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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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1 minute ago, Bees52 said:

Ok, so Gabriel and Isabel are now over the biggest hurdle. So, is it wedding planning, and house hunting time for them yet?

Will Gabe feel the need to tell the real estate agent about his journey?

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16 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

Danielle is a gaslighter, she does not communicate well and throws blame at Lurch without reason since she says she is in charge and runs the show that man is afraid or unable to function without her telling him to do it then gets mad when he does not take the initiative.   Also, for being self employed he is never at the butcher shop, are the flies running the store?

Although she spends most of her time trying to prove her superiority, she exhibits her foolishness daily. She wants to make him over to be what she wants.

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I wish people would just say what platform they use, I know it’s probably for legal reasons but I’d prefer “I DMd him on twitter” over “social media”

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1 minute ago, kacesq said:

I wish people would just say what platform they use, I know it’s probably for legal reasons but I’d prefer “I DMd him on twitter” over “social media”

They use Only Fans.

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I thought you should wait until dark to spray a bees nest?

I think Jen had to come home to get her highlight redone.

Why do these women decide to move to another country and suddenly they realize they do not know how to cook or clean or know what the food is like in their new country? Not being able to cook annoys me, if you can read, you can cook...not cleaning, oh please, do you sit around a filthy home?  I feel like Danielle is clearly one of these women along with Kris who looked at a plate of meat and refused to eat any of it.

 

 

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My forty-something year old friends don’t have the time to pretend catfish some weirdo I was being conned by. They’d be like, “good luck, stupid. I’m late for a manicure.”

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I have a theory about Gabe. He may have been born with ambiguous genitalia and someone mistakenly assigned him female without doing a karyotype.

Long shot, but that's my theory. I'll show myself out.

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3 minutes ago, Frozendiva said:

So what if he sent her friend a shirtless photo?

I send Rishi topless photos of me, lol. Seriously, that was not a photo snapped in a bathroom mirror, it looked professional like something from his fitness business because she pretended she was a model. 

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Just now, charmed1 said:

My forty-something year old friends don’t have the time to pretend catfish some weirdo I was being conned by. They’d be like, “good luck, stupid. I’m late for a manicure.”

My mom’s BFF is very into internet dating now, although she’s met no one and they all have excuses as to why they can’t meet in person. My mom wants no part of it,

 

new season of Love in Paradise? Didn’t look that enticing.

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2 minutes ago, Eldemarge said:

Time to trick someone into marrying a drug addict!  Fun and games!

Kris' beak was made for snorting drugs.

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Just now, renatae said:

I have a theory about Gabe. He may have been born with ambiguous genitalia and someone mistakenly assigned him female without doing a karyotype.

Long shot, but that's my theory. I'll show myself out.

Years ago I read that book "Middlesex," the parents had to make a choice of the baby's sex, they chose female but the character ultimately chooses to live as a male, maybe it happens in real life more than we know?

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1 minute ago, kacesq said:

My mom’s BFF is very into internet dating now, although she’s met no one and they all have excuses as to why they can’t meet in person. My mom wants no part of it,

 

new season of Love in Paradise? Didn’t look that enticing.

Is mom’s friend named Ms. Yolanda?

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Sharp January 2024 probably: "Guys..remember that crazy weapons addicted, rare motorcycle lawsuit, lesbian from last year? Well I got an even more psychotic couple for next season. People are really going to hate them but hey..they'll watch."

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3 minutes ago, kacesq said:

My mom’s BFF is very into internet dating now, although she’s met no one and they all have excuses as to why they can’t meet in person. My mom wants no part of it,

 

new season of Love in Paradise? Didn’t look that enticing.

They took the most unlikeable people from other franchises and put them on the show..

No thanks

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A quick search shows Rishi’s photos are easily downloaded from the internet. Who can say Jealous Shit-Stirring Randi isn’t just saying he SENT her that photo? 
Here’s another one: image.thumb.jpeg.77e07cfc57950d76082106d8e32d066e.jpeg

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