MAFS Social Media, Spoilers & Speculation

[Aethera]

The mod note is not meant to provoke discussion of whether or not you agree with it.

 

Many of you are picking and choosing what you find offensive. Consider that. None of these ladies are fat, nor are they prostitutes. None of these men are gay, nor are they autistic. Find something new to talk about.

[nlkm9]

http://www.inquisitr.com/3380668/married-at-first-sight-spoilers-do-derek-and-heather-stay-together/

[Madding crowd]

So the above linked article says Heather flashed her boobs while on a boat 13 years ago. Nothing was mentioned about trading sex for drinks. I really dislike the Mardi Gras traditions about tossing beads to girls who flash, but I assume Heather  learned something. It appears that Derek is a heavy pot smoker now, that would be an issue for me. 

[nlkm9]

The article says she was drunk at Lake Havasu and flashed her boobs and gave a fake name to police...but in my 20's I did some incredibly foolish and reckless things while drinking in college and I would hope to not be judged by them well over a decade later......then again, I would never go on a TV show because i wouldnt want to have that kind of scrutiny in my life.....and yes the pot would be a huge issue for me.

Did you read the comments in that article? LOL all these girls are like "Oh I would marry Derek in a second" She is too judgemental...sheesh....I worry for the future of our world reading some of this stuff:)

Edited September 6, 2016 by nlkm9
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[holly4755]

married-at-first-sight-spoilers-do-derek-and-heather stay together - really! they think that is a spoiler.  yeah what at re the odds they resolve all problems and make it work. sheesh If I had half a mind (braindead) I would know they were broken. 

[Aethera]

How many times do we need to ask you guys to MOVE ON? Discuss something other than whether they're fat, slutty, autistic or gay. If there's one more comment related to this, we'll be locking this thread.

[henrysmom]

Quote

http://www.inquisitr.com/3485540/married-at-first-sight-spoilers-sonia-and-nick-post-huge-spoiler/

I'm not quite sure I'd call it a "huge" spoiler.  More of a "hmm" spoiler.  

[nlkm9]

oh yeah....I hope those 2 crazy kids make it :)

[jenrising]

2 hours ago, nlkm9 said:

oh yeah....I hope those 2 crazy kids make it :)

Love conquers all. LOL

[Snarklepuss]

4 hours ago, nlkm9 said:

oh yeah....I hope those 2 crazy kids make it :)

Oh man, me too, I think they have great potential.

[SaucyMommy]

I saw the twitter thing go down with Nick and Sonia. They both posted comments about Felicia. Apparently Nick was at home depot picking up DIY stuff. The check out lady was named Felicia. It was definitely a crazy coincidence. I did check out his twitter feed a bit more and he and her are holding things pretty close to the vest. But I have good thoughts this could be working out.

[nlkm9]

https://www.reddit.com/r/MarriedAtFirstSight/comments/51gdiq/season_4_episode_7_preepisode_and_live_discussion/

[amola]

Anyone know when the Unfiltered was filmed?  If it was filmed toward the end of the "social experiment", it sure seems like Nick/Sonia and Tom/Lilly are still together.  They really seem like they've been together for a while .

[Jade Foxx]

WEED

[nlkm9]

thats the article I posted yesterday!!

[zurretsky]

I'm glad Heather and Derek divorced because Derek's life would be miserable with that cold witch.

Nick needs to either nail her or divorce her because he isn't being fair to her!

[zurretsky]

I don't think Heather had any intention of staying married.No

idea what her motivation is for

being on the show but it sure 

wasn't finding love!

[Drogo]

"Unfiltered" talk goes here.

[cecig75]

1 hour ago, zurretsky said:

I'm glad Heather and Derek divorced

because Derek's life would be miserable with that cold witch. 

I haven't seen anything about this being true. Where did you get your info from?

[zurretsky]

Does anyone else think that Heather

never intended to stay married? She had some ulterior motive.She was 

checked out from day one!

[nlkm9]

3 hours ago, zurretsky said:

I'm glad Heather and Derek divorced because Derek's life would be miserable with that cold witch.

Nick needs to either nail her or divorce her because he isn't being fair to her!

and I think Heather would be miserable with a dude who whines and fights with her all the time, and seems to have a dependency on marijuana. it is almost funny how he went off on her about the surfer dude, he is so pissed she does not want to have sex with him. She is not the most charming person, but if he fights like this when they barely know each other, imagine a few years in. Shes no "spring chicken" anyway, right Derek? Bet you would have had something nicer to say if she fooled around with you. UGh.

[Lola16]

never saw Jamie's season but real tired of her open mouth gaping. And her 'omg you married a stranger!" She said that last season too. Um, so did you you loser. And they are no longer strangers.

[Lola16]

At the end of the episode we see Lily crying and Tom kneeling by her, trying to be supportive. Lily says something like she doesn't want him to have to take care of her as if she is ill. Anyone else catch that?  I already deleted it from my DVR.

