90 Day Fiancé: What Now?

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11 hours ago, Kangatush said:

And I find it really refreshing that she doesn't feel the need to tart up in a bathroom ala Darcey to meet up with Jon.  She brings mother of a toddler after a long flight realness.

I am so totally with you there. She took some heat when she first went to visit him and was in sweatpants or a sweatshirt or something and I didn't agree with that. He knew her, he knew what she looked like, and it should have been about her comfort, not his need to see her dolled up like she's going to a disco when she's just been on a 6 hour flight with a baby. 

[Baltimore Betty]

On 5/26/2020 at 6:18 AM, renatae said:

"English Christmas in Lucy's Room" was so pretty, cute, and thoughtful.

My thought was it was nice but what happens when they have to get on a plane and leave all those toys behind?  That will be an epic tantrum when they try to explain that the bike cannot be packed in their luggage.

Why would Jon's family ask about another child when they know they cannot even live in the same country? Would it make sense to suggest Rachel give birth alone and care for another child on her own?  If I were Rachel I would have asked them if they were going to chip in to help raise the baby, pay for daycare, medical bills, etc...then I would have followed up with, "no, I didn't think so, so shut up about future kids and mind your own business," but that's just me, I like to call people out on their absurbness.

[CrazyInAlabama]

I bet Jon's family think that having another child with Rachel means it would make it easier for him to get a U.S. visa.    No it won't.   Plus, it would make the income needed for a sponsorship to be even higher.   

[1011101010001]

Anny was trying to get pregnant for seven years while single?

[Kayz Opinion]

3 hours ago, MrBuhBye said:

Anny was trying to get pregnant for seven years while single?

Not literally...but there may have been times during those years she wanted to get pregnant.  She had "feminine" difficulties that caused her to see a specialist who told her she probably could NOT get pregnant.

 

6 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

My thought was it was nice but what happens when they have to get on a plane and leave all those toys behind? 

Was there a tantrum in New Mexico when she had to leave THOSE toys behind?  Maybe there's an easy way to explain her "lucky" situation.

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 5/30/2020 at 2:24 PM, Baltimore Betty said:

My thought was it was nice but what happens when they have to get on a plane and leave all those toys behind?  That will be an epic tantrum when they try to explain that the bike cannot be packed in their luggage.

That was my thought with the bicycle:  How is that gonna get home to New Mexico?  I want to know what the heck happened to Lucy!!  Such a sweet toddler and now she is edited to be a hellion of a preschooler!  Not chapping on a kid, I wonder if it is editing.  Maybe she is as tired of the whole situation as well?

[Gobi]

12 minutes ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

That was my thought with the bicycle:  How is that gonna get home to New Mexico?  I want to know what the heck happened to Lucy!!  Such a sweet toddler and now she is edited to be a hellion of a preschooler!  Not chapping on a kid, I wonder if it is editing.  Maybe she is as tired of the whole situation as well?

And she’s likely to outgrow the bike before she ever returns to England.

[Mrs. Hanson]

1 hour ago, Gobi said:

And she’s likely to outgrow the bike before she ever returns to England.

See, and that is what bugs me:  "We are out $11,000 but let's buy Lucy a new bike that she will ride for a few days" but then again, these two fools annoy me so much they can sneeze and it will bug me, lol.  Him and his "I can sell this house and give you $50,000" (really?  Is it YOUR house to sell or is your mom's house?) to her constant crying.  Then again, if I was laid off, lost $11,000 in a failed bid to bring my unemployed Fighty McFelon over here and it was sinking in that I made a HUGE error, yeah.....I would be reaching for the Kleenex, too!

[Kayz Opinion]

2 hours ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

  I want to know what the heck happened to Lucy!!  Such a sweet toddler and now she is edited to be a hellion of a preschooler! 

Because she has a mother whose antics have already caused an older child to live with her father?  Because Lucy gets no attention at home from a whiny "poor me" crybaby whose main J-O-B seems to be bringing her Karaoke Buddy to America?

A kid has to resort so SOMETHING to get attention.  And what do we think will happen if "Daddy" and Mom have HIS baby (sorely wanted by his family)?  Who get the attention then?

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2 hours ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

That was my thought with the bicycle:  How is that gonna get home to New Mexico?  I want to know what the heck happened to Lucy!!  Such a sweet toddler and now she is edited to be a hellion of a preschooler!  Not chapping on a kid, I wonder if it is editing.  Maybe she is as tired of the whole situation as well?

