S11.E11: Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

[OnceSane]

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As the five couples find ways to grow more intimate, some of them spice up their physical relationships while others struggle to find answers to difficult questions; one spouse puts their marriage in jeopardy.

Airs September 23, 2020.

[Straycat80]

Bennett is on Unfiltered wearing a graduation cap and gown, he’s like a toddler in cosplay. 

[Hangin Out]

I don’t like Karen .. at all.  Everything is about HER.  Trust, feelings, blah, blah.  What about him?  She doesn’t care what he feels.  She shouldn’t have left because he wrote “sleep with my wife”.  He’s too nice for the likes of her.  She will be a handful.  She’s too fussy with everything, and he’s very patient.  Too patient.

[Kiss my mutt]

Jamie sure loves that blue fug dress! 

[karenbrady]

I tuned in late...Here we go again with Karen. WOMAN! YOU KNEW you'd have to talk about sex on camera. Why did you sign up? I can't. I cant stand her. And  I thought Iris was bat-shyt crazy. 

I'll bet you Karen didnt give it up to her ex either. Lol. Sorry not sorry.

[karenbrady]

Amani is so cute!!! Fave couple during this boring season.

Edited September 24, 2020 by karenbrady

[humbleopinion]

8 minutes ago, Kiss my mutt said:

Jamie sure loves that blue fug dress! 

Where's the mauve table cloth she wore a few seasons back..more flattering than the blue sausage casing tight dress.

Yes, she is post baby but she could have gotten the dress a few sizes up...instead of stuffing herself into a too tiny dress...

[cardigirl]

The knives are out for Brett tonight. Geez.

Not sure the sex expert helped Brett and Olivia much, as Olivia looked pretty sour through much of that. 

[Straycat80]

ChristinA is sitting a social distance away from Henry. Forget simple affection or sex, try to get them to sit close to each other first. 

Edited September 24, 2020 by Straycat80

[Kira53]

Olivia just wants someone to travel with.  Is there another reason she wants to be married?  Maybe she just doesn't need to give or receive affection.  She seems really uninterested in either.  Maybe she really dislikes Brett and she would be very different with someone else.  I wonder why she was so comfortable not dating for 3 years in her late 20's early thirties.

Edited September 24, 2020 by Kira53
I don't remember to proofread.

[Retired at last]

Do people really think ChristinA really wants to have sex with Henry or just that she wants him to want to? If she was really interested, she could have (or would have) taken his hand, or touched his back, or anything to initiate physical contact.

[TheBride]

I rarely understand what Woody is saying.... 😬

[karenbrady]

Brett is no prize but good Lord in heaven Olivia is a miserable piece of work. They  have zero chemistry and don't like each other. Quick! Put them out of their misery. And me too please.

[Straycat80]

14 minutes ago, MyTwoCents said:

Does anyone else suspect that Henry may possibly be a virgin? But maybe he’s dated at least one very forward woman whom he let take advantage of him.

I think Henry may be a virgin. I don’t watch pre-show episodes so I don’t know his dating history.

Is it my TV or does Olivia get red blotches on her neck and chest when she’s upset? 

Edited September 24, 2020 by Straycat80

[karenbrady]

14 minutes ago, MyTwoCents said:

Does anyone else suspect that Henry may possibly be a virgin? But maybe he’s dated at least one very forward woman whom he let take advantage of him.

I totally think he's a virgin.

[gonecrackers]

Olivia (& me) when she's talking to Brett.

 

Edited September 24, 2020 by gonecrackers

[humbleopinion]

Henry is that guy that lost his virginny when he was a Senior on the out of state trip at the National High School Alliance of Health Management meeting in Washington DC under a mountain of coats by a classmate that didn’t want to go to college a virgin.
Henry is a quiet loyal friend that would never tell, not fall in love and not expect you to be his gf after sex.

 

Edited September 24, 2020 by humbleopinion

[Retired at last]

If Henry IS a virgin, can you imagine how mad ChristinA would be? Not only would she have to make all the moves, she would have to tell/show him what to do!

