Tikichick May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 2 hours ago, GeeGolly said: I agree. For most kids Josh's punishment would have felt very big, very severe at his age then. Even his time in Jesus Jail wasn't too different to what drug rehabs look like. But I don't think any amount of treatment and/or punishment way back when, or now, will show any true improvements. Treatment may not have helped Josh. (At this point it would be almost salt in the wound to know that it would have.) Real punishment from authorities other than his parents would have at least meant the family would have been on the radar of child protective professionals, which may have helped his siblings. Solid professional treatment in the aftermath of what he did to them likely would have done his victims good, especially if they were getting any sort of input from their parents or anyone else that they had any share of the blame for what happened to them -- which actually may have left more marks than what Josh did to them if the account that they were asleep and unaware is true. 1 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477189
Salacious Kitty May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 1 hour ago, libgirl2 said: I always thought it was so JB could keep an eye of him and maybe to provide some kind of support for Anna after all that happened. But they lived in Siloam Springs for a time after they returned from DC. I remember the brothers scrambling to get the place ready after Smuggar's hasty departure from the FRC. I don't recall exactly how long they lived there, but it was for a little while, maybe a year? They sold the place a couple of years ago, making a tidy sum that they've probably been living off of since. Until they had to sell off property to pay the lawyers, at any rate. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477228
mimionthebeach May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 Reading through this thread and thinking of Anna I keep thinking of Amy Winehouse, strung out and looking so ill when her husband was in jail. Poor delusional Anna, hanging on to reality by the thinnest of threads, wailing "My JoshUa, incarcerated!" Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477241
ginger90 May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 (edited) 15 minutes ago, Salacious Kitty said: But they lived in Siloam Springs for a time after they returned from DC. I remember the brothers scrambling to get the place ready after Smuggar's hasty departure from the FRC. I don't recall exactly how long they lived there, but it was for a little while, maybe a year? They sold the place a couple of years ago, making a tidy sum that they've probably been living off of since. Until they had to sell off property to pay the lawyers, at any rate. It was purchased on 5/31/2019 for $285,000. It was sold on 2/7/2020 for $318,000. Unless there was another Siloam Springs house, they didn’t make much. Edited May 26, 2022 by ginger90 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477252
Salacious Kitty May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 No, this was a rundown property they bought when they still lived in DC. It was mostly land. The boys spruced it up to make the place liveable for when they reutrned from DC back in 2015. I think they sold the place in 2018 or thereabouts. They've been in the warehouse for several years. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477265
GeeGolly May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 8 minutes ago, ginger90 said: It was purchased on 5/31/2019 for $285,000. It was sold on 2/7/2020 for $318,000. Unless there was another Siloam Springs house, they didn’t make much. And if that was the house on the little hill, I'm going to guess they lost money. I believe they renoed at least the kitchen and possibly built a deck. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477266
Salacious Kitty May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 (edited) 2 minutes ago, GeeGolly said: And if that was the house on the little hill, I'm going to guess they lost money. I believe they renoed at least the kitchen and possibly built a deck. Yes, that is a different property that needed a ton of rehab, but was purchased after they returned to Arkansas. Edited May 26, 2022 by Salacious Kitty Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477271
ginger90 May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 3 minutes ago, Salacious Kitty said: No, this was a rundown property they bought when they still lived in DC. It was mostly land. The boys spruced it up to make the place liveable for when they reutrned from DC back in 2015. I think they sold the place in 2018 or thereabouts. They've been in the warehouse for several years. Was it the one with the kitchen below? They celebrated Josh’s birthday there if I recall? Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477276
Salacious Kitty May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 38 minutes ago, ginger90 said: Was it the one with the kitchen below? They celebrated Josh’s birthday there if I recall? Wow, I can't say for sure. All their decor, from house to house, is the same! 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477322
