S11.E18: Del Mar by the Shade

[Straycat80]

Erika sounds like a school yard bully, what a bitch. Sutton is right. Shut up Dorito. 

[Stats Queen]

Erika,

her biggest lie “I’m not a liar”.

She is a horrible excuse for a human being. 
Erika isn’t used to someone else not backing down and is smarter than her.

[TexasGal]

Oh Kathy - “innocently” reopening Pandora’s Box and then acting like everyone should take it easy.  C’mon.  No one else was stirring the pot sufficiently at your dinner?

[RealHousewife]

Dorit, Sutton tried very hard to be direct with Erika. You beat around the bush quite a bit honey. Don't compare yourself to Garcelle. 

[chick binewski]

Dorit's "let me finish" always means "I realize I've been called on my bullshit and I need to take a moment to pivot." 

[Chicklet]

If these witches didn't argue over food, this show would be silence. Or Dorito just yakking to herself nonstop.

[TexasGal]

Hahaha Rinna lecturing on how to be a friend.  Sure, it’s on Garcelle to become part of a pre-existing group.

[Mr. Miner]

If I hear that bitch say “let me finish” one more time…

[Keywestclubkid]

Lisa trying to lecture anyone about friendships after what she did last season?    What the what? 

[Julyolo]

Rinna tells Garcelle "Let me ask you a real question",  to which I would have replied, "Oh good, because the rest weren't real?".

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[Straycat80]

I really want to watch Garcelle put the smack down on Rinna. And now Rinna has gone from ‘own it’ to ‘ be honest’. I wish she’d say that to her BFF Erika. Who is not a liar ya know. Allegedly. 

[Andi27]

Rinna and her insistence on 'honesty,' yet she hasn't called out Erika once.

[FlyingEgret]

NOW Rinna lunges in with her trademarked Just Be Honest line to GARCELLE??? 

Go back to hiding from Erika's wrath Rinna...

[RealHousewife]

Just now, Straycat80 said:

I really want to watch Garcelle put the smack down on Rinna. And now Rinna has gone from ‘own it’ to ‘ be honest’. I wish she’d say that to her BFF Erika. Who is not a liar ya know. Allegedly. 

Rinna, Dorit and Kyle are so annoying with their be honest nonsense. Garcelle and Sutton try to be honest, and it's shut down or not good enough for whatever reason. Erika lies, and even if they're confused, they take it. 

[Chicklet]

Dorito's wide-eyed look just makes me laugh. One day it will stick.

[bosawks]

Anyone in Erika’s corner giving someone else a lecture on honesty has their own private suite in the hypocrisy hotel.

[Keywestclubkid]

Dorit oh shit she’s turned this around face lol 

[charliesan]

2 minutes ago, Mr. Miner said:

If I hear that bitch say “let me finish” one more time…

And Rinna’s “here’s the thing”.

Lisa, if you’ve been “friends” with Garcelle for over 20 years then Garcelle is doing something right with you, don’t say you’ve known her for 20 years and then give and example of how she’s not honest. 

[Julyolo]

Garcelle was quite powerful in what she just said. Did you notice how much sympathy Erica had for her? Not.

[TexasGal]

Sutton’s expression when Dorit was hugging Garcelle and thanking her for being vulnerable - man I wish I had a screen shot of that.  I’m seconding whoever posted that they want a Garcelle and Sutton only show.  It would be great.

[eleanorofaquitaine]

I mean, I'm glad that Garcelle feels better and felt like she could be vulnerable but she shouldn't have to break down for them to get the fact that as a Black woman, of course her experience is different from theirs. 

[RealHousewife]

The Garcelle & Sutton friendship is so cute. 

[chick binewski]

Yes, Kathy. No better source for spiritual experiences than a Kardashian. 

[Andi27]

Just hoping no one hits a bowl on anyone else's head...

[charliesan]

I’d seriously watch a show with just Garcelle and Sutton #teamsuttele 

[Keywestclubkid]

Cause you’re dead inside Rinna 

[Straycat80]

Kathy falls asleep, lol! 

[TexasGal]

“She doesn’t even have her fan!”

😆

[Keywestclubkid]

She can’t read a full article about what Tom did but she knows beat by beat what a page 6 gossip site said? Come on Rinna 

[sistermagpie]

28 minutes ago, Andi27 said:

So now Erika has been raising red flags about Tom's mental capacity 'for years' but no one would listen to her?

I kept wanting somebody to point out that these alleged mental problems don't explain all the embezzlement, since that happened before.

We shouldn't be surprised Erika knew this stuff--they should hire her at hospitals to remind doctors about basic stuff like when to do operations and stuff.

[FlyingEgret]

1 minute ago, Keywestclubkid said:

She can’t read a full article about what Tom did but she knows beat by beat what a page 6 gossip site said? Come on Rinna 

They use small words and target those with the attention span of a gnat

[RealHousewife]

5 minutes ago, eleanorofaquitaine said:

I mean, I'm glad that Garcelle feels better and felt like she could be vulnerable but she shouldn't have to break down for them to get the fact that as a Black woman, of course her experience is different from theirs. 

