LilyD February 9 Share February 9 (edited) 22 hours ago, ginger90 said: No, there’s no confusion. Look up David Mitchell Thompson Muay Thai. His first tournament was in 2022. It’s Aspyn’s husband, his first name is David. There’s also David Mitchell and a Mitch Thompson who are fighters. Yes, you’re right, Aspyn’s husband has indeed taken up Muay Thai. It’s on his Insta if you want to check it out. He really doesn’t seem like the type to me. I always found him a bit of a dork and hated his “Amish-beard”…. I just can’t wrap my head around it. He just doesn’t look the part to me. At least it’s not actual cage fighting/free fighting (Mitch seems a MT ring fighter, which is a big difference) Edited February 9 by LilyD 2 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282506
goofygirl February 10 Share February 10 OOwweee... Mykelti sure is shitting the bed with her latest rant!! WHAT IS SHE THINKING??? Mom & Dave are gonna be on the show with Dad & Crybrows?? WHUT?? 4 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282722
Orcinus orca February 10 Share February 10 8 hours ago, goofygirl said: OOwweee... Mykelti sure is shitting the bed with her latest rant!! WHAT IS SHE THINKING??? Where is she ranting? 3 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282839
Gramto6 February 10 Share February 10 1 hour ago, Orcinus orca said: Where is she ranting? Yes! I'd like to know that too! Please share @goofygirl! 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282877
Yeah No February 10 Share February 10 1 hour ago, Orcinus orca said: Where is she ranting? Thank you! I wanted to ask the same question but I was afraid I'd look like a COL. 😉 4 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282884
Absolom February 10 Share February 10 I believe it's on her Patreon. I've seen clips here and there from it. What I saw was how bad Kody was/is. 6 1 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282894
Orcinus orca February 10 Share February 10 1 hour ago, Yeah No said: Thank you! I wanted to ask the same question but I was afraid I'd look like a COL. 😉 Hey, we are what we are. Own it! 1 1 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282934
goofygirl February 10 Share February 10 Yes. It's all on Patreon. She just let it rip! 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282955
Orcinus orca February 10 Share February 10 4 minutes ago, goofygirl said: Yes. It's all on Patreon. She just let it rip! Since few of us have Patreon, can you please summarize? 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282958
goofygirl February 10 Share February 10 Mainly that Douchie was a douchecanoe when they were growing up and how he changed when Sobbyn came on the scene. How he threw over the OG 13 kids and now only has "fillings" for Sobbyn's kids... It was kinda what we've all been thinking. Just curious as to why NOW?? 3 3 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282962
Elizzikra February 10 Share February 10 6 minutes ago, goofygirl said: Mainly that Douchie was a douchecanoe when they were growing up and how he changed when Sobbyn came on the scene. How he threw over the OG 13 kids and now only has "fillings" for Sobbyn's kids... It was kinda what we've all been thinking. Just curious as to why NOW?? Trying to drum up interest for a new season??? 5 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8282968
xwordfanatik February 10 Share February 10 They'll do anything to keep that craptastic show rolling along. And I keep watching it! 5 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283012
General Days February 10 Share February 10 4 hours ago, goofygirl said: Yes. It's all on Patreon. She just let it rip! Which entry was it? I haven't watched recently, and she's done a few: "Look Back: How it Started ", Watch Party ! (5 days ago) Big Love Ep. 2 : Mykelti Reacts (2 days ago) Q & A aka Chill Session (Yesterday) Q and A Live ! (Today) 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283148
jschoolgirl February 11 Share February 11 11 hours ago, Yeah No said: a COL What is this? 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283326
ginger90 February 11 Share February 11 15 minutes ago, jschoolgirl said: What is this? Clueless old lady. 4 2 1 1 5 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283331
Gramto6 February 11 Share February 11 38 minutes ago, ginger90 said: Clueless old lady. Yep, there are quite a few of us here, myself included!! 😸 6 2 6 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283343
Yeah No February 11 Share February 11 11 hours ago, Orcinus orca said: Since few of us have Patreon, can you please summarize? Thanks. I was going to ask "What is Patreon?" but I didn't want to look like a you know what.....LOL 😉 Actually I do know what Patreon is, but I don't belong. I guess there's hope for me yet. Is any of it on YouTube? I know she has a channel there. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283393
