S12.E17: Back on the Hump

[OnceSane]

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The chaos in Cancun continues; Luann confronts Dorinda about her anger, while Ramona tries to forgive Leah for her behavior; Dorinda organizes camel rides and lunch on the beach for some bonding before they celebrate Sonja's birthday.

Airs August 6, 2020.

[Keywestclubkid]

Dorinda does need to go to AA 

[Straycat80]

1 minute ago, Keywestclubkid said:

Dorinda does need to go to AA 

And take Leah and Sonja with her! 

[pieinmyeye]

It’s a red letter day. I actually agreed with what Ramona said to Dorinda.

[Keywestclubkid]

All the vile shit Dorinda says to people drunk she can’t take someone telling her to go to AA? That that’s just horrible? Girl stop 

[eleanorofaquitaine]

Oh, well, here's cruel Dorinda once again, attacking Luann for being the messenger. 

[Keywestclubkid]

Lol Dorinda dragging Luanne you went to jail you could have gone back to jail you messed up your probation... lol OMG 

[jaybird2]

1 minute ago, Keywestclubkid said:

Lol Dorinda dragging Luanne you went to jail you could have gone back to jail you messed up your probation... lol OMG 

at the reunion i hope bravo shows all the times dorinda is drunk and calls her out

[pieinmyeye]

Let’s beat that dead horse again, Dorinda. Why are you even bringing Lu’s crime up? Again. With one exception Lu’s done very well with not drinking and I have noticed that Ramona is not drinking like she use to.

[Emmeline]

Bethenny called Dorinda a drunk when they were on the plane and she took it pretty well but she never did anything about it.  It wasn’t in front of the group but it was in front of the viewing audience.  I can’t believe she’s going after LuAnn.  
 
I think those stone rollers are such a rip-off.  
 

LuAnn looks great in her Bikini.

[Keywestclubkid]

Dorinda can’t be wrong ever but she’s wrong .. but I won’t tell her that cause then I’ll become the punching bag 

[eleanorofaquitaine]

Leah, pick up the warning signs. As a narcissist, she's going to buddy up to you and be your best friend right now but eventually she will turn on you and use whatever weaknesses you have against you. 

She's such a narcissist, she can't even hear a person explain what a third person's criticism of her without attacking the messenger. What a vile, loathsome human being she is. 

[65mickey]

Dorinda really needs to get help to stop drinking. Each week we see her sink deeper and deeper into alcoholism. She looks horrible too. I don't understand why the other women have to tip toe around her. Is she the new Bethenny?

[eleanorofaquitaine]

2 minutes ago, 65mickey said:

Dorinda really needs to get help to stop drinking. Each week we see her sink deeper and deeper into alcoholism. She looks horrible too. I don't understand why the other women have to tip toe around her. Is she the new Bethenny?

They tip toe around her because they've seen she will relentlessly attack a person viciously and none of them want to be subjected to her cruelty. It's pretty understandable even if it isn't particularly admirable. 

Edited August 7, 2020 by eleanorofaquitaine

[absolutelyido]

1 minute ago, eleanorofaquitaine said:

Leah, pick up the warning signs. As a narcissist, she's going to buddy up to you and be your best friend right now but eventually she will turn on you and use whatever weaknesses you have against you. 

She's such a narcissist, she can't even hear a person explain what a third person's criticism of her without attacking the messenger. What a vile, loathsome human being she is. 

I was thinking the same thing. It's going to be ugly when Dorinda turns on Leah.

[RedDelicious]

Ramona’s boobs 😳

And the Google psychiatry. I can’t.

[Straycat80]

I’m glad they are showing the drunk Dorinda scenes. Probably won’t help if she sees them. She’s in denial. 

[Stats Queen]

1 minute ago, RedDelicious said:

Ramona’s boobs 😳

I’ll take them over mean, drunk Dorinda

[eleanorofaquitaine]

"Feelings aren't facts." Okay, but the facts are, Leah, you acted like a real fool at Ramona's party and she actually has every right to be angry about your behavior at the party. 

[Emmeline]

A diuretic with alcohol would make you really dehydrated.  I don’t know if it would make you act like Sonja?  Sonja did look puffy the next morning.