crazy8s May 26, 2022 Share May 26, 2022 54 minutes ago, Salacious Kitty said: No, this was a rundown property they bought when they still lived in DC. It was mostly land. The boys spruced it up to make the place liveable for when they reutrned from DC back in 2015. I think they sold the place in 2018 or thereabouts. They've been in the warehouse for several years. The gray house on the hill - for some reason I am remembering that house was "sold" to travis story. probably not remembering correctly "Josh Duggar is uprooting his family and moving to a home he purchased earlier this year in Siloam Springs, Arkansas for $55,000. Since resigning his post at the Family Research Council (FRC) lobbying group in Washington D.C., last week, shell-shocked Josh and his wife Anna have been readying themselves for a move back near the Duggar family compound in Tontitown. The 27-year old 19 Kids and Counting star made a smart business move when he purchased the almost 3,000 square foot, five-bedroom, two-bath bank owned home on January 20, 2015. The Duggar family has been helping Josh and Anna remodel the home, which had fallen into disrepair after it was repossessed from the previous owners." 3 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477343
Salacious Kitty May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 YES! That's the house I'm referring to! Thanks @crazy8s! 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477354
crazy8s May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) ALB Investments llc (Travis Story) bought the house from Josh and Anna for $65,000 in Aug. 2015 and sold it for $285,000 in May 2019. ALB Investments has since charged to Anna and Travis Story listed as the registered agents. The house sold once after that, in 2020 for $318.000 to non duggars or any sweet friends. from the Daily Mail "EXCLUSIVE: Josh Duggar's 'dream home' was sold to mystery investment company tied to longtime member of family's inner circle two days before porn star accused him of 'violent' paid-for sex sessions Josh and Anna Duggar sold 5-bedroom Siloam Springs, Arkansas home to ALB Investments, LLC on August 24 for $65,000 ALB Investments was registered by Duggar family attorney and longtime friend Travis Story, who is also member of family's Cross Church Address used to register ALB Investments is same as Josh and Anna Duggar's home that was just sold Under Arkansas law, ownership of such companies is confidential. Lawyer Story has declined to comment to Daily Mail Online On August 26, porn star Danica Dillon revealed she had two sexual encounters with Duggar. She filed $500,000 lawsuit last week On paper, the Duggars made a $10,000 profit on home that they bought just eight months prior But based on property websites Zillow, Trulia and Realtor.com, the home has been valued up to $178,000" Edited May 27, 2022 by crazy8s 3 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477366
ginger90 May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 22 minutes ago, crazy8s said: "Josh Duggar is uprooting his family and moving to a home he purchased earlier this year in Siloam Springs, Arkansas for $55,000. It is the house then. 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477383
Salacious Kitty May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Yeah, that's definitely the trajectory of the property I was referencing. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477416
Popular Post graefin May 27, 2022 Popular Post Share May 27, 2022 (edited) 5 hours ago, laurakaye said: That smugness was born and bred into him by his parents, who continually swept his "curiosity" under the rug and continued to parade him around as the Golden Fundie Prince from that famous tv family. Not saying Josh couldn't have grown up to do deplorable things no matter who he was, but maybe if Jim Bob and Michelle had not looked the other way when he molested his own sisters, he'd have either gotten serious help or gotten caught and disciplined much earlier. If FF wasn't even seriously punished for attacking members of his own family under his parents' roof, then it's no wonder he thought he was untouchable. There's also a kind of delicious irony in all of this. JB and Michelle have sought to literally isolate themselves and their family from the "evils" of the outside world for as long as we know, such that they all have only ever (mostly) worked for themselves so they don't have to submit to anyone else's authority. But in the final analysis, their crown prince HAS NO CHOICE but to submit to an outside authority (serve his sentence). For control freaks like these, it must eat them up inside that there's not a damn thing they can do about it. Edited May 27, 2022 by graefin 32 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477425
Lady Whistleup May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 I think JB and Michelle thought they did intervene. They did what they could given their limited toolbox and worldview. They thought more Jesus was necessary for Josh, so they sent him to Jesusy camps. They thought that fraternizing with the sisters was a problem, so they enacted strict rules about contact between male and female siblings. They didn't know how to give Josh the help he needed, but they didn't do nothing. And I'm sure part of JB and Michelle are heartbroken about Josh. I think they know the truth about him. I'm not sure they'll ever thread the needle about how much their harsh fundamentalist views might have damaged the sisters Josh molested, but I don't think they're as blind as Anna. 11 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477456
