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Is it any wonder that JB went ballistic when Jill and Derick started pushing for not only the contract documents with TLC but the Mad Family Inc. corporate records, including board of directors' meeting minutes? 

I'm not saying he broke any laws, but it appears the money and tax filings went something like this:

  • TLC paid Mad Family, Inc. fees for the show
  • Mad Family Inc. reported that it paid specific amounts to each member of the Duggar family, including the kids
  • JB's CPA filed tax returns for each kid stating as income the amount of income that Mad Family had paid the kid.
  • Except - the kid hadn't actually received any of that money.

Something we don't know: if taxes were due on a kid's reported income per their Form 1040, was it paid? I think it must have been. You don't file a return with the IRS showing income and then fail to pay the tax due on that income. I assume JB must have paid those taxes, probably from Mad Family Inc.'s funds. 

Another thing we don't know: how the income was reported. Earned income, which would trigger FICA taxes? Other income which might not trigger FICA? 

Were the kids "employees" of Mad Family, Inc.? Or independent contractors?

I mean, TBH I know JB has pulled a lot of fancy financial maneuvers, and I don't give f*ck about the details. But I'm finding it darkly amusing that Mr. Bigshot in IBLP, a follower of Bill Gothard whose mantra was "children are a blessing," probably treated his children as independent contractors.

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On 9/12/2023 at 12:26 PM, Salacious Kitty said:

AFAIK, he was a buddy of JB's. I guess JB felt the guy would give FF a stern IBLP talking to. Coming from someone not directly involved with their insular church might have more of an impact than being talked to by Jim Holt. 

Of course, that guy had his own dirty secrets. 

Wonder if JB and this cop have some things in common.  I have never believed Josh was born a sick mofo.

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4 hours ago, Jeeves said:

I'm putting this here because it's about JB in general, not limited to Jill. We know that he did Jill a bad turn re taxes and money, and I think he did it to all the kids, so it's more about him than about Jill. The deets about Jill are discussed in the Jill/Derick topic.

I have now found a few clues in Jill's book, that support my belief that JB pulled the same tax trick on all the kids as he did with Jill, i.e., through the CPA, filing income tax returns showing the individual had received $X income, which was never actually paid to that person.

After much dispute and unpleasantness from JB, Jill and Derick finally got a copy of the contract documents that she had signed the day before her wedding. She said this, mentioning what the "Compensation" section of the contract contained:

Also, she quoted JB's nasty itemization of what he'd spent on Jill, that he sent them when they were pushing to get copies of the contract and other relevant documents. I found it so distasteful that I skimmed it. But I read it again. Someone has posted a screenshot of it, either in the Jill/Derick topic or the TLC/media one, I don't remember, sorry.

Before he lays out the numbers, JB says:

He's such an arse. I don't care how long and loud he hollers "Jesus!!" He truly worships money and power.

So basically charging all the kids for all the expenses to raise them from birth to whenever the contract says so.  I am surprised any charges for the kids being birthed weren't tagged on.

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Back when Homeland Security went to investigate a Duggar lot, for what we all later learned was due to Josh's CSAM, I assumed the government was there for financial fraud investigations. I've been waiting for news to come out that JB is in trouble for some shady financial doings that to the outside seemed rather sketchy but not out-and-out illegal. Now with Jill's book coming out and making some of the financial stuff public (again, it doesn't seem to be fully illegal...)I wonder if, in a couple of years, he will be prosecuted.

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8 hours ago, Jeeves said:

I'm putting this here because it's about JB in general, not limited to Jill. We know that he did Jill a bad turn re taxes and money, and I think he did it to all the kids, so it's more about him than about Jill. The deets about Jill are discussed in the Jill/Derick topic.

I have now found a few clues in Jill's book, that support my belief that JB pulled the same tax trick on all the kids as he did with Jill, i.e., through the CPA, filing income tax returns showing the individual had received $X income, which was never actually paid to that person.

After much dispute and unpleasantness from JB, Jill and Derick finally got a copy of the contract documents that she had signed the day before her wedding. She said this, mentioning what the "Compensation" section of the contract contained:

Also, she quoted JB's nasty itemization of what he'd spent on Jill, that he sent them when they were pushing to get copies of the contract and other relevant documents. I found it so distasteful that I skimmed it. But I read it again. Someone has posted a screenshot of it, either in the Jill/Derick topic or the TLC/media one, I don't remember, sorry.

