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My push presents after having my kids were my kids. 

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Tough crowd!  She's wearing modern shoes with closed toes, pants, and a shirt that literally calls back to her family's ridiculous rules and there are still 35 things wrong with what she's doing. 

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1987: The hospital gave new parents a car seat for free. It had a level on the side to know it was in the correct position.

I didn’t see the comments on the picture of Felicity. I do know people go off on tangents on Twitter, and Instagram posts of the Duggars in general. Comments regarding Josh, and much more are made when the original post has nothing to do with him, and the the posters fight between themselves. So, who knows why they turned the comments off.

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The baby looked okay to me in the pics.  They’re new parents.  What do people expect from them? All the stories here about the way things were done to care for babies in the past is a reminder that sometimes we need to chill the hell out.  Damn, the commenters acted like she was sleeping on her stomach in a crib full of blankets and stuffed animals.  Jeez!  And despite all the poor decisions the Duggar kids (notice I didn’t say MOTY and her supine infant feeding) may or will make, and Jinger’s shitty upbringing, I don’t think she would knowingly harm her baby.  Even Jill and her carseat-stroller o’ death wouldn’t do those things if she thought they were dangerous. They might not have issue with the Pearl method, but suffocating a baby in carseat is a bit much, even for them.  I don’t care for their beliefs, but I wouldn’t pick on a new mom and dad who are probably already nervous.  They deserve to enjoy their new baby like anyone else.  Granted, if you don’t post it, people can’t comment, but it was still unnecessary.

Too bad Jinger was raised to be meek and passive, and Jeremy’s too image-conscious to go off on the commenters. I would have told them to go f*** themselves and the horse they rode in on.  Until you raise the kid, change the diapers, and get up in the middle of the night, keep your parenting advice to yourself! Had the comment come from a respected pediatrician, I would take it as advice.  Coming from shitty, helicopter parents who probably turn their noses up at bottle fed babies, but don’t bother to teach their children manners, kindness, or that the world doesn’t revolve around them, and I’m not interested.

Okay, rant over, but people need to mind their own business.  Somewhere, some poor child may be abused or in danger, but little Felicity secured in her carseat, in the presence of at least one adult, looking clean, content, and dressed in a cute outfit and headband is not it.  

TA: No shade to anyone here who commented on the baby in the carseat.  It’s those damn Instagrammers and their “perfect” lives. ? Let the people enjoy their new baby and make mistakes and learn like the rest of us.  

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32 minutes ago, DangerousMinds said:

If they choose to continue exploiting their kids and sharing their pictures with millions of strangers, they will continue to get all kinds of comments.

Unless they keep turning off the option to comment ? Seems Jinger has a thinner skin than her sisters, or maybe just a lower tolerance for taking crap from strangers on the Internet. 

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1 hour ago, Ijustwantsomechips said:

The baby looked okay to me in the pics.  They’re new parents.  What do people expect from them? All the stories here about the way things were done to care for babies in the past is a reminder that sometimes we need to chill the hell out.  Damn, the commenters acted like she was sleeping on her stomach in a crib full of blankets and stuffed animals.  Jeez!  And despite all the poor decisions the Duggar kids (notice I didn’t say MOTY and her supine infant feeding) may or will make, and Jinger’s shitty upbringing, I don’t think she would knowingly harm her baby.  Even Jill and her carseat-stroller o’ death wouldn’t do those things if she thought they were dangerous. They might not have issue with the Pearl method, but suffocating a baby in carseat is a bit much, even for them.  I don’t care for their beliefs, but I wouldn’t pick on a new mom and dad who are probably already nervous.  They deserve to enjoy their new baby like anyone else.  Granted, if you don’t post it, people can’t comment, but it was still unnecessary.

Too bad Jinger was raised to be meek and passive, and Jeremy’s too image-conscious to go off on the commenters. I would have told them to go f*** themselves and the horse they rode in on.  Until you raise the kid, change the diapers, and get up in the middle of the night, keep your parenting advice to yourself! Had the comment come from a respected pediatrician, I would take it as advice.  Coming from shitty, helicopter parents who probably turn their noses up at bottle fed babies, but don’t bother to teach their children manners, kindness, or that the world doesn’t revolve around them, and I’m not interested.

