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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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There are lots of things rotten about this world, but I an so glad that people, for the most part, can live their authentic selves now. I'm bisexual and I've known that since I was seven years old and I saw "Grease" for the first time. I thought Jeff Conaway was really cute, but there was something special about Olivia Newton-John. 

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Just now, Suzywriter said:

He is still commenting about it, though, so it's still an issue for him.

Absolutely, it is sad he is worried about her family and their reaction. I just meant that it shouldn’t and doesn’t matter. He is a 100% male. I appreciate him wanting to share his journey with us.

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32 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Thanks…I really need one of those. It has been so dark….all the time. In the summertime I sleep very little and want to be outside all the time…now I remember why 😂 

Hang in there. Seasonal depression sucks. 

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5 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

He is still commenting about it, though, so it's still an issue for him.

Well, its his angle for the show, so he kinda has to. As far as being out and proud, why not? Most of the trans people I know don't talk about it in casual conversation. He's quite courageous.

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2 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

But that's just a rule that the business establishes, not a law. If he's in Florida and this establishment is beach-adjacent, they probably don't have such a rule.

He's also sitting in outdoor accommodations. That changes the rule.

Bob's furniture has gotten way expensive, and still has a 3 year shelf life. 

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Just now, Suzywriter said:

That could happen to anybody, though.

Yes, but by then you're married and have been trying for a years.   If you want to be a Mom, would you marry someone who definitely can't be a bio Father?  Some would, but some won't.  Also, most older people want to be a grandparent, if possible.   

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1 minute ago, Doublemint said:

Yes, but by then you're married and have been trying for a years.   If you want to be a Mom, would you marry someone who definitely can't be a bio Father?  Some would, but some won't.  Also, most older people want to be a grandparent, if possible.   

Totally get that. He told his partner that he was trans…she knows. Other than that it really isn’t her family’s business. 

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I hate that Danielle is naturally beautiful. How dare they let me like some of these people.

LOL...I know very little Spanish, but that word "maletas" got my attention. I know the words for "suitcase", "shoes" and "handbag" because those are the most important things in the world. 

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She’s going to leave before she maximizes her pension. Good Lord. And when it all goes south she’ll be whining in her union rep’s office that no one told her she’d get a smaller pension is she bailed early. 

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What an idiot, one year more of her life to get an extra $15k a year for life, please tell me this is scripted and she's not a total idiot over vacation peen.

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Just now, LEILANI2 said:

What an idiot, one year more of her life to get an extra $15k, please tell me this is scripted and she's not a total idiot for peen.

But have they ever deviated from this one? They will keep squeezing the sex tourist pension tax 

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Just now, Angry Moldovan said:

But have they ever deviated from this one? They will keep squeezing the sex tourist pension tax 

Ahh yes, after I reedited I remembered the tagline... I gave up everything to be here.

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