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Good points!  I wonder if she also saw the BS of JimBoob and MeeShell saying that they put "safeguards in place" but yet we know he still was able to roam at night.  I have said it before, he should have been sleeping in a sleeping bag on the floor of their room.  But nooooooooooooooooooooo, that would prevent further baby making.

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Here's a link to the code. Based on that and the police report, I still think this person has their work cut out for them. I'm not a lawyer, so there's a fair chance I'm wrong on this.

Doesn't statute of limitations apply only to criminal action?  This is a civil lawsuit -- I'm not a lawyer, either, but do statutes of limitation apply also to those?  I don't think they do, with the caveat again that I'm not an expert in the field.  Also, the burden of proof in civil cases is much lower than in criminal court, which is how OJ got nailed for that big judgment in the death of Nicole, even though he was acquitted in criminal court.  It may be difficult, but I don't think the lack of a criminal conviction is fatal. 

I agree that it's more likely about something other than the financial compensation, I'm just saying that even if she were being solely motivated by money, it wouldn't change how I feel (which is that she deserves each and every last cent she can wring out of them).

Whatever the motivation, civil suits are about money.  That's all you can sue for. 

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Doesn't statute of limitations apply only to criminal action? This is a civil lawsuit -- I'm not a lawyer, either, but do statutes of limitation apply also to those? I don't think they do, with the caveat again that I'm not an expert in the field. Also, the burden of proof in civil cases is much lower than in criminal court, which is how OJ got nailed for that big judgment in the death of Nicole, even though he was acquitted in criminal court. It may be difficult, but I don't think the lack of a criminal conviction is fatal.

Whatever the motivation, civil suits are about money. That's all you can sue for.

What I linked is the statute that sets time limits on civil actions based on sexual abuse. I think.
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Whatever the motivation, civil suits are about money.  That's all you can sue for. 

 

Not necessarily.  Not to wander too far off-topic, but civil suits are very commonly used by victims of sexual assault/abuse/molestation to get some form of justice after the criminal statutes of limitation have expired due to the fact that so many people are abused as children and had no recourse (for whatever reason) at the time and continue not to have it for a decade or more after the fact.  It's why states such as California have no statute for such cases. Ultimately, if the complainant wins they do get a monetary award, but that doesn't necessarily mean they keep it.  It's not uncommon for them to donate their award.

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Not necessarily.  Not to wander too far off-topic, but civil suits are very commonly used by victims of sexual assault/abuse/molestation to get some form of justice after the statutes of limitation have expired due to the fact that so many people are abused as children and had no recourse (for whatever reason) at the time and continue not to have it for a decade or more after the fact.  It's why states such as California have no statute for such cases. Ultimately, if the complainant wins they do get a monetary award, but that doesn't necessarily mean they keep it.  It's not uncommon for them to donate their award.

I understand that, I'm just saying when you bring a civil suit, you are suing for money because there's nothing else you can sue for.  So the victims may want other things (institutional changes, better policies, etc.),  but the only thing they can do is make the behavior prohibitively expensive.  Sometimes this makes people look "greedy," but that's because they have no other recourse.  This is often misunderstood and misinterpreted, from what I read.

It may come down to money, but it might not be "about" money. The settlement itself can involve almost anything. Including details saying that the Duggars do not speak for her and they will pay more money if they say publicly that they do, such as Jessa came very close to saying in the Fox interview.

Yes, but you can't bring a suit just to do that.  People get upset sometimes that victims seem to "only want money," but that's the only thing can do in a civil suit.  Other things may get put in, but they can't of themselves be the lawsuit. 

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Again, I don't want to speculate too much, but this woman could well have been under enormous pressure as a young teen in a fundie community to accept the Duggarization of her molestation when, in fact, it was traumatic for her.

Now having the Duggar girls out there sweeping away her molestation with a wave of a manicured hand so that the money train will roll on, she might well be thoroughly pissed and justifiably so.

I hope she gets a ton of money and uses it to go to college and grad school and ends up with a career and a life that isn't just measured by pregnancies.

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If the victim can't take away sanctimony, I can't imagine anything that would punish the Duggars, parents and eldest son, more than losing money. It's what they care about.

 

I think, too, it's important to remember that before this came out, the Duggar family was being protected by local authorities and apparently using their position to punish people who pissed them off (remember the renters who were threatened with eviction from someone else's property if they didn't put up a Duggar sign during an election?). This woman, whoever she is, was essentially prevented from getting justice while justice was still available. Let her have some money instead.

 

Besides, it's not as if Josh or his parents have honor or reputation to lose.

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I don't know how much this person would have been "punished" by local authorities. It's pretty clear they have some local enemies, and she could have gone to the media at any time. The newspaper reporter clearly says this was a known but unable to be verified story. She could have verified it, or essentially asked for some sort of "settlement" in exchange for her silence if she only wanted money.

Which is why I think it's more internal. I think people close to her are close to the Duggars, but she herself is not. And why it's not just about the money.

