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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

Nicole is just figuring out that Mahmoud has a hair trigger temper? If they weren’t on camera, he would have smacked her.

I think it would be worse than a slap. She needs to leave.

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Nicole is pissed she is sitting in a hotel in a strange country, um didn't you choose to live in this "strange" country and you did not bother to learn a little of the language or a bit of the culture of your husband? Mackmood's older brother seems reasonable and nice.

Danielle is a gaslighter, she does not communicate well and throws blame at Lurch without reason since she says she is in charge and runs the show that man is afraid or unable to function without her telling him to do it then gets mad when he does not take the initiative.   Also, for being self employed he is never at the butcher shop, are the flies running the store?

 

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1 minute ago, kacesq said:

No, Nicole. You haven’t done everything he asked you to…

give up, the two of you. Nicole go home.

Thank you for that. I was wondering if she actually believed herself. 

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5 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

Mahmood hasn't been picking at her. 

He's got his faults, but he has not been picking at her. 

She said it was off camera ha ha

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Just now, Hotel Snarker said:

Bad news guys from my TV guide. It looks like there is zero Debbie and Oussama this episode. Zilch. Zip. Shit.

Damn! No donkey again?

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Just now, Hotel Snarker said:

Bad news guys from my TV guide. It looks like there is zero Debbie and Oussama this episode. Zilch. Zip. Shit.

But I have to report back the Debbie/Oussama saga to my Crush!

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1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Did anyone watch Seeking Brother Husband? I found it boring and weird.

At least it wasn't about marrying your actual brother. Not this season, anyway.

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It doesn't seem that difficult for you to talk about your transition, Gabriel. You've been telling everybody since your season started. But to future in-laws, yeah, maybe.

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15 minutes ago, charmed1 said:

Stranded in some weird country? You’re an adult who willingly packed up and moved there. You’re not some kidnapped child, Dutch Paint Boy.

And with the same experience earlier. Just keep banging your head against the wall, sweetie.

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1 minute ago, Frozendiva said:

Isabel could be facing an abusive partner, a life of misery. Gabe seems to be decent.

God bless Gabe sharing his story. I had no idea how the surgeries worked. I was very uneducated.

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1 minute ago, Baltimore Betty said:

Will Isobel's parents ask when they will have a baby?

I’m waiting for Isabel to tell her parents about their wonderful sex life in great detail 

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Just now, magemaud said:

I’m waiting for Isabel to tell her parents about their wonderful sex life in great detail 

"So, Gabe. How's the penetration situation?"

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1 minute ago, kacesq said:

Are we nearing the end of this season? Cause I feel like every episode is a retread…

THIS is why I’m done with 90 Days after this current season ends. It’s gotten so unbelievably fake and filled with fake, repeated storylines and plot holes…

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4 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Isabel’s parents are earning their paychecks and bringing the script to life.

And thankfully they are accepting so this is not a continuing conflict ad nauseam.

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Just now, Bees52 said:

Ok, so Gabriel and Isabel are now over the biggest hurdle. So, is it wedding planning, and house hunting time for them yet?

I think they have to go axe throwing first.

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3 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

THIS is why I’m done with 90 Days after this current season ends. It’s gotten so unbelievably fake and filled with fake, repeated storylines and plot holes…

Nope, I won't hear of it.  You're needed here.

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