emmawoodhouse May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 41 minutes ago, Lady Whistleup said: I think JB and Michelle thought they did intervene. They did what they could given their limited toolbox and worldview. They thought more Jesus was necessary for Josh, so they sent him to Jesusy camps. They thought that fraternizing with the sisters was a problem, so they enacted strict rules about contact between male and female siblings. They didn't know how to give Josh the help he needed, but they didn't do nothing. And I'm sure part of JB and Michelle are heartbroken about Josh. I think they know the truth about him. I'm not sure they'll ever thread the needle about how much their harsh fundamentalist views might have damaged the sisters Josh molested, but I don't think they're as blind as Anna. I think Meech is heartbroken and still in a bit of denial. Not Anna levels of delusion, but a state of disbelief, nonetheless. I think she is adept at avoiding the truth. Boob was PISSED when he left the court. He knows exactly what the stakes are and how this verdict has ruined the Duggar brand for good. 20 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477505
Rabbittron May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 9 minutes ago, emmawoodhouse said: Boob was PISSED when he left the court. He knows exactly what the stakes are and how this verdict has ruined the Duggar brand for good. Just like a Phoenix I am expecting that family to rise through and above the ashes . . Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477523
emmawoodhouse May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Just now, Rabbittron said: Just like a Phoenix I am expecting that family to rise through and above the ashes . . Nah, they're poison now. The wholesome image they sold is gone. 17 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477525
Absolom May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Most of the older children seem to have recognized the emperor has no clothes. I think all but the most deluded fans have recognized the Duggars aren't what they represented. 11 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477537
Tuxcat May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) 24 minutes ago, emmawoodhouse said: I think Meech is heartbroken and still in a bit of denial. Not Anna levels of delusion, but a state of disbelief, nonetheless. I think she is adept at avoiding the truth. Boob was PISSED when he left the court. He knows exactly what the stakes are and how this verdict has ruined the Duggar brand for good. Totally agree about JB. I don't think he has an ounce of remorse or sadness about this. He is mainly concerned about the Duggar brand. However I think that Michelle knows. Yes she wrote the letter but I would honestly expect most mothers to write a letter. I think she likely feels deep shame and guilt for what happened to her girls. It's clear that Jason and James were at the courthouse supporting Joy. Michelle has got to see how all of this has burdened her other children.She is still close with Jinger at least - so I feel certain she has heard the older girls perspectives. Even Jill has said that she sees her mother more than JB. Derrick's rants are always at JB as well. As a mom, you are still going to hope for your child and you won't lose sight of trying to find the good in the midst of the horrible. It doesn't mean she is blind. It means she's a mom. Edited May 27, 2022 by Tuxcat 9 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477541
jcbrown May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, Lady Whistleup said: I think JB and Michelle thought they did intervene. They did what they could given their limited toolbox and worldview. They thought more Jesus was necessary for Josh, so they sent him to Jesusy camps. They thought that fraternizing with the sisters was a problem, so they enacted strict rules about contact between male and female siblings. And that's the thing, isn't it? Even if Boob and MEchelle had done the right thing it may not have helped. They needed therapy themselves to break out of their patriarchal cult before any real help for the kids would have been that effective. Imagine the kids having therapy and coming back to the comparative cognitive dissonance of their home life. The cult is the first problem. The Ashley has posted an interesting piece about Smuggar's post-release conditions: https://www.theashleysrealityroundup.com/2022/05/25/exclusive-josh-duggar-must-follow-specific-conditions-upon-his-prison-release-no-unsupervised-access-to-his-kids-no-internet-no-marijuana-more/ Edited May 27, 2022 by jcbrown 3 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477574
emmawoodhouse May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, jcbrown said: And that's the thing, isn't it? Even if Boob and MEchelle had done the right thing it may not have helped. They needed therapy themselves to break out of their patriarchal cult before any real help for the kids would have been that effective. Imagine the kids having therapy and coming back to the comparative cognitive dissonance of their home life. The cult is the first problem. I think that's where Jill is today. She can see from outside in a way her enmeshed siblings (or parents) can't. 9 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477579
