90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Grifter Lives]

She left our vacation spot. . . She just took off.

Quite a romantic vacation: separate rooms, parents as chaperones, early check-out for one.

[mmecorday]

I'm sure the people watching thought that a carjacking was taking place.

[TazDevil]

OH NO!!!!  Ben left his hat in the car.  That will be more than enough reason for Ben to text her 20 times in the next half-hour,

[Armchair Critic]

Ben says he is there for the right reasons. He has his reality shows mixed up, that is for The Bachelor.

[OneGuy]

Ask God to ask her for you Ben.

[Floatingbison]

Ben is super stalky.  He has more stalks than a rhubarb patch

[FrancescaFiore]

Hayet's kitty clothes are killin' me. Last week with the full-on Hello Kitty ensemble,  this week the kitty on her shirt. Some things are just universal, I guess. 

I feel really bad for Hamza. He didn't deserve any of this.

[Gobi]

I never knew that Jesus was a practical joker until now.

[Mr. Miner]

If Ben gets in my face, I’ll drop that mfer! 👊🏻

[Angry Moldovan]

Dear God,

Forgive me for not loving the cyclops

Amen. The hogs

[Auntie Anxiety]

Ben, she told you not to come. You didn’t listen because you didn’t think she could possibly resist you. Gross pig.

[Doublemint]

Go home pervert, go down on your knees and beg your ex wife and kids to forgive you.  That's your next move - not chasing down young girls.

[Suzywriter]

8 minutes ago, Floatingbison said:

That's pretty amazing, she was part of cinema history.

I thought so, too. She has since passed, but I catch a glimpse of her face every year when they play the movie on prime time TV over Thanksgiving weekend. 

[Floatingbison]

There's something very wrong with Ben's brain wiring...he's a weird combination of gym rat, low key pedofile/sex tourist, and Jesus freak.   He should have his own chapter in the DSM-V.

[Grifter Lives]

Ben rejected Hogs in his soliloquy.  She didn't try to flee every possible way.

[Hotel Snarker]

Ben has no idea what a relationship is. Fucking psychopath. She doesn't want a life with you! She's done and you're being a creep.

The scariest part about this is that I could see him acting like this with Bible camp kids or whatever it is he does as a youth pastor.

[emergency ring]

ben is not entitled to anything... hate that mf so much 

[Doublemint]

1 minute ago, Floatingbison said:

Ben is super stalky.  He has more stalks than a rhubarb patch

There is an old swing tune, "Celery Stalks at Midnight".  That'll work too.

[Suzywriter]

Are any of us getting together for Body Parts on Wednesday? 

[Pepper Mostly]

3 minutes ago, Floatingbison said:

And write her a long emotional email spilling all your deepest dreams and desires to her.

Or maybe text her for hours and hours and hours, possibly all night. That will surely win her over. 

[charmed1]

Just now, Mr. Miner said:

If Ben gets in my face, I’ll drop that mfer! 👊🏻

😂 this will never get old. Benjamin has a man-gina!

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, Doublemint said:

Go home pervert, go down on your knees and beg your ex wife and kids to forgive you.  That's your next move - not chasing down young girls.

His employer and some of his contacts may watch the show. Not a good look.

[Armchair Critic]

These men not taking no for an answer are giving me the creeps.

[CrazyInAlabama]

So, Mahogany got the butt ugly hat?   Ben makes me nauseous.    

I hate that KFC sandwich commercial, the chicken looks like it's all greasy breading, and no meat. 

[Mrs. Landingham]

2 minutes ago, charmed1 said:

I really hope the producers are not encouraging him to follow her to the car. 

I was yelling at the tv for the driver to lock the doors and drive away with Mahogs. If this was real and not staged, TLC is a real asshole for these scenes. Mahogs looked genuinely alarmed at Ben creepily squeezing his big frame into the back seat to “tell her his heart”. 

[sainte-chapelle]

I love Ben lumbering along the side walk with his luggage like a sad sack

[Frozendiva]

Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

Or maybe text her for hours and hours and hours, possibly all night. That will surely win her over. 

Or crash her phone. Time for a new one! New number!

[emergency ring]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Are any of us getting together for Body Parts on Wednesday? 

ooo what is that? would love to join!

[greekmom]

Just now, Frozendiva said:

His employer and some of his contacts may watch the show. Not a good look.

Spoiler

 

Spoiler

heard he's already been let go.

 

 

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Floatingbison said:

There's something very wrong with Ben's brain wiring...he's a weird combination of gym rat, low key pedofile/sex tourist, and Jesus freak.   He should have his own chapter in the DSM-V.