Soapy Goddess February 11 Share February 11 13 hours ago, goofygirl said: Just curious as to why NOW?? Because he's a child and his feelings are hurt that the OG3 have left him. And since he really can't do anything to hurt THEM anymore, he's going to hurt the people closest to the ex-wives, namely all of their children (the OG13). 6 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283430
endure February 11 Share February 11 (edited) On 2/8/2024 at 3:36 PM, Sandy W said: I went back to the Reddit site looking for the clip I saw. Could not find it and I agree, the Twizzler Mitch Thompson looks nothing like Aspyn's husband. The clip I saw (dreamed?) was definitely Aspyn's Mitch and as I recall, the camera panned to Aspyn in the audience. If anyone else saw what I did, please chime in. Hate to think I could have dreamed such a wild scene. Here’s a link to his Instagram page and there are some photos of him training and fighting in a tournament almost two years ago……. https://www.instagram.com/mitchellton13/?hl=en Edited February 11 by endure 2 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283431
LilyD February 11 Share February 11 22 hours ago, Absolom said: I believe it's on her Patreon. I've seen clips here and there from it. What I saw was how bad Kody was/is. Wow wait… is Kootie’s biggest OG13 cheerleader being mean about daddy dearest?? Where does that come from? 9 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283504
ginger90 February 11 Share February 11 8 hours ago, Yeah No said: Is any of it on YouTube? I know she has a channel there. She’s not active on YouTube. She has one short on it, and it’s from TikTok. 1 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283508
Yeah No February 11 Share February 11 12 minutes ago, ginger90 said: She’s not active on YouTube. She has one short on it, and it’s from TikTok. Sorry I searched for her and saw shorts of her ranting but on closer inspection they were clips lifted from her Patreon by other YouTubers and summarized and interpreted by them. Some of them were on the "TuffTopic" Channel. Like this one from a couple of weeks ago: 2 3 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283514
Meow Mix February 11 Share February 11 Mykelti has gone back and forth on Kody. She was his biggest cheerleader and the supposed bridge between the OG family and Robyn's brood. Sounds like Kody turned on her like we all thought he would eventually. Maybe she and Taco Tony needed more "help" (there supposed reason for telling Kody and Robyn about the twins before Christine) and Kody and Robyn are tapped out. 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283616
ladyscorpio February 11 Share February 11 On 2/9/2024 at 3:04 PM, LilyD said: Yes, you’re right, Aspyn’s husband has indeed taken up Muay Thai. It’s on his Insta if you want to check it out. He really doesn’t seem like the type to me. I always found him a bit of a dork and hated his “Amish-beard”…. I just can’t wrap my head around it. He just doesn’t look the part to me. At least it’s not actual cage fighting/free fighting (Mitch seems a MT ring fighter, which is a big difference) I'm just as surprised as you are. I never thought he would do anything like this, he doesn't look the part at all. I'm not a fan of his beard either. When I first saw him, I thought Aspyn could do so much better, and I wondered what she saw in him, but if he treats her good and is a good person than that's more important than looks. 8 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8283647
kassa February 12 Share February 12 On 2/11/2024 at 8:56 AM, LilyD said: Wow wait… is Kootie’s biggest OG13 cheerleader being mean about daddy dearest?? Where does that come from? A week or two ago she posted a photo of her kids with a motorized toy car on instagram (I think), thanking "Grandpa" and tagging DAVID. I figured that signaled a MAJOR shift in the family tectonic plates. 11 2 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8284350
General Days February 12 Share February 12 On 2/10/2024 at 11:58 AM, goofygirl said: Mainly that Douchie was a douchecanoe when they were growing up and how he changed when Sobbyn came on the scene. How he threw over the OG 13 kids and now only has "fillings" for Sobbyn's kids... It was kinda what we've all been thinking. Just curious as to why NOW?? When you get a chance, will you please just tell me which of Mykelti's Patreon posts this was in. I'm never going to catch up with all of them, but I'd like to see this one. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8284360
goofygirl February 14 Share February 14 On 2/12/2024 at 10:41 AM, General Days said: When you get a chance, will you please just tell me which of Mykelti's Patreon posts this was in. I'm never going to catch up with all of them, but I'd like to see this one. It's actually from a you tube channel called"Senior Perspectives" and the lady doing this channel subscribes to Mykelti's Patreon. Not sure which ONE exactly but it's probably from about a week or so ago. Hope this helps! 1 1 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8285773