Popular Post merylinkid May 27, 2022 Popular Post Share May 27, 2022 2 hours ago, Lady Whistleup said: And I'm sure part of JB and Michelle are heartbroken about Josh. I think they know the truth about him. And this is based on what? Michelle has kids and hands them off to the nearest older child to take care of. She has said she had to pray to have a heart for kids. Josh may be the oldest so she couldn't hand him off quickly, but that doesn't mean she ever CARED about him. And let's just say that Josh comes by his narcissicism naturally. JB cares about JB. Even protecting the family brand is about protecting himself. He has never shown he CARES about the kids, only controlling them and making sure that they don't make HIM look bad. Let's face it, anyone who supports "blanket training" really doe not like kids all that much. As for the house shenanigans. How cooooonvenient they were able to get it out of Josh's name RIGHT BEFORE a new scandal for which he could have been sued broke. You don't think they had an IDEA this might happen do you? Like I said yesterday, the conviction could be the crack in the wall that brings it all down and I hope Travis Story is not that fond of his law license. 5 22 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477617
emmawoodhouse May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Travis Story is shady as hell. Not to mention, he doesn't seem too bright. 3 15 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477625
GeeGolly May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 I watched the show for years and I have no doubt JB & M love their kids. They truly suck as parents - part of that is their personalities, part cult and part too many kids, but they love them. As far as the Duggar brand, that ship sailed when Josh was arrested and its fate was sealed upon conviction. IMO, JB wanted 5 years because Josh is his son and for Anna, who I think he also loves. 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477638
emmawoodhouse May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) There have to be some Duggar leghumpers out there who continue to believe that Smuggar is innocent/framed. I considered looking for these people, but my stomach isn't that strong. Edited May 27, 2022 by emmawoodhouse 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477646
woodscommaelle May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Can he drink on probation? Why wasn’t that mentioned? Do we know if any of them drink? 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477676
Heathen May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 36 minutes ago, woodscommaelle said: Can he drink on probation? Why wasn’t that mentioned? Do we know if any of them drink? Jill and Jinger might drink occasionally, but none of the other original Duggars do as far as I know. I'm curious why the devil's lettuce was singled out for mention. 3 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477706
emmawoodhouse May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 I don't think Jinger drinks. The only one who gas admitted to drinking is Jill. As for pot, that's probably boilerplate language. Pot might be legal in some states (certainly not Arkansas!), but it's not legal on the national level. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477719
madpsych78 May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Seagoville, Texas is about 45 minutes away from my house. If he goes there, he will be in the suburbs of Dallas. Justin and the Spiveys, as well as David and Priscilla are a little farther as they are closer to Fort Worth. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477746
ChiCricket May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 4 hours ago, jcbrown said: The Ashley has posted an interesting piece about Smuggar's post-release conditions: https://www.theashleysrealityroundup.com/2022/05/25/exclusive-josh-duggar-must-follow-specific-conditions-upon-his-prison-release-no-unsupervised-access-to-his-kids-no-internet-no-marijuana-more/ Interesting article, especially this part: "He must partake in a sex offender treatment program. While the judge mentioned during the sentencing that one of the Federal Corrections Institutions being considered for Josh has a “good sex offender program,” he did not state that Josh needed to partake in it. On the minute sheet, however, the judge makes it clear that Josh’s participation in one of these programs is required. He also has to pay for it." I thought it was discussed here that it was voluntary and that he'd probably never do it? (not that I think it would help) 3 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477785
GeeGolly May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 1 hour ago, ChiCricket said: Interesting article, especially this part: "He must partake in a sex offender treatment program. While the judge mentioned during the sentencing that one of the Federal Corrections Institutions being considered for Josh has a “good sex offender program,” he did not state that Josh needed to partake in it. On the minute sheet, however, the judge makes it clear that Josh’s participation in one of these programs is required. He also has to pay for it." I thought it was discussed here that it was voluntary and that he'd probably never do it? (not that I think it would help) I didn't read the article, but possibly in jail it can't be mandated, but as part of Josh's release it can? 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477812
