Flowers July 16, 2015 Share July 16, 2015 Now there are people posting their addresses on the new post! Wake up, Erin! Also, I was disappointed to see she posted the poor little guy in his sleeper with a blow-out seeping through it. I guess I'm old but I don't know what happened to privacy and discretion. Link to comment
IndianPaintbrush July 16, 2015 Share July 16, 2015 Gross. I get that Erin is a new mom who is enamored with every little thing her kid does, but no one needs to see that on social media. Link to comment
trimthatfat July 16, 2015 Share July 16, 2015 Yeah, Carson is adorable, but the poop stained jammies are not. Link to comment
Hero July 17, 2015 Share July 17, 2015 Erin is very pretty. She has this classic look to her. Chad seems so sweet and patient. I always chuckle when she posts a picture of Chad on her Instagram because so many women are complimenting how he looks. She wrote a comment on one picture of Chad saying she knows he is good looking or something to that extent. Link to comment
mmmsoap August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 Watching the new episode tonight, and I noticed that they painted their bedroom! Now it's a greenish...how had I missed this? Link to comment
zenme August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 Yeah, Carson is adorable, but the poop stained jammies are not. True, but I will let that pass since everything Carson does is probably adorable to them. This was a cute episode, and I really don't think Chad can be any sweeter. It's been said before, but he really is seemingly perfect spouse. He really loves that girl. 1 Link to comment
anstar August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 Erin hit the husband lottery. Chad is such a sweetheart. When I saw him crying after Carson was born, I started to cry too. I can't believe that on top of everything, Erin also had a placental abruption. It looks like Carson should really be an only child. 4 Link to comment
Sew Sumi August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 Seriously, how many pregnancies can she realistically sustain without difficulty? The heparin shots are a must, and the risks for both mama and baby are still present through delivery. If she keeps up with the quiverfull mantra, she's going to lose that lottery at some point. :( If she's smart, she'll quit while she's ahead. They think God saved Carson, I guess it's God's will if something bad happens, but what prevents them from being proactive and limiting family size? Facing facts, it obviously isn't God's will for her to spit out a football team plus a soccer team (minus the goalie) like Kelly did. 3 Link to comment
zenme August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 I agree. Their love story could end up a tragedy. They could always adopt. 1 Link to comment
KarmaG August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 God's will if something bad happens, but what prevents them from being proactive and limiting family size This is where I chuckle every time. Why? Because clearly God's will is for them to not have children. Yet they, and so many others, go to the dr to have science do it's magic and then turn back around and say it's in God's hands now. 4 Link to comment
SugarHigh August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 If she's smart, she'll quit while she's ahead. This. I wouldn't blame her if she attempted one more pregnancy as I could easily imagine a lot of couples in her position making the same choice, but I think the smartest thing they could do would be to take some sort of birth control into consideration, even if they just go the NFP route. Chad clearly loves Erin so much that I don't know if he could get over it if something happened to her as a result of pregnancy/childbirth. 1 Link to comment
Absolom August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 Chad has already said that they will consult with medical professionals about how many pregnancies are safe for Erin. They aren't being the typical Gothardized leave it in God's hands types. I don't expect they're willing to invite too many miscarriages or very sad ending pregnancies into their lives. They seem much more realistic about their situation. 2 Link to comment
Kiss my mutt August 7, 2015 Share August 7, 2015 I wonder if getting pregnant knowing you will likely not be able to sustain the pregnancy and it ends if that jives up with a pro life stance. Link to comment
Flowers August 12, 2015 Share August 12, 2015 Pants sighting on Erin! She has a recent Instagram photo from the recording studio with a friend Noa (male). She's wearing maroon pants - go Erin! Link to comment
zenme August 12, 2015 Share August 12, 2015 Pants sighting on Erin! She has a recent Instagram photo from the recording studio with a friend Noa (male). She's wearing maroon pants - go Erin! She's wearing a skirt. You can see her calf. Link to comment
farmgal4 August 12, 2015 Share August 12, 2015 I never doubted that Chad wasn't the right one for Erin they are so perfect together. Chad is so sweet I wish I could bottle him. If there were ever a perfect man, Chad is it. Erin must have surely been in God's favor when He sent Chad her way. 1 Link to comment