Denize February 14 Share February 14 Mitch's longer hair and interest in Muay Thai makes me wonder if he has joined his local Manosphere. 4 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8286081
xwordfanatik February 14 Share February 14 56 minutes ago, Denize said: Mitch's longer hair and interest in Muay Thai makes me wonder if he has joined his local Manosphere. Ugh, I hope not! Aspyn doesn't deserve that (but neither did Christine with Kootie.) 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8286134
Natalie68 February 14 Share February 14 16 hours ago, goofygirl said: It's actually from a you tube channel called"Senior Perspectives" and the lady doing this channel subscribes to Mykelti's Patreon. Not sure which ONE exactly but it's probably from about a week or so ago. Hope this helps! I watch her as well! I like the clips she sticks in between the Brown stuff. 3 1 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8286331
dariafan February 15 Share February 15 History in sixtie posted a tik tok yesterday from when Robyn had those awful shirts made for the race janelle was doing. My word both Robyn and kootie were awful. Robyn for acting a like a server who is soooo stressed but not actually doing anything. And kootie for setting his pace and leaving janelle behind. Good for gabe and Savannah for going back to her and great on janelle for having the gumption to do it 13 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8287088
Mod-Tranquilizer March 15 Share March 15 General News and Information 2024 only. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8314426
Salacious Kitty March 15 Share March 15 Thanks for keeping the topics separate. 🙂 9 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8314455
Rabbit Hutch March 15 Share March 15 This will work. Thank you. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8314683
General Days March 16 Share March 16 On 3/14/2024 at 9:07 PM, Mod-Tranquilizer said: General News and Information 2024 only. Hi, @Mod-Tranquilizer. I take it that you are the new moderator for this forum. Welcome! We're a longstanding and pretty decent group. I hope this is a pleasant forum for you to moderate. I would normally ask you something like this in a direct message. I'm asking here instead, because it has been extra quiet. The current hush makes me think other people could be wondering the same things I'm wondering. I figured if I asked you publicly, it might spare you from answering multiple times, and might stop us from using the thread in someway that is contrary to your vision. When you put "General News and Information 2024 only" in your post, what does that mean for us, content-wise? Does it mean we can only post links to actual news articles, or is information from social media acceptable, too? Are we allowed to speculate and discuss, or is this now only a thread for sharing a news item of some sort? I can't speak for Rabbit Hutch. I haven't discussed this with them, but when they started this thread, my take on it was that it was a space to discuss what we think might or should be the fate of the Sister Wives TV series, in the wake of Garrison's passing. I also thought that part of the idea was so that we could leave the Garrison thread as a proper tribute to him, and not overrun it with our opinions about his parents, the producers, the network, the ethics of reality TV shows involving kids, and the the like. Will that kind of conversation be okay with you, or would you prefer different boundaries? Please let us know. 16 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8315734
mythoughtis March 16 Share March 16 I don’t understand the difference between this thread and the spoilers, social media and speculation thread, or the various threads for individual Browns or the kids threads. I do understand the difference between this thread and Garrison’s thread. 10 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8315783
Mod-Tranquilizer March 17 Share March 17 51 minutes ago, General Days said: Hi, @Mod-Tranquilizer. I take it that you are the new moderator for this forum. Welcome! We're a longstanding and pretty decent group. I hope this is a pleasant forum for you to moderate. I would normally ask you something like this in a direct message. I'm asking here instead, because it has been extra quiet. The current hush makes me think other people could be wondering the same things I'm wondering. I figured if I asked you publicly, it might spare you from answering multiple times, and might stop us from using the thread in someway that is contrary to your vision. When you put "General News and Information 2024 only" in your post, what does that mean for us, content-wise? Does it mean we can only post links to actual news articles, or is