Okay, rant over, but people need to mind their own business.  Somewhere, some poor child may be abused or in danger, but little Felicity secured in her carseat, in the presence of at least one adult, looking clean, content, and dressed in a cute outfit and headband is not it.  

TA: No shade to anyone here who commented on the baby in the carseat.  It’s those damn Instagrammers and their “perfect” lives. ? Let the people enjoy their new baby and make mistakes and learn like the rest of us.  

I wish I could give your post 1000 ❤️‘s!

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1 hour ago, Ijustwantsomechips said:

The baby looked okay to me in the pics.  They’re new parents.  What do people expect from them? All the stories here about the way things were done to care for babies in the past is a reminder that sometimes we need to chill the hell out.  Damn, the commenters acted like she was sleeping on her stomach in a crib full of blankets and stuffed animals.  Jeez!  And despite all the poor decisions the Duggar kids (notice I didn’t say MOTY and her supine infant feeding) may or will make, and Jinger’s shitty upbringing, I don’t think she would knowingly harm her baby.  Even Jill and her carseat-stroller o’ death wouldn’t do those things if she thought they were dangerous. They might not have issue with the Pearl method, but suffocating a baby in carseat is a bit much, even for them.  I don’t care for their beliefs, but I wouldn’t pick on a new mom and dad who are probably already nervous.  They deserve to enjoy their new baby like anyone else.  Granted, if you don’t post it, people can’t comment, but it was still unnecessary.

Too bad Jinger was raised to be meek and passive, and Jeremy’s too image-conscious to go off on the commenters. I would have told them to go f*** themselves and the horse they rode in on.  Until you raise the kid, change the diapers, and get up in the middle of the night, keep your parenting advice to yourself! Had the comment come from a respected pediatrician, I would take it as advice.  Coming from shitty, helicopter parents who probably turn their noses up at bottle fed babies, but don’t bother to teach their children manners, kindness, or that the world doesn’t revolve around them, and I’m not interested.

Okay, rant over, but people need to mind their own business.  Somewhere, some poor child may be abused or in danger, but little Felicity secured in her carseat, in the presence of at least one adult, looking clean, content, and dressed in a cute outfit and headband is not it.  

TA: No shade to anyone here who commented on the baby in the carseat.  It’s those damn Instagrammers and their “perfect” lives. ? Let the people enjoy their new baby and make mistakes and learn like the rest of us.  

Great post.  Felicity looked fine to me.  OK, the bow was a bit much, but it's not like JinJer left her by herself, to rip it off her head and stick it in her mouth.  

She's a beautiful baby.  I'd guess that almost everyone posting here had a less than perfect upbringing (me), and many of us weren't perfect parents ourselves (me again.)  

Social media IMO pretty much sucks, and I don't pay it much attention.  Keyboard warriors abound.  It's like the saying about opinions, and how everyone's got one.

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3 hours ago, DangerousMinds said:

If they choose to continue exploiting their kids and sharing their pictures with millions of strangers, they will continue to get all kinds of comments.

My mind is running in a similarly dangerous direction. Jinger is under no obligation to continue to live life in front of millions. If Jeremy actually wants to be a parish pastor or a teacher — and not a mega church maven with big tv and SM presence — then they could step off the grimy Duggar hamster wheel of self-promotion and, y'know, live life quietly.  

Pessimistically, I think Jeremy wants to be a stah in popular evangelicalism and Jinger’s too conditioned to saying, “your will be done, lord & master” and they’re going to continue on their current path. 

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19 minutes ago, BckpckFullaNinjas said:

My mind is running in a similarly dangerous direction. Jinger is under no obligation to continue to live life in front of millions. If Jeremy actually wants to be a parish pastor or a teacher — and not a mega church maven with big tv and SM presence — then they could step off the grimy Duggar hamster wheel of self-promotion and, y'know, live life quietly.  

Pessimistically, I think Jeremy wants to be a stah in popular evangelicalism and Jinger’s too conditioned to saying, “your will be done, lord & master” and they’re going to continue on their current path. 

Exactly.

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4 hours ago, Ijustwantsomechips said:

The baby looked okay to me in the pics.  They’re new parents.  What do people expect from them? All the stories here about the way things were done to care for babies in the past is a reminder that sometimes we need to chill the hell out.  

