90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[magemaud]

10 minutes ago, OneGuy said:

 

When pastors say they have "counseled" 100s of people I ask what kind of academic preparation they've had to counsel, what certification or license they have, etc.  

 

Ben’s unimpressive credentials are discussed on his couples page. 

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Gobi said:

Hate to have to correct you, but the elephant in the room is Ella.

Screaming, pounding the poor couch, kicking legs in air...🤣

[RichiesOlderBro]

2 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Ladies and gentlemen, we are now commencing the Slut Shaming portion of our program. 

God, it's exhausting. No one has anything to say about how creepy and pervy and scummy Ben is, but they're slamming Mahogany for wearing a bikini? Give me a big fat fucking break. 

 

[SunnyBeBe]

I’m just surprised Ben had a thousand to send her.  

[Eldemarge]

The 90 Day Fiance commercials are so gross.  We got some guy's gross toe, a guy with a hole in his face, Whitney Thore.  They like to torture us for liking TRASH.

[sainte-chapelle]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Ladies and gentlemen, we are now commencing the Slut Shaming portion of our program. 

God, it's exhausting. No one has anything to say about how creepy and pervy and scummy Ben is, but they're slamming Mahogany for wearing a bikini? Give me a big fat fucking break. 

Right. I don’t care if she is a nude model all over the net. That doesn’t give Ben the right to anything. Plus he is an old pervert hiding behind religion. This is who Mr. skoodlepoop will be in a few decades 

[LEILANI2]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Ladies and gentlemen, we are now commencing the Slut Shaming portion of our program. 

God, it's exhausting. No one has anything to say about how creepy and pervy and scummy Ben is, but they're slamming Mahogany for wearing a bikini? Give me a big fat fucking break. 

A young 20 something girl who lives in a beach town wearing a bikini, slap a scarlet letter on her already.

[Adeejay]

Patrick on the new season got plucked, waxed and lost weight before he presented himself to his intended.  That's how you do it.  

[Armchair Critic]

2 minutes ago, Eldemarge said:

Oh Ben's friend is a bitch.  Got it.  And she thinks she's a Real Housewife.  

I just figured it out after a few years, I think. Is your name a play on El DeBarge? He actually is from here... DUH on me.

[Baltimore Betty]

Mahogs says she wanted to pay back the money Ben lent her, how would she do that, she does not have a job and from we learned, her school she commutes to daily is 3 hours away from her home, I would think transportation would be costly.  Honestly, these people.

[Frozendiva]

Mahogs sounds like my neighbors with their lying - patronizing condescending comments. She's got game, all right.

[SunnyBeBe]

It’s pretty obvious that she didn’t want to talk to Ben because he seemed creepy in his texts.  

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, Adeejay said:

Patrick on the new season got plucked, waxed and lost weight before he presented himself to his intended.  That's how you do it.  

And two hours in the oven for chicken dinner.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Jennifer needs to take that gold lame’ outfit and burn it.

[Grifter Lives]

Ben is never, ever going to be cool.

[Straycat80]

Jessica is hoping to get on this show somehow. Fix her up with Mike. 

[Mrs. Landingham]

Somebody please ask Jessica if she’s in love with Ben. I want her to squirm. 

[Baltimore Betty]

1 minute ago, Adeejay said:

Patrick on the new season got plucked, waxed and lost weight before he presented himself to his intended.  That's how you do it.  

Except he is hoping this girl that is fresh off a flight is ready to screw first thing.

[My Girls]

Holy shit, can you say stalker?

[sainte-chapelle]

Ben’s friend is thirsty and probably wants the d

[Auntie Anxiety]

Yeah, Ben, she loves you. Let’s go with that.

[Floatingbison]

2 minutes ago, RichiesOlderBro said:

 

Can he tune in Radio Luxembourg on those ears?

[For Cereals]

SHE’S NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND 

[Eldemarge]

2 minutes ago, Armchair Critic said:

I just figured it out after a few years, I think. Is your name a play on El DeBarge? He actually is from here... DUH on me.