Lucy is just copying the ever popular Drusilla.

1 hour ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

2 hours ago, Gobi said:

 

See, and that is what bugs me:  "We are out $11,000 but let's buy Lucy a new bike that she will ride for a few days"

Jon seems like the type who would return the bike like the women who return a dress after the big event.

1 hour ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

I would be reaching for the Kleenex, too!

Rachel prefers fingers to Kleenex.

[TrininisaScorp]

I have to say, I was actually truly moved by the Loren-Alexei baby special tonight.  It felt super true to them, they seemed more real than I remembered in their seasons, and all the stuff leading up to the birth and after were moving.  Who's show is this?  Sharp clearly messed up making something so decent. 

[azprimadonna]

I also thought the Loren/Alexei special was heartwarming.  I so needed a positive outcome in the middle of all the negativity in this franchise and the world in general.  Having enjoyed them on Pillow Talk, I am glad they are such a happy couple.  

[libgirl2]

3 hours ago, azprimadonna said:

I also thought the Loren/Alexei special was heartwarming.  I so needed a positive outcome in the middle of all the negativity in this franchise and the world in general.  Having enjoyed them on Pillow Talk, I am glad they are such a happy couple.  

I was home sick in bed all day and watched 90 Day all day. I was so thrilled to see this! They made me so happy.

[Polliwollidoodle]

I think, for me, it was seeing Loren and Alexei on Pillow Talk that totally converted me to being a big time fan of theirs. I agree they are like normal, healthy, respectful, regular folks.

They are not perfect but they are not wacked out loonies or total loosers (sorry to say about many of the others).

[ErikaAlyson]

Jesse is so boring to watch lol. But he’s funny to me lol. Tiffany seems like a selfish person,she reminds me of my half brother. Making such irresponsible decisions and expecting other people to help her with her choices. But I find her attractive🤷🏽‍♀️. Corey must get turned on by how Evelyn treats him. He’s like a Russ and Paola type of situation. She must be really good in bed lol. I like David but not interested in his hair storyline. Rachel is weird to me....I can’t believe she likes Jon lol. 

[Kayz Opinion]

2 hours ago, ErikaOnline said:

Corey must get turned on by how Evelyn treats him.

It makes me wonder/worry about his childhood. 

[Gobi]

Just now, Kayz Opinion said:

It makes me wonder/worry about his childhood. 

I think Corey and Russ are twins that were separated at birth.

[Kayz Opinion]

On 6/1/2020 at 10:26 AM, MrBuhBye said:

Jon seems like the type who would return the bike like the women who return a dress after the big event.

Awww....I don't see that at all.  I think he's a sweet guy with some severe anger problems (so...not really safe).  I also don't see him as bright enough to pull off a caper.

[ErikaAlyson]

8 minutes ago, Kayz Opinion said:

It makes me wonder/worry about his childhood. 

I questioned that too. He seems nice. He can find a girl who actually loves and cares and respects him, but he chooses not to. 

[SunnyBeBe]

The thing with Corey......I hope he's careful in SA.  I'd be concerned with going missing. 

Now I realize why Loren wanted a girl so much.  When it comes to inheriting Tourette's syndrome, a much greater percentage of boys than girls gets it.  I get her concern. 

Edited June 2, 2020 by SunnyBeBe

[Pepper Mostly]

On 5/30/2020 at 6:45 PM, MrBuhBye said:

Anny was trying to get pregnant for seven years while single?

I don't understand why this would be a problem. Its 2020, after all. 

[1011101010001]

17 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

I don't understand why this would be a problem. Its 2020, after all. 

I’m just asking not judging.  Sheesh.

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3 hours ago, Gobi said:

I think Corey and Russ are twins that were separated at birth.

Ugh. You are so right. Each is a spineless jelly fish. So unattractive. 

[Kayz Opinion]

1 hour ago, configdotsys said:

Ugh. You are so right. Each is a spineless jelly fish. So unattractive.

Now that you mention it...I don't think you mean't "physically" unattractive, but if we watch their "growth," each started out as a cute guy--and neither still is.  Guess we need spines to keep us lookin' good.