He's dangerous. He's agitated that someone told him no, and he's spinning her every action to be about what he wants. 

[FrancescaFiore]

2 minutes ago, Gobi said:

I never knew that Jesus was a practical joker until now.

Really? His fish/loaves gag used to kill!

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, Floatingbison said:

There's something very wrong with Ben's brain wiring...he's a weird combination of gym rat, low key pedofile/sex tourist, and Jesus freak.   He should have his own chapter in the DSM-V.

You forgot “manipulative gaslighter.” 

[Eldemarge]

I'm here!  What did I miss? Fuck all?  K, good.  

My kid graduates from Basic Training on Thursday and I am so psyched to see him!  We're going to go eat hamburgers for his day pass day and then just take him home so he can see his cat and zone out on his laptop.  And then... he disappears to tech school for many months.  Boo.

[Floatingbison]

Jesus with the unscrewed top of the salt shaker killed at the Last Supper.

[Doublemint]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Are any of us getting together for Body Parts on Wednesday? 

No way - I watch Married at First Sight Weds.

[greekmom]

Ok. Now i am freaking out that Part 1 tell nothing isn't on tonight.

They cant do this shit for 2 hours!!!!!!

[RichiesOlderBro]

2 minutes ago, Floatingbison said:

There's something very wrong with Ben's brain wiring...he's a weird combination of gym rat, low key pedofile/sex tourist, and Jesus freak.   He should have his own chapter in the DSM-V.

Fundamental Christian.

[OoogleEyes]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Or maybe text her for hours and hours and hours, possibly all night. That will surely win her over. 

Throw in a couple of Bible verses, too. That works every time 

[Straycat80]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Are any of us getting together for Body Parts on Wednesday? 

Pass. Wednesdays are Survivor and Marriage at First Sight (another train wreck show). 

[Mrs. Hanson]

Hey everyone! In Vegas with live tv!  I get to follow along!!  The Grammy awards are down the road but nope, I am here!!!!

[Frozendiva]

Just now, Armchair Critic said:

These men not taking no for an answer are giving me the creeps.

I was nice to someone on the train once. Talked to him for a few minutes. Was glad he got off the train. He tracked me down to my workplace - I mentioned generally where I worked. He showed up and asked me out a couple of times. Even mentioning I was seeing someone did not work. He ended up watching me for months. The bus stop near the train station. Public place. 

[Hotel Snarker]

Just now, Eldemarge said:

I'm here!  What did I miss? Fuck all?  K, good.  

My kid graduates from Basic Training on Thursday and I am so psyched to see him!  We're going to go eat hamburgers for his day pass day and then just take him home so he can see his cat and zone out on his laptop.  And then... he disappears to tech school for many months.  Boo.

Congrats to your son!

[Grifter Lives]

So, we have

• Kimbaaaly and Soja Boy
• Ella and Johnny, possibly
• Jasmine and Geno

before the tell-all.

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Armchair Critic said:

These men not taking no for an answer are giving me the creeps.

I just came from an event about that tonight on a college campus. The stories of assault resulting from belief in entitlement chilled my blood. 

[MagicEyes]

All of these men are so stupid I can’t even stand it. Ben can’t understand short words like “no” and “leave”. Mike can’t understand when X tells him directly that she loathes him and can’t stand being around him. And Gino. What can I say about Gino. He thinks a toothbrush is a good gift for his long-distance girlfriend.

I’m still watching, but I will be so glad when this season is over! I’m only watching the tell-all for Jasmine’s hair! 

[magemaud]

14 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

I knew a real Munchkin once. She was an actor in the 1939 Wizard of Oz movie

Memphis saying goodbye to Hamza’s family reminded me of Dorothy before she finds out she could have gone back to Kansas whenever she wanted. 

[Gobi]

Speaking of fast food, there was (still is?) a chain in the Philidephia, Gino's, that had good burgers and chicken. I think of it every time Gino is on.

[Armchair Critic]

1 minute ago, Eldemarge said:

My kid graduates from Basic Training on Thursday and I am so psyched to see him!  We're going to go eat hamburgers for his day pass day and then just take him home so he can see his cat and zone out on his laptop. 

Enjoy your time with your son. ❤️

[Suzywriter]

11 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Neck tattoos…why though?

One of my clients called it "pain therapy".

[Hotel Snarker]

Even if Hogs screamed “I don’t want you” at Ben for 10 mins straight, he would still find a way to rationalize that it could work out. He and Mike went to the same comprehension school.