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Jessa, Ben and Their Brood: Making a (Diaper) Mountain out of a Mold House

Chris Knight

By Chris Knight
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LazyToaster

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I so hope that these two kids are enjoying being together and having a blast. I hope the kisses are sweet, the sex hot, and that they are liking each other more every moment. I hope they fight and make up and see how fun that can be.

I would love it if one of the things they are doing on this honeymoon is talking up a storm. They could make a plan of their own. One that doesn't involve parental approval or even input.

Go Ben and Jessa, live your life! I'm rooting for you! It will be hard, but you can do it.

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RedheadZombie

RedheadZombie

I have no problem with what Jessa and Ben are actually doing in the picture.  I'm assuming they were somewhere private where her low cut top, his naked shoulder, and her being in control is no one's business but theirs.  BUT, for anyone actually modest, they would not be able to post that picture - I feel like a voyeur for even looking at it.  Jessa is sending some kind of message.  I don't care for her, and I think she was pissed when Jill got married first.  I think Jessa is shallow enough to think she has the better husband, even if she ends up living in poverty.  I see this picture as a one upping of Jill, and a suck-it to poor old maid Jana.  I don't think Jessa will wait on children.  She doesn't seem to like them, but she definitely likes to control and discipline them.  And there's no way Jill is going to have more kids than Jessa.

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zenme

zenme

I see this picture as a one upping of Jill, and a suck-it to poor old maid Jana.

 

This is definitely quite opposite of Jill's 12 weeks and counting pics!

 

I know that JimBo and Michelle kiss every hour on the hour, but they don't kiss in the way that Jessa and Ben are doing in this photo.  As shy and  reserved as Jessa was acting on her scavenger hunt, I have to say, I am very shocked that she would take a picture such as this, and post it to social media.  It would appear that young Ben got himself a "lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets." 

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GEML

GEML

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I don't think it takes very long to get comfortable with kissing.

I don't think it does either.

And I certainly don't see what this had to do with being pro-life or pro-choice.

Maybe I've been out of the Fundy world too long, because I do not see anything other than a v neck tshirt.

Very much like the old Calvin Klein ads.

I remember one of the books I received to prepare me for sex in my married life talked about men wanting " an angel at the table and a devil in the bed." This was a Christian publican with tips and suggestions with a Q &A. My husband received one written for men. Looks like Ben has his Devil all right ! :)

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Fuzzysox

Fuzzysox

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The picture sure screams "hey a girl got needs." I can see it being an FU to her parents for repressing them so much during their high school years.....so now that she is married she can be as wild as she can be.

 

*shudder* MEchelle being a hot to trot cheerleader kissed boys before Boob came along I don't understand how she got so twisted into this bizarre Gothard culture knowing that desires are normal suppressing them is not. I'm not saying sleep around but kissing isn't going to kill anyone and it's part of the getting to know your possible mate.

 

So for all the years of Jessa being repressed we get fundie porn pictures now. Let's send Boob and MEchelle some brain bleach!

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trimthatfat

trimthatfat

I so hope that these two kids are enjoying being together and having a blast. I hope the kisses are sweet, the sex hot, and that they are liking each other more every moment. I hope they fight and make up and see how fun that can be.

I would love it if one of the things they are doing on this honeymoon is talking up a storm. They could make a plan of their own. One that doesn't involve parental approval or even input.

Go Ben and Jessa, live your life! I'm rooting for you! It will be hard, but you can do it.

 

You know...ITA. They're young and having fun, so I say more power to them.

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dillpickles

dillpickles

I have no problem with what Jessa and Ben are actually doing in the picture. I'm assuming they were somewhere private where her low cut top, his naked shoulder, and her being in control is no one's business but theirs. BUT, for anyone actually modest, they would not be able to post that picture - I feel like a voyeur for even looking at it. Jessa is sending some kind of message. I don't care for her, and I think she was pissed when Jill got married first. I think Jessa is shallow enough to think she has the better husband, even if she ends up living in poverty. I see this picture as a one upping of Jill, and a suck-it to poor old maid Jana. I don't think Jessa will wait on children. She doesn't seem to like them, but she definitely likes to control and discipline them. And there's no way Jill is going to have more kids than Jessa.

I think it's just a FU to her parents, I know I'd be that spiteful.

Fuzzysox

Fuzzysox

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What caught my eye is that they included Jennifer H! Still no Famy makes my heart sad.

