90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Suzywriter]

Serious question: what are the benefits of marrying these days?

[renatae]

14 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

Years ago I read that book "Middlesex," the parents had to make a choice of the baby's sex, they chose female but the character ultimately chooses to live as a male, maybe it happens in real life more than we know?

Yes, most likely. There is an entire community of people whose children were born ambiguous, and years back many believed parents should not choose the sex, but let the child choose when they were older.

[Hotel Snarker]

3 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Did Kris mention anything about “in sickness and in health?”

“In narcolepsy and in wake, til an overdose do you part”

[Bees52]

"Mega Pop sensation!"

"The Queen of Pop?"

Oh, hell 🙄🤢

[Auntie Anxiety]

Just now, Gobi said:

Gabe is desperate to keep their storyline alive.

Apparently, Gabe never got the Chinese fortune cookie 🥠 that read “Don’t trouble trouble, till trouble troubles you.”

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, Eldemarge said:

Definitely.  Wear the banana suit and throw more hay on the bear!

I will bring spray kerosene.

Can we throw in the shriveled up wart that I once was stuck with?

Edited April 3, 2023 by Suzywriter

[Baltimore Betty]

1 minute ago, magemaud said:

Did I miss something? What happened to Kris having to go to court on her wedding date? 

Oh don't you worry, there will be some reason Kris will have to fly home, she just has to think of it.

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, Chloe Dog said:

I look forward to your snarks tonight.  I lost my beautiful Chloe last week.  She was my baby.

I'm so sorry 

[My Girls]

Just now, tvrox said:

I'm so sorry 

Thank-you, tvrox.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Do Kris and Jeymi go to a knife throwing bar on their honeymoon?

[Gobi]

The lovely couple are registered at Cabela's knife section for wedding gifts.

[CrazyInAlabama]

I'm glad Gabe and Isabel are doing so well.   Isabel's parents were accepting, and I applaude them for that, even though I'm sure they knew before the camera started filming. 

I'm hoping Gabe's endless discussion about the parents is only for the show. 

Edited April 3, 2023 by CrazyInAlabama

[SunnyBeBe]

24 minutes ago, Frozendiva said:

Depending where the nest is, one calls a pro!

Yeah..I wasn’t spraying…just cutting grass.  😩

[sainte-chapelle]

3 minutes ago, Gobi said:

Gabe is desperate to keep their storyline alive.

Let it go Gabe…they said they accept you…leave it alone. 

[goofygirl]

I'm sorry about your Chloe too.  Hugs!

[charmed1]

Just now, Gobi said:

Gabe is desperate to keep their storyline alive.

Definitely. I’ve never had a religious person be nice to me, so surely your parents were talking shit about me, right? Right?! Work with me Isabel, I need to milk this into Pillow Talk.

[Hotel Snarker]

7 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

Are we missing Pepper??

What I was saying earlier! Without @Pepper Mostly, the show is not as charming, joyous, or entertaining!

[My Girls]

Just now, goofygirl said:

I'm sorry about your Chloe too.  Hugs!

Thank-you, goofgirl.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Speaking of laundry, I keep seeing articles about outsourcing your laundry to local folks who will do it for you. Everything old is new again.

[Suzywriter]

Off topic: I tried to buy some new clothes for work (no jeans, no sneakers). Nothing fits, everything adds 50 lbs, pants are either highwaters or dragging the floor. I'm a short wide piston-shaped sort, and I just need to look somewhat fashionable. 

Any tips from other short wide office sorts? 

[Hotel Snarker]

2 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Do Kris and Jeymi go to a knife throwing bar on their honeymoon?

I’m imagining an alternate storyline where Kris and Jeymi settle in her hometown in the US, and guess what their first stop is? Haleyville Gun Co.

[goofygirl]

Maybe Gabe, the parents see how happy Isabel is with you and just let it go bud.  Shut it already.  Maybe they just want to see their daughter HAPPY you doofus.  IDIOT!

[sainte-chapelle]

Honest question….does one ever not be trans anymore? What I mean is once you transition and have surgery do you consider yourself a man or woman and no longer trans?

[renatae]

17 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

He is trying to make Nicole believe she is in control. 

Yeah, I LOL'd at that "Queen of the house" comment.

[Shelbie]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Off topic: I tried to buy some new clothes for work (no jeans, no sneakers). Nothing fits, everything adds 50 lbs, pants are either highwaters or dragging the floor. I'm a short wide piston-shaped sort, and I just need to look somewhat fashionable. 

Any tips from other short wide office sorts? 

Before retirement I would buy pants that fit my thighs and then go to a tailor for the waist and length. The price was reasonable and the clothes ended up being very comfortable to wear.

[charmed1]

Isabel’s daddy is not looking up your stupid Instagram page, Gabe. Get over yourself.😂

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, goofygirl said:

Maybe Gabe, the parents see how happy Isabel is with you and just let it go bud.  Shut it already.  Maybe they just want to see their daughter HAPPY you doofus.  IDIOT!

Gee, Gabe, maybe there are people who don't think about your transition every minute of every day. 

