90 Day: The Single Life

[Chalby]

On 11/25/2021 at 3:16 PM, Mrs. Hanson said:

Could it have been a mocktail?  Why do I care?

It was a mocktail, as announced by her friend who passed it to her 

[Chalby]

On 2/3/2022 at 5:23 PM, Tipsymcstagger said:

I think the fact that both he and Vanessa don’t have jobs and can’t find a few thousand to pull together is ridiculous. Especially with TLC paying some bills.

But Colt is literally the worst. As gross as Vanessa is - she’s miles above Colt.

Colt is truly disgusting, and it annoys me that he still gets women. Do they not know of his reputation? Hell, I'm old and I know...

I also dislike the fact that they're both unemployed, despite there being A LOT of jobs available in Vegas.

Colt's computer skills would allow him his pick of jobs... But, I guess that would involve physical movement.

[deirdra]

On 4/8/2022 at 10:45 PM, Chalby said:

Am I the only one irritated by Natalie? 

No.  The Ukrainian women I know are mostly over 50 and very warm. But if they didn't want to attract touchy men on a first date, they wouldn't wear Daisy Dukes with their shirts hanging off their shoulders and be making coy eye contact with tilted heads and come hither looks. Natalie is full of herself.

I always assumed Coltie was living in his mama's house. Is it actually his, so he can kick Debbie out? If nobody is working, how can they afford this house or two abodes once TLC cancels them?

Edited April 10, 2022 by deirdra

[Hotel Snarker]

On 4/6/2022 at 7:15 PM, Polliwollidoodle said:

Stephanie, could she be any more playing to the camera???

She absolutely is.

[Hotel Snarker]

Thoughts:

• It was great not having Stephanie on this episode.
• Debbie looks like she is trying to audition as a Go-Go dancer with those black tights and short white boots. Not crazy for that outfit, but her hair looks pretty.
• I swear that 98% of Jessifer’s relationship is just them doing all this ridiculous stuff with the passive-aggressive goal of taking shots at their exes Darcey & Tim. They are some of the most petty, narcissistic people on the planet.

[Tuneful]

On 4/9/2022 at 1:43 AM, Chalby said:

I also dislike the fact that [Colt and Vanessa] are both unemployed, despite there being A LOT of jobs available in Vegas. 

IIRC Vanessa was living in a townhouse when she was first on the show and I think she had a roommate. You can't pull off a townhouse without solid income. How do you go from being a working lady who takes care of herself to someone who thought Colt was her best option? Is she counting on work coming from  90DF? How bad is it to do nothing all day but (1) sit in the house with Colt, who's also idle and never stops trying to make you, I mean 24/7, and (2) keep Debbie company.  I bet the show attracts mostly narcissists who would never go back to Average Joe or Jane Work once they've been the ongoing center of attention, so here's to you, Pastor Benzo. To be fair, some do keep working such as Larry, Dinyell (also nursing school), Jovi, Mahammit, and Molly.    

Edited April 20, 2022 by Tuneful

[Hotel Snarker]

Thoughts:

• Yennifer should have just stayed with Caca. He seems like he’s really into her and not just for insta clout.
• Debbie looked like she bought her outfit at the Blouse Barn from Schitt’s Creek. "But if you ever, ever catch me shopping at the Blouse Barn, you must shoot me in the temple. Promise?"
• Ed is such an emotional terrorist with his oversharing and forced connections… makes me barf!
• Jay looks like he has a tiny MIB alien inside controlling him.

[Jax7917]

I am so repulsed by Stephanie. Why is she acting the way she is? 

I'm so confused about her evolution. She went from being afraid to tell her conservative mom that she was bi-sexual and not feeling comfortable being intimate with her girlfriend or even kissing her to selling farts in a jar and being sex-obsessed on tv to the point of taking baths pleasing herself and willing to with someone else on camera. The way she talks to the camera is so cringeworthy. 

[xls]

5 hours ago, Jax7917 said:

I am so repulsed by Stephanie. Why is she acting the way she is? 

I'm so confused about her evolution. She went from being afraid to tell her conservative mom that she was bi-sexual and not feeling comfortable being intimate with her girlfriend or even kissing her to selling farts in a jar and being sex-obsessed on tv to the point of taking baths pleasing herself and willing to with someone else on camera. The way she talks to the camera is so cringeworthy. 