[humbleopinion]

3 minutes ago, Straycat80 said:

Is it my TV or does Olivia get red blotches on her neck and chest when she’s upset? 

Do not adjust your TV...Olivia’s neck, chest get those very red splotches When she is in stressful  situations.

[gonecrackers]

Well, there ya go Henry, that's what you get for opening up to ChristinA.   She's such a turd.

Edited September 24, 2020 by gonecrackers

[Caseysgirl]

I would love to see the “ scientific” questionnaire and what kind of interviews they conduct to choose the candidates and make the matches for this show. Every season we see people who are matched with someone that they have little to no chemistry.  Do they ask them about their sexual history; ability to talk honestly on camera; the way they handle money etc.?

[humbleopinion]

28 minutes ago, MyTwoCents said:

Does anyone else suspect that Henry may possibly be a virgin? But maybe he’s dated at least one very forward woman whom he let take advantage of him.

Henry has been a Tinder-er since 2013... Am sure he’s had sex with more than a few who swiped right....he is a well mannered, well spoken, attractive man who plenty of women would drop their panties.

[ShowFan]

I bet Woody is going to be one of those guys who don’t want a dog and then are absolutely in love with the dog and obsessed dog dads!

[Retired at last]

Yes, they ask about those things, including what attracts them physically, but the experts seem to think that attraction can be overcome with the right person. Luke, a few seasons ago, said he preferred dark, ethnic types and they matched him with blonde, blue-eyed Kate and then blasted him for telling her he was not attracted to her. Sure, he was a jerk but he told them what he liked. Henry said he likes petite women and they gave him ChristinA. I understand the theory, that doing what they have been doing hasn't been effective or they would not need this show, but there is a very specific look that most people are instantly drawn to, so to ignore that just doesn't seem to work. Especially in this case, where they have to marry a stranger. 

[karenbrady]

Can someone please tell me what cocktail they made? I missed it.

[Kiss my mutt]

Brett sure knows how to kill the moment. Maybe he was feeling threatened by the fact Olivia made her drink the right way, whatever that was. He lashes out when he feels insecure. 

[humbleopinion]

3 minutes ago, ShowFan said:

I bet Woody is going to be one of those guys who don’t want a dog and then are absolutely in love with the dog and obsessed dog dads!

He would carry his and Amani’s dog in a Louis Vuitton tote to the barber shop for his weekly haircut and beard trim then to their weekly mani-pedi appointment.

[Jax7917]

26 minutes ago, humbleopinion said:

Henry has been a Tinder-er since 2013... Am sure he’s had sex with more than a few who swiped right....he is a well mannered, well spoken, attractive man who plenty of women would drop their panties.

Well spoken , really ? 

[LennieBriscoe]

I've decided that I do not like Olivia. At all. So I can't imagine that Brett does. She takes umbrage easily ("I'm strong," rejecting Brett's offer of help with the drink); she nags; she needs to "win" ("I made a better drink"); she has little to no facial expressions/affect; she seems not to want any physical affection from Brett;  and she simply doesn't have a sense of humor. 😶

Most basically, Olivia questions Brett's sincerity over every little word or deed. If you find someone to be two-faced, what's the point of badgering? 😒 🎭

Henry/ChristinA: So by "confidence" she really means "comes on to me," right? 😏

Karen still is a wet blanket. She doesn't want to be married to Miles.  😕

Love Woody and Amani and their playfulness and sensuality with each other. But no dog belongs outside, Woody! 😟 🐕

 

Edited September 24, 2020 by LennieBriscoe

[humbleopinion]

9 minutes ago, Jaclyn88 said:

Well spoken , really ? 

He can string words together when the camera isn't in his face or ChristinA  isn't berating him....

I would imagine on Tinder he would do well with the women who want to date a mild mannered guy.

12 minutes ago, LennieBriscoe said:

I've decided that I do not like Olivia. At all.

Everybody stand up...scoot over and make room on the bench for LB...

[Jax7917]

Brett and Olivia just hate each other and need to call it quits . Brett is a sarcastic asshole , but Olivia has zero personality and Always wants to have serious conversations . Has she ever even had a lighthearted convo with him ? She’s just so rigid and angry all the time . 

