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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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12 minutes ago, greekmom said:

ok. Now Gabriel has ruined it for me.

I get how ppl dont want kids. That's fine.

But then dont date a person with kids.

His attitude towards the kids is sucky

Do the kids know Gabriel is trans? 

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Oh Kris. Never mind the woman in Texas. She lied about having Covid and took your $$$. While you're sleeping she's going to steal your credit cards and buy herself some dainties. Then cry and beg your forgiveness when you get your bank statement. 

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Oh shit. Jeymi had skeletons too? Is this going to be a dramatic mess???? I think so. Jeymi left this part out of her ghosting story! Wowwww!

9 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Well, peeps, this two hours is FLYING by! What a nice change from our toilsome, exhausting slogs of last season. 

This is the most alert I’ve been in ages. Seriously, I had enough of the past slogs. It was so, SO long that I forgot about Libby singing Itsy Bitsy Spider like it was the new single on Adele’s 30!

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1 minute ago, Eldemarge said:

I get being interested in younger men but these 'men' are CHILDREN.

Who's mothers brought them on a show to hook up with other older women so they could be on TV.  

Some are barely out of high school.

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I vacuumed today. It takes about 15 minutes but it makes me feel like I actually accomplished something. The bar is very low.

I dirtied up a lot of dishes making dinner. I have been washing them during commercial breaks. 

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If she had a work visa and she can get jobs at various hotels teaching yoga.

Not a bad gig and can work well for them money wise.

 

WE DID IT! 1000!!!!!

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we got to 1000
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Just now, greekmom said:

If she had a work visa and she can get jobs at various hotels teaching yoga.

Not a bad gig and can work well for them money wise.

Which is fine. But she should have told her HUSBAND that. She just wafts in and tells him what's what. That's not right. 

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1 minute ago, greekmom said:

If she had a work visa and she can get jobs at various hotels teaching yoga.

Not a bad gig and can work well for them money wise.

 

WE DID IT! 1000!!!!!

I'll bet that's never crossed her mind, but it's an excellent solution 

Congratulations all on the 1000 pages of snark!

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1 minute ago, Hotel Snarker said:

I have been really careful with the term “gaslighting” because it seems to have become the new catch-all for being an asshole, but holy gaslight with Danielle swindling this dude.

I too will avoid terming her a narcissist then, another new catchall phrase that alas fits this spoiled rotten self centered lady.

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