrek (Rickey)

Edited October 1, 2018 by DNR
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[Lillith]

They both look asinine. Lord those outfits. 

[RedBagWithMakeup]

Jeez Darcey, that outfit.

[Baltimore Betty]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

The baby has died, but not yet been naturally expelled.

So sad.

Not to sound cold but who pays for all the medical bills?  Is Brazil one of those socialized medical countries?

[Auntie Anxiety]

Jesse is such a sadist.

[lucy711]

Just now, Rabithed said:

I’m wondering if this is a re-enactment now?  That could explain the doctors rudeness and monotone delivery of the sad news? “We have to get rid of ...it now”

I've run across plenty of doctors like this.  I had a doctor talk about my baby's abnormalities as a fetus in pretty harsh terms.  I ended up having a healthy baby incidentally.

[HappyDancex2]

And I gotta find a way to take my 6N hair to a level 9.

Let's get an Youber!

[AussieBabe]

I don't think it should've been televised. It's heartbreaking enough to deal with pregnancy loss. It's a beast of another kind for it to be replayed over and over. Her doctor was a total dick with no bedside manner.

[configdotsys]

Jesse: Let's get a Yoober. He didn't even notice her teeth. Surprise.

[Lillith]

1 minute ago, HappyDancex2 said:

I need to get a good winter white over the top outfit for winter.  I feel very inspired by Darcey right now.   I wear too much black.

I'm sorry I don't understand this "wear too much black" of which you speak? 

[PeaceLily2]

Jesse hasn’t noticed the veneers.  Where is the love? 

[Pepper Mostly]

Jesse is cold as ice. Darcey looks foolish. 

[RedBagWithMakeup]

"I'm happy to see you" while he doesn't even make eye contact.

This guys a sicko.

[CoachWristletJen]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Ok bring on Darcy I need a laugh

My thoughts exactly! That was rough. Poor Karine...