Jeannie's friend Shannon Boodram is a "sexologist." Tisha also knows her, and Adrienne follows her on Instagram. The topic was her secretly watching people on dates, giving cue cards to help them know what to say, and giving makeovers. As soon as Adrienne finished explaining, Loni said "white people." Then the girls went back and forth on what color she is.
Jeannie explained that Shannon is a feminist who wants to empower women, very passionate and educated about intimacy, and that she has a lot of good advice about how to communicate and that she would be a big help if you need assistance in these areas. Loni said if you need someone following you around on a date, you need to reassess yourself. Tamara, Tisha, and Adrienne kept out of the tension. Tamara looked uncomfortable and covered her face at some of the stuff Loni said. Loni asked how much Shannon charges, and none of them knew. Loni made a face and was like y'all are her friends and don't know? Jeannie looked hurt by that and said to check out her Instagram because she has a lot of good tips that you can get for free there.
I don't think Loni meant to be hurtful. I think she was just trying to get a laugh, but I get Jeannie being offended and taking up for her friend. If I were Jeannie, I wouldn't want my friend to be mocked on my show.