She's so Linda Barrett from Fast Times at Ridgemont High; talks like a big sexpert, but has never actually done anything in RL. 

[bichonblitz]

Another thing about Stephanie that bugs me. I thought she moved to NYC. What happened with that? Now she's back in CT living in what I assume is her mother's house. 

No way Ed would be interested in Kaory in real life.  She's a cute, nice, normal lady of an appropriate age for Ed. She is definitely not sexy enough for Ed. He likes them young and stupid with long hair. 

That outfit Debbie had on to go bowling was cringe. Bowling!! I always love pantyhose with open toe sandals. Not. Vanessa actually telling her she looked great. Shame on her. I hate Vanessa and that pig Colt. 

[Welshman in Ca]

2 minutes ago, bichonblitz said:

Another thing about Stephanie that bugs me. I thought she moved to NYC. What happened with that? Now she's back in CT living in what I assume is her mother's house. 

 

She has an apartment in NY as well as the house in CT. She has apparently been around on the internet for quite a few years making $ as well as her only fans account & of course her farts in a jar which are best sellers. No doubt she sells bath water now as well judging by the amount of times she shares one on first dates.

[Tazley]

Debbie needs to get off dating sites and start meeting people (both male and female) in the flesh where they encounter each other in natural, non-stressful situations.  I had the bright idea that Debbie should volunteer at one or more local animal shelters where she would meet people with a shared love of cats/dogs.  I go for walks in my neighborhood park and there are so many genuinely nice men out there exercising their dogs.  It is so easy to start a conversation with them, especially if you show a real interest in their pets.  At least she could find companionship because she is so lonely right now.  In addition, she should rejoin a bowling league and/or a gym for both the social and physical benefits.  There are so many ways she could meet people other than casinos and dating sites.   Just sitting in her room because two losers weren't attracted to her is so depressing and non-productive.  In addition, she needs to find a happy medium between the old fogey outfits she used to wear and the new inappropriate, unflattering attire she wore on her last two dates.  

In regard to Jay, Debbie should not demean herself by trying to track him down via social media and other sources.  She doesn't need to become a Senior Stalker.  He is not worth her time or mental energy.  It would be far more constructive for Debbie to meet men in normal everyday activities where the expectations are not so unrealistically high.

[Hotel Snarker]

Thoughts:

• Why doesn’t anybody talk about how pathetic, desperate, and mentally ill Stephanie is?

• Ed is really playing up the shooting situation.

• I get the feeling that Jay still hasn’t been found and will never be seen again.

[CrazyInAlabama]

I had to laugh at Deb being told about a squatter problem in Las Vegas.   It's nothing new.  It's very common where people aren't often year round residents, I'm sure many people don't stay in Las Vegas for the summer, and squatters love snow bird condos and houses.   

Whenever I was job hunting, I tried to look at the housing, and would look at HOA newsletters if I could find them.   Virtually every one I found in Las Vegas talked about what to do if you suspect squatters moved into a neighboring condo.  

[SunnyBeBe]

I’ve missed some episodes.  Can someone tell me which episode contains gunfire scene with Ed?  

[magemaud]

On 1/7/2022 at 10:26 PM, Kdawg82 said:

The platform heels on date outfit #2 when Deb got stood up, were really high. 

And she clomped downstairs like a little girl trying on her mother's heels. I noticed that Debbie wears the same black lacy nightgown style top and orange mini skirt in her "intro" scene that she wore on Date #2--supposedly to go BOWLING? Of course she'd change her shoes, but did she really think she could bend over in that?  

[magemaud]

15 hours ago, SunnyBeBe said:

I’ve missed some episodes.  Can someone tell me which episode contains gunfire scene with Ed?  

I believe it was the episode that aired for non Discovery + watchers on April 18th, so I think it's Season 2, Episode 6. 

[gigiann]

On 4/27/2022 at 2:32 PM, Hotel Snarker said:

Thoughts:

• Why doesn’t anybody talk about how pathetic, desperate, and mentally ill Stephanie is?

• Ed is really playing up the shooting situation.

• I get the feeling that Jay still hasn’t been found and will never be seen again.