 

And ITA the bridemaid dresses aren't a hot mess of DIY like Jill's were.

 

Once again Mullet follows Kelly Bates and wore blue. At least it's a lot more flattering then the tincanducktape dress.

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Hpmec

Hpmec

Not a lot to snark on there. Anna looks great. She's apparently learned how to dress for a social function from living in DC. Jill is trying once again to show the world how pregnant she is. We get it, Jill. Enough already. Not wild about the suspenders, but at least the guys aren't wearing shiny used car salesman suits. Looks like the ice cream sundaes were served with honest to God real spoons. Lovely dress on Jessa. For the Duggars, exceptionally classy. Well done.

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lottiedottie

lottiedottie

Anna has on some for real F-me shoes! Go on with your bad self, Anna! Rawr!

 

I love Jessa's dress. She looks really pretty. And I don't hate the groomsmen's suspenders. I think their bridal party looks nicely pulled together. Even Michelle's dress doesn't appear to be hideous, from what you can see of it.

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msblossom

msblossom

The bridesmaids dresses are much nicer than Jill's. So much better than modesty-altering a wedding dress and b/m's dresses. +10 Jessa. And 10 bonus points for not making Jana slave away at the sewing machine.

But the shoes are a hodge-podge hot mess, esp the one on the end, she almost looks barefoot. They should have taken a page from the men. Their shoes are a win.

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NausetGirl

NausetGirl

*shudder* MEchelle being a hot to trot cheerleader kissed boys before Boob came along I don't understand how she got so twisted into this bizarre Gothard culture knowing that desires are normal suppressing them is not. I'm not saying sleep around but kissing isn't going to kill anyone and it's part of the getting to know your possible mate.

 

I think Boob twisted Mechelle into the whole Gothard deal. He is an extremist personality who dives head-first and full-on into everything. The minute Boob he embraced Gothard's message, he was going to be sure to pull her in as well. She was probably OK with her high school behavior before Boob came along. I also think reminding Mechelle of her "scandalous" past makes him feel superior to her.

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NausetGirl

NausetGirl

Not a lot to snark on there. Anna looks great. She's apparently learned how to dress for a social function from living in DC. Jill is trying once again to show the world how pregnant she is. We get it, Jill. Enough already. Not wild about the suspenders, but at least the guys aren't wearing shiny used car salesman suits. Looks like the ice cream sundaes were served with honest to God real spoons. Lovely dress on Jessa. For the Duggars, exceptionally classy. Well done.

 

Yes, my first thought on seeing this photo was - Jill looks like she's deliberately holding her stomach out!

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3girlsforus

3girlsforus

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The bridesmaid dresses look like typical bridesmaid dresses to me. I don't love them but I don't hate them either. The fabric is not flattering for a pregnant bridesmaid though. I know Jill is trying to emphasize her belly there but she looks like she desperately needs a new bra and cradling her tummy makes her look like she has a huge butt. The fabric just hugs her in all the wrong places. 

 

And the family picture bugs me too... so clearly a publicity shot since it just has the 'couples". At a wedding you'd never really take a photo like that. You'd have the whole family or at least the family that is in the wedding party. 

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floridamom

floridamom

Is Jim Bob wearing the bad suit from Jill and Derick's wedding? Does he have BLACK SNEAKERS on? He's the worst dressed this time, IMO. Anna needs to go on a diet as she looks too heavy for those thin heels, but glad to see her actually wearing real big girl shoes, it's an improvement. Keep going girl, and leave the maternity wear and maternity ward alone.

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NausetGirl

NausetGirl

Is Jim Bob wearing the bad suit from Jill and Derick's wedding? Does he have BLACK SNEAKERS on? He's the worst dressed this time, IMO. Anna needs to go on a diet as she looks too heavy for those thin heels, but glad to see her actually wearing real big girl shoes, it's an improvement. Keep going girl, and leave the maternity wear and maternity ward alone.

 

I needed a magnifying glass to do it, but it does appear that Boob's shoes have velcro-closures, which I've never seen on dress shoes. I'm not sure they're athletic shoes or sneakers, but they do look like velcro-closures. Cary Grant you ain't, Boob.

ranchgirl

ranchgirl

There is a picture on Pickles and Hairspray FB page of Benessa kissing on their wedding day and it is not good.  Jessa is kissing Ben's chin and his lips are up near her nose. 