 

I think that one of the mistakes that we often make on this board is to assume that the Duggar daughters have a lot of experience and knowledge about child care. Despite the fact that they were sister-moms for many years, they were children. We don't expect children to be child care experts. They also learned what they do know from J'chelle -- who I think most of us agree is a pretty awful mother. They were not raised to question anything that they know -- ever. If Jeremy and Jinger actually listened to the instructor and made an effort to put their daughter into the car seat correctly, they are already doing a lot better than I would have expected of any of the Duggar spawn.

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1 hour ago, cmr2014 said:

I think that one of the mistakes that we often make on this board is to assume that the Duggar daughters have a lot of experience and knowledge about child care. Despite the fact that they were sister-moms for many years, they were children. We don't expect children to be child care experts. They also learned what they do know from J'chelle -- who I think most of us agree is a pretty awful mother. They were not raised to question anything that they know -- ever. If Jeremy and Jinger actually listened to the instructor and made an effort to put their daughter into the car seat correctly, they are already doing a lot better than I would have expected of any of the Duggar spawn.

well said!  i hadn't given them credit for being 'children'; i mean i knew it but i just didn't think about it when watching them parent the way they were parented. everyone has a breaking in period as a first timer. 

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1 hour ago, MichaelaRae said:

I think she looks like every tired mother of a newborn I've ever seen. Having said that, whatever filter she chose for this shot has me seriously worried she is growing a beard. There is some serious 5 o'clock shadow happening on her jaw.

I agree. It's not a flattering photo. They are usually so careful about managing their SM that I'm surprised by this.

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When Jinger got married, I was hoping that she would stay off of social media.  The Duggar girls get a lot of unfair criticism due to the fact that they were unfortunate enough to be born Duggars.  Throw in Mommy shamers and it’s a different can of worms.  Snark is fine to an extent, but people are leaving comments just for the sake of being nasty.  Of all the Duggars, her only offense at this point is existing. 

Jinger seems to be more sensitive and self conscious than her sisters are.  Remember her toast at Jessa’s rehearsal dinner about feeing unworthy of Jessa’s love and friendship? Social media is dangerous for people who already feel inadequate and latch onto stronger people for validation. 

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11 hours ago, cmr2014 said:

I think that one of the mistakes that we often make on this board is to assume that the Duggar daughters have a lot of experience and knowledge about child care. Despite the fact that they were sister-moms for many years, they were children. We don't expect children to be child care experts. They also learned what they do know from J'chelle -- who I think most of us agree is a pretty awful mother. They were not raised to question anything that they know -- ever. If Jeremy and Jinger actually listened to the instructor and made an effort to put their daughter into the car seat correctly, they are already doing a lot better than I would have expected of any of the Duggar spawn.

Remember that MeChelle would feed her children while laying down. That truly bothered me! I would just have them in my arms feeding them when they were too small to sit in a highchair.

I have higher hopes for Jinger. 

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Without actually being there, feeling the taughtness of the straps and seeing the true intent of her being in the seat, there's no way of knowing what the deal is with Filly in the car seat. I would occassionally use my kids seat while out and about as a place for him or her to recline at friends houses, restaurants, etc because unlike many of my friends, I didn't like hauling half of my house with me at all times. If she's chilling on a living room floor she doesn't have to be strapped in so tight for example. 

A huge ass bow is a choking hazzard on a bemittened 1 month old? Well then, so is to whole darn outfit! 

Everyone's need to judge and attack is THE WORST. Then comments about PPD because she looks a mite tired in a candid snap her proud husband shared? People need to get a serious grip.

Now I expect the "If they didn't share these things, people wouldn't comment..." I get that but like it or not, they do have a fanbase and like it not, they do this to pay the bills in one way or another... and this for a family that is proven to despise my Catholic ass. That being said the constant mommy shaming that goes on all over the internet regardless of whom is gross....We are all on this planet together doing our best and the barrage of negativity new mothers get bombarded with, only increases the pressure and I'd assume elevates the chances of PPD now more than ever.

Rant over. 

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Aside from the ones who went to Texas for the birth, I don't think the rest of the family has met her either. Jinger hasn't traveled home as far as I know.

Felicity looks like Si and Gideon in that picture. She's taking after Jinger a lot more than I originally thought.

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8 minutes ago, floridamom said:

But isn't it August in Texas? Why is Felicity all bundled up like it's February? Am I missing something here?