[SunnyBeBe]

I just find it very coincidental how many women who want babies, who are with men, who don’t want babies, are women who CONTEND either that they cannot conceive OR they are on birth control....then BAM, they’re pregnant! Big shock....lol. So lame. Sorry, but I don’t believe much from Anny.  Getting pregnant when your partner is not prepared or equipped to support another child is so selfish. Ugh.............that’s really not very supportive of Bryson either.   I did feel for Robert trying to get some work....riding around with a risky job, another one on the way that he was not planning on...not good. Too much stress.

Edited June 2, 2020 by SunnyBeBe

[Texasmom1970]

It was heartwarming to see Alexi and Loren with their beautiful baby boy!

Alexi is smart; when he mentioned her hormones and just doing whatever she needs and wants right now. And, seeing him shirtless is always a bonus.

Robert you are correct about teachers should be paid more. Many parents home schooling right now are ready for a new school year to start!

 

Edited June 3, 2020 by Texasmom1970
Edited because apparently I forgot how to spell!

[endure]

5 hours ago, SunnyBeBe said:

I just find it very coincidental how many women who want babies, who are with men, who don’t want babies, are women who CONTEND either that they cannot conceive OR they are on birth control....then BAM, they’re pregnant! Big shock....lol. So lame. Sorry, but I don’t believe much from Anny.  Getting pregnant when your partner is not prepared or equipped to support another child is so selfish. Ugh.............that’s really not very supportive of Bryson either.   I did feel for Robert trying to get some work....riding around with a risky job, another one on the way that he was not planning on...not good. Too much stress.

She didn’t get pregnant on purpose and didn’t believe it was even a possibility for her.  They seem to be happy about it and I hope they have have a healthy happy pregnancy and baby.

[cynicat]

On 6/2/2020 at 1:19 AM, TrininisaScorp said:

I have to say, I was actually truly moved by the Loren-Alexei baby special tonight.  It felt super true to them, they seemed more real than I remembered in their seasons, and all the stuff leading up to the birth and after were moving.  Who's show is this?  Sharp clearly messed up making something so decent. 

I waited to watch this with a plan to FF about half because I thought it was another regular episode.  What a lovely surprise!  This was a palate cleanser for the soul after all the ugliness that is going on right now.  So very sweet.  Also, Lauren is right, Alexi is a TOTALLY hot dad.

[Meowwww]

I almost deleted this without watching.  SO glad I didn’t. What a sweet, heart-warming episode.  Loren and Alexei and Baby Brov are a breath of fresh air. 

[SunnyBeBe]

9 hours ago, endure said:

She didn’t get pregnant on purpose and didn’t believe it was even a possibility for her.  They seem to be happy about it and I hope they have have a healthy happy pregnancy and baby.

Oh, I know that’s her contention. I don’t find her credible, though. I wish them all good health. 

[Twopper]

21 hours ago, SunnyBeBe said:

Now I realize why Loren wanted a girl so much.  When it comes to inheriting Tourette's syndrome, a much greater percentage of boys than girls gets it.  I get her concern. 

I was a bit late to this franchise.  I got dragged in because I thought --stupidly thought, it turns out---that Jenny and Summit was going to be some kind of Exotic Marigold Hotel episode. 

I have watched Pillow Talk since then, and Loren and Alexei have been my fav couple on it.  I obviously missed their season (I don't have the energy to binge watch earlier seasons) so my question is:  who has Tourette's syndrome to cause this concern?

I really liked their special.  I saw it last night after seeing a documentary on Rick Kirkham and his relationship with Joe Exotic and an episode of Catfish which featured someone who also appeared on M600PL where she was even worse than on the Catfish show.    Seriously, I need a life.....

Edited June 3, 2020 by Twopper

[SunnyBeBe]

23 minutes ago, Twopper said:

I was a bit late to this franchise.  I got dragged in because I thought --stupidly thought, it turns out---that Jenny and Summit was going to be some kind of Exotic Marigold Hotel episode. 

I have watched Pillow Talk since then, and Loren and Alexei have been my fav couple on it.  I obviously missed their season (I don't have the energy to binge watch earlier seasons) so my question is:  who has Tourette's syndrome to cause this concern?

I really liked their special.  I saw it last night after seeing a documentary on Rick Kirkham and his relationship with Joe Exotic and an episode of Catfish which featured someone who also appeared on M600PL where she was even worse than on the Catfish show.    Seriously, I need a life.....