I think they have been practicing a lot since then to get this shot that she took and put on her Instagram. 

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abseedee

abseedee

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There is a picture on Pickles and Hairspray FB page of Benessa kissing on their wedding day and it is not good.  Jessa is kissing Ben's chin and his lips are up near her nose. 

I think they have been practicing a lot since then to get this shot that she took and put on her Instagram. 

I wonder if the IG pic was to make up for the hit and miss that was on People and how many selfies did they take before they got one just right.  But hey, practice makes progress and progress makes babies!

 

Did anyone else notice how disproportionately longer the dress is on the girl on the far left?

I did and also noticed the girl in the middle in a weird pose.

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mbutterfly

mbutterfly

I don't think it does either.

And I certainly don't see what this had to do with being pro-life or pro-choice.

Maybe I've been out of the Fundy world too long, because I do not see anything other than a v neck tshirt.

Very much like the old Calvin Klein ads.

I remember one of the books I received to prepare me for sex in my married life talked about men wanting " an angel at the table and a devil in the bed." This was a Christian publican with tips and suggestions with a Q &A. My husband received one written for men. Looks like Ben has his Devil all right ! :)

GEML, your posts never cease to amaze me. I'm a seminary grad (UM) and I never encountered this sort of Christian publication. With my first husband (early 20s) we were given a book on sex from my pastor but it limited itself to physical stuff like positions. Yet it did not take a position if you get my drift. How we went from there was up to us. How we went from there was to read it aloud to each other, share the line drawings and roll on the floor laughing. Of course, this was a long time ago. Perhaps things have changed. 

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zenme

zenme

Did anyone else notice how disproportionately longer the dress is on the girl on the far left?

 

ETA:  Hey, just a doggonminute!  Didn't Jessa tell us that she was going to reuse a lot of things from Jill's wedding?  Hmmmmm......

 

Guess she didn't "re-use" Jana as her seamstress/tailor.

trimthatfat

trimthatfat

Anna needs to go on a diet as she looks too heavy for those thin heels, but glad to see her actually wearing real big girl shoes, it's an improvement. Keep going girl, and leave the maternity wear and maternity ward alone.

I don't think Anna is too heavy to wear those heels, but I do think that dress is better suited for a Mother of the Bride/Mother of a Groom than a woman in her twenties. Those heels would have looked much cuter with a flattering fit-and-flare style dress.

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Skittl1321

Skittl1321

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And the family picture bugs me too... so clearly a publicity shot since it just has the 'couples". At a wedding you'd never really take a photo like that. You'd have the whole family or at least the family that is in the wedding party.

 

I can see some families taking this picture, when two have been married back to back like this.  The bride would just yell "all the married Duggars come to the front for a picture".  For the Duggars, who are obsessed with the idea it makes perfect sense.

 

I'm sure there are regular family pictures too.

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Jellybeans

Jellybeans

Jill looks pregnant... because she is pregnant. I do not think she is sticking her belly out. At that stage it is kinda hard to do.

It is hard to be pregnant and have everyone commenting on your "size" or how you carry your baby. Her boobs are massive now, but her belly should stay flat? For all we know, maybe she is having twins and keeping it to herself.

The bridesmaids dresses look like millions of other bridesmaids dresses. I rarely see unique ones. Jessa's dress is pretty, a typical bridal dress. i loved Anna's dress.

Obviously I am not a fan of traditional wedding or bridesmaid dresses since they all seem so much alike.

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zenme

zenme

There's more than one??????  ;-)

 

My 85 year old aunt actually said this at a baby shower once. 

 

 

With my first husband (early 20s) we were given a book on sex from my pastor but it limited itself to physical stuff like positions.

 

Something along these lines came to mind when seeing Jessa's kiss pic.  I thought they looked they were going to be doing a lot of experimenting while Jill will stick to the one position, and we all know how Derick and Jill feel about "mission" work.

 

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NausetGirl

NausetGirl

What caught my eye is that they included Jennifer H! Still no Famy makes my heart sad.

 

And ITA the bridemaid dresses aren't a hot mess of DIY like Jill's were.

 

Once again Mullet follows Kelly Bates and wore blue. At least it's a lot more flattering then the tincanducktape dress.

 

I'm wondering if Amy has been asked to be a bridesmaid but is just too busy in Nashville and her career to get away for wedding preparations etc? Maybe all she can do is attend on the day itself.

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