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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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2 minutes ago, Floatingbison said:

His sister's prom dress. 

Oh dude, what are thinking

He's thinking she's not very sharp or observant, despite being able to string him along for years, invest lots of money in her property, and get him to move to Colombia?

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On 9/10/2021 at 8:15 PM, CrazyInAlabama said:

The preview for TOW is so offensive.   Jenny faking wanting to be a Hare Krishna missionary to stay in India with Sumit is disgusting to me.   Those two ladies teaching her about the religion are so nice, and Jenny is such a hypocrite. 

So much this! It's really disgusting. Also, what happened to "You're not going to marry me, I'm leaving!" Now it's all about how can she stay in the country without having to continually renew her visa. He will never marry her and she will never give up.

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Now I feel like I'm watching a Russian version of a "Maury" hidden camera segment...

I'm old so maybe I'm just out of touch but...seems to me if you have to go through these kinds of hoops to ensure your man is faithful, maybe you don't leave your country to marry him?

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22 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Ellie is out of control. Someone needs to reign her in. This is nuts.

I hope she is not out of birth control, this girl is stupid enough to fly to a decimated island who knows if she will have unprotected sex with Victor number 3...if he sleeps around she ought to be insisting on no glove, no love.

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Just now, Baltimore Betty said:

I hope she is not out of birth control, this girl is stupid enough to fly to a decimated island who knows if she will have unprotected sex with Victor number 3...if he sleeps around she ought to be insisting on no glove, no love.

I’m sure a baby is part of the reason she’s moving.

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10 minutes ago, For Cereals said:
  13 minutes ago, magemaud said:

She’s supposedly dating a Frenchman George Glass  "Georges Le Verre" who suspiciously doesn’t have a name or a French accent and his face is blurred out. Could it be “Michel Jones”? 

that's better! 

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I'm feeling very, very guilty for watching this.   My guest came out of his room and went into the bathroom and here I sit in my office.   There's only one TV, so maybe he was hoping 9:00 pm would remove 90 Day.   It's a loooong story why he's here at all.

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1 minute ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I hope she is not out of birth control, this girl is stupid enough to fly to a decimated island who knows if she will have unprotected sex with Victor number 3...if he sleeps around she ought to be insisting on no glove, no love.

And she's what, 45? That whole scenario is fraught with potential problems.

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Just now, Doublemint said:

I'm feeling very, very guilty for watching this.   My guest came out of his room and went into the bathroom and here I sit in my office.   There's only one TV, so maybe he was hoping 9:00 pm would remove 90 Day.   It's a loooong story why he's here at all.

There are some things in life that are non-negotiable. Live chat is one of them.

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4 minutes ago, For Cereals said:

How do you not know how to make a bed?!

She grew up with maids I bet, who did everything for her.    I know someone who went on full needs scholarship to a very nice university, and every roommate she had didn't know how to make their bed, do laundry, or any other household chore that most of us grow up knowing.   So, she taught them. 

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