js9548 May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Also, the Ashley article talks about random polygraph tests. If that is true, isn't Josh clever enough to fool those type of tests? I guess I thought those types of tests were not used in the justice system because they are not always accurate. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477827
GeeGolly May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 9 minutes ago, js9548 said: Also, the Ashley article talks about random polygraph tests. If that is true, isn't Josh clever enough to fool those type of tests? I guess I thought those types of tests were not used in the justice system because they are not always accurate. I'm not a lawyer, but I watch a lot of ID channel. It seems lie detectors are used a lot in the investigative stage, but they're not admissible in court. I think they're fairly hard to fool, and I'm guessing even harder to fool if done regularly. 3 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477829
laurakaye May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 15 hours ago, Ms Norman Maine said: On the other hand, she needs to put her kids first. But then she has no training and if she divorced Josh she might fear Jim Blob would disown her and not support her and the kids. Great post - this is the part where I struggle with regards to Anna and her brainwashing from birth...I don't see how she could leave even if she had the capacity to want to leave. She has seven children - unless someone takes in all of them, she's stuck in a situation where, if she does see the light and tries to take steps to leave Josh, she's probably terrified that she would lose financial support from her father in law. Now I would like to think that JB wouldn't be a big enough monster to allow seven kids to live on the street but I also don't think he's above making Anna believe that his support of her and Josh's kids is conditional on her towing the Jim Blob party line. I am trying to imagine a life where my parents, my in-laws and my husband have trapped me into being unable to have an independent thought, and then left me to raise a posse of children on my own while telling me that my husband's sins are my fault. Because even if she is thinking of leaving this cluster of a family, where can she possibly go unless one of her siblings has room and the money to support an additional 8 people? I am both furious with her and incredibly sad for her. I want someone to shake some sense into her but then also give her some means to escape this mess. 15 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477906
GeeGolly May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Anna's Fundiness certainly impacts her ability to leave, but mainstream folks go through similar situations all the time. Its almost never just one thing, but more likely a combination of a few things. They include love, socioeconomic status , self-esteem, faith, (co)dependency, health (physical & mental) supports, age... Then there's the many reasons Anna needs to believe FF is innocent. If Anna believes Josh is innocent, then nothing above matters. She would have no reason to think of leaving him. She has to get past step 1 before she can even think of step 2. 12 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477953
madpsych78 May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 Ugh, I just had a thought that if Anna wanted to leave, Boob would only allow her to leave if she signed her parental rights over to him and Michelle. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7477997
GeeGolly May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 12 minutes ago, madpsych78 said: Ugh, I just had a thought that if Anna wanted to leave, Boob would only allow her to leave if she signed her parental rights over to him and Michelle. Would they though? I think they're kind of done with kids. Their youngest Josie is the same age as Mack. They'd be taking on 7 kids and the youngest isn't even a year, when potentially they could be empty nesters in the next 10 years. 12 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478012
Ohiopirate02 May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 4 minutes ago, madpsych78 said: Ugh, I just had a thought that if Anna wanted to leave, Boob would only allow her to leave if she signed her parental rights over to him and Michelle. I honestly cannot see how Boob could manage that. I get that he is a control freak, but forcing Anna's hand like that would require him to keep Anna and her brood as actual prisoners at the TTH. It would also mean that he and Michelle would then be responsible for the care of the M brood, and does he really want that at this point? Taking in Tyler is one thing, do they really want to take in 7 kids including a baby? 11 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478014
SusanM May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 20 minutes ago, madpsych78 said: Ugh, I just had a thought that if Anna wanted to leave, Boob would only allow her to leave if she signed her parental rights over to him and Michelle. I can see him thinking he actually has the power to do something like that but he'd find out pretty fast that just as he can't tell a federal judge what to do he also can't actually control a 34 year old woman if she finally gets fed up. 13 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478018
