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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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VMSR.png  Red Light: Community Check-In

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1 minute ago, Hotel Snarker said:

She’s FUCKING LAUGHING RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM. If this shit isn’t scripted, this woman is awful.

I fucking hate her, for real. She's all "I have doubts, I think he's just into me for a green card" but SHE'S the user here. She wants his big, strong shoulders and huge dick, and doesn't have enough respect for him to tell him the truth. She sucks. 

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22 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

When I was working I was like a seagull, flying over catered events. We lived on leftover sandwiches from faculty lunches. We had a "Free food" channel on our Slack. 

I really missed the free work food during COVID! 

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Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

His attitude and disdain for children concerns me. The youngest is only 11, that is hardly grown.

me too.

If he didn't like kids so much. Don't date women with kids.

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22 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

Unrelated TMI--my new doctor said "You may be one of those people who has hot flashes for the rest of their lives. I've had patients in their 90s who still have them."

I may buy stock in an ice cube supply company.

Yikes!!! 

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My ex got a big tat on too his upper torso removed for 1200 couple of years ago. Took several visits.

My point about tattoos not being the commitment it used to be and why these people do it is that they know they can actually remove it if they really want to.

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