It's a play on El DeBarge, yes.  :)  I am super-lame!

[Pepper Mostly]

This is really giving me hives. Mahogany can wear whatever she fucking wants!

[greekmom]

She's fucking scared of you cyclops.

Stalker much?!?!?!?!

[Hotel Snarker]

2 minutes ago, Armchair Critic said:

I just figured it out after a few years, I think. Is your name a play on El DeBarge? He actually is from here... DUH on me.

Okay, now I have "Who's Johnny" in my head. I blame @Eldemarge.

[Armchair Critic]

8 minutes ago, Chloe Dog said:

He's thinking with his dick.

OMG I am on the algorithm for that video of the guy lip syncing to that at Mardi Gras so I see it a few times a day. The lady clapping behind him needs to get more respect.

[Tuneful]

That shorter haircut really delivers the jug ears on Ben.

And the Hogs isn't doing herself any favors, if she wants to gain sympathy as a young girl chased by a much-older creeper, in that black sequined dress up to her crotch. What, is she heading out the door to nightclub when her segment is over? In a deep couch, she look like she's wearing a teddy and nothing else.  

Hamza looks uncomfortable on this show. A conservative Muslim, I don't think he's happy with his wife wearing a costume that all but spills her tits out, and the profanity from most everyone throughout. 

Ella unfortunately looks like an urgent case for Dr. Now. 

[Grifter Lives]

I'm awkward and uncomfortable watching this Ben montage.  How can he live with himself, and be self-righteous?

The producers hate him to devote this much time to humiliate him.

[emergency ring]

wtf ben?

[greekmom]

Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

Ben’s friend is thirsty and probably wants the d  the cameo money.

FIFY

[Grifter Lives]

1 minute ago, Floatingbison said:

Can he tune in Radio Luxembourg on those ears?

He needs a pussy with wifi.

[Frozendiva]

Where did these new scenes come from?

[Mrs. Landingham]

Oooooooooooohhhhhhhhhh LOOK AT JESSICA’S FACE!!! 

[sainte-chapelle]

Lol why is he mispronouncing her name

[renatae]

40 minutes ago, greekmom said:

I'm dating myself now but back in the day online chat was done via a program called IRC. No video, no voice just text. Of course you found your "soul mate" and thought you were "in love".  You exchanged photos, phone calls, etc.

At some point one party found comfort in another person within their area. I mean, for fucks sake, you never met the person.

I did IRC, but it was a parents of special needs kids group. Although one couple did try some shady IM's at times. Weird.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Jasmine FOR THE WIN!!!!

[Hotel Snarker]

Holy shit! So Ben goes back to stalk her and gets upset as to why she doesn’t love him? And he is stalking her his whole trip? Jesus, this guy needs to be on a watch list.

[Bees52]

I'm not clapping for "love," either. I'm nauseous.

[Pepper Mostly]

OH FOR FUCKS SAKE I CANNOT EVEN

[greekmom]

Just now, Frozendiva said:

Where did these new scenes come from?

Self filmed on his 2nd trip.

[ExMathMajor]

SHUT. IT. BEN.

[Armchair Critic]

2 minutes ago, Eldemarge said:

I am super-lame!

You are not, that is clever!

[TazDevil]

Jasmine is my favorite now.  Call it like it is.  Pervert Ben.

[Frozendiva]

No cameras mean no safety net. No documentation.

[Grifter Lives]

1 minute ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Okay, now I have "Who's Johnny" in my head. I blame @Eldemarge.

Ella plays that song, too, every time she flies in Asian People.

[Straycat80]

Yeah, I’m calling bullshit on this too. There has to be money involved. Let Kimberly and Jasmine run this show now, they are right, Ben is a pervert.

[Hotel Snarker]

THANK YOU JASMINE! Holy fuck!

[emergency ring]

everyones laughing because they know its true