But I'm sure he will cash his TLC appearance money

 

On 4/29/2022 at 7:39 PM, CrazyInAlabama said:

I had to laugh at Deb being told about a squatter problem in Las Vegas.   It's nothing new.  It's very common where people aren't often year round residents, I'm sure many people don't stay in Las Vegas for the summer, and squatters love snow bird condos and houses.   

Whenever I was job hunting, I tried to look at the housing, and would look at HOA newsletters if I could find them.   Virtually every one I found in Las Vegas talked about what to do if you suspect squatters moved into a neighboring condo.  

I looked up apartments in Las Vegas and there are some really nice ones for about $700.  That dump she looked at was not the norm in Vegas

[gigiann]

Bilal said no one had lived in the house for ten years the first time he showed it to us.  Then why were all the utilities on?  Who has been cleaning the house?  It didn't look dusty or dirty and looks like nice linens on the bed.  It looks totally lived in.  I am just confused by his saying no one has lived there in 10 years.  Anyone else?

 

[bichonblitz]

On 4/30/2022 at 11:48 PM, magemaud said:

And she clomped downstairs like a little girl trying on her mother's heels. I noticed that Debbie wears the same black lacy nightgown style top and orange mini skirt in her "intro" scene that she wore on Date #2--supposedly to go BOWLING? Of course she'd change her shoes, but did she really think she could bend over in that?  

Nobody in their right mind would wear those clothes outside of the house. I think they were props to show us how outdated and out of touch Debbie is. Shame on Vanessa and Coltie for going along with that. 

[Welshman in Ca]

28 minutes ago, gigiann said:

Bilal said no one had lived in the house for ten years the first time he showed it to us.  Then why were all the utilities on?  Who has been cleaning the house?  It didn't look dusty or dirty and looks like nice linens on the bed.  It looks totally lived in.  I am just confused by his saying no one has lived there in 10 years.  Anyone else?

 

He's a lying liar who lies about everything.

[Hotel Snarker]

Thoughts:

• Syngin really took a national lampoons road trip, huh?

• I love how Debbie just discovered Googling someone and it's quite scary 😬.

• Not Jesse dry humping and getting a boner! 🤣

• LOL at Ed fighting a bee. 🐝

• Ugh, that was such a weird bath with Stephanie. 🙄

• Jennifer was being so petty with that argument.

• Colt’s neck beard has gotta fucking go. It is HORRENDOUS.

• Yay, Nutalie is back next week!

[Texasmom1970]

Now that Stephanie has lost her celibacy is she going to go back to mentioning her illness every two minutes?

[JLaw]

4 hours ago, Texasmom1970 said:

Now that Stephanie has lost her celibacy is she going to go back to mentioning her illness every two minutes?

What?  She's got an illness?

[Hotel Snarker]

Thoughts:

• Ed, just sit at the restaurant after they’re clearly closed and enjoy yourself. I’m sure the staff isn’t looking forward to leaving.
• Is every woman he dates “afraid of love?”
• How come Debbie is having so much trouble getting attention on Tinder? It’s not like she even seems to have high standards. Maybe she needs to be open to date men who are older than her, because maybe the guys her age want to date someone younger than they are?

[Gobi]

10 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

How come Debbie is having so much trouble getting attention on Tinder? 

Because every guy who does a search on her goes “Nope”.

[Texasmom1970]

I swear Ed could feel a love connection if he stood to close to a female mannequin.

[bichonblitz]

On 5/4/2022 at 2:24 PM, gigiann said:

I looked up apartments in Las Vegas and there are some really nice ones for about $700.  That dump she looked at was not the norm in Vegas

That was all a set up for the show. People search on line now, look at the photo's of the apartments and maps of the neighborhood before even stepping foot in the car to go look at the place in person. Who do they think they are kidding? Debbie could find a cute little apartment if she really wanted to. 

Ed, Colt, Stephanie and Jesse are the most revolting people on TV. 

I recently read TLC pays $1,000 to $1,500 per episode and if you are a foreigner with no green card yet you get paid nothing. Let's say they do 10 episodes a season. You can't live on that. Unless you are Stephanie and sell your farts in a jar as a side gig. 

Syngin of the beautiful hair has always been an alcoholic party boy so his little act of being so shy to start talking to women again and dating is a crock of shit. 

[Chalby]

On 4/10/2022 at 2:55 PM, deirdra said:

... always assumed Coltie was living in his mama's house. Is it actually his?