She also shouldn't need to have a breakdown for them to just be kind. One of my pet peeves is when you have to cry and have a moment like that for people to care. 

[eleanorofaquitaine]

So Erika has just abandoned the "mean, abusive Tom" explanation for the poor, poor, dementia-addled Tom explanation? It swings back and forth every week. 

[Julyolo]

2 hours ago, FlyingEgret said:

They use small words and target those with the attention span of a gnat

Yeah, adrenaline junkies like Rinna who can't even appreciate spending some time in silence with sounds, other than her own voice.

Why do none of these other heifers confront her on the fact that if she knew he had dementia for a long time, why did she still walk out on him? Makes me think either the dementia is a staged defense, or she is just heinous. Maybe both.

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[eleanorofaquitaine]

"I read this article." No, you didn't, Erika. The attorneys and/or Tom's brother told you this was happening.

She is so lying about everything related to this situation. 

[TexasGal]

Is this the next personality Erika is trying on?  Now she is SO concerned for Tom.  Of course, not concerned enough to have stayed and taken care of him herself but SOMEONE should be taking care of him.  Mmmmkay.

Also, only Rinna and Kyle are sufficiently buying these stories I guess.  They are the target audience. 

[Chicklet]

Oh sure Erika can walk out on Tom but his family is horrible for not doing what she thinks should be done. She's a horrible human being.

[Keywestclubkid]

The story has been disproven by the police officer that responded to the break-in he was never injured 

[chick binewski]

Holy balls Erika is a piece of freaking work. She's gonna sprain something t=with all the angles she's working. 

[bosawks]

Sure, let’s drag Tom’s family through the mud while we’re at it.

“I’m divorcing him but nobody cares as much as I do!”, shouting from the rooftops.

Said in a much smaller voice, “As long as it doesn’t mean I have any fiscal liability.”

[Shannah Banana]

Erika dumps Tom and then lashes out at his family...like they deserted him and she didn't?

[charliesan]

Erika: “where is this man’s family?” At a hotel, gossiping with Lisa and Kyle, filming a reality show.

Lisa and Kyle look like fools listening to Erika and being sympathetic to freaking Tom. 

[Andi27]

Erika notes she was married to Tom for 22 years, but never says she loved him. Rinna says Erika's care for him is 'motherly', which is just weird.

She is so concerned for him, but (supposedly) cut all ties and is divorcing him knowing his was declining mentally.

[goofygirl]

I was ALL IN with Sutton until she went all baby in the wheelchair thing.  That ankle is not even broken!  Stop it girl. You are a wussie.

AGAIN... no thought for the real victims from that lovely person, Erika.  She just CONTINUES to be the same old beyotch.  

This shit is tiring.  Stop and smell the coffee. It's BEAUTIFUL OUTDOORS right now here behind the pine curtain. OUT.

[65mickey]

 I so wish that Garcelle whould have said to Rinna and Dorit you are attempting to do to me exactly what you did to Denise. Not gonna work.  And you learned nothing from your behavior last year.

[Stats Queen]

2 minutes ago, goofygirl said:

I was ALL IN with Sutton until she went all baby in the wheelchair thing.  That ankle is not even broken!  Stop it girl. You are a wussie.

AGAIN... no thought for the real victims from that lovely person, Erika.  She just CONTINUES to be the same old beyotch.  

This shit is tiring.  Stop and smell the coffee. It's BEAUTIFUL OUTDOORS right now here behind the pine curtain. OUT.

She did have an X-ray and an MRI and was probably told to not put weight on the foot, thus crutches, wheelchair, a boot or something similar.

I had a rolling sprain years ago and I had to keep weight of of it.

In the last 6 years, I have had 3 different foot surgeries all which required me being not weight bearing for 8 weeks.

 

[sistermagpie]

7 minutes ago, charliesan said:

Erika: “where is this man’s family?” At a hotel, gossiping with Lisa and Kyle, filming a reality show.

Lisa and Kyle look like fools listening to Erika and being sympathetic to freaking Tom. 

So she walked out on him and hasn't talked to him since, even though he's calling her begging her to talk to him. But she's also judging his family for not visiting him...and how does she even know who's visiting him?

And did I really just watch people cooing over poor baby Tom for having to be cared for by professionals at a facility when he ought to be IN PRISON instead?? Like do these idiots forget that this is all a way of avoiding that? 

Also nice reference to Tom having "gone broke" instead of finally getting caught after years of stealing from people in desperate circumstances and blowing all the money on his wife's fake career! Yes, it's everyone else revealing their poor character here. Tom just lost all his money because he got dementia and accidentally spent it on being nice to people, yes. He's not the piece of shit here at all.

[65mickey]

The reason that Erika is upset that Tom's brother has been named his conservator is that she now  knows the money train has come to a halt. Erika and Tom's plan on hiding and protecting assets has gone awry. 

[RealHousewife]

Lmao, Andy saying he can't believe the article was too long for most of the women. lol 

[nexxie]

Erika is a selfish lying asshole - allegedly.