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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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6 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

According to tv listings, Pillow Talk tonight and probably next week:

Robert and Anny

Tim and Veronica

Loren and Alex

John and Patrick

 

I thought I saw on Twitter that Kenny and Armando would be on.

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1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

I felt like he was saying that their differences don’t exist or some such hand waving over their incessant arguments.

I thought he was saying "you're both too angry and invested in getting your way to have a productive discussion."

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1 minute ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Brother Mockmood is giving me life right now.

I don’t trust him. He is firmly on his brothers side but is playing peacemaker in front of the cameras. Didn’t he “joke” about taking her passport away. Yea no.

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Just now, Suzywriter said:

I thought he was saying "you're both too angry and invested in getting your way to have a productive discussion."

Exactly.  Talk when you’ve calmed down, you two toddlers.

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1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

I don’t trust him. He is firmly on his brothers side but is playing peacemaker in front of the cameras. Didn’t he “joke” about taking her passport away. Yea no.

All the more reason why Dutch Boy needs to just go home. 

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4 minutes ago, magemaud said:

A quick search shows Rishi’s photos are easily downloaded from the internet. Who can say Jealous Shit-Stirring Randi isn’t just saying he SENT her that photo? 
Here’s another one: image.thumb.jpeg.77e07cfc57950d76082106d8e32d066e.jpeg

This is proof…and I’ll say it for the umpteenth time…TLC, FAKITY FAKE FAKE FAKE FAAAAAAAAKE!

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1 minute ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I cannot even visualize it.

I can’t either. I just picture a big cloud of chalk like when the teacher would have you clap the chalkboard erasers together a few times to clean them. 

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For my next wedding, I'll be dressed like the May Queen, and then I'll watch an ex in a bear suit be set on fire while everyone claps and I smile.  Then we dance at the reception and I go home alone to watch crime shows with my cat.  That's pretty romantic, right?

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2 minutes ago, Eldemarge said:

For my next wedding, I'll be dressed like the May Queen, and then I'll watch an ex in a bear suit be set on fire while everyone claps and I smile.  Then we dance at the reception and I go home alone to watch crime shows with my cat.  That's pretty romantic, right?

Oooh, Girl, can I be your Maid-of-Something? I have a banana suit or an elf costume that I can throw on in a hurry.

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Does Kris even understand what Jeymi's saying??  She could be saying "Blah blah blah.. blah blah blah."

Then Kris is speaking English and to Jeymi's she's saying " Blah blah blah blah blah"  Too dumb.  And there's 3 people there.  The two makeup people and some rando.

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2 minutes ago, Eldemarge said:

For my next wedding, I'll be dressed like the May Queen, and then I'll watch an ex in a bear suit be set on fire while everyone claps and I smile.  Then we dance at the reception and I go home alone to watch crime shows with my cat.  That's pretty romantic, right?

That’s beautiful! My cat’s favorite crime show is Snapped. I caught him watching today.

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4 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

I don’t trust him. He is firmly on his brothers side but is playing peacemaker in front of the cameras. Didn’t he “joke” about taking her passport away. Yea no.

I just pondered on it and changed my mind once I realized that he was manipulating the situation. There absolutely is a need to talk about something that makes you angry all day, every day over and over.

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1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Oooh, Girl, can I be your Maid-of-Something? I have a banana suit or an elf costume that I can throw on in a hurry.

Definitely.  Wear the banana suit and throw more hay on the bear!

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