I did not say that. It is nice to have options. It is a choice. Children are offered choices in life. You can take music lessons but there is a price. Just like me, I got to go fishing and swimming but I had to learn a few few bible verses. So what? I had fun.
Why should it bother grownups if children make choices for themselves? And yes, children also have other choices. Drugs, alcohol, books, and God. Nothing wrong with books and God.