Loren has Tourett's.  I always knew she had a tic, but, didn't realize what it was until they started appearing on Pillow Talk and a poster on PT thread posted about it. Which was correct, as the couple discussed on air. I did some online research about it, mainly because I have a cousin who's son has it.  It's mysterious, but, there is definitely an inherited component to it, though not well understood. And, that males are far more prone to have it. Loren's is considered mild, I would think, but, some cases can be very pronounced and really interfere with a person's daily life.  

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33 minutes ago, SunnyBeBe said:

Loren has Tourett's.  I always knew she had a tic, but, didn't realize what it was until they started appearing on Pillow Talk and a poster on PT thread posted about it. Which was correct, as the couple discussed on air. I did some online research about it, mainly because I have a cousin who's son has it.  It's mysterious, but, there is definitely an inherited component to it, though not well understood. And, that males are far more prone to have it. Loren's is considered mild, I would think, but, some cases can be very pronounced and really interfere with a person's daily life.  

There was a whole storyline about whether Alexi’s family would accept her condition and the possibility that they could pass it on to their kids.

[SunnyBeBe]

7 minutes ago, MrBuhBye said:

There was a whole storyline about whether Alexi’s family would accept her condition and the possibility that they could pass it on to their kids.

I must have missed that from back then. They were not one of my favorite couples at all.  I like them much more now. 

[1011101010001]

6 minutes ago, SunnyBeBe said:

I must have missed that from back then. They were not one of my favorite couples at all.  I like them much more now. 

Yeah there was a lot of manufactured drama like Alexi being mad that Loren went to a male strip club for her bachelorette party and thinking her friend from New York was a bad influence.

[lilysmom]

19 hours ago, SunnyBeBe said:

I just find it very coincidental how many women who want babies, who are with men, who don’t want babies, are women who CONTEND either that they cannot conceive OR they are on birth control....then BAM, they’re pregnant! Big shock....lol. So lame. Sorry, but I don’t believe much from Anny.  Getting pregnant when your partner is not prepared or equipped to support another child is so selfish. Ugh.............that’s really not very supportive of Bryson either.   I did feel for Robert trying to get some work....riding around with a risky job, another one on the way that he was not planning on...not good. Too much stress.

But, in Robert's case (6 babies, 5 mothers later), if he didn't want that 6th child, then he should know how to be prepared and be equipped to prevent a pregnancy. It isn't like they are teenagers and it wasn't just Anny.  I think it's unfair to put all the blame on her. We weren't there, we don't know the circumstances.

[StatisticalOutlier]

On 6/2/2020 at 7:16 AM, mayvenne said:

They are not perfect but they are not wacked out loonies or total loosers (sorry to say about many of the others).

Unlike the whacked out loonies and total losers on the show, they serendipitously met as real people, and not while trolling a Russian Babes website, or responding to some 20-years-younger guy who just happened to see her Instagram and really liked what he saw.

 

1 hour ago, MrBuhBye said:

Yeah there was a lot of manufactured drama like Alexi being mad that Loren went to a male strip club for her bachelorette party and thinking her friend from New York was a bad influence.

Do you think that accounts for his reaction when they talked about it on the baby episode?  He didn't seem to want to discuss it at all, and it didn't come off to me as regretting his behavior or anything like that.  Maybe regretting that the show manufactured the drama?

(I didn't see their season, but put together a Cliff's Notes version when I started enjoying them on Pillow Talk.)

[SunnyBeBe]

10 minutes ago, lilysmom said:

But, in Robert's case (6 babies, 5 mothers later), if he didn't want that 6th child, then he should know how to be prepared and be equipped to prevent a pregnancy. It isn't like they are teenagers and it wasn't just Anny.  I think it's unfair to put all the blame on her. We weren't there, we don't know the circumstances.

I agree. And, I posted a comment about Robert also being responsible around here somewhere. But, the one above was specifically about mother's since, it was my understanding that she represented to Robert that she could not get pregnant.  I suppose that he could have taken measures of contraception anyway, JUST in case she was lying, but, I think a spouse is supposed to have trust with those things......I know multiple women who have pulled this before, so, I guess partners should be aware of this possibility.  For example if your husband told you that he had had vasectomy, would you trust it or use contraception anyway?  I think most people trust their spouse's word.  I just don't find Anny credible. Time will tell of course. I wish them only good health and happiness.  