[Porkchop]

I’m  just going to say it: I’m in love with Bennett and Amelia! I just adore them. I hope Amelia gets an internship in a place that Bennett finds charming, or they work it out somehow. I want all good things for them. 

[CSunshine76]

7 minutes ago, MyTwoCents said:

OH. MY. GOODNESS! ChristinA just shot herself in the foot! Henry finally opens up deeply (blindfolded) and her reaction is at his age he should just get over it?!?!?Good luck ever getting him to open up again 🙄

And follows it with a lack of confidence being her deal breaker! Geez.  Henry was being vulnerable and honest answering her question and she was SO COLD. Let these two go their separate ways! 

[CSunshine76]

41 minutes ago, karenbrady said:

Can someone please tell me what cocktail they made? I missed it.

Ramos Gin Fizz

[Linarina]

Olivia is just awful.  What a sourpuss.  When Brett made the corny "jawsome" pun, would it have killed her to laugh?  That's him trying, girl!  What's a guy gotta do to get some positive reinforcement around here?  Damn.  Just stay frigid and single then.

[Jax7917]

Maybe Christina should “ get over “ the fact that she’s never received flowers because with that personality , she never will . I feel like she’s so insecure . 

[Adeejay]

Christina asked Henry what is the one thing he would like to improve.  He told her he lacks self confidence.  And, she immediately used that against him. That was not cool.  

Olivia seems to hate Brett with the heat of a thousand suns. And I believe the feeling is mutual.

Knowing that Amelia would most likely have to do her residency out of state, I think the experts took a chance matching her.  That would be a deal breaker for a lot of guys.  

Amani and Woody's dance routine was cute.  If they break up, I am going to be upset.

[gonecrackers]

Brett says the right things to the camera, then acts like a dismissive, condescending asshole behind the scenes, so Olivia becomes a sourpuss (understandably) & will get all the heat - well played Brett, you douchebag.

Karen is boring as hell. 

ChristinA doesn’t deserve flowers, or for anyone to be vulnerable with her, ever. What a damn bitch.

[LennieBriscoe]

Henry: "I like vanilla ice-cream. What's a deal-breaker for you?"

ChristinA: "I'd have to say, if someone would like vanilla ice-cream. Yeah, that would be it." 

~~~~~~

Miles: "I don't care for being judged on my age, like I'm not capable because of a number. So what's your pet name for me?"

Karen: "Child." 

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Olivia: 🎶 "But do you love me? Will you love me forever?" 🎶

Brett: 🎶 "Let me sleep on it, and I'll give you my answer in the morning. (So now I'm praying for the end of time,....)" 🎶