trimthatfat August 12, 2015 Share August 12, 2015 I think they'll be fine if Carson is their only child. He is such a cutie. The pregnancy and labor was no walk in the park for Erin and I think it'll be some time before she warms up to the idea of going through it again. I was looking at Erin's IG and she recently mentioned recording music with a close friend from college. I really like that the kids have social lives outside of their family and that it's no biggie to have opposite sex friends. 3 Link to comment
cereality September 4, 2015 Share September 4, 2015 I'm way behind on the episodes but I watched one where it was Chad to the rescue for everything -- planting a garden, cleaning out a storage shed, haircuts etc. It's nice that they have such a handy young guy as a son in law and moreover he feels enough a part of the family that he wants to be involved, but they need to lay off of him and not burn him out. I mean I know Gil would not ask the same of John or Brandon bc he knows neither is particularly interested in being around the family for any extended stretch of time -- yet he feels ok calling Chad at work and asking him to stop by to help preschoolers with a garden?? ! I like this family, but it's clear they have made their way with 19 kids and 1 income by "hinting" how much they need things and jumping on any offers made and couching it as "God sent us this blessing." Just bc Chad can do everything from carpentry to haircuts, doesn't mean he should be asked to do so. I mean presumably the family figured out something for haircuts before Chad arrived on the scene 2 yrs ago. 1 Link to comment
Tdoc72 September 5, 2015 Share September 5, 2015 In last night's show, she mentioned wanting another. Chad said he pictured Carson sitting with his blocks and no one to play or fight with. Then Erin said she has to get used to being a parent and that it was harder than she thought it would be. Link to comment
BitterApple September 5, 2015 Share September 5, 2015 ! I like this family, but it's clear they have made their way with 19 kids and 1 income by "hinting" how much they need things and jumping on any offers made and couching it as "God sent us this blessing." Just bc Chad can do everything from carpentry to haircuts, doesn't mean he should be asked to do so. I mean presumably the family figured out something for haircuts before Chad arrived on the scene 2 yrs ago. Agree 100%. As much as the Bateses are exponentially more likeable than the Duggars, Gil and Kelly are on par with JimBob and Michelle when it comes to grifting. I also agree that Gil senses Brandon and John only tolerate the family at best, whereas Chad is more eager to be a part of the fold and make Erin happy. Throw another baby into the mix and I guarantee Chad is going to get a lot crankier when Gil summons him to dig a hole for the new mailbox. Link to comment
cereality September 5, 2015 Share September 5, 2015 I think Chad is just an energetic guy who likes doing things -- not just going to work and then sitting on the couch. Given that there's not that much to do in rural Tenn -- he's likely happy to jump in on all kinds of tasks from gardening to finishing Zach's nursery. Thing is -- at some point he's going to have projects to complete in his own home and he may realize the Bates clan isn't dropping by to help him add a room to his house or whatever. And now he has more of a "reason" to sit on the couch after work -- with Carson. When Carson's a little older, I can see him being that involved dad who wants to get out of work right on time to go coach soccer or at least go watch his kid's game. That's when he may get a bit resentful -- that not only do his inlaws not help him with stuff as much as he helps them, but also that they have 10 (8? 6? whatever) strapping boys at home who can clean out a shed, yet they pull him away from his young child to do such tasks. 2 Link to comment
Sew Sumi September 7, 2015 Share September 7, 2015 I was a little distressed that Erin seems to have baby fever, talking about how Carson needs a sibling. Thankfully, Chad was there to shut that one down tout de suite, and Erin conceded that being a parent was harder than she'd thought. Enjoy the one you have! There's no reason to rush having the next one, especially given the cost and stress of the heparin shots, not to mention risks inherent in her pregnancies. 2 Link to comment
andromeda331 September 8, 2015 Share September 8, 2015 Enjoy the one you have! There's no reason to rush having the next one, especially given the cost and stress of the heparin shots, not to mention risks inherent in her pregnancies. Yes! There is no need to rush around. Enjoy the baby they have now. I know they think the rest of the world is crazy but most don't race off to have baby number two the second baby number one is born and not just because of cost. Most parents want to enjoy their first child. Look forward to watching him or her learning to crawl, to walk and talk. The first birthday, all of the firsts. The first Christmas, the first Halloween. There's so much for them to enjoy and have fun with before deciding to add a second child. They should be enjoying that and not worrying about the next babies. Link to comment