[Blissfool]

Oops, i didn't realize this topic existed and I posted my comment in the episode thread. Here it goes again....

Not-materialistic-Lily said Tom would be perfect if he owned a boat. Hmmmm.......

[gingerandcloves]

2 hours ago, Lola16 said:

At the end of the episode we see Lily crying and Tom kneeling by her, trying to be supportive. Lily says something like she doesn't want him to have to take care of her as if she is ill. Anyone else catch that?  I already deleted it from my DVR.

I was reading an article over on The Knot, and it says in the sneak preview that Lily needs surgery, so yes, I think you're right.

[crazychicken]

3 hours ago, Lola16 said:

At the end of the episode we see Lily crying and Tom kneeling by her, trying to be supportive. Lily says something like she doesn't want him to have to take care of her as if she is ill. Anyone else catch that?  I already deleted it from my DVR.

Oh I assumed she had lost her job and was worried about Tom would take it but illness makes sense since their relationship is so new.

[BonnieLass]

Lillian had shoulder surgery not long after they got married. You can see the (very small) scars during her interviews with Jamie. 

[humbleopinion]

Our worst fears will be realized in next week's episode...couples therapy for Nick and Sonia.

The tease has Nick in a nightmare.. in tantric therapy, sitting spread eagle,straddling each other, with their privates open and pointed at each other as he is forced to look into her eyes.

Channeling Nick, my fingers flew to cover my eyes while the image of Munch's "The Scream" popped in my head.

With no doggies to protect his man area from Sonia will this exercise draw him into her sacral chakra?

Will Nick be bugged eyed, nervously quivering as he lets Sonia search deep into his eyes, the windows to his soul?

How does Sonia's shoes feel, Nick?

We will see...

Edited September 8, 2016 by humbleopinion
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[Lola16]

Thanks BonnieLass! Glad it was a joint issue and not disease.

[atomic]

Yuckkkkk!!! It's hard to believe Sonia ever gets comfortable with this...

[ethalfrida]

ewww, ewww, ewww.

[holly4755]

You know it really does not take much effort to train this out of dogs, just an appropriate cookie now and then.  I know some people love it, but if they want people to love their dogs (and try and steal them like my friends do with my dogs) it is worth the effort. Heck I don't let my dogs in the dining room, ever, so they won't beg when I have people over to dinner. That way you don't have to crate them. Way harder keeping them out of the bedroom when, you know. They have to see in case you are in danger. My ex didn't like it at first, but hey, it is a dog, who are they going to tell? He got used to it.

[Enero]

4 hours ago, atomic said:

Yuckkkkk!!! It's hard to believe Sonia ever gets comfortable with this...

 

She won't. I really can't see their "marriage" surviving for various reasons, the dogs only being one.

Have you seen the video clip for the next episode showing the dog in a crate next to the bed at bedtime? Nick of course is more intrigued with the dog than Sonia.  It looks humiliating for Sonia. And honestly I can't imagine even a dog lover putting up with this type of behavior. I almost feel like the producers are scripting this behavior because would any man behave so ridiculously? Even if Nick is not interested in Sonia, there are a million ways to stall the relationship besides something so off putting.

Edited September 9, 2016 by Enero

[gingerandcloves]

Ugh, that is disgusting! And it's a big FU to Sonia. 

[Snarklepuss]

You know, I love dogs but that video just turned my stomach.  If anyone remembers the story I told on the board last season about the guy I met on a dating site who tongue kissed with his dog and how I got a really creepy vibe from it, I remember someone on the board saying, "Dude, you just KNOW he is having sex with that dog!!!"  Well I REALLY don't want to say that about Nick, but you KNOW my mind went there.  I really just think he's trying to stir the shit, or he's seriously F-ed up and trying to hurt Sonia.  I doubt most dog lovers would be able to stomach that behavior and he knows that.  I didn't want to think he was an asshole, really!!!

[SaucyMommy]

Nick's online presence and show presence do not seem to match at all.

[Liberty]

2 hours ago, Snarklepuss said:

 .... I really just think he's trying to stir the shit, or he's seriously F-ed up and trying to hurt Sonia. ....

 

9 minutes ago, SaucyMommy said:

Nick's online presence and show presence do not seem to match at all.

Run Sonia run

[humbleopinion]

Hi Mom-

How's Jim?

Getting his veneers whitened again?

Tell him, they are blinding passing airplanes with the light reflection off his chompers.

Enough already with the bleaching.

You saw the film of Doggie licking my mouth and face?

It's not disgusting because I kept my lips closed the whole time.

Yes, that was the same tongue that Doggie uses to lick his Frank and Beans.

Mean internet people have been saying that I love my dogs more than my wife.

Well... I guess the video clip does prove them correct. 

Gotta go now.

Sonia and I have to practice this tantric sex exercise we learned.

No, my penis is still relaxed and uninterested in the sessions.

I don't know why, Sonia is  probably doing something wrong.

Love you.

Bye.