information from social media acceptable, too? Are we allowed to speculate and discuss, or is this now only a thread for sharing a news item of some sort? I can't speak for Rabbit Hutch. I haven't discussed this with them, but when they started this thread, my take on it was that it was a space to discuss what we think might or should be the fate of the Sister Wives TV series, in the wake of Garrison's passing. I also thought that part of the idea was so that we could leave the Garrison thread as a proper tribute to him, and not overrun it with our opinions about his parents, the producers, the network, the ethics of reality TV shows involving kids, and the the like. Will that kind of conversation be okay with you, or would you prefer different boundaries? Please let us know. Thanks for asking @General Days We're no longer following the "turfs" system where moderators were assigned certain forums so no I'm not the Mod for this forum, all Mods will work together and help with the day to day function of this forum and all others. I'd like to thank @Rabbit Hutch for recognizing the need for a thread to discuss the future of the Sister Wives TV series, any news, social media or information about the police investigation in the wake of Garrison's passing. I see no problem with "intelligent and thoughtful speculation, opinions about his parents, the producers, the network, the ethics of reality TV shows involving kids, and the like" Of course like any active discussion of this sort I can't foresee every possible link or opinion that members might choose to share, links and comments can sometimes go too far, are nasty in nature, are completely baseless or from questionable sources, if you feel something has crossed a line, is in bad taste or is without value and adds nothing to a thoughtful and polite discussion please feel free to report and a Mod will be happy to review the post and take action if necessary. I'm trying to be as lenient as possible but added the "2024 only" to hopefully keep the discussion in this thread mainly centered on events that happened since the new year or are pertinent to current events, the future of the show and the passing of Garrison. If problems arise and we need to make adjustments as we go along we will. The Robert Garrison Brown - RIP thread is for members to share condolences and other kind thoughts and memories that honor the young man, as you said a "proper tribute thread" I hope that addresses your concerns. Happy posting, Mod-Tranquilizer 5 7 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8315886
General Days March 17 Share March 17 That's great. Thank you so much! 8 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8315927
jschoolgirl March 17 Share March 17 Sounds good! 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8316226
suomi March 20 Share March 20 (edited) A bland reality TV show about polygamy was devastated by suicide. Was the child star’s trauma on clear display? Over 18 seasons Sister Wives has shifted from the mundane to tragic, and it’s left viewers wondering about their complicity https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2024/mar/20/sister-wives-death-tlc-reality-show-ethics Edited March 20 by suomi typo 6 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8318880
Elizzikra March 20 Share March 20 1 hour ago, suomi said: A bland reality TV show about polygamy was devastated by suicide. Was the child star’s trauma on clear display? Over 18 seasons Sister Wives has shifted from the mundane to tragic, and it’s left viewers wondering about their complicity https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2024/mar/20/sister-wives-death-tlc-reality-show-ethics It is an interesting read but mischaracterizes Robyn as the only sister wife to still have children who are underage. Christine has Truely at home… 14 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8318955
Auntie Freeze March 21 Share March 21 I gave up reading before the end. Too many factual innaccuracies for my palate. 8 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8320699
General Days March 21 Share March 21 (edited) I didn't care for that Scaachi Koul piece, even beyond the factual inaccuracies (although she failed there, too). Somewhere between Alberta and New York, Koul forgot the kicker in the tagline of her old Hazlitt column: "From conflicts and confrontations both institutional and personal, to managing your own privilege without being a dick..." There is a way to examine and even critique the genre, as well as this specific show (and fandom), without condescension. If you want an audience to consider whether a show should go on, don't begin by essentially telling that audience that they are dull and tasteless for having watched. The first rule of writing about guilty pleasure TV: drop all pretension because you, dear writer, love some stupid shit, too. It may not be a TV show, but there's something in your pile