~~~~~~

Woody: 🎶 "I got sunshine, on a cloudy day....My girl...." 🎶

Amani: 🎶 "Nothing you could say could tear me away from my guy...." 🎶

~~~~~~

Bennett:  "Amelia brings me joy."

Amelia: 🎶 "Joy to the fishes in the deep blue sea! Joy to you and me!" 🎶

[Jax7917]

Christina , Henry is confident . He’s confident that he’s divorcing you . 
 

My God she is horrible .., and I think she’s way more insecure than he is . 

Edited September 24, 2020 by Jaclyn88

[LakeGal]

Both Christina and Henry are so uncomfortable.  I get uncomfortable watching them.

Brett and Olivia hate each other.  They are done.  

The other 3 couples all have a chance.  But Miles will need patience.  

[Koalagirl]

47 minutes ago, Jaclyn88 said:

Well spoken , really ? 

Henry was relaxed and funny as hell on Unfiltered tonight. He has a quick wit and had Jamie, Bennett and Miles laughing several times with his self deprecating humor. He needs a woman who can bring out that side of him by building him up, not tearing him down.

[Soup333]

37 minutes ago, gonecrackers said:

Brett says the right things to the camera, then acts like a dismissive, condescending asshole behind the scenes, so Olivia becomes a sourpuss (understandably) & will get all the heat - well played Brett, you douchebag.

Karen is boring as hell. 

ChristinA doesn’t deserve flowers, or for anyone to be vulnerable with her, ever. What a damn bitch.

I agree with @gonecrackers. There’s a reason Olivia is saying Brett acts differently on camera. She’s miserable but I’m guessing he’s even more of an ass when they’re alone.

Maybe she would be an entirely different person if she had a different husband. With Brett she’s a nagging sourpuss but she wasn’t like that at the beginning and I believe there’s a reason why. 

I want to like Karen. I really do but *sigh* She’s such a Karen. 

I know it’s already been said but it bears repeating: ChristinA is a bitch. 

Love Amani, Woody, Miles, Bennett and Amelia. 

Edited September 24, 2020 by Soup333
Forgot Woody!

[Kira53]

1 hour ago, ShowFan said:

I bet Woody is going to be one of those guys who don’t want a dog and then are absolutely in love with the dog and obsessed dog dads!

Someone on Reddit said they could see Woody eventually doing his Saturday chores with a Pomeranian riding shotgun.  He would totally fall for Amani's barking dog.  Amani might have to get another dog.

24 minutes ago, MyTwoCents said:

Bennett has a fantastic mind: the way he sees things; his ability to verbalize his feelings so vividly and thoroughly; his constant compassion toward others; and his insightfulness. Of course Amelia has fallen in love with him.

I really see how he could be an excellent playwright. His use of words, his observations, and his expressiveness are things I just love about him.

Edited September 24, 2020 by Kira53
I don't remember to proofread.

[humbleopinion]

Unfiltered: Henry, Miles, Professor Bennett from Love U.,JamieO
Miles’ comment when Karen ran Back to her place...he laughs how they edit him sad While folding clothes...
Henry commenting more than Bennett...so chatty with JamieO
Henry confesses that he done ChristinA wrong by speaking out of school to Amani...blames the gin and tonics. I want a gin and tonic now.

Learn ChristinA  was only 8 months done with a toxic relationship with a Californian and was it too soon for her to be getting married...this was the buzz at their wedding reception among their friends...

The grooms’ Comments on Brett at Trivia...Brett’s an asshole ( Miles called Brett an a-hole 5 times in the segment)and a jerk by not participating.

Endorphins are flowing, Dopamine is rushing...

 

 

[humbleopinion]

Brett is always smirking and you want to punch his stupid face.

[Jeanne222]

2 hours ago, Kira53 said:

Olivia just wants someone to travel with.  Is there another reason she wants to be married?  Maybe she just doesn't need to give or receive affection.  She seems really uninterested in either.  Maybe she really dislikes Brett and she would be very different with someone else.  I wonder why she was so comfortable not dating for 3 years in her late 20's early thirties.

Olivia needs a shot of that hormone that makes you sexual!  Without it she just wants somebody to pay their own way and travel with her!

I surely do hope Bennett doesn't break Amelias heart!

[Caseysgirl]

Olivia is a sour puss for sure but there is nothing worse than a self satisfied, sarcastic and smirking guy making you feel that your every thought is beneath him. I can understand her frustration with him because he’s making her look like the problem.

[humbleopinion]

8 minutes ago, Jeanne222 said:

Olivia needs a shot of that hormone that makes you sexual! 

 

Prescribe Lady Viagra For Olivia, Dr. Amelia... And for Karen, too.

Edited September 24, 2020 by humbleopinion

[Rae Spellman]

28 minutes ago, Jeanne222 said:

Olivia needs a shot of that hormone that makes you sexual!  Without it she just wants somebody to pay their own way and travel with her!

Olivia might be reluctant to be sexual with Brett. When he mentioned dating 45 women he also mentioned that he's a sex on the third date type of guy. He went out on a date with a lovely woman two weeks before match day. None of that is inherently problematic. However, she might prefer a guy who gets around a bit less than that. 

23 minutes ago, Caseysgirl said:

Olivia is a sour puss for sure but there is nothing worse than a self satisfied, sarcastic and smirking guy making you feel that your every thought is beneath him. I can understand her frustration with him because he’s making her look like the problem.

Also that. Brett is a good looking guy. However, the smirking sarcasm might be a bit of a turnoff for a woman with a healthy libido, too.