Before he lays out the numbers, JB says:

He's such an arse. I don't care how long and loud he hollers "Jesus!!" He truly worships money and power.

That is the same excuse Hugh Hefner used when girls next door started filming.  That they were paid in room and board.

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2 hours ago, Heathen said:

I wonder what prompted that turnabout. 

 My guess was that maybe it’s easier for the grandparents to care for him now that’s he’s a little older and would need a different level of care. But who really knows?  I hope he’s happy though and doesn’t miss his similarly aged cousins ( or however they’re related) too much. 

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8 minutes ago, AstridM said:

Ha! At least he’s out of the cult and hopefully is now attending a real school. 

I agree - to a degree.

Tyler was very lucky to be cared for by family members but being shuffled around is hard. And the fact that JB&M aren't fighting to keep him will no doubt have an impact.

Imagine at 15 years old going to high school having been homeschooled for the last 7 years. Imagine living with grandparents after spending the last 7 years surrounded by young folks.

Not saying remaining with the Duggars would be good, but surely leaving is hard.

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2 hours ago, Jeeves said:

  

No kidding!

I do not believe JB has actually invoiced his kids for their care and feeding. He was furious - and I think scared sh*tless - by Jill and Derick insisting on getting copies of the TLC contract and the Mad Family Inc. corporate documents (Jill was a shareholder). In his rage and fear he came up with that stupid "itemized statement" and fired it at her.

It was a d*ck move. And a stupid one. Because now there will be a public memory of him as the guy who billed his kids for their upbringing. Not exactly accurate, but I'm not breaking my heart over any unfairness to him if that does stick to his public persona. 

In his reaction to Jill and Derick challenging his authority, he also enlisted several of his other kids to pile on the Dillards. They sent voicemails and texts "all day long, each one pleading with us to get this resolved." All that was needed was for JB to hand over the documents so "resolving" it was in his hands, not the Dillards'. When the phone onslaught didn't work some of them started visiting - day and night. Jill was willing to sit and hear them out, but when they started coming over and wanting to stay up till midnight talking, when Derick had law school exams, the next day, she "finally told them no." And got pushback! They said "this is way more important than law school!" Oy.

She said that one of the sibs did tell her what was going on. 

JB was also softening up the other sibs. From early 2017, JB had been paying "small, non-negotiable amounts" to the siblings and spouses who were filming. It seemed to Jill that he had brainwashed them into thinking they weren't owed anything and that "the $80,000 payment had been super generous." There were strings attached to those payments, of course - including piling on Jill and Derick. And I'm sure he was keeping the sibs in the dark about those tax returns. Jill says the sibs were "still so terrified of stirring up dissension among the brethren that they went along with most everything."  BTW she never identified any of the sibs involved, not even by gender. 

I can see JB being sh*t scared of his financial maneuverings being exposed. He could have been walking a line just on the right side of the tax laws, and I'm sure that any income taxes due on the "income" shown on his kids' tax returns were paid. Now, the fact that the kids weren't actually paid that "income" is a different matter. I think that in his own head, he believed all that money was his to control and by setting aside certain sums for his kids as a future inheritance (when he and Michelle died) or an "investment" he was managing, he was just being the headship. Or whatever. He invested the money in real estate and other businesses, and seems to have done pretty well. But the money he was using was earned by his entire family being at the beck and call of a TLC crew several weeks a year, from toddlerhood well into their 20's. And none of them saw a dime to call their own.

Since reading the book I've wondered if JB could have avoided a big blowup with Jill and Derick if he hadn't been so all-out arrogant and controlling from the start. What if he'd handed them the contract when they first asked, I think back in 2015 when the question of reimbursement for Izzy's birth costs came up? What if he'd disclosed how he'd handled the money for the kids? I think he might have avoided total war. Now, I don't think the fiddling with Jill's tax returns would have gone down well with Derick even then. But Jill was still deep into her Duggar/IBLP conditioning; she would have been terrified of leaving her umbrella of protection or stirring up dissension among the brethren. I wonder if it's possible that it could have been papered over somehow, with everyone presenting a united front to the public. 

But, that's not JB. He's a controlling, GREEDY, arrogant little domestic dictator. He was so enraged by one of his possessions - his precious people-pleasing Sweet Jilly Muffin - raring up and challenging him, that he did some really stupid things in reaction. I bet it never crossed his tiny mind, back in 2015 or whenever they first asked, to consider a way to share the contractual and financial info with Jill and Derick that would satisfy them and keep things rolling along. I think it was just a gut reaction to a challenge to his total control of everything and he went straight into controlling mode right then, and when they kept on pushing, into outright fight mode.

