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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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VMSR.png  Red Light: Community Check-In

This live chat thread has been assigned red light status due to a number of posts that don’t align with our community values of respect, diversity and inclusivity.

As it is representative of the general tone across the 90Day Fiancée forums, the live chat will remain locked until we observe a broader adoption of a more inclusive tone in the other topics.

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38 minutes ago, judylo said:

Hi all! I need some snark to distract myself tonight. I just tested positive fot Covid today! And I haven’t left the house in over a week!

Feel better soon :)

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1 minute ago, magemaud said:

We saw Nicole’s sewing machine, too. It must be a theme tonight 

I arrived late. I must see and critique these sewing machines. Are they Walmart plastic gear junk, magical vintage machines that will last until the planets burn out, or dealer-generated precision machines? 

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4 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

I'm now picturing you in a neat suit, with a hat and white gloves and a pair of spectator pumps. Like Rosalind Russell. Running for a train with your neat little train case in hand. 

That's more interesting than the current show.   Which character do you picture?  Blondie married to an Egyptian, Jen going to India, or Southern Belle with the onesie fetish?

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1 minute ago, Doublemint said:

That's more interesting than the current show.   Which character do you picture?  Blondie married to an Egyptian, Jen going to India, or Southern Belle with the onesie fetish?

That was my vision of our own @Suzywriter, with her lust for an American Tourister train case. 

 

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Jen, going to India to meet her beloved, Rishi,  and his family doesn't know about the engagement?   He also can't come to the U.S., but is it really because of his family situation, or he just can't come here?     His family wants him to marry another Indian, and not an arranged marriage?   So, Jen's mother is OK with this, but the sister isn't?  I'm on the sister's side in this. 

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