kaleidoscope May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) One consideration is that the M kids carry the Duggar name. The three boys must rise in the JB empire. They carry more weight than any of the daughters' offspring. Edited May 27, 2022 by kaleidoscope 1 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478027
Popular Post lookeyloo May 27, 2022 Popular Post Share May 27, 2022 This has been my thing with Anna and leaving for a long time. It is easy for someone on her outside to say just leave, get a job, put the kids in school. She has no capacity on how to navigate that in the best of times, with support, but, unless she moved near the Dillards (and there is zero possibility of that) who do know how to navigate the real world it would almost be like putting her down in France, or Russia. Foreign, no local culture knowledge, etc. Its almost like dropping one of us into the for example Kardashian culture. How do those people exist? I'm guessing not like we do. Anna would have to fight against everything she was taught and lived, no real connections she could trust, even if she could, she wouldn't know how, all that paperwork in the real world. And again, she has been taught not to trust anyone. How would that work. And we have discussed her problems with getting a job, applying for benefits, schedules, keeping a job, etc. Not an easy answer. She didn't put herself into this situation, but now it seems unless she has a really lot of whatever it is that gets people to leave cults, she is staying put. 2 24 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478032
Zella May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) 7 hours ago, ChiCricket said: Interesting article, especially this part: "He must partake in a sex offender treatment program. While the judge mentioned during the sentencing that one of the Federal Corrections Institutions being considered for Josh has a “good sex offender program,” he did not state that Josh needed to partake in it. On the minute sheet, however, the judge makes it clear that Josh’s participation in one of these programs is required. He also has to pay for it." I thought it was discussed here that it was voluntary and that he'd probably never do it? (not that I think it would help) The mandatory participation is a condition for his post-release life, alongside the no porn, no internet, no weed, and supervision around children. It is not about what he has to do in prison. In prison, he can avoid sex offender treatment programs all he wants. But once he is out, if he wants to be out, he has to attend. Edited May 27, 2022 by Zella 6 11 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478052
quarks May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 The mandatory participation in a sex offender treatment program is listed on the third page of the minute order regarding the sentencing and the conditions of his release, right under the bit forbidding Josh to use any marijuana. Duggardata and Reddit have copies up. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478070
Popular Post cmr2014 May 27, 2022 Popular Post Share May 27, 2022 40 minutes ago, lookeyloo said: This has been my thing with Anna and leaving for a long time. It is easy for someone on her outside to say just leave, get a job, put the kids in school. She has no capacity on how to navigate that in the best of times, with support, but, unless she moved near the Dillards (and there is zero possibility of that) who do know how to navigate the real world it would almost be like putting her down in France, or Russia. Foreign, no local culture knowledge, etc. Its almost like dropping one of us into the for example Kardashian culture. How do those people exist? I'm guessing not like we do. Anna would have to fight against everything she was taught and lived, no real connections she could trust, even if she could, she wouldn't know how, all that paperwork in the real world. And again, she has been taught not to trust anyone. How would that work. And we have discussed her problems with getting a job, applying for benefits, schedules, keeping a job, etc. Not an easy answer. She didn't put herself into this situation, but now it seems unless she has a really lot of whatever it is that gets people to leave cults, she is staying put. I agree -- and I don't think she "has a lot of whatever it is that gets people to leave cults," either. I also think that a lot of these statements (that Anna should leave Josh, get a job, ect.) are based on viewing Anna as a sort of blank slate, like Jana, who we know very little about and onto whom we can project positive attributes. Anna may not have a huge SM presence, but we've seen enough to get some idea of who she is. Anna "at least I have a husband" self-identifies as a Gothard/Christian wife and mother. There is no part of her that identifies as an independent woman. The raid was two years ago; Josh was arrested 6 months ago. I'm sure that the lawyers gave them some insight into his chances. If she had any intention of fending for herself (or there was any expectation that she would), some groundwork could have been laid in the last two years, and there's no sign that that happened. Anna has made only a few public posts/statements in the past few years, and almost all of them have been related to her self-identified status as a persecuted Christian. There's no indication that she has ever poked her head outside the Gothard bubble -- and no indication that she wants to do so. JB may not want 8 more mouths to feed, but it is very much part of his belief system that he will feed them. He's their "umbrella of authority" which gives him absolute control over their lives, but also makes him responsible for their well-being. I don't think they're going anywhere, and I don't think it's crossed any of their minds (JB, J'chelle, Josh, Anna, and the J'kids) that they would. 34 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478110