I was wondering the same thing. I've always gotten overheated easily. According to my relatives, I would try to tear off heavy clothing in the winter even as a very small child and if I couldn't tear it off I'd scream and holler "like a panther" until someone got me out of the hated clothing. I can only imagine how I'd have been tearing at something like that in a Texas summer. 

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23 hours ago, Ijustwantsomechips said:

Too bad Jinger was raised to be meek and passive, and Jeremy’s too image-conscious to go off on the commenters. I would have told them to go f*** themselves and the horse they rode in on.  Until you raise the kid, change the diapers, and get up in the middle of the night, keep your parenting advice to yourself! Had the comment come from a respected pediatrician, I would take it as advice.  Coming from shitty, helicopter parents who probably turn their noses up at bottle fed babies, but don’t bother to teach their children manners, kindness, or that the world doesn’t revolve around them, and I’m not interested.

 

I hate to beat a dead horse, but Pediatricians are not trained in car seat safety. They may know the basic's, but they're not car seat technicians who have indepth training. Our Pediatrician always referred to the Fire Department or Police Station for anything beyond the AAP recommendations. And there were a few car seat techs commenting, I think they got buried though. 

 

16 hours ago, MichaelaRae said:

I think she looks like every tired mother of a newborn I've ever seen. Having said that, whatever filter she chose for this shot has me seriously worried she is growing a beard. There is some serious 5 o'clock shadow happening on her jaw.

Post baby when your hormones are going crazy, you can definitely grow hair in areas you never did before. I think it's the filter but it's possible there is a hair or two. 

 

21 hours ago, Lunera said:

I wonder if Jinger is going to stop posting herself and her baby. There are tons of comments on this post telling her she looks miserable and speculating that she has PPD. She has already deleted tons of them.

Diagnosing PPD from a picture is disgusting and those who are doing it on her instagram should be ashamed of themselves! 

 

21 hours ago, Sew Sumi said:

SWAN kids playing not so Christian "I Want Candy." ?

The soloist has some talent!

Next lesson, focus on singing and not screaming. I liked the boy in the middle though. 

Summer Saturdays? More like "Jinger's already got her body back, bitchez!!!!!111"

She looks good! 

According to the comments, Jilly Muffin hasn’t met Felicity yet. 

Maybe it's a preference but I never, ever used infant mittens. I feel bad Lissy is stuck with them. I love her outfit. For the bundling questions, until about 3 months old infants can't self-regulate their temps so if she's in the a/c she's dressed appropriately. 

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12 minutes ago, BitterApple said:

People are sniping at each other in the comments. Jinger's Instagram is turning into a bigger shit-show than DFO.

Alyssa Bates eventually deleted her instagram for a while because of the negativity, I wonder if Jinger will go that route or just disable comments on every post. 

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1 hour ago, Loves2Dance said:

Double post

I hate to beat a dead horse, but Pediatricians are not trained in car seat safety. They may know the basic's, but they're not car seat technicians who have indepth training. Our Pediatrician always referred to the Fire Department or Police Station for anything beyond the AAP recommendations. And there were a few car seat techs commenting, I think they got buried though. 

 

Post baby when your hormones are going crazy, you can definitely grow hair in areas you never did before. I think it's the filter but it's possible there is a hair or two. 

 

Diagnosing PPD from a picture is disgusting and those who are doing it on her instagram should be ashamed of themselves! 

 

Next lesson, focus on singing and not screaming. I liked the boy in the middle though. 

She looks good! 

Maybe it's a preference but I never, ever used infant mittens. I feel bad Lissy is stuck with them. I love her outfit. For the bundling questions, until about 3 months old infants can't self-regulate their temps so if she's in the a/c she's dressed appropriately. 

I don't get the mitten thing.  It's been over 30 years since I had my daughter, and even though she was a winter baby, I never did that, except on the rare occasion we took her outdoors.  I suppose an overly AC'ed house could explain it.

Maybe they are worried about thumb sucking?  My mom pinned the sleeve of my nightgown shut, because I sucked on my right index finger.  So she told me when I was over 30...or they are thinking Felicity will scratch herself?  The first fingernail trimming was nerve-wracking for me.  I know absolutely that Jin will be a far better mom than what she grew up with, herself.  Low bar, I know.

I would so hate to be a new parent with social media comments all over the place.  

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