And about Michelle's midnight trip to deliver the contract? I think she saw that he was risking burning everything down, for no good reason, and maybe in a moment of "weakness" he said oh heck let them have the damn contract. And she ran straight out to the car at midnight in a snowstorm and drove it over before he could take it back. We'll never know, but that's my take on it.

What I find hilarious is now that the financial shenanigans are out there, possibly there will be some further looksee into Mad Family Inc/JB.  Just wait until the other kids wake up!  Just look what happened with Josh and some of his skeletons coming rattling out of his closet.  The door opened a smidge and now he is a guest of the Feds.  I would like to think Michelle snuck the contract to them and JB had no idea.  I would like to think she isn't a total loser.

1 hour ago, dariafan said:

Why does Jim boob have to be so over reactive ?  As Jill says in her book , he went home one day and smashed his 8 tracks because the music wasn’t pleasing to God.  He couldn’t just toss them ?  Like in shp when he talks about the bonfire to get rid of all worldly things in their house …

Brings up the memory of some of the kids talking about Pop's temper.  WHAT DID THEY SEE???  WHAT DID HE DO?  Besides father a totally gross pedo and other sons who see women as chattle.

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I kind of wonder about Michelle. I always assumed she was kind of a silent partner steering the ship. But the more I’m hearing (from people who’ve read the book, other comments), I’m wondering just how much she was brainwashed, manipulated and controlled by JB.

That wouldn’t absolve her of failing to protect her children, but it would add a layer.

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8 minutes ago, Salacious Kitty said:

Jill definitely puts the lion's share of the blame for everything on JB. I think she let Meech off pretty easy, even casting her as a heroine in the contract delivery scene. 

I think that could be for a few reasons. One is a lot of what Michelle does is behind the scenes and for JB's ears only. Of course when JB is flying off the handle independent of Michelle's 'support' he looks like a solo bad guy. Also, I do think Michelle likes to resolve things to a degree, at least to a low and polite roar. And lastly Jill didn't/doesn't want either of her parents to be angry with her so anything that looks like an olive branch or support is amplified in her mind. She's assuming she knows why Michelle dropped the contract off, when Michelle's reason could be totally different.

No matter how its put, JB&M put Jill through hell though.

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6 hours ago, Jeeves said:

And about Michelle's midnight trip to deliver the contract? I think she saw that he was risking burning everything down, for no good reason, and maybe in a moment of "weakness" he said oh heck let them have the damn contract. And she ran straight out to the car at midnight in a snowstorm and drove it over before he could take it back. We'll never know, but that's my take on it.

I am surprised that he permitted her to even handle it, let alone deliver it.

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In regards to Tyler, could it be possible that the Duggars are being carefully eyed by DCFS? If Anna and her 7 kids are staying in the house, and a lot of money is being put toward legal fees and payouts to the elder Duggar offspring, perhaps there's an issue of providing a proper home to that many kids, resulting in Tyler being sent somewhere more suitable as deemed by DCFS. Or maybe just the general discord, tension, and upheaval in the household was too much for Tyler to handle emotionally. 

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What if he'd handed them the contract when they first asked, I think back in 2015 when the question of reimbursement for Izzy's birth costs came up?

What if, back when Jill and Derick, just starting out in marriage, faced unexpected medical expenses from the birth of their child and, Jill's father, known to be quite secure financially, had simply stepped up, like so many people in similar circumstances do and offered to give them a check to cover their bills?

My parents never had any kind of money, but I know danged well that if I or any of my siblings ever faced a similar circumstance, my mom and dad would've helped as much as they could even if they had to cut back on things for themselves to do it.

Considering how many hundreds of thousands JB has dumped down the sewer that is Josh,  writing a check for 10 grand so that Jill and Derick wouldn't be saddled with that debt so early in their marriage seems like it would've been easy peasy for JB.  Selfish cheapskate.

3 hours ago, GeeGolly said:

DCF can't remove kids from their parents because they're poor.

I'm guessing Tyler's family are concerned over all the bullshit going on and requested custody and JB&M aren't fighting it because they don't want more negative publicity.

I'd imagine things are a little tough at the TTH these days and, if Tyler has been seeing and speaking to his grandparents all along; he was more than happy to get out of that atmosphere.