IndianPaintbrush September 14, 2015 Share September 14, 2015 Chad updated his blog and hints a "special announcement" coming soon. Could Erin be pregnant again already?!? Link to comment
Patricia07 September 14, 2015 Share September 14, 2015 I don't really get the feeling that she's pregnant. If that were the case, I think Chad would be more low-key and concerned for Erin than "pumped up". Link to comment
riverblue22 September 15, 2015 Share September 15, 2015 Chad updated his blog and hints a "special announcement" coming soon. Could Erin be pregnant again already?!? I hope it's not another missionary plan! Link to comment
Sew Sumi September 16, 2015 Share September 16, 2015 I know she recorded music for an upcoming CD. Maybe it's being released? I want to make this so; I don't want that poor girl to be announcing a pregnancy when her little Carson is just four months old! I guess another possibility is that Chad is going into business for himself making furniture? Probably not, but I'm just trying to deflect the pregnancy talk! lol 3 Link to comment
andromeda331 September 16, 2015 Share September 16, 2015 (edited) I know she recorded music for an upcoming CD. Maybe it's being released? I want to make this so; I don't want that poor girl to be announcing a pregnancy when her little Carson is just four months old! Neither do I and am trying to come up with other ideas. Maybe it is the CD? She did record music. Other ideas are missionary or maybe Nathan announcing a courtship with the NY girl, but I don't think that's something Chad would announce. Maybe Bring up Bates has been renewed for season three? Something, anything but another pregnancy. Edited September 16, 2015 by andromeda331 Link to comment
birkenstock September 17, 2015 Share September 17, 2015 Maybe they're moving back to Chad's hometown. I thought I read somewhere Chad moved for the courtship and they were going to live in their house until Erin graduated college or something. It seems out of the norm for Gothard males to relocate and finally moving home could get Chad pumped. However, they are part of the show and Erin loves being around her family. I don't know, but it's an alternate to new baby. Link to comment
Autumn0516 September 19, 2015 Share September 19, 2015 Chad really is a great husband and father. Erin won the lottery with that one. 3 Link to comment
Gweilo September 20, 2015 Share September 20, 2015 Chad really is a great husband and father. Erin won the lottery with that one. I think it's a sign of precisely how incredibly fucked up their belief system is that we're all praising Chad (And I'm including myself in this, not singling anyone out!!) to the skies for doing basic things like 1) Being proud of his wife's accomplishments 2) making decisions about family size based on his wife's health and ability/desire to carry a child 3) pitching in with housework and childcare 4) Treating her with kindness and respect. It makes me so mad, because the above things are the BARE MINIMUM I would expect any normal man to do for his wife. Saying "my partner is supporting me in my study/career/hobby/interests" should be met with a "well, yeah, and your point is...?" It just horrifies me that in this bizarre, Christian, woman-hating subculture we're referring to Erin as 'lucky'. As if having a husband who treats you like a FUCKING HUMAN BEING is only down to luck. That it's not a prerequisite for marriage (or for being a competent human being), but might (if you're lucky), be an added bonus. Didn't mean to get so sweary there. I do like them and I think they are a good team. It just breaks my heart that these girls are told to prepare for marriage without believing that they are worthy of such basic human respect. 8 Link to comment
Kiss my mutt September 20, 2015 Share September 20, 2015 I guess we could say Erin won the Christian fundy lottery when it comes to husbands. 5 Link to comment
IndianPaintbrush November 1, 2015 Share November 1, 2015 The big announcement is that Erin is releasing a Christmas album. Link to comment
andromeda331 November 2, 2015 Share November 2, 2015 Oh, thank God. I was so worried it would be she was pregnant. Link to comment
BitterApple November 3, 2015 Share November 3, 2015 I'm happy to see Erin is continuing with her music. I'm not a fan of her playing style, but at least she has something to call her own. Link to comment
trimthatfat December 28, 2015 Share December 28, 2015 I was just looking at her IG and Carson is so big! He is adorable. Link to comment
IndianPaintbrush February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 Preggers with baby #2, due in the summer. Best of luck to them. They sure didn't wait long, Carson isn't even a year old yet. 2 Link to comment
Hero February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 Is it safe for her to have another baby? It seemed like her condition was very serious when she was pregnant with Carson. 1 Link to comment
Mountainair February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 Well, damn. Congrats are in order I suppose. However, this doesn't seem all that great of an idea to be honest. Hopefully she can have an uneventful pregnancy. 3 Link to comment
Jenniferbug February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 Wow. I was not expecting them to have another so soon. I wish them the best and hope that everyone stays healthy through the rest of the pregnancy. 1 Link to comment
