90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[hula-la]

1 minute ago, Gobi said:

She's into everything Asian culture. Is she aware that there are multiple Asian cultures?

Thank you. Asia is a giant ass continent (I’m not talking about her body). Her fetishim is real. 

[kacesq]

So many adults just don’t want to grow up do they?

[greekmom]

Another who filters the shit out of her pictures.

Soooo Johnny doesn't know exactly what he's getting.

[charmed1]

The conversation about ripped jeans cracks me up because my mom is horrified by people who wear them, especially me. She always offers to sew them.😂 “Oh my god, your pants are full of holes!” As someone who grew up in abject poverty, she can’t fathom why someone would pay to look poor. In my defense, I only have one pair and they’re baggy and almost 20 years old. I hate skinny jeans. 

Edited December 27, 2021 by charmed1

[Suzywriter]

Oh, lord, "I love everything asian"? 
 

[Toodleoo]

Oh no not the anime

[LEILANI2]

As someone who is part asian, I have always avoided boys/men all my life who have an 'asian obsession'. They litterally do not look at you as a person but attracted to anyone of a particular race. Somehow that in itself always felt rascist to me.

[Hotel Snarker]

I just deleted my Reddit account. I don't want to be associated with those ignorant assholes anymore. If I want to snark about 90 Day Fiance, I've got you guys.

[RichiesOlderBro]

That’s a hella filter Ella is using there. 
 

‘Rebecca should give her a call.  

[kacesq]

“I literally cannot go.” You literally do not need the word “literally” there, doofus.

[sainte-chapelle]

Spoilers…Johnny isn’t his name 

[Frozendiva]

Maybe she can create her own Westworld.

[Auntie Anxiety]

OOps, thought I changed the channel to Yellowstone by mistake.

[peaceknit]

So....a Chinese bachelor. He's branching out, not enough Chinese women.

[Wollstonecraft]

Omg!!!!

[Straycat80]

Wait…how is Johnny coming to Idaho? Weren’t the borders still closed? 

[mmecorday]

I have a feeling that she wasn't ostracized for her weight alone in high school.

[Suzywriter]

Does he have anything with which to buy that big house for kids?  

[greekmom]

I bet $10 American dollars that Johnny isn't coming.

Shocked she's riding a horse. I had a co-worker who was a large woman like Ella and she was told she wasn't allowed to ride due to her weight.

She actually did the surgery so she can ride horses.

[Pepper Mostly]

AND SHE'S A COWGIRL! 

[RichiesOlderBro]

Just now, LEILANI2 said:

As someone who is part asian, I have always avoided boys/men all my life who have an 'asian obsession'. They litterally do not look at you as a person but attracted to anyone of a particular race. Somehow that in itself always felt rascist to me.

Heya there hot stuff!

 

:)

[Toodleoo]

Just now, charmed1 said:

The conversation about ripped jeans cracks me up because my mom is horrified by people who wear them, especially me. She always offers to sew them. “Oh my god, your pants are full of holes!” As someone who grew up in abject poverty, she can’t fathom why someone would pay to look poor. In my defense, I only have one pair and they’re baggy and almost 20 years old. I hate skinny jeans. 

 

In middle school I ripped my jeans to be cool. Except I ripped them vertically and it only looked like I’d gotten into a fight with a box cutter and lost.

[kacesq]

Yes...all Asian cuisine is the same...Vietnamese, Korean, Thai...all the fucking same.

[Suzywriter]

I'm actually impressed with her riding and ranch skills. 

[kacesq]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

OOps, thought I changed the channel to Yellowstone by mistake.

Then where are the hunky cowboys?

[Hotel Snarker]

Oh Lord, are they both fetishists? Is this the relationship that works this season for totally awkward reasons?

Johnny does not look like a guy you’d see at a dude ranch.

[LennieBriscoe]

I want Ella's dachshund. 

[Angry Moldovan]

2 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

I just deleted my Reddit account. I don't want to be associated with those ignorant assholes anymore. If I want to snark about 90 Day Fiance, I've got you guys.

Well done!!

[Mrs. Hanson]

1 hour ago, OoogleEyes said:

Are you kidding? We'll be in line to punch Reddit in the face. 

Right after we punch Steven.

@Pepper Mostly Did you punch Steven with one hand while drinking your wine?

 

[sainte-chapelle]

1 minute ago, peaceknit said:

So....a Chinese bachelor. He's branching out, not enough Chinese women.

I watched a doc about this l the one child policy really screwed up the ratios

[Toodleoo]

God what a shitshow these two are.

[kacesq]

She’s going to be weepy all season isn’t she?

[Bees52]

I probably won't comment too much on Ella the anime fan, as I am one too... Her backstory makes me kind of sad...

[OneGuy]

This should be renamed 90 Day Fantasy.

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, peaceknit said:

So....a Chinese bachelor. He's branching out, not enough Chinese women.

That actually may be true. 

[peaceknit]

2 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

Does he have anything with which to buy that big house for kids?  

No, but she does.

[Suzywriter]

Ranch mom is looking kind of rough.

[Wollstonecraft]

2 minutes ago, kacesq said:

So many adults just don’t want to grow up do they?

Eternal crying adults are so unappealing.

[Suzywriter]

Just now, peaceknit said:

No, but she does.

What did I miss? 

[mmecorday]

I am so glad the internet didn't exist when I was young and starting to date.

[Gobi]

5 minutes ago, peaceknit said:

So....a Chinese bachelor. He's branching out, not enough Chinese women.

There actually is a shortage of Chinese women, due to the "one child" policy in place for years. Most parents wanted a son and females were often aborted.

Edited December 27, 2021 by Gobi

[Hotel Snarker]

I like Mother Ella. This must be very difficult to see your kid get crapped on repeatedly.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Hazmat has his eye on the green card prize, his soulmate, Memphis.

[goofygirl]

I think looking at the Farmers Seeking website might be more helpful than Johnny the Chinese ONE who isn't going to crap on her.

Lort.  Memphis' Tunisian guy sure is looking forward to "sexy time" isn't he??  I think she is too though, so there's that.

[Eldemarge]

I know there haaass to be men around who would like to date this girl who is plus-sized and pretty.  But no, she is only looking for someone who looks like her "anime crush?"  Okay girl, well....best of luck.

[peaceknit]

3 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

AND SHE'S A COWGIRL! 

Her Idahoan neighbors are really going to love her now!

[Suzywriter]

Memphis is adorable and accomplished. What is she hiding that is making her look outside of the US? Seems she'd have them lined up at her door. 

[CrazyInAlabama]

2 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Two words: low standards. 

My guess is the 'boyfriends' Tammy has are either hired, or just want the TV money.    

I really am worried for Mike, and for Ella.   After her mother's conversation with Ella, I'm hoping Johnny really does want a relationship, and not just another person who will hurt her.

[Doublemint]

So communist China is going to let him move to the USA to marry the love of his life, raise a family and work on the ranch?  Aaah no way.    PS:  I feel sorry for her horse, poor thing.

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, Wollstonecraft said:

Eternal crying adults are so unappealing.

Kenny, are you listening?