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2 hours ago, Salacious Kitty said:

Tyler's wishes weren't made known in the petition. However, his mother approved the move, being unemployed with no transportation still unable to care for him herself. His father is listed as "unknown." That's sad.

Doesn’t his mom have custody of another of her kids though?

2 hours ago, Laura Holt said:

TO be honest I am actually surprised Michelle and the girls are even allowed to drive.

I suspect that's just a matter of convenience.  If they couldn't drive, one of the menfolk would have to drive them to the grocery store and wherever else they needed to go to keep things running.  That would seriously cut into their leisure time.

I can't see Michelle openly defying JB and handing over the contract, but I can definitely see the scenario where she talked him down and got him to agree in a moment of weakness and ran the contract over there before he could change his mind.  I suspect given some of the evidence of his temper that she has had to learn how to manage him.

The biggest thing here is that had he just provided the contract, taken his lumps and given them some money to satisfy them in the short term, maybe none of this would have happened.  I doubt JB has enough self-awareness to see his own part in this mess.

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9 hours ago, Meow Mix said:

I suspect that's just a matter of convenience.  If they couldn't drive, one of the menfolk would have to drive them to the grocery store and wherever else they needed to go to keep things running.  That would seriously cut into their leisure time.

I can't see Michelle openly defying JB and handing over the contract, but I can definitely see the scenario where she talked him down and got him to agree in a moment of weakness and ran the contract over there before he could change his mind.  I suspect given some of the evidence of his temper that she has had to learn how to manage him.

The biggest thing here is that had he just provided the contract, taken his lumps and given them some money to satisfy them in the short term, maybe none of this would have happened.  I doubt JB has enough self-awareness to see his own part in this mess.

No, it's all Jill's and Derrick's fault.

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26 minutes ago, ginger90 said:

If Jill, and any of the others had tax returns filed in their names, wouldn’t that mean they couldn’t be claimed as dependents?

I'm guessing he started them as employees as teenagers. I assume he only did it because it was cheaper for him tax wise to have them working than have them as dependents.

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46 minutes ago, ginger90 said:

If Jill, and any of the others had tax returns filed in their names, wouldn’t that mean they couldn’t be claimed as dependents?

No. I'm no expert, but I believe their parents could claim them as dependents if certain conditions were met.

I found this info from H&R Block -

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You can usually claim your children as dependents even if they are dependents with income and no matter how much dependent income they may have or where it comes from. However, they must meet the following income test requirements:

  • Your children must be one of these:

                         Under age 19

                         Under age 24 and a full-time student

                         Permanently and totally disabled

  • Your children must have lived with you for more than half of the year. There are exceptions for temporary absences, like when your children are away at school.
  • Your children must not have provided more than half of their own support.

The support test looks at how much support your children provide for themselves. It considers who paid expenses like food, lodging, and medical. As long as your children didn’t pay more than half of these expenses, you’ll meet the support test. It’s not necessary that you paid these types of expenses, as long as your children didn’t.

We know that the kids actually had no actual money and that JB paid for the household expenses, whatever "paper income" had been reported for each kid to the IRS. I can't imagine the holy super parents, JB and Meech, not claiming all their kids as dependents on their personal income tax returns, for as long as possible.

I don't know how they handled all that after each kid turned 19. Maybe some "employee" deal as @GeeGolly suggested? We know that over the years Jana has at least on paper owned some commercial properties. I suppose even JB couldn't justify treating her as a child forever - especially since we think she keeps the household running.

(Remember, Jill said that JB was holding and controlling each kid's "income" as an inheritance or investment which he intended that they could access after both parents had died. I'm sure it was all just in one big pot of Mad Family money that he managed as he saw fit. I doubt he was keeping careful accounting as to each child's "funds." He only started howling about the "expenses" of raising the kids when Jill and Derick challenged him and he created that utter bullcr*p list of the money Jill "owed" him for rearing her. ETA: I just looked at that list again. Some of the items go back "8 years" and some "12 years." That list was made in 2018, so some of the things would have been paid after Jill was an adult, and others while she was still a minor. She was born in 1991, hit age 19 in 2010. Not that any of that nonsense was real, but it suggests JB may have had some fragments of tax considerations in his head when he was making it up. I wonder if he wanted to claim his unmarried adult kids as dependents on his personal tax returns but his CPA wouldn't let him, LOL.)