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It may come down to money, but it might not be "about" money. The settlement itself can involve almost anything. Including details saying that the Duggars do not speak for her and they will pay more money if they say publicly that they do, such as Jessa came very close to saying in the Fox interview.

Jessa didn't just "come close" to speaking for the 5th victim. She flat out said the person was "fine" with all of this. Just because she may have been (likely) forced to forgive Josh at church, it doesn't mean that she ever really forgave or forgot what he did. Even if she managed to push it to the back of her mind, I don't know how the events of the past 6 weeks couldn't have triggered her. 

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Jessa didn't just "come close" to speaking for the 5th victim. She flat out said the person was "fine" with all of this. Just because she may have been (likely) forced to forgive Josh at church, it doesn't mean that she ever really forgave or forgot what he did. Even if she managed to push it to the back of her mind, I don't know how the events of the past 6 weeks couldn't have triggered her. 

Exactly! Jessa was spewing so many lies in rapid fire during the interview she let this go. She really should've only spoken for herself.

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I don't think the 5th victim wants her name out there or else I'd think she would have already said something. My cousin who is 10 now accused my husband of touching her over the clothes and our lawyer and their lawyer said that if Mt husband requested it then my cousin would have to testify which puts the identity out there. I assume that Josh would request the victim to testify as well.

Btw my cousin came out and told the victims advocate that her grandma (my aunt) made her say my husband touched her that why I'd divorce him and get half his money. My aunt doesn't like me being married to him bc he is 30 years older than I am, and for some reason my aunt thinks we are rich when we arent. Smh

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I didn't see the interview, so I can't speak definitively about it. So I appreciate others' knowledge.

No problem! Jessa definitely crossed the line w/r/t who she spoke for. She actually cut off Jill and said, "I can speak for them. They're all fine with it." 

 

A 10 year old victim is much different than one who is now in her mid-20's (if it's who I think it is, she's now 27). If she's willing to go this far, I'm pretty sure she's aware of the risks involved. 

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EDITED to add: I've realized that it's possible that IF JB had homeowner's insurance back then, the liability coverage might extend to Josh's molestation of a child. OTOH given JB's tight-fisted methods toward his family at that time (spending $200K in a failed political race while shoehorning his family into a much too small house), who knows if he carried homeowner's liability insurance? (Generally mortgage companies require the property to be insured, and most homeowner policies also include liability coverage, but I assume you could go cheap and minimize or exclude the liability coverage.)

 

That's assuming they had a mortgage. If not, I don't think he had to have homeowner's insurance at all. (I'm not 100% sure on that, but I think that's the case)

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And I'd add that keeping her name out of it may, again, have been more a kindness to her family than because she herself is afraid of the scrutiny. As someone who left the community but has family in it (who would pay a price if I were to - purely hypothetically- raise a stink about something in my childhood) I can understand her possible reluctance on their behalf as easily as I can see her as a victim who doesn't want to relive it, or doesn't want the media coverage.

The first would actually give me the most pause. But that's me.

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Maybe the victim did not have a say in what actions were taken regarding her molestation all those years ago.  Maybe she does not subscribe to the same beliefs anymore, and has decided that it is time for her to get some sort of closure.  Given that a lot of church members knew the story back then she may be concerned that her identity will be revealed with or without her consent, so she has chosen to take control of the situation.

 

And yes, maybe she just wants Josh, Jim Bob and Michelle to face some sort of consequences.  Hitting them were it hurts seems to be an obvious choice.

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It's possible that the 5th victim didn't sue before because 1. When she was underage her parents/church wouldn't let her, and 2. By the time she was old enough and/or secure enough to sue, she didn't think anyone would believe her--without the police report (which she probably thought didn't exist or had been destroyed) would anyone have believed her?

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It's possible that the 5th victim didn't sue before because 1. When she was underage her parents/church wouldn't let her, and 2. By the time she was old enough and/or secure enough to sue, she didn't think anyone would believe her--without the police report (which she probably thought didn't exist or had been destroyed) would anyone have believed her?

The Babysitter was an adult at the time of her police interview in 2006, and she only discovered she had been assaulted when the contrite Duggars told her in 2002/2003.
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So the babysitter was also unaware someone had been fondling her while she slept? Was this what the Duggars say happened, or is it the actual truth? I dunno. I still find it very hard to believe that not one of the girls (except for the girl in his lap), felt Josh's hands.

In her 2006 police interview, the non Duggar victim said although she remembered spending the night at the Duggars, she did not remember any assault.

In her 2006 police interview, the non Duggar victim said although she remembered spending the night at the Duggars, she did not remember any assault.

Maybe all the media buzz, seeing certain pics of him or the home or the family, or something else, has triggered her memory.

I hope for the same things as in the Dear Santa post above.

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Wow. Well, all I can say is that Josh missed his calling. For all his stealth he could have been a ninja, or with hands like that he could have been a surgeon.

