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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

Jesus, I am having a bit of a time. My laptop keeps dying so I went down to get my adapter. In the process of unplugging it I knocked over one of my plants and had to sweep up a metric ton of potting soil. 

What'd I miss? 

Crazy fairy girl who likes onesies and is marrying another woman in 9 days. 

Danielle from Caribbean love.

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1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Jesus, I am having a bit of a time. My laptop keeps dying so I went down to get my adapter. In the process of unplugging it I knocked over one of my plants and had to sweep up a metric ton of potting soil. 

What'd I miss? 

As long as you didn’t slip on the throw rug, all is well. You KNOW the answer to your question, sweetie.

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Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

Thanks…I really need one of those. It has been so dark….all the time. In the summertime I sleep very little and want to be outside all the time…now I remember why 😂 

It was still daylight at 5 pm today.

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Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

Jesus, I am having a bit of a time. My laptop keeps dying so I went down to get my adapter. In the process of unplugging it I knocked over one of my plants and had to sweep up a metric ton of potting soil. 

What'd I miss? 

Danielle bitching, a crazy bisexual with grown kids and lots of onesies.  Think pickle lady from LAL but seeking love with a woman instead of a convict.

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2 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Jesus, I am having a bit of a time. My laptop keeps dying so I went down to get my adapter. In the process of unplugging it I knocked over one of my plants and had to sweep up a metric ton of potting soil. 

What'd I miss? 

We’re taking a ride on the Wackadoodle Special! 🚂

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23 minutes ago, judylo said:

Hi all! Just saw some of the Tell All from the last TOW. That Steven was a piece of work. And yet Google says he’s still with Alina!

Crazy, cat, jumping in pool, guy? 

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1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Thanks…I really need one of those. It has been so dark….all the time. In the summertime I sleep very little and want to be outside all the time…now I remember why 😂 

I’ll have to look into that too.  I had snow since Friday but it has been to grey outside during the day all month!

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Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

Days are getting longer but it has been overcast or snowing everyday for almost a month…where the sun?

A bit of blue sky here but cloudy and gloomy for the next few days,

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Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

He is actually good looking. Great smile. 

Someone talk some sense to me, immediately!

He also has a real education and a real career. I'm worried that this one may not be a leech.

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Just now, mmecorday said:

Lives on family farm. Is that a Bingo square? 

Not yet! (furiously scribbling notes).

Yeah, you say that now, honey. "I don't want kids". Wait until some Sharp intern comes knocking, telling you what your choices of plot point are. Its either "over forty woman wants a baby" or "in laws hate you". You'll be spread eagled on the gynecolgist's table before you can say "Soulmate".

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