[Nowhere]

15 hours ago, atomic said:

Yuckkkkk!!! It's hard to believe Sonia ever gets comfortable with this...

Why did he mention Sonia under the hashtags? Is he trying to shove it in her face that he'll make out with his dog but not her? There is no way in hell, unless she had hypnotherapy, that she can go from "afraid of dogs" to "it's fine if my husband lets them lick all over his face and in his mouth". If my boyfriend did this I'd seriously consider breaking up. How can you kiss a man if you don't know whether or not his dogs tongue has been in his mouth.

[Liberty]

There's just no way the questionnaires can cover the bizarre situations these people bring with them.  Even when they are honest the posers put them with people who are not a "fit" or with people who are lying on their questionnaires. 

[Nowhere]

Actually I wouldn't date anybody who makes out with his dog and yes the tongue did go into his mouth. So I wouldn't breakup with my boyfriend after this because I wouldn't have that boyfriend to begin with. I wonder if he thinks this is cute or something. I don't know why Sonia hasn't left already. There are plenty of signs that he does not care about her at all. He's worse than Derek at this point and I really liked Nick at first. I'd take Derek before Nick without even a second to think about it.

[Soup333]

I couldn't even finish watching it. That's just nasty. Where did they dredge up these gross ass dudes? Tom of Clan Filthy Feet and Nick the Dog Kisser? I'd take Derek the weedhead (if he is) over these two any day. 

[humbleopinion]

Best day for Derek since his wedding.

He went from worst to FIRST in the husband rankings!

Edited September 9, 2016 by humbleopinion
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[Evil Queen]

10 minutes ago, humbleopinion said:

Best day for Derek since his wedding.

He went from worst to FIRST in the husband rankings!

Not in my book. I think at this point him and Nick are tied. Tom is floundering down behind them. LOL I rather deal with making my husband clean his feet off than deal with Derek or Nick. 

26 minutes ago, Nowhere said:

Why did he mention Sonia under the hashtags? Is he trying to shove it in her face that he'll make out with his dog but not her? There is no way in hell, unless she had hypnotherapy, that she can go from "afraid of dogs" to "it's fine if my husband lets them lick all over his face and in his mouth". If my boyfriend did this I'd seriously consider breaking up. How can you kiss a man if you don't know whether or not his dogs tongue has been in his mouth.

I didn't even watch it. I saw the way it looked and that said enough for me. No thanks. *gag* There is no way I would want a guy like that. I don't want a dog to lick my hand even so yeah just eewwwww. If I saw this happen with a guy I was dating....um we would be done. I couldn't kiss someone after that...even if he scrubbed really good...just no. SMH

[BunnySlippers]

That is disgusting. Both the dog licking his nose and mouth (ewww), but also that he thinks it's okay to troll people like this (and tag Sonia!). To me, this and his other quips on SM show that he has a petty, vindictive personality, and I really hope now that Sonia will not stay with him.

[crazychicken]

That is totally gross, I love dogs, have had dogs most of my life I am always cuddling them but none of them would be allowed to do that to me. If DH allowed that I would never kiss him again as I would just think dog slobber. Part of being a dog owner is training them to behave and most dogs love the discipline and pleasing their owners.

 

On a deeper level while he probably thinks it is funny I think it is quite disrespectful to Sonia, he obviously does not care one iota about her and is clearly showing that he does not care about her discomfort around dogs. You would think that if they remained together he would have done some training so his dogs were easier for Sonia to bond with.

[Nowhere]

The dogs don't seem to be disobedient. It's Nick that has to do some training on himself. If it's that big of a deal to not let your dogs lick inside and all over your mouth then you have a problem. 

[Stillhoping]

I don't understand put downs of Tom...and /or Lilly? I think they are doing great and really bonding. Tom got a little freaked with baby talk at 2 weeks but he has said he would be open in future

Good points...the bus was a non.issue. Sweet little Zeus and sweet little Emma both took to Tom immediately which is a good insight to his real character. Team TomandLilly! 

[holly4755]

Yeah, I always had a lot of nieces and nephews around, and my Ex would never play with them, he would go off and watch TV ....... until his best friend had a son and then it was someone to get to know. Tom played with the little girl and she smiled at him a lot, so I think the whole kid thing is another producer driven crisis much like the post nup which seemed to be OK with Lily. 

I am confused about "if a man does not want a dog to lick the inside of his mouth" there is something wrong with him?  I would say if he didn't want sloppy kisses, train the dog. easy peasy. I have a number of female friends that teach their dogs to kiss their lips and I am like Yuck! Granted they have small dogs and tiny tongues, but still, yuck. 

[Snarklepuss]

The old myth about dog saliva being totally safe and clean is just that - a myth.  I have read of too many cases of people getting horrible infections or parasites from it.  Just a little lick by accident every now and then isn't going to do anything, but Nick is taking a chance in that video for sure.  Even if he and Sonia were still together if I were her I would be totally pissed at him for that.  Maybe what I've been sensing he's hiding is just that - that he's really a mean spirited asshole and creep!