[Eldemarge]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Off topic: I tried to buy some new clothes for work (no jeans, no sneakers). Nothing fits, everything adds 50 lbs, pants are either highwaters or dragging the floor. I'm a short wide piston-shaped sort, and I just need to look somewhat fashionable. 

Any tips from other short wide office sorts? 

I also hate work pants and everything seems too long.  When I had to go into work, I had some Saint + Sofia pants I would wear, which seemed pretty easy to get into.  Nothing special, but I could dress them up.

[Baltimore Betty]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Off topic: I tried to buy some new clothes for work (no jeans, no sneakers). Nothing fits, everything adds 50 lbs, pants are either highwaters or dragging the floor. I'm a short wide piston-shaped sort, and I just need to look somewhat fashionable. 

Any tips from other short wide office sorts? 

The Loft has petites, great stuff for work wear. You know who does not need to know where to get work wear, it is Danielle, Danielle needs an office for some reason but does not need professional work wear.

[Hotel Snarker]

Gabe is letting his paranoia get the best of him. That was the ideal reaction from the parents. It’s a bit disingenuous of him to doubt them when they came from a place of acceptance and love. Stop self sabotaging, babe.

[magemaud]

Rishi is allowed to have an attractive female friend? 

Edited April 3, 2023 by magemaud

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Shelbie said:

Before retirement I would buy pants that fit my thighs and then go to a tailor for the waist and length. The price was reasonable and the clothes ended up being very comfortable to wear.

I never thought of that! Thanks. Did you buy the waist too big? Sorry, I'm not versed in the world of alterations. 

[Baltimore Betty]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Honest question….does one ever not be trans anymore? What I mean is once you transition and have surgery do you consider yourself a man or woman and no longer trans?

That is a really good question, do you need the 'trans" lead in forever? I would hope not, it would get old fast especially if you spend big bucks to make the outside look gender specific.

[Auntie Anxiety]

@Suzywriter, check out the Woman Within catalogue. They have a wide range sizes and the petite pants might be just what you are looking for.

[Hotel Snarker]

Indian Butt Bongos! (cue “Smooth Criminal”)

[magemaud]

The problem with TOW for me is trying to watch, read the subtitles, type a comment and read other people’s snark all at the same time. 

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

@Suzywriter, check out the Woman Within catalogue. They have a wide range sizes and the petite pants might be just what you are looking for.

Thanks! It's worth a shot. I'm terrified of ending up in Alfred Dunner separates, the stylist of AARP.

[renatae]

Kris bouncing around again like all people with back/neck injuries do.

[Hotel Snarker]

1 minute ago, magemaud said:

The problem with TOW plus all other 90 Day Fiance shows in the universe for me is trying to watch, read the subtitles, type a comment and read other people’s snark all at the same time. 

 

[Suzywriter]

Just now, renatae said:

Kris bouncing around again like all people with back/neck injuries do.

The dress is giving her hippie energy.

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, Frozendiva said:

Nicole, you have probably known a number of Muslims. You should have some idea of the culture and religion before marrying one after a few minutes of knowing him.

Or I don't know... google Islam? Read a book? Jeez how stupid can this girl be. 

[Baltimore Betty]

Just now, tvrox said:

Or I don't know... google Islam? Read a book? Jeez how stupid can this girl be. 

Well she did pay for the Dutch Boy haircut.

[Gobi]

Just now, tvrox said:

Or I don't know... google Islam? Read a book? Jeez how stupid can this girl be. 

Not to mention this isn't her first rodeo in Egypt.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Just now, tvrox said:

Or I don't know... google Islam? Read a book? Jeez how stupid can this girl be. 

It’s hard to believe that anyone could be that stupid. Willful idiocy?

[Hotel Snarker]

1 minute ago, renatae said:

Kris bouncing around again like all people with back/neck injuries do.

One suggestion for an interesting turning point in the season would be a scene that shows Kris having narcolepsy.

[CrazyInAlabama]

8 minutes ago, tvrox said:

Or I don't know... google Islam? Read a book? Jeez how stupid can this girl be. 

I think Nicole is constantly showing all of us how stupid she can be.    I bet she only went back to Egypt to get on TV, and to get more followers online, and publicity for her career.  Doesn't she claim to have a fashion career? Or clothing line? 

Edited April 3, 2023 by CrazyInAlabama

[goofygirl]

Apparently, Dutch Boy doesn't READ very often!

[SunnyBeBe]

Just now, tvrox said:

Or I don't know... google Islam? Read a book? Jeez how stupid can this girl be. 

I get the impression that if it wasn’t dress codes Nicole was bickering about, it would be something else, like budgets, holiday plans, tv channel, etc.  

[Baltimore Betty]

Just now, CrazyInAlabama said:

to get more followers online, and publicity for her career. 

For her Door Dash career?

[Shelbie]

3 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

I never thought of that! Thanks. Did you buy the waist too big? Sorry, I'm not versed in the world of alterations. 

Always better to get the waist too big if the thighs fit properly. A tailor will fit them to your body so everything is comfortable.