of pleasing pretties that would make the uninitiated roll their eyes at you. Don't pontificate about McDonald's from a Burger King booth bearing your ass print. Even as I wrote the above, a little voice tried to tell me that the less said about Koul's snobbery the better. I decided to ignore that voice and let the intrusive thought take a victory lap. Carpeting! Suburban tedium! What was the purpose behind Koul's framing? How precious does she imagine her readership to be? Had the Browns always had wealth, social status, sophistication (and less pedestrian floor coverings, apparently), would that have made the show less "boring"? (By the way — "Boring"? What vapid criticism.) Or perhaps it was that the Browns weren't poor enough for her. Maybe she could only justify interest in this show, if the whole prolific platoon pitter-pattered around on earthen floors and practiced pica. Would the Browns' subversive, cult-dictated, misogynist family structure have been more worthy of examination, had it played out in an urban penthouse with marble flooring — or at least upon hardwoods? (Mind you, I'm not pretending the show did not regularly shortchange its rich premise. It surely did. I'm objecting to how Koul teed up her argument with needless affectations that did not serve her thesis.) Koul had valid points to make. Her presentation was so off-putting though, that I have already forgotten what those points may have been. She didn't say anything new. She didn't add anything to this discourse more insightful than any sober fan has released into the aether since Garrison's passing (and really, for far longer). It is strange to me that an admitted consumer of this genre chose this way to dish up the subject of reality viewership ethics. Koul may have managed a literary publication, but it is arguable she finally made her internet bones in a Buzzfeed takedown of Friends — and only a mere quarter of a century after it was relevant. She is not William F. Buckley, Jr., nor is her Guardian pop culture piece Firing Line. All that is to say she is not above writing about Sister Wives. It involves a fandom she should understand, or at least a type of fandom familiar to her. After all, according to her, the only female friends she has made in adulthood are online fans of reality TV. (Yes. No. Really. She has written of herself as one of those "I only have guy friends" girls.) Who, other than Sister Wives viewers (and maybe some of the broader TLC and Bravo audiences), did she suppose might read any Sister Wives piece in the first place? What did she hope to accomplish? All she accomplished on my side of the screen was reminding me how much I still miss TWoP — 10 years out. Koul fell short offering the kind of critique at which most TWoP writers usually excelled, even on their off days. She floundered because of her approach. There was no connection. No soul. She didn't write as one whose love has gone wrong. She wrote like a socialite laughing at the doorman's crush on her. In the best (and even much of the merely adequate) TWoP coverage, writers often took characters, shows, writers, genres, networks, and even fanbases behind the woodshed. But they did it with love. They were most successful at a takedown, when they did so with the empathy of someone with skin in the game — not as if they'd only read about the whole mess from an altitude of 40,000 feet. The brain needs oxygen. Rarefied air lacks it. Edited March 21 by General Days 8 1 13 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8320755
Rabbit Hutch March 23 Share March 23 (edited) On 3/21/2024 at 1:58 PM, General Days said: I didn't care for that Scaachi Koul piece, even beyond the factual inaccuracies (although she failed there, too). Somewhere between Alberta and New York, Koul forgot the kicker in the tagline of her old Hazlitt column: "From conflicts and confrontations both institutional and personal, to managing your own privilege without being a dick..." There is a way to examine and even critique the genre, as well as this specific show (and fandom), without condescension. If you want an audience to consider whether a show should go on, don't begin by essentially telling that audience that they are dull and tasteless for having watched. The first rule of writing about guilty pleasure TV: drop all pretension because you, dear writer, love some stupid shit, too. It may not be a TV show, but there's something in your pile of pleasing pretties that would make the uninitiated roll their eyes at you. Don't pontificate about McDonald's from a Burger King booth bearing your ass print. Even as I wrote the above, a little voice tried to tell me that the less said about Koul's snobbery the better. I decided to ignore that voice and let the intrusive thought take a victory lap. Carpeting! Suburban tedium! What was the purpose behind Koul's framing? How precious does she imagine her readership to be? Had the Browns always had wealth, social