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10 minutes ago, CalicoKitty said:

I would not like to be the accountant who signed those tax returns.   I would not be surprised if there is some kind of investigation.  I can see JB telling officials that "all" the kids signed off on this.  Maybe they did.  "Here, kids, sign your name on this paper."

These days with electronic filing of returns, the signature page is a single page. There are numbers, but it’s just taxable income and taxes due, so unless the kids are savvy enough to look at the whole return, it’s pretty easy to just say “sign here”. And we all know until Jill, none of them questioned any of it, probably even Meechelle.

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1 hour ago, GeeGolly said:

One would think JB would base the kids' income in his favor. Since he's basically making it all up he could pay them an amount where they'd get a return rather than paying. There seemed to be some kind of oops (or on purpose) at one point and Jill ended up owing money.

Do we know that Jill owed money? The book didn't say she owed money to the IRS. It did not say what was in the IRS letter they received, only that she gave it to Derick and he started researching, got their back tax returns, and discovered the phantom "income" that had been reported to the IRS but not paid to Jill.

Jill wrote that the adverse effect on Jill and Derick, was that when he was applying for law school scholarships/grants, their tax returns made them look like they had a lot more cash than they really did, because of that phantom $132,000 of income.

I think that if they had owed back taxes on it, she would have said so. On page 206, she writes that when they first brought this up to JB, he told Jill and Derick that he (JB) had paid the taxes on the income. And she didn't dispute that in the book. 

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36 minutes ago, Jeeves said:

Do we know that Jill owed money? The book didn't say she owed money to the IRS. It did not say what was in the IRS letter they received, only that she gave it to Derick and he started researching, got their back tax returns, and discovered the phantom "income" that had been reported to the IRS but not paid to Jill.

Jill wrote that the adverse effect on Jill and Derick, was that when he was applying for law school scholarships/grants, their tax returns made them look like they had a lot more cash than they really did, because of that phantom $132,000 of income.

I think that if they had owed back taxes on it, she would have said so. On page 206, she writes that when they first brought this up to JB, he told Jill and Derick that he (JB) had paid the taxes on the income. And she didn't dispute that in the book. 

I thought I read somewhere that is why this IRS letter was sent. Did Jill state if this was the first letter of its kind? I've never received a letter from the IRS ever, and didn't even know it was a thing. I'm now really curious to what the was.

1 hour ago, GeeGolly said:

I thought I read somewhere that is why this IRS letter was sent. Did Jill state if this was the first letter of its kind? I've never received a letter from the IRS ever, and didn't even know it was a thing. I'm now really curious to what the was.

It could've just been a letter saying the return was being audited.  Or, if it was that year's return, that a date or signature was missing.  Back in my younger days, when I did my own returns, I made a math error (filing at the last minute is never a good idea) and got a letter with the correction that I had to sign.  BTW, the error was in the IRS' favor and didn't affect the tax I had paid.  I was getting a refund both before and after the correction.

If JB and his accountant pal manufactured income for Jill, they could easily enough manufacture 1099's or W-2's to cover an audit.

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5 hours ago, GeeGolly said:

I thought I read somewhere that is why this IRS letter was sent. Did Jill state if this was the first letter of its kind? I've never received a letter from the IRS ever, and didn't even know it was a thing. I'm now really curious to what the was.

Jill did not reveal the contents of the IRS letter in the book, nor did she mention any other letters from the IRS except that one. As I was reading the book for the first time, I stopped and again went over the parts about the IRS letter. I wanted to be sure I hadn't missed anything interesting, but darnit she didn't spill any tea about it.

I have since searched the Kindle book for the word "taxes" and found nothing except that as I mentioned, JB said he had paid the taxes due on the income reported to Jill, and she did not contradict that statement. 

As @Notabug has said, there are reasons the IRS may contact you besides demanding payment of unpaid taxes. 

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On 9/15/2023 at 4:44 AM, dariafan said:

Why does Jim boob have to be so over reactive ?  As Jill says in her book , he went home one day and smashed his 8 tracks because the music wasn’t pleasing to God.  He couldn’t just toss them ?  Like in shp when he talks about the bonfire to get rid of all worldly things in their house …

Because unless he destroys them, someone else might be corrupted by his unholy 8-tracks!  Or else destroying them makes God happy and/or Satan unhappy.

Me, I think he did because he's a swaggering, overbearing, tin-plated dictator with delusions of godhood.  I always wanted to use that phrase, and it sure fits here!

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