Edited June 3, 2020 by SunnyBeBe

[endure]

6 hours ago, Twopper said:

I was a bit late to this franchise.  I got dragged in because I thought --stupidly thought, it turns out---that Jenny and Summit was going to be some kind of Exotic Marigold Hotel episode. 

I have watched Pillow Talk since then, and Loren and Alexei have been my fav couple on it.  I obviously missed their season (I don't have the energy to binge watch earlier seasons) so my question is:  who has Tourette's syndrome to cause this concern?

I really liked their special.  I saw it last night after seeing a documentary on Rick Kirkham and his relationship with Joe Exotic and an episode of Catfish which featured someone who also appeared on M600PL where she was even worse than on the Catfish show.    Seriously, I need a life.....

I really liked the Loren and Alexi episode too, I actually teared up several times watching it. Loren has tourettes syndrome but she has a relatively mild case ‘I think’  It appears to be in remission while she’s been pregnant.....again this is my assumption 

 

[Meowwww]

7 hours ago, StatisticalOutlier said:

Unlike the whacked out loonies and total losers on the show, they serendipitously met as real people, and not while trolling a Russian Babes website, or responding to some 20-years-younger guy who just happened to see her Instagram and really liked what he saw.

Vintage 90 Day Fiancé.  I miss those good old days. 

[RoxiP]

I don't think Alexi liked the stripper but I think that at this point he's gotten over it and doesn't want to revisit it (I think a lot of men would not be a fan of their fiancees being lap danced by some other male).

[Polliwollidoodle]

Cheerleader for Team Loren and Alexei.  Time has definitely improved them. I don't think they were such fan favorites in their season, but they have matured AND they really seem to love each other as they have gotten to know each other.

I have commented before that another thing in their favor is that their families are supportive. Of course his family is not thrilled that he has moved away but all things considered, the commonality of the religion is a definite plus.

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2 hours ago, mayvenne said:

Cheerleader for Team Loren and Alexei.  Time has definitely improved them. I don't think they were such fan favorites in their season, but they have matured AND they really seem to love each other as they have gotten to know each other.

I have commented before that another thing in their favor is that their families are supportive. Of course his family is not thrilled that he has moved away but all things considered, the commonality of the religion is a definite plus.

I think the audience soured on them when Loren was a mean girl toward Anfisa at the Tell All.

[Kayz Opinion]

1 hour ago, MrBuhBye said:

I think the audience soured on them when Loren was a mean girl toward Anfisa at the Tell All.

I forgot all about it.  Even with this reminder, I don't care.  They are a cute and loving couple who should have their own show on a BETTER network.

[1011101010001]

I like them now as well.  

[bichonblitz]

On 6/3/2020 at 12:28 AM, endure said:

She didn’t get pregnant on purpose and didn’t believe it was even a possibility for her.

So she said. We don't really know if that's true. I think Anny is a little shady. 

[Baltimore Betty]

11 minutes ago, bichonblitz said:

So she said. We don't really know if that's true. I think Anny is a little shady. 

Here is the deal with Annie and Robert, we already know he is not a fan of taking on the burden of birth control seeing he has 5 children, Annie went to a doctor (when, how long ago?) and was told it would be difficult to get pregnant, the operative word was "difficult" not impossible.  Robert acts like it is all Annie's fault for letting it happen, my guess he must think all the other baby mama's are at fault too.  

This will probably not be the only baby for Annie with their method of thinking/birth control.

[bichonblitz]

On 6/2/2020 at 1:01 PM, Gobi said:

I think Corey and Russ are twins that were separated at birth.

At least Russ chose a woman that wanted to get married and wanted a child. Evelin wants none of that whatsoever! She doesn't even want to live in the US which I must admit is different from most. She'll take his money, though. It's all about the money with Evelin. 

[endure]

10 hours ago, bichonblitz said:

At least Russ chose a woman that wanted to get married and wanted a child. Evelin wants none of that whatsoever! She doesn't even want to live in the US which I must admit is different from most. She'll take his money, though. It's all about the money with Evelin. 

I don’t believe most people want to live in the US.

[bichonblitz]

8 hours ago, endure said:

I don’t believe most people want to live in the US.

Most on 90 Day Fiance do.