IndianPaintbrush February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 (edited) They said it was a surprise, but what can you expect when you're not using any birth control? I'm starting to think Erin and Chad don't really care about the health risks. Edited February 17, 2016 by IndianPaintbrush 2 Link to comment
BitterApple February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 They said it was a surprise, but what can you expect when you're not using any birth control? I'm starting to think Erin and Chad don't really care about the health risks. I said on the Duggar thread I was hoping they wanted to give Carson a sibling, then close up the baby factory, but it doesn't look that way. The fact that they aren't using birth control pretty much confirms they're still "leaving it up to God." Otherwise, I think they would've spaced it out a bit more. Link to comment
Hero February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 (edited) I know they want to leave how many pregnancies they have up to God, but even if it can kill you? Is birth control really a sin even when it might save your life? I find their carelessness really infuriating because it's just stupid. Edited February 17, 2016 by Suzy123 5 Link to comment
BitterApple February 17, 2016 Share February 17, 2016 (edited) I know they want to leave how many pregnancies they have up to God, but even it can kill you? Is birth control really a sin even when it might save your life? I find their carelessness really infuriating because it's just stupid. It just goes to show that no matter how much prettier, shinier and more likeable the Bateses are, they're still neck deep in the Gothard Kool-Aid. I can't imagine Erin's doctor would've advised her that it was okay to get pregnant so quickly. It's not like Erin's 39 with a ticking biological clock. Edited February 17, 2016 by BitterApple 4 Link to comment
Sew Sumi February 18, 2016 Share February 18, 2016 If Erin is due in August, that's just 15 months between the kids. Kelly had a string of kids 14 months apart. If she just makes it 32 weeks, which was the target for Carson, that gives her pretty much Irish twins. Erin is definitely her mother's daughter; she can sure "catch a baby" about as easily as most of us breathe. But is it really advisable to have such risky pregnancies so close together? It just seems foolhardy to me, like they're just DARING God to do something bad to them. I hope this has a happy ending. 1 Link to comment
andromeda331 February 18, 2016 Share February 18, 2016 I hope it ends happy too but they really seem to be asking for trouble. And why can't they just be happy with the child they have? They still have plenty of firsts and fun ahead with Carson why not just enjoy them? 1 Link to comment
BitterApple February 18, 2016 Share February 18, 2016 I hope it ends happy too but they really seem to be asking for trouble. And why can't they just be happy with the child they have? They still have plenty of firsts and fun ahead with Carson why not just enjoy them? Fundies are never happy with the kids they have. It's always about the next potential blessing. Jill Duggar was talking about more kids before she was even released from the hospital. 1 Link to comment
cereality February 19, 2016 Share February 19, 2016 Honestly I'm a bit disappointed. They seemed SO thrilled to have one child, that I thought they'd relish that, have 1-2 more if they could have taking appropriate time for Erin's body to heal and then close up the shop with thankfulness for the family God gave them. Carson is what -- about 9-10 months? And I assume Erin has been pregnant for a few months if they're announcing it -- so did they really NEED to get pregnant within 6 months of a rough pregnancy?? I mean they didn't just have trouble conceiving, but rather Erin had to be giving herself shots to keep from miscarrying. With so much medication and chemical in your body, why not give yourself a yr or two to fully recover? Esp. when you're not age 35 or 40 and there isn't a huge "rush." I'd like to think that they want to have 2-3 kids back to back and then say enough, but I don't know -- the way they did this so quickly and without too much consideration for what would be good for Erin's body, makes me think it isn't about having 2 kids quick but about having every blessing they possibly can. I wonder if they're close to Chad's family at all? I realize they're fundies too but Chad's dad and granddad are both doctors -- I wonder if they have given up their MDs for fundie thinking and think this is fine bc God will protect. Or I wonder if they're thinking -- wow -- a woman with an uneventful pregnancy is supposed to wait 6-12 months, WTH are they doing?? 1 Link to comment
Clemgo3165 February 19, 2016 Share February 19, 2016 Sometimes all the planning in the world doesn't prevent a pregnancy. Once she became pregnant, they would do everything they could to maintain it even if the timing isn't ideal. Hopefully the doctor will insist on something a bit more permanent in the near future. I don't think her body can handle more than 2 or 3 pregnancies. Link to comment
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