[janiema]

Actually Leah, Ramona wasn’t wrong. You were. 

[LibertarianSlut]

Leah has a fixation with the word “disgusting.”  She seems to think if she says it enough, it nullifies her inexcusable behavior.  

Why does Dorinda get so sensitive when someone says she’s drunk?  Dorinda is always drunk; she’s on vacation, so what?  It’s hilarious how Dorinda keeps trying to spin the ‘drunk’ thing back on Ramona.  How’s that working for you, Doris?

Oh, Dorinda, I feel so sorry for you that someone told the truth about your drinking to your face...again.  And there’s no mugshot for Dorinda to sling Ramona’s way either.  

Dorinda, have you read How To Win Friends And Influence People yet?  Usually it’s advised not to bring up someone else’s mugshot when you’re trying to get them to agree that you’re not drunk.  

I love Leah waxing philosophical about what would happen if “[her] friend of many years” said something offensive to her.  Funny, there’s no evidence that Leah has friends of any number of years.  But then again, she’s never been married or been in the mob, and she somehow made a business out of that, so why am I just wondering now why she’s a book of contradictions.  

I’m not a huge fan of Lu letting the F bombs fly.  She didn’t curse for so long, then she started cursing a little bit and I never got used to it, because if she was nothing else, she was elegant, and now that everything is “fucking” this and “fucking” that, it sounds horrible on her.  Some people, like Dorinda and Bethenny, can let the curses fly and it works for them, just like some people look good in hats.  Cursing doesn’t sound good on Luann.  If she wants to do it until the cows come home, it’s no skin off my nose though.  

Leah is such an insecure asshole.  She wasn’t the least drunk that night—she and Ramona were equally not drunk.  Who cares who is drunk and who is sober on a vacation in a private home, unless the person in question is causing damage to themselves or others?  (Actually, usually that’s a rhetorical question, but with Leah and Sonja, they make a pattern of getting drunk and wreaking havoc).  

Next time I act like an asshole, I’m going to blame it on my “water pill.”  Thanks for the tip, Sonj.  

[Keywestclubkid]

She asked you to dress appropriately at her party you showed up in a bodysuit with a see though dress over it ... Why would she have a problem with that? 

[Mr. Miner]

1 minute ago, Emmeline said:

A diuretic with alcohol would make you really dehydrated.  I don’t know if it would make you act like Sonja?  Sonja did look puffy the next morning.

She did look kind of chubby like her 🐈.

[chewycandy]

3 minutes ago, eleanorofaquitaine said:

"Feelings aren't facts." Okay, but the facts are, Leah, you acted like a real fool at Ramona's party and she actually has every right to be angry about your behavior at the party. 

Is Sonja included in this foolish behavior too?

Missing Beth right now-she would have a joke about Ramona’s chest for sure. Lol 

[Straycat80]

Sonja threw her water pill in the garbage? So she’s choosing drinking over her health. Her daughter or someone needs to do an intervention. 

[gatopretoNYC]

"I think I made a molehill out of a mountain..." Ahahahahaaaa!

Never change, Ramona! 😂😂😂

[Keywestclubkid]

Dorinda wants to save it up till she’s drunk theeeeen she’ll bring it up and wanna scream about it 

[Stats Queen]

1 minute ago, Straycat80 said:

Sonja threw her water pill in the garbage? So she’s choosing drinking over her health. Her daughter or someone needs to do an intervention. 

Maybe all the RHONY viewers on a huge Zoom call? 
Even that may not work.

[Rhetorica]

In Luann's talking head shots, is that a picture if her or her son on the bookcase in back of her?

[eleanorofaquitaine]

2 minutes ago, chewycandy said:

Is Sonja included in this foolish behavior too?

Missing Beth right now-she would have a joke about Ramona’s chest for sure. Lol 

Personally, I would say yes but Ramona did actually talk to her about it. And regardless, Sonja acting like a drunken idiot doesn't somehow absolve Leah of bad behavior. 

[pieinmyeye]

You should care, Dorinda. Your behavior, as usual lately, was disgusting!

[SunnyBeBe]

Why do I want to see Lou on another camel?