status, sophistication (and less pedestrian floor coverings, apparently), would that have made the show less "boring"? (By the way — "Boring"? What vapid criticism.) Or perhaps it was that the Browns weren't poor enough for her. Maybe she could only justify interest in this show, if the whole prolific platoon pitter-pattered around on earthen floors and practiced pica. Would the Browns' subversive, cult-dictated, misogynist family structure have been more worthy of examination, had it played out in an urban penthouse with marble flooring — or at least upon hardwoods? (Mind you, I'm not pretending the show did not regularly shortchange its rich premise. It surely did. I'm objecting to how Koul teed up her argument with needless affectations that did not serve her thesis.) Koul had valid points to make. Her presentation was so off-putting though, that I have already forgotten what those points may have been. She didn't say anything new. She didn't add anything to this discourse more insightful than any sober fan has released into the aether since Garrison's passing (and really, for far longer). It is strange to me that an admitted consumer of this genre chose this way to dish up the subject of reality viewership ethics. Koul may have managed a literary publication, but it is arguable she finally made her internet bones in a Buzzfeed takedown of Friends — and only a mere quarter of a century after it was relevant. She is not William F. Buckley, Jr., nor is her Guardian pop culture piece Firing Line. All that is to say she is not above writing about Sister Wives. It involves a fandom she should understand, or at least a type of fandom familiar to her. After all, according to her, the only female friends she has made in adulthood are online fans of reality TV. (Yes. No. Really. She has written of herself as one of those "I only have guy friends" girls.) Who, other than Sister Wives viewers (and maybe some of the broader TLC and Bravo audiences), did she suppose might read any Sister Wives piece in the first place? What did she hope to accomplish? All she accomplished on my side of the screen was reminding me how much I still miss TWoP — 10 years out. Koul fell short offering the kind of critique at which most TWoP writers usually excelled, even on their off days. She floundered because of her approach. There was no connection. No soul. She didn't write as one whose love has gone wrong. She wrote like a socialite laughing at the doorman's crush on her. In the best (and even much of the merely adequate) TWoP coverage, writers often took characters, shows, writers, genres, networks, and even fanbases behind the woodshed. But they did it with love. They were most successful at a takedown, when they did so with the empathy of someone with skin in the game — not as if they'd only read about the whole mess from an altitude of 40,000 feet. The brain needs oxygen. Rarefied air lacks it. Holy Masters Thesis, General Days! That's a lot for me to unpack. Fortunately, I really like a good deep dive, and I nominate you to be one our OFFICIAL WRITER-UPPERS for the eppie summaries. 😉😁 That is, if there are any more eppies in the future. We shall see. 🤷♂️ Good job. 😊 Edited March 23 by Rabbit Hutch 10 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8322190
General Days March 23 Share March 23 10 minutes ago, Rabbit Hutch said: Holy Masters Thesis, General Days! That's a lot for me to unpack. Fortunately, I really like a good deep dive, and I nominate you to be one our OFFICIAL WRITER-UPPERS for the eppie summaries. 😉😁 That is, if there are any more eppies in the future. We shall see. 🤷♂️ Good job. 😊 Thank you, Rabbit Hutch (and thank you for posting at all, because it got so quiet, after). It makes me crazy (as I've just proven) when entertainment writers approach a show as though it is beneath them. That's doubly true, when they seem to have chosen (or even pitched!) the assignment on a freelance basis. It's one thing to say a show is boring (i.e. not worth viewers' attention), when reviewing a film or a TV show pilot episode. In those cases, a critic's job is to find good new productions and steer the readership away from lesser ones. When writing about a 14-year-old series with 18 seasons, the bulk of a writer's readers will be people who found it worth watching for one reason or another. Koul could have skipped condescending to the audience and about the Browns, not to mention her inaccurate series summary. She wrote a 13 paragraph piece, and only really dug into her premise in the final five. On 3/20/2024 at 3:08 PM, suomi said: A bland reality TV show about polygamy was devastated by suicide. Was the child star’s trauma on clear display? Over 18 seasons Sister Wives has shifted from the mundane to tragic, and it’s left viewers wondering about their complicity https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2024/mar/20/sister-wives-death-tlc-reality-show-ethics Suomi, I