I assumed it was the same house Colt grew up in. When Colt was working on computers, maybe he helped (after his dad died) by paying the rent/mortgage? Regardless, he has never lived on his own, so he can look after his mother awhile longer. It's the least he can do.

[bichonblitz]

22 hours ago, Chalby said:

I assumed it was the same house Colt grew up in.

I think it's a rental house. 

Loving Kaory. Telling Ed to be quiet. Catch a clue, Big Ed. You're about to blow it for the 3rd time. 

[sagittarius sue]

On 5/15/2022 at 1:32 PM, Chalby said:

I assumed it was the same house Colt grew up in.

I seem to recall that Debbie and Coltee lived previously in the Seattle area, and moved to Los Vegas a few years before they were on the series.

[gingerella]

Did they actually resolve the Kaory Big Ped situation or did I miss it? She was delightful and thank god she saw what a deluded narcissist Big Ped was before things went further. "She's afraid of love". No Ped, she's afraid of narcissistic psychos like YOU. Asshole. He and whatshername deserve each other. That's gonna be a marriage made in hell because once they're hitched his self-obsessed qualities will come rearing back and he'll be his usual emotionally abusive self.

[magemaud]

On 5/11/2022 at 5:42 PM, Hotel Snarker said:

Is every woman he dates “afraid of love?”

I think every woman Ed dates is afraid of HIM! He really comes on strong from the get go. I wonder how long he and Liz will last THIS time (or since this engagement happened in November, 2021, if they're still together, off and on, or broken up) I can't imagine them coming back for another season since neither of them fits the K1 visa "foreign fiancé" criteria which the show is SUPPOSED to be about. Then again, neither did Colt and Vanessa, and they're still on my TV! 

 

Edited May 17, 2022 by magemaud

[magemaud]

On 5/17/2022 at 2:27 PM, gingerella said:

Did they actually resolve the Kaory Big Ped situation or did I miss it?

He had texted her several times that morning to see if she wanted to go on the boat ride and she finally agreed to meet with him OFF CAMERA so we didn't see what happened or how the situation was resolved. 

edited to add: or if she took out a restraining order against him

Edited May 18, 2022 by magemaud

[Mindthinkr]

Don’t tell me I missed a good (finally) episode 😳

[gingerella]

4 minutes ago, magemaud said:

He had texted her several times that morning to see if she wanted to go on the boat ride and she finally agreed to meet with him OFF CAMERA so we didn't see what happened or how the situation was resolved. 

Thank you! Good for Kaory, not playing into his poor pitiful winking, blinking weirdo play it up for the cameras bullshit. Kaory deserves soooo much better than this idiot. I wish her well.

[Hotel Snarker]

On 5/17/2022 at 2:49 PM, magemaud said:

I think every woman Ed dates is afraid of HIM! He really comes on strong from the get go. I wonder how long he and Liz will last THIS time (or since this engagement happened in November, 2021, if they're still together, off and on, or broken up) I can't imagine them coming back for another season since neither of them fits the K1 visa "foreign fiancé" criteria which the show is SUPPOSED to be about. Then again, neither did Colt and Vanessa, and they're still on my TV! 

 

They’re afraid of love, according to him. They’re afraid of HIS kind of love.

Thoughts:

• Maybe this time It will work out for Debbie. Nice gesture getting a table in the chef’s kitchen. Then she can move and get away from scraggly beard.
• Ed announcing the price (supposedly) of the ring: “Where's Kaory when you need her?” SHUT UP ED!
• Too bad Tania doubled down on Syngin not being her soulmate. She’d still be on the show if she hadn’t!

[Sile]

Dammit!  I actually had tears rolling when Ed was talking about Teddy passing.

[sainte-chapelle]

On 5/17/2022 at 3:57 PM, gingerella said:

Thank you! Good for Kaory, not playing into his poor pitiful winking, blinking weirdo play it up for the cameras bullshit. Kaory deserves soooo much better than this idiot. I wish her well.

I liked her. I am guessing Ed was quite charming online but once she met him she quickly figured him out, good for her for meeting him off camera. I think it was classy to try to save him the humiliation of being rejected….not that he deserved this kindness.