[Straycat80]

That camel is probably freaking out because he smelled Sonja’s breathe. 

[Keywestclubkid]

Ew Luanne no, never speak about your “feeling” good riding that camel ever again 

[Emmeline]

3 minutes ago, Rhetorica said:

In Luann's talking head shots, is that a picture if her or her son on the bookcase in back of her?

I think it’s a picture of LuAnn.

[Kiki777]

9 minutes ago, Emmeline said:

I think those stone rollers are such a rip-off.  
 

I have one just like Leah’s - it vibrates- and I use it for headaches.  I use it to massage the temples and jaw muscles (the headaches are mostly due to my teeth-grinding while I sleep.)  But yeah the intended use is just dumb.

7 minutes ago, eleanorofaquitaine said:

They tip toe around her because they've seen she will relentlessly attack a person viciously and none of them want to be subjected to her cruelty. It's pretty understandable even if it isn't particularly admirable. 

I get it - I have a sibling who makes Dorinda look like Mother Theresa.  I understand that they have to be around her for filming, but the best way to diffuse a toxic narcissist is to walk away when they try to pull you into a fight.  Sad thing is, the toxic person never realizes that they are to blame for driving everyone away.  They’ll just find their next victim, and the next, etc.

[chewycandy]

4 minutes ago, eleanorofaquitaine said:

Personally, I would say yes but Ramona did actually talk to her about it. And regardless, Sonja acting like a drunken idiot doesn't somehow absolve Leah of bad behavior. 

The “drunken idiot” could have injured someone, but a little sexy dancing is the major offense here, it seems. 

[faraway]

When these ladies try to be funny- for example Luann joking about riding the camel feeling good and Dorinda saying some of the beasts she's ridden she's married- they are not funny. It's embarrassing!

[pieinmyeye]

Poor camels.

[nexxie]

Bravo hires people for their worst traits - and the experience turns them into the worst versions of themselves. Weird business model.

[eleanorofaquitaine]

Just now, chewycandy said:

The “drunken idiot” could have injured someone, but a little sexy dancing is the major offense here, it seems. 

You seem to think that I am defending Sonja. I'm not. Sonja also acted like a drunken fool, and yes, she apparently got herself and others injured. Ramona would have been well within her rights to read her the riot act up and down. Apparently she doesn't want to do that.

What does that have to do with Leah grinding and acting in an explicit manner again? It's possible to not engage in "what aboutism" and think that they both acted badly. 

[Emmeline]

Just now, Kiki777 said:

I have one just like Leah’s - it vibrates- and I use it for headaches.  I use it to massage the temples and jaw muscles (the headaches are mostly due to my teeth-grinding while I sleep.)  But yeah the intended use is just dumb.

I never thought of using it for headaches.  I have also been grinding my teeth at night and having headaches.  Everything going on in the country is giving me anxiety.  Thanks for that tip.  I’ll have to try the vibrating variety.

[Mr. Miner]

Luann is wearing the hell out of that bikini! 😳

FFS! Shut up Dorinda!🖕🏻

[eleanorofaquitaine]

"I support you always... which is why I constantly bring up your arrest whenever you say or do something I slightly dislike." STFU, Dorinda. 

[Keywestclubkid]

It’s your fault for me attacking you ... you are the bad one it’s not me!!! Dorinda is psychotic 

[eleanorofaquitaine]

Once again, Dorinda embodies the abuser's motto: "look what you made me do."

[Kiki777]

1 minute ago, Emmeline said:

I never thought of using it for headaches.  I have also been grinding my teeth at night and having headaches.  Everything going on in the country is giving me anxiety.  Thanks for that tip.  I’ll have to try the vibrating variety.

Also see your dentist though about getting a night guard - they really help.  My headaches occur when I skip the night guard too many times.

Sonja’s diuretic excuse does not hold water (heh).  She’ll be messy drunk again before long.

[nexxie]

1 minute ago, Keywestclubkid said:

It’s your fault for me attacking you ... you are the bad one it’s not me!!! Dorinda is psychotic 

Master gaslighter.

[Straycat80]

Lu: I’m pretty good at volleyball. Then she hits the ball into the net, gets smacked in the face and lands on her ass. That was funny!