owe you an apology. When I read that piece (and thank you for linking it), Koul set my teeth so on edge, that I scrambled down the internet rabbit hole on a "who is this Guardian hack" tear. When I finished reading some of her work (she is a skilled writer, I just hated her approach here), as well as a little bit more about her, I was only thinking about all the ways she failed her readership. When I had my go at her coverage, I in no way meant to have any kind of a go at you. In retrospect, I can see I failed to make that clear. You linked a piece which touches upon a subject that lays heavy on many of our hearts — namely, should the show go on, and if it does, is it ethical to watch. As I understand it, that is this thread's purpose. Thank you for providing us with content for discussion. I failed to stop and consider how I would feel, if I linked something, and another Primetimer launched into her own 13 paragraph screed. I am certain I would have felt funny, were the shoe on the other foot. I should have prefaced my brain-dump by making a point to tell you that I appreciated the link (I truly do!), mentioning the parts I found pertinent (the last 5 paragraphs!), and assuring you that none of my ire was directed at you (it was not!) for bringing it to our attention. I am sorry failed to all of that. I did not mean to make you feel bad in any way. 💛 11 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8322229
dariafan March 24 Share March 24 Something I noticed the 1 at time I watched the episode where truly is staying at the rv and Janelle is trying to make it a fun and safe space for truly. And they are sitting outside and truly is patting Savannah’s hair on her back and I’m just glad they have each other There wasn’t so much chaos around them. They were just siblings who like each other 4 8 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8322769
LilyD March 27 Share March 27 As per suggestion of @General DaysI'm dropping my comments about Garrison's memorial service in this thread. Janelle looks absolutely devastated, it literally made me cry again. I was so glad to see that Hunter sat next to her to comfort her as much as he could despite his own grief. I'm very worried about Gabe, he seems completely locked away in his own world, trying to deal with this loss and trauma... I actually don't want to snark when the family is dealing with such a tremendous loss but I will a little ( I'm very sorry) Tony got me seriously pissed off with keeping his hat on during that ceremony. As a military wife, I'll just say that it is not done in such ceremonies, nor any military ceremony for that matter. It shows of no respect or proper decorum. As for Kody having three people between him and the mother of his child... Let's hope it was Janelle's wish to have her mother and Hunter near to comfort her. But it is so sad that not even the loss of a child can't (temporarily)bring Kody closer to the mother of his child. 17 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8324965
SDVegas March 27 Share March 27 What rationale could there possibly be for Robyn’s kids to not attend the memorial? I can’t even imagine. 10 1 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8324970
Gramto6 March 27 Share March 27 (edited) 13 minutes ago, SDVegas said: What rationale could there possibly be for Robyn’s kids to not attend the memorial? I can’t even imagine. (I too don't want to snark at a time like this but just this once.) Ummm....in Robyn speak, "Not safe"? I too thought it a bit odd that Kody wasn't next to Janelle. But maybe as @LilyD said it was by Janelle's request, he not be next to her. Edited March 27 by Gramto6 10 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8324984
LilyD March 27 Share March 27 On 3/16/2024 at 9:03 PM, General Days said: it was a space to discuss what we think might or should be the fate of the Sister Wives TV series, in the wake of Garrison's passing. The past five years of SW have been absolutely distasteful: The way Kody treated the others was sickening and the entire world was witnessing a family fighting and falling apart. Such things should not be filmed and broadcast when kids are involved. If anything, I hope TLC will never sink as low with a reality show again as they did here. As a viewer, I hated it and stopped watching it because it was too awful to watch. To the kids, who likely had no say in it at all, it must have been too personal, too painful and traumatic and it was all brought out in the open by their parents, for the entire world to see. I'm not against reality shows, but it is time we set some boundaries, particularly when kids are involved. As for SW, they should have stopped this show years ago. Please do it now, for Garrison and his siblings.... 3 2 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/144300-spoiler-speculation-and-social-media/page/105/#findComment-8324989
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