[gingerella]

7 hours ago, sainte-chapelle said:

I liked her. I am guessing Ed was quite charming online but once she met him she quickly figured him out, good for her for meeting him off camera. I think it was classy to try to save him the humiliation of being rejected….not that he deserved this kindness.

I hadn't thought of it as her saving him tbe embarrassment of an on camera rejection but you're probably right. She already told him to STFU several times on camera and he just could not control his impulses, it was like watching a toddler. A fat, hairy, narcissist toddler. I wish we knew what she said to him though,because she is very direct and not afraid to say whats what. Of course this asshole will spin it as she was afraid if Love. And she'll probably opt out of the tell nothing because she's got class.

[magemaud]

I realize the Single Life was shown previously on Discovery + but was PT filmed and shown then, too? If the episodes are new, there's no way the PT participants didn't know the outcome of each couple's story in advance and are just faking their reactions. 

[Welshman in Ca]

7 minutes ago, magemaud said:

I realize the Single Life was shown previously on Discovery + but was PT filmed and shown then, too? If the episodes are new, there's no way the PT participants didn't know the outcome of each couple's story in advance and are just faking their reactions. 

PT was not on D+ when the single life originally aired `but no idea when it was filmed.

[magemaud]

41 minutes ago, Welshman in Ca said:

PT was not on D+ when the single life originally aired `but no idea when it was filmed.

I suppose we could "guesstimate" by looking at the size of Asher who was born last August. 

[Gobi]

1 hour ago, magemaud said:

I realize the Single Life was shown previously on Discovery + but was PT filmed and shown then, too? If the episodes are new, there's no way the PT participants didn't know the outcome of each couple's story in advance and are just faking their reactions. 

Presuming they watched SL on D+. I doubt if they did, as they are all too wrapped up in themselves to care about any of the other cast members.

[Hotel Snarker]

Thoughts:

• Big Egg not talking to his aging mom, so pathetic, can't stand him. Oh, the way he washed poor Teddy in the outside pool. Dude, the dog can fit in the sink. Ed, you suck.

• Stephanie: “I had sex in the most bestest way. I was in a castle in Paris and he found me by smelling my beautiful farts and he had three penises and banged me in every hole at the same time and I couldn’t stop orgasming but don’t worry I’m still bi. Speaking of bi, buy my farts.”

• Something is very wrong with Vanessa for being with Colt.

Edited May 25, 2022 by Hotel Snarker

[DanaMB]

Jesse and Jenniffer are seething with jealousy over Tim and Veronica’s regular gig and popularity on Pillow Talk. 
 

Can we please be done with them? And Ed? And Stephanie?

Edited May 26, 2022 by DanaMB

[gigiann]

If Kaory would have accepted BigggggEggggg's offer of a relationship and engagement (cause you know that is what Ed wanted from her)....and then the event of Teddy dying.....and Liz making her way to Ed's with flowers, etc........would he have ditched Kaory to get Liz back?  

I say...he sure would have

[Jax7917]

On 5/25/2022 at 9:03 PM, DanaMB said:

Jesse and Jenniffer are seething with jealousy over Tim and Veronica’s regular gig and popularity on Pillow Talk. 
 

Can we please be done with them? And Ed? And Stephanie?

I only watched a few seasons so no idea anything about Tim and Jennifer or Tim and Veronica , but … he’s straight ? 

[Auntie Anxiety]

14 hours ago, Jax7917 said:

I only watched a few seasons so no idea anything about Tim and Jennifer or Tim and Veronica , but … he’s straight ? 

Yes, surprisingly. Tim is actually very funny and has a dry delivery, which makes his comments on Pillow Talk hilariously snarky. He also has a lot more self-awareness than most of the people on the numerous 90 Day franchises.

[Johannah]

11 hours ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Yes, surprisingly. Tim is actually very funny and has a dry delivery, which makes his comments on Pillow Talk hilariously snarky. He also has a lot more self-awareness than most of the people on the numerous 90 Day franchises.

Yes, in my opinion, Tim and Veronica are the best thing about this show and its offshoots.  Although, they shouldn't be on Jennnnnifer's personal show.  She didn't invite them.  Lol.  It's killing her that they are there and I'm loving it.

Every time the camera shifts to Jessssee and Jennnnnifer, she has to kiss him passionately.  Looks like she is trying too hard and it's pathetic, not whatever she thinks it is.