Not that I think Jessa knew what the word meant, Josh actually was sly.

How about Josh Duggar, Cat Burglar? No not lithe enough.

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About the victim suing Josh, when mommy superior Kourtney Kardashian had some pics stolen from her of a sexual experience with her High School bf, they were able to press charges because she was a minor at the time of the incident. Not sure if she can but if she can sue Josh on the same premis then good for her. I want Justice for her more than for the Kardashian hoe bags.

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Maybe all the media buzz, seeing certain pics of him or the home or the family, or something else, has triggered her memory.

I hope for the same things as in the Dear Santa post above.

She may well still have been under the jurisdiction of her fundie parents, and been coached as to what to say. Just a thought. 

 

Josh Duggar, fox in the henhouse. 

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So the babysitter was also unaware someone had been fondling her while she slept?  Was this what the Duggars say happened, or is it the actual truth?  I dunno.  I still find it very hard to believe that not one of the girls (except for the girl in his lap), felt Josh's hands. 

 

       Are children being drugged?  The Druggars?     I don't believe a word of what they say.

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That's assuming they had a mortgage. If not, I don't think he had to have homeowner's insurance at all. (I'm not 100% sure on that, but I think that's the case)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought the Duggars rented that house? If so, they wouldn't have homeowners insurance.

If they owned the house without a mortgage, they are not required to have homeowners insurance. Although it's a wise investment, we all know Jim Bob is cheap and he wouldn't have ponied up the cash.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought the Duggars rented that house? If so, they wouldn't have homeowners insurance.

If they owned the house without a mortgage, they are not required to have homeowners insurance. Although it's a wise investment, we all know Jim Bob is cheap and he wouldn't have ponied up the cash.

 

Good question, I don't know on that house whether it was a rental, owned, or mortgaged. Hopefully someone who knows more Duggar real-estate history can help.

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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought the Duggars rented that house? If so, they wouldn't have homeowners insurance.

If they owned the house without a mortgage, they are not required to have homeowners insurance. Although it's a wise investment, we all know Jim Bob is cheap and he wouldn't have ponied up the cash.

The abuse all occurred at the Johnson Rd. house, which they moved out of into the "rent house." So yes, they owned it. Whether they owned it in the clear is anyone's best guess, but I think they must have. They did Sammons' debt seminar not long after they met Dr. Wheat (the ":Pill causes miscarriage" and fundie sex book author). So, they've "purposed" to be debt-free since the early/mid-90's. I remember Jinger saying she was born in that house, so that was 12/93. Hard to say if they still carried a mortgage as late as 2002/3. I would wager that they didn't. Who knows what kind of insurance they had on that house, if any at all?

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The Babysitter was an adult at the time of her police interview in 2006, and she only discovered she had been assaulted when the contrite Duggars told her in 2002/2003.

How do we know when she knew she had been assaulted? I didn't think she had spoken. 

Added to say: I am not trusting what she said in what seems to have been a pretty controlled interview. Honestly I don't believe it is possible she didn't know it or slept through it. 

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Thought this might be a good refresher: http://imgur.com/a/zqPMi#30

 

This is the police report page related to the babysitter. The interview was in 2006, and on this page the person says it happened when she was asleep. She knew about it because her parents got a call 3.5-4 years ago from JB and Michelle telling her parents what had happened (which would put her assault at around 2002-2003). She was on the asleep on the living room couch and remembers spending the night there, but not the assault.

 

I swore there was something about a blanket too, but I'm not finding it again (and it's a lot of pages to dig through), so hopefully that answers the main questions.

Thought this might be a good refresher: http://imgur.com/a/zqPMi#30

 

This is the police report page related to the babysitter. The interview was in 2006, and on this page the person says it happened when she was asleep. She knew about it because her parents got a call 3.5-4 years ago from JB and Michelle telling her parents what had happened (which would put her assault at around 2002-2003). She was on the asleep on the living room couch and remembers spending the night there, but not the assault.

 

I swore there was something about a blanket too, but I'm not finding it again (and it's a lot of pages to dig through), so hopefully that answers the main questions.

 

 

Pretty sure it was Jill who remembers Josh trying to steal her blanket one night. And it partially woke her up. 

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Our local paper has an interesting story this morning.  Seems a 27-year-old young man made some "mistakes".  He broke into 2 Amish houses and fondled girls in their sleep.  For this he will serve 4-8 years in jail, have no contact with the victims or their families, and must register as a sex offender under Megan's law.

 

Sounds a little harsh compared to someone who gets a stern lecture, does some construction work as counseling, and is allowed to live with his victims.

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I swore there was something about a blanket too, but I'm not finding it again (and it's a lot of pages to dig through), so hopefully that answers the main questions.

 

I believe that part is near the beginning and is part of Jim Bob and Michelle's initial interview and was not about the babysitter.  They told the police that one of the girls kinda sorta remembered halfway waking up one time when Josh took her blanket off, but that she didn't remember if anything else happened.

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