Popular Post Zella May 27, 2022 Popular Post Share May 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, cmr2014 said: The raid was two years ago; Josh was arrested 6 months ago. I agree 100% with everything you say about Anna not identifying as an independent woman. Did want to note that the raid was actually nearly three years ago (November 2019) and his arrest was actually over a year ago (April 2021). Which just further points to how much she doesn't want to branch out beyond what she's doing. She's had quite a bit of time to think about this, and she apparently hasn't. 26 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478116
Lady Whistleup May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 48 minutes ago, lookeyloo said: This has been my thing with Anna and leaving for a long time. It is easy for someone on her outside to say just leave, get a job, put the kids in school. She has no capacity on how to navigate that in the best of times, with support, but, unless she moved near the Dillards (and there is zero possibility of that) who do know how to navigate the real world it would almost be like putting her down in France, or Russia. Foreign, no local culture knowledge, etc. Its almost like dropping one of us into the for example Kardashian culture. How do those people exist? I'm guessing not like we do. Anna would have to fight against everything she was taught and lived, no real connections she could trust, even if she could, she wouldn't know how, all that paperwork in the real world. And again, she has been taught not to trust anyone. How would that work. And we have discussed her problems with getting a job, applying for benefits, schedules, keeping a job, etc. Not an easy answer. She didn't put herself into this situation, but now it seems unless she has a really lot of whatever it is that gets people to leave cults, she is staying put. I also think Anna is the type of person who prides herself on always coloring within the lines. She doesn't have the strong, independent streak her sisters Susana and Rebekah have (or Ben Seewald's sister Jessica). Some fundie women can chuck it all and forge their own path in life. Anna can't -- it's not within her toolbox to do so. 9 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478132
Tikichick May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 8 hours ago, ChiCricket said: Interesting article, especially this part: "He must partake in a sex offender treatment program. While the judge mentioned during the sentencing that one of the Federal Corrections Institutions being considered for Josh has a “good sex offender program,” he did not state that Josh needed to partake in it. On the minute sheet, however, the judge makes it clear that Josh’s participation in one of these programs is required. He also has to pay for it." I thought it was discussed here that it was voluntary and that he'd probably never do it? (not that I think it would help) If the Judge said it's required I'll accept that as court ordered as opposed to anything said here speculating it's voluntary. Purely speculation on my part, I'd guess the Judge is putting forth his preference as to where the BOP assigns him so that he has the "good sex offender program" available to him, while the Judge recognizes he has no direct authority to determine where the BOP decides to house him. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478172
Zella May 27, 2022 Share May 27, 2022 (edited) 30 minutes ago, Tikichick said: If the Judge said it's required I'll accept that as court ordered as opposed to anything said here speculating it's voluntary. Purely speculation on my part, I'd guess the Judge is putting forth his preference as to where the BOP assigns him so that he has the "good sex offender program" available to him, while the Judge recognizes he has no direct authority to determine where the BOP decides to house him. The order about mandatory sex offender treatment is part of his release conditions. That is very clearly stated in the paperwork. The sex offender programs in prison that everyone talks about are not mandatory. That is not idle speculation. You can go read the actual information about the programs on the Bureau of Prison website: https://www.bop.gov/inmates/custody_and_care/sex_offenders "The Bureau offers sex offender treatment to offenders with a history of sexual offending and who volunteer for treatment." That website also very clearly states that the treatment programs are of a limited duration, and it usually occurs in the last 3 years of a sentence. Even if he chooses to enroll in them, he's not going to be in it for the entire sentence. I believe the judge is requesting a prison with a sex offender program for him as a safety precaution. Even if Josh never actually volunteers to be part of the program, he is probably safer with other inmates who are also sex offenders rather than not. Edited May 27, 2022 by Zella 4 15 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/4650-josh-anna-smuggar-a-series-